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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are you open and free when it comes to discussing sex or do you shy away from such discussions while feeling embarrassed? I'm talking in real life here. Like with friends, partner etc. If not why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you open and free when it comes to discussing sex or do you shy away from such discussions while feeling embarrassed? I'm talking in real life here. Like with friends, partner etc. If not why?"

Not shy at all, what would you like to know haha

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Not shy at all.

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

Defo not shy in the slightest

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm very shy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. But not because I’m shy or embarrassed. I don’t discuss my sex life anyone other than the person I’m having sex with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not shy at all much to my mate’s horror on here sometimes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you open and free when it comes to discussing sex or do you shy away from such discussions while feeling embarrassed? I'm talking in real life here. Like with friends, partner etc. If not why?"

ATM I’m only up for a wank

But usually I’m up for discussion, it’s a great way to talk about likes and most important dislikes so make sure we understand each other x

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Even though it has been such a LONG time since I last had it, no I am not shy about talking about sex and what I like and dislike.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you open and free when it comes to discussing sex or do you shy away from such discussions while feeling embarrassed? I'm talking in real life here. Like with friends, partner etc. If not why?

Not shy at all, what would you like to know haha"

Should point out, only not shy with people who sex would happen with etc.

I'm very discreet and private so would normally keep details vague.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I worked in a kitchen surrounded by miliary men and it was constant sex talk, its normal for me to talk about it but most vanilla friends shy away from the conversation lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Even though it has been such a LONG time since I last had it, no I am not shy about talking about sex and what I like and dislike."

How have you been a long time. you must be batting away guys lol

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

Always been open and able to talk about sex. Missed my calling as sex education teacher.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not shy at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im open with anyone but Infront of parents expecially a blokes mum is embarrasing. Like when i was at home and i said im going out and she says wear protection and dat, that used to piss me off with soo much embarresment, or when i had a female in my room and she knocks the door and says can i come in are yous decent lol little things yano lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Am really open about it!

The more people talk it kinda normalises sex...

If everyone talked about more more people would feel normal! Not only that it also would help those that find them selves in situations that aren’t right!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'm fully open and often engage

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No. But not because I’m shy or embarrassed. I don’t discuss my sex life anyone other than the person I’m having sex with. "
not even your friends?

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By *lowersandcarsCouple
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Happy to talk sex

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By *uscious_Lady1Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

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By *uscious_Lady1Woman
over a year ago

Norwich

Not shy!! Love talking about sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Will happily talk about sex with any 1

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm extremely open and I've found doing so people open up to me more about themselves where as they wouldn't normally x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm extremely open and I've found doing so people open up to me more about themselves where as they wouldn't normally x"

Your right and I have found it can leave to friends want to try new things

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone saying they open.. well spill the beans, whats the dirtest thing youve ever done, that bad that no one knows or hidden from your partner? Im willing to spill aswell

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Everyone saying they open.. well spill the beans, whats the dirtest thing youve ever done, that bad that no one knows or hidden from your partner? Im willing to spill aswell"

Go on.then

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Sounds like a song.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the company. My friends and I talk about sex in a vague jokey way, I wouldn't tell them half the things I've done but I wouldn't be embarrassed talking to them about sex in a serious way either.

On here I'm comfortable talking about it if I have a connection with them and it happens naturally, if someone tries to force it I just get uncomfortable or annoyed.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Sounds like a song."
salt n peppa

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

I'm very open about my sex life. Sex isn't something to be ashamed of

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone saying they open.. well spill the beans, whats the dirtest thing youve ever done, that bad that no one knows or hidden from your partner? Im willing to spill aswell"

Had sex in a filed 1 when it was raining that got pretty dirty lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone saying they open.. well spill the beans, whats the dirtest thing youve ever done, that bad that no one knows or hidden from your partner? Im willing to spill aswell

Go on.then"

Will once everyone joins in

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines pretty rough lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Everyone saying they open.. well spill the beans, whats the dirtest thing youve ever done, that bad that no one knows or hidden from your partner? Im willing to spill aswell

Go on.then

Will once everyone joins in"

Come on then I have started it what the dirtiest thing you have ever done ?

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Everyone saying they open.. well spill the beans, whats the dirtest thing youve ever done, that bad that no one knows or hidden from your partner? Im willing to spill aswell

Go on.then

After you

Will once everyone joins in"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im shy but ive alwaus felt confident talking bout everthing involving sex.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Im shy but ive alwaus felt confident talking bout everthing involving sex."

So tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Looks like you all gone shy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I will tell but im not going first, its pretty bad not gunna lie lost my job over it lol

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By *andM25Couple
over a year ago

NOTTINGHAM

Depends on the audience.

With the hubby I'm very honest and open.

