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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington

Women who ask for photos and you send them and then you ask for some back and they ignore you!!

Or you both agree to send and they just don’t....

I think it’s so childish and immature

Is it just me that thinks this?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Not really - saves them the trouble of potentially getting abuse back for saying no - if they don't find you attractive what's the point in sending a pic back?

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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington

Why does everyone assume that all males will just send shit when they are told no? It’s ruder to accept pics and then just ignore in my opinion...

Not all men are horrible on here lol, some can handle a simple no Thankyou...

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Why does everyone assume that all males will just send shit when they are told no? It’s ruder to accept pics and then just ignore in my opinion...

Not all men are horrible on here lol, some can handle a simple no Thankyou..."

But the trouble is the recipient has no way of knowing whether they'll get grief back for saying no and because some guys do take rejection badly it's safer to err on the side of caution

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Don’t be so quick to send pics OP even if requested.

Let the chat just flow, if they won’t chat without pics then move on.

Don’t let it wind you up, it’s not r we either it

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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington


"Why does everyone assume that all males will just send shit when they are told no? It’s ruder to accept pics and then just ignore in my opinion...

Not all men are horrible on here lol, some can handle a simple no Thankyou...

But the trouble is the recipient has no way of knowing whether they'll get grief back for saying no and because some guys do take rejection badly it's safer to err on the side of caution "

They can reply “No thanks Not what I’m looking for” and then block that profile... there are always ways of not being rude imo

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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington


"Don’t be so quick to send pics OP even if requested.

Let the chat just flow, if they won’t chat without pics then move on.

Don’t let it wind you up, it’s not r we either it "

Definitely going to take this advice Thankyou

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Women who ask for photos and you send them and then you ask for some back and they ignore you!!

Or you both agree to send and they just don’t....

I think it’s so childish and immature

Is it just me that thinks this? "

each to there own on here

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By *eBornGemini OP   Man
over a year ago

Darlington


"Women who ask for photos and you send them and then you ask for some back and they ignore you!!

Or you both agree to send and they just don’t....

I think it’s so childish and immature

Is it just me that thinks this? each to there own on here

"

So true haha

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch


"Don’t be so quick to send pics OP even if requested.

Let the chat just flow, if they won’t chat without pics then move on.

Don’t let it wind you up, it’s not r we either it

Definitely going to take this advice Thankyou "

Your welcome.

Make the site work for you in what you are comfortable with

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Why does everyone assume that all males will just send shit when they are told no? It’s ruder to accept pics and then just ignore in my opinion...

Not all men are horrible on here lol, some can handle a simple no Thankyou...

But the trouble is the recipient has no way of knowing whether they'll get grief back for saying no and because some guys do take rejection badly it's safer to err on the side of caution

They can reply “No thanks Not what I’m looking for” and then block that profile... there are always ways of not being rude imo "

Ultimately everyone runs their profile the way they want to and you won't change a thing by worrying about how others choose to run theirs.

SC's advice is spot on - take your time and get to know people rather than simply acquiescing to the demands of others - it's a lot more stress free

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not really - saves them the trouble of potentially getting abuse back for saying no - if they don't find you attractive what's the point in sending a pic back?"

This is spot on x

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