FabSwingers.com forum: Any ladies find husband was a sissy

By *elicatedelicate OP Couple
over a year ago

Southside

Hi Ladies,

****one caveat before I tell my story******

Despite what may be perceived as an unusual story below I love my husband immeasurably and nothing will break that he treats me like gold and makes me beyond happy. We are the happiest people in the world and I wouldn’t change anything.

My husband came out as a trans sissy bi cuckold *long* before we were married and he handled it quite well. I am fairly open minded but that definitely was something to take in and wasn’t easy for me especially since I didn’t really know what it was. We stopped having sex as he is not well endowed and we both accept this and he lets me have multiple lovers on the side instead. He has taught me the psychology of cuckoldry and sissification and humiliation. Things I frankly hadn’t a clue of. Now I really enjoy them and really understand them and enjoy the humiliating of him and having him as a sissy maid in pink sissy dresses and cock cages serving me and my lovers when they come over (lighting my cigarettes, getting us drinks etc). I am now a domme who gets anything I want done.

If you asked me when I was 18 or 24 if I would ever choose this relationship I would have said never. I like well endowed muscular masculine men like most women but I adore and love my husband and so I explored it and found that I actually really love this lifestyle. Normal? No. Open your mind to kink and let your heart beat and it turned out to be very exciting and that I was into things I didn’t even know existed five years ago.

we are both so so happy sexually. He always suffered with gender dysphoria and was bullied and this is his way of handling it. I have a big sexual appetite and I have trophy bull stallions that I get to be with. We have great fun and we are so honest and frankly incredibly happy and this gives us great longevity, trust, openness, and freedom and I really have to emphasise it we are both amazingly happy despite what could be construed as unusual.

Are there any females that are in a similar situation that have had to come to terms with this and came around positively?

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I'm not female obviously and although I'm not into the sissy thing either it's clear you both have found an amazing place inife that makes you both happy.

Enjoy it, embrace it and fuck (well dont actually) anyone who finds it weird or strange.

Live your life the way you choose

Oh and your pics are ace too

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By *elicatedelicate OP Couple
over a year ago

Southside

Oh what a lovely message. Sad you’re not in London we’d love a regular gorgeous TS to meet. You seem like truly lovely person xx

"I'm not female obviously and although I'm not into the sissy thing either it's clear you both have found an amazing place inife that makes you both happy.

Enjoy it, embrace it and fuck (well dont actually) anyone who finds it weird or strange.

Live your life the way you choose

Oh and your pics are ace too

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"Oh what a lovely message. Sad you’re not in London we’d love a regular gorgeous TS to meet. You seem like truly lovely person xx

I'm not female obviously and although I'm not into the sissy thing either it's clear you both have found an amazing place inife that makes you both happy.

Enjoy it, embrace it and fuck (well dont actually) anyone who finds it weird or strange.

Live your life the way you choose

Oh and your pics are ace too

I'm going to take take you calling me a TS as a huge compliment as I'm only a guy who likes to dress from time to time.

London isn't so far away really so you never know

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over a year ago

Fair fucking play to ya.

We aren't in that kind of relationship but I can appreciate how every relationship is different.

There are different types of questioning, those who ask questions about it to judge, and those who ask questions about it to understand.

I hope you find those who ask to learn and understand.

Finding your freedom. That's what you've both done and it's a beautiful thing. I'm yet to fully find mine (I'm an anxious little bugger at times) and I'm looking forward to when the anxieties fade and the walls come down.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"Fair fucking play to ya.

We aren't in that kind of relationship but I can appreciate how every relationship is different.

There are different types of questioning, those who ask questions about it to judge, and those who ask questions about it to understand.

I hope you find those who ask to learn and understand.

I can't begin to imagine what yours are but I have no doubts at all that they'll be fun to find

Best of luck to you and when you get to fully find them just know I want to hear the details hehee x

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