I have a few select friends I'm very open with

Other friends and family I'm very selective with x

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I will tell but im not going first, its pretty bad not gunna lie lost my job over it lol"

Just tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I will tell but im not going first, its pretty bad not gunna lie lost my job over it lol"

I have gone 1s come on what did you do

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I’m not shy about it, I don’t kiss and tell but I also have to remember who I’m talking to as some don’t understand sites like this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because I'm a kinky bitch & can't help myself from turning everything dirty in some way it does help. It's funny as I shock the younger ones. They think they are in their prime and only ones having sex and being adventurous, bless them. They say " omg love you" hope I'm like you at your age" bitch I'm only 41 and you won't be!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I'm a kinky bitch & can't help myself from turning everything dirty in some way it does help. It's funny as I shock the younger ones. They think they are in their prime and only ones having sex and being adventurous, bless them. They say " omg love you" hope I'm like you at your age" bitch I'm only 41 and you won't be! "

41. No fucking way

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By *oss and SuzieCouple
over a year ago

Porthmadog

We talk openly about a lot to our kids... they know we are swingers. We talk to swingers about more, including escorting. We tend to keep details of our BDSM life to ourselves.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm extremely open and I've found doing so people open up to me more about themselves where as they wouldn't normally x"

I fond the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who they are, have to trust them as my sex life is private and don’t feel the need to share it with just anyone.

Viv x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not shy at all. My friends call me their sex therapist, lol. Actually love them coming to me with questions / stories etc. They know I'll talk about anything and not judge, only advise. Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happily talk about sex with anyone. I'm as open about it as your legs should be OP

Fuzz

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happily talk about sex in a non personal way as was a sexual health nurse, it doesn’t embarrass me, but selective about who I discuss my own sex life with. Viv xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not shy at all. My friends call me their sex therapist, lol. Actually love them coming to me with questions / stories etc. They know I'll talk about anything and not judge, only advise. Mrs x "

Great way to be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm usually the smuttiest in the room... But get a little shy in person if it gets serious or if the spotlight is turned on me.. I like a bit of mystery, so prefer hints vs a detailed manual

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not shy at all. My friends call me their sex therapist, lol. Actually love them coming to me with questions / stories etc. They know I'll talk about anything and not judge, only advise. Mrs x "

Yes, this was my point. Me being open allows people to feel more relaxed so alot of my team always come to me for advice or just to tell their stories.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not shy at all. My friends call me their sex therapist, lol. Actually love them coming to me with questions / stories etc. They know I'll talk about anything and not judge, only advise. Mrs x

Yes, this was my point. Me being open allows people to feel more relaxed so alot of my team always come to me for advice or just to tell their stories. "

That's fab. Love when its mixed with a glass of wine and some stories, lol. Good girlie chat! Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not shy at all. My friends call me their sex therapist, lol. Actually love them coming to me with questions / stories etc. They know I'll talk about anything and not judge, only advise. Mrs x

Great way to be."

Thanks. If ya wanna chat sometime, I'm your girl!

Mrs x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not shy at all

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By *oodguyeddieMan
over a year ago

l36

I'm very open minded and easy speaking when it comes to sex and naughtiness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not even a hint of a blush..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, my girlfriends' partners and husbands have benefitted from a few tips and tricks I have imparted!

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By *oodguyeddieMan
over a year ago

l36

"Not even a hint of a blush.."

I'm not surprised... with a body like yours you've got no reason to be shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Quite open

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let's lay pipe folks !

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By *lap.n.tickleCouple
over a year ago

sunny Manchester :)

Don't think either of us are shy what's the point in that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you open and free when it comes to discussing sex or do you shy away from such discussions while feeling embarrassed? I'm talking in real life here. Like with friends, partner etc. If not why?"

not shy at all..

and nothing to be embarrassed about when it comes to sex.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I'm usually the smuttiest in the room... But get a little shy in person if it gets serious or if the spotlight is turned on me.. I like a bit of mystery, so prefer hints vs a detailed manual

Sounds good.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Are you open and free when it comes to discussing sex or do you shy away from such discussions while feeling embarrassed? I'm talking in real life here. Like with friends, partner etc. If not why?

not shy at all..

and nothing to be embarrassed about when it comes to sex.

Not everyone would agree

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By *hedevilKTWoman
over a year ago

milton keynes

Not shy at all gift of gab can talk about it till the cows come home but not as bold in person when comes down to it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the company I'm with at the time.

Certain people don't want to hear it but some friends are quite open about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My work colleagues love my weekend updates and bruises on a Monday!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not shy at all gift of gab can talk about it till the cows come home but not as bold in person when comes down to it"

Oh why not ?

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Love talking about it

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By *irewolffMan
over a year ago

Dublin

I am shy with MrD. I am out of a long term marriage which was controlling and hasnt ended well.

Finding my feet with telling MrD what i want. Work in progress.

