FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Couple profiles - lack of M pics

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Why do almost all couple profiles usually contain exclusively only the pics of the female half?

I’m not at all bi, but when I considering messaging and meeting a new couple, I’m as interested in what the Male looks like, as much as the female.

And especially since many couples seem to be on a constant search for the elusive “extra female”, I’d have thought it made sense to include more pics of the guy?

Thoughts?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do try to represent both of us on ours and we change it up every now and again so it doesn’t get stale.

I agree with other profiles and find it frustrating as they are looking for a social and we have no clue what the name looks like.

Psyche

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We do try to represent both of us on ours and we change it up every now and again so it doesn’t get stale.

I agree with other profiles and find it frustrating as they are looking for a social and we have no clue what the name looks like.

Psyche "

Thanks for the Insight. Have to say, despite the lack of Male face pics, I’d probably get in touch with you two anyway, on account of the female looking stunning. Haha

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *eliWoman
over a year ago

.

I guess because they are looking for people to fuck the woman, they are less concerned about marketing the man.

There's a myriad of reasons though - the man could be less photogenic or less interested in Fab, he wants the sole focus to be on his partner... If I am looking for a couple, much like you Op, I want to see both; they'll both be there and I like seeing photos of couples together.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ildatheart6969Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Because People do what they want really!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *orenzoVonMatterhornMan
over a year ago

Lincoln


"I guess because they are looking for people to fuck the woman, they are less concerned about marketing the man.

There's a myriad of reasons though - the man could be less photogenic or less interested in Fab, he wants the sole focus to be on his partner... If I am looking for a couple, much like you Op, I want to see both; they'll both be there and I like seeing photos of couples together."

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I love to see photos of couples together, and there are some who do that really well.

Ultimately though it's up to the individuals and what they want to show.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I love to see photos of couples together, and there are some who do that really well.

Ultimately though it's up to the individuals and what they want to show."

I wasn’t questioning anyones right to show whatever pics they feel are appropriate - I was just curious as to why it seems the norm that Male pics aren’t shown

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Because People do what they want really! "

Of course. And so they should. I was just interested why this was the norm

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ours has always been half and half equally. It does annoy me too, I don’t meet couples but I do sometimes look at the profiles and I often wonder why all the pics are of the woman.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *estofbothCouple
over a year ago

Cardiff

From our side, we’re mostly here for F to meet and play with other girls so more catered to that. However our public pics are more just an idea of what we look like, and F also likes to have them on here.

Our friends pics that we share with people we are likely to meet are equally the two of us, and when we message we send pictures of us both.

So, if we message you you’ll see us both, if we chat and might like to meet, you see us both. The public pictures are just one or two of us so people have an idea of what we’re like that got out of hand.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I guess because they are looking for people to fuck the woman, they are less concerned about marketing the man.

There's a myriad of reasons though - the man could be less photogenic or less interested in Fab, he wants the sole focus to be on his partner... If I am looking for a couple, much like you Op, I want to see both; they'll both be there and I like seeing photos of couples together."

Seconding this =)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ours has always been half and half equally. It does annoy me too, I don’t meet couples but I do sometimes look at the profiles and I often wonder why all the pics are of the woman. "

Ooh where might I find that profile, Nora...?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Because People do what they want really! "

Bit logical ain't ya!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Ours has always been half and half equally. It does annoy me too, I don’t meet couples but I do sometimes look at the profiles and I often wonder why all the pics are of the woman.

Ooh where might I find that profile, Nora...? "

We only use it when we’re looking to meet which isn’t very often. I’ll throw you a wink when I next log on it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I noticed this too

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"From our side, we’re mostly here for F to meet and play with other girls so more catered to that. However our public pics are more just an idea of what we look like, and F also likes to have them on here.

Our friends pics that we share with people we are likely to meet are equally the two of us, and when we message we send pictures of us both.

So, if we message you you’ll see us both, if we chat and might like to meet, you see us both. The public pictures are just one or two of us so people have an idea of what we’re like that got out of hand. "

Thanks for the clarity - that’s interesting and I hadn’t considered that

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Ours has always been half and half equally. It does annoy me too, I don’t meet couples but I do sometimes look at the profiles and I often wonder why all the pics are of the woman.