MsD

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Well. This starts with the birds and the bees........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It probably depends who I talk to. No problem if they're open minded and not embarrassed. Otherwise it's awkward!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you open and free when it comes to discussing sex or do you shy away from such discussions while feeling embarrassed? I'm talking in real life here. Like with friends, partner etc. If not why?"

I'm completely an open book =)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No. But not because I’m shy or embarrassed. I don’t discuss my sex life anyone other than the person I’m having sex with. "

^^^ This

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I like talking about it after being in a marriage where it wasn’t spoken about (or anything else for that matter).

I only talk about sex with fab friends. Then it’s not the actual nitty gritty. Just Fab stuff really.

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By *erry bull1Man
over a year ago

doncaster

I'm not shy ,I have 4asbo,s for indecent exposure

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

N - doesn't mind talking about sex with anyone really. S - talks to N freely and openly but not really anyone else. We've encouraged our son to be open, ask questions etc we don't want it to be taboo.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"My work colleagues love my weekend updates and bruises on a Monday!

Bruises

That sounds like it gets a little kinky...how the hell do you end up bruised

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

"I’m not shy about it, I don’t kiss and tell but I also have to remember who I’m talking to as some don’t understand sites like this "

Most wouldn’t understand sites like this lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always openly talked about my sex life. I work in the film industry/arts/massge therapy so it's fine there too. My extended family are pretty open and bawdy as well. Advising my mum on anal sex pushed my boundaries though!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Well. This starts with the birds and the bees........ "

I prefer the bees

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are you open and free when it comes to discussing sex or do you shy away from such discussions while feeling embarrassed? I'm talking in real life here. Like with friends, partner etc. If not why?"

I love chatting about sex and am very open. Obviously depending on the company

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let's lay pipe folks ! "

Lay pipe... ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Let's lay pipe folks !

Lay pipe... ??

A very similar saying means something all together different in my workplace

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's so much better to talk about sex, it improves your sex life as you get to know what works and what is pointless lol

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I’ve being trying to get someone talk about sex with me off here all day & still no joy ... I’m bored of wanking alone now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My work colleagues love my weekend updates and bruises on a Monday!

Bruises

That sounds like it gets a little kinky...how the hell do you end up bruised

How coy.

I'd say rough play yet it's so sensual it blends into no category but leaves it's marks and aches behind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"My work colleagues love my weekend updates and bruises on a Monday!

Bruises

That sounds like it gets a little kinky...how the hell do you end up bruised

How coy.

I'd say rough play yet it's so sensual it blends into no category but leaves it's marks and aches behind. "

Sounds delicious

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

"My work colleagues love my weekend updates and bruises on a Monday!

Bruises

That sounds like it gets a little kinky...how the hell do you end up bruised

How coy.

I'd say rough play yet it's so sensual it blends into no category but leaves it's marks and aches behind. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"My work colleagues love my weekend updates and bruises on a Monday!

Bruises

That sounds like it gets a little kinky...how the hell do you end up bruised

How coy.

I'd say rough play yet it's so sensual it blends into no category but leaves it's marks and aches behind.

Sounds delicious"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love talking about it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Love talking about it "

Me too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not shy at all

will talk about anything n everything Lol

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I’m rather shy, very few know this side of me and everyone else would be extremely shocked.

I like it that way

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I’m rather shy, very few know this side of me and everyone else would be extremely shocked.

I like it that way"

I'd assume a lot are like this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love discussing sex and sexuality in all its forms and real and hypothetical..gf and I have discussed best way to give a bj over a beer sat in pub..obviously not loudly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I couldn't talk to my Mrs about my really tab_o fantasies, my really filthy stuff. She's not on the same level.

But can happily chat to total strangers about them!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I couldn't talk to my Mrs about my really tab_o fantasies, my really filthy stuff. She's not on the same level.

But can happily chat to total strangers about them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think sometimes I am, probably, a little too open about sex... I find some people think it means I am interested in sex with them... Or I am up for anything with anyone... I am not

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think sometimes I am, probably, a little too open about sex... I find some people think it means I am interested in sex with them... Or I am up for anything with anyone... I am not"

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Think I'm more open in public than on here which is weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm cool with it, I taught sex ed for 15 years. My only proviso is that it's not discussed I. A public place where others can overhear. Some conversations should only be in private.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

*in a public place. Typing too fast for my phone...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm very open, especially with my mates boys and girls who are less so, making them go red and squirm sometimes is quite funny. Especially when you go from private to a public convo and they know what you mean but no one else gets your sarcasm or innuendo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends who I’m with but usually pretty open.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not backward in coming forward but I’m not rude

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

Come to the conclusion that I'm good entertainment for a first date, but I suspect due to experience intimidating, and don't get a second date, where they get to find out about me and not just Mrs Slowcum

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