Ooh where might I find that profile, Nora...?

We only use it when we’re looking to meet which isn’t very often. I’ll throw you a wink when I next log on it "

Awww, you are a dear x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *rmrs1234Couple
over a year ago

Waterford

well for us were just looking for a guy for an mfm so hence most of the attention will be focused on me (mrs) so most of our public photos are of me. We do have pics of us both that we send if we are planning on meeting someone and obviously at our socials both of us will be there

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"well for us were just looking for a guy for an mfm so hence most of the attention will be focused on me (mrs) so most of our public photos are of me. We do have pics of us both that we send if we are planning on meeting someone and obviously at our socials both of us will be there"

Hiya and thanks

I’ve met a few couples, but prefer seeing a guy as well as the female, early doors

I spoke to a couple earlier this year and while I fancied the female , when finally I got to see the guy I was rather turned off tbh.

ThNks for contributing

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Women attract attention it’s as simple as that but the guy should have a good few in there too as they are a couple, sometimes the guy in the couple isn’t very attractive compared to the female and that may put a lot of people off. But the attraction has to be mutually allround so you will find out before you meet so it’s good to have a mixed profile. The girlies do make the photos so good thou x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uxom redCouple
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

There are pics of us together, some of him but more of me.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I had a couple profile on here it would have mostly pictures of me because I have a massive ego.

I’m extremely pretty and my anus looks like a sunburnt daisy.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

It's a long-time issue, where often the guy got minimal exposure. And yet it's so vitally essential to ensure that he is attractive to the female, plus the bloke if he's bi. I've wondered whether it was because they didn't want to attract bi men too much, it was the male half running the profile or something else

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If I had a couple profile on here it would have mostly pictures of me because I have a massive ego.

I’m extremely pretty and my anus looks like a sunburnt daisy."

Have you tried applying a tincture?

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

There are more of me (Mrs) on hours simply because I have more time to take photos.

Mr works extremely long hours every day of the week so the last thing he feels like doing is posing for photos.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"There are more of me (Mrs) on hours simply because I have more time to take photos.

Mr works extremely long hours every day of the week so the last thing he feels like doing is posing for photos."

*on ours

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we got kinda equal of both!

After all we both looking for guys n girls to play with at some point...plus kinda fun taking the pics!!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think we got kinda equal of both!

After all we both looking for guys n girls to play with at some point...plus kinda fun taking the pics!!"

Excellent they are too!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There are more of me (Mrs) on hours simply because I have more time to take photos.

Mr works extremely long hours every day of the week so the last thing he feels like doing is posing for photos."

They’re very good too!

Hope you 2 are bearing up x

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a bit like fly fishing they put out the prettiest lure and hope to catch a tasty morsel...not everyone will be attracted to a maggot!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I think we have a fair amount of both of us.

Jo.Xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

We rectified the imbalance recently. It's easier to take varied and interesting pics of the lady, we think.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *all_Toned_89Couple
over a year ago

Warwickshire


"From our side, we’re mostly here for F to meet and play with other girls so more catered to that. However our public pics are more just an idea of what we look like, and F also likes to have them on here.

Our friends pics that we share with people we are likely to meet are equally the two of us, and when we message we send pictures of us both.

So, if we message you you’ll see us both, if we chat and might like to meet, you see us both. The public pictures are just one or two of us so people have an idea of what we’re like that got out of hand.

Thanks for the clarity - that’s interesting and I hadn’t considered that "

This is also the situation for us.. Toned loves the camera, Tall love watching the pics

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

L is considerably hotter than G, quite simply.

We do have pics of G, but they get a tiny fraction of the fabs of L’s pics - not that it’s all about Fabs.

We are looking to play as a couple, so it’s right that potential playmates see us both and can decide if they want to meet us based on that.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ainbowAlternativeWoman
over a year ago

North East

I think the female is generally seen as the lure on the profile.

But when I look for couples I like to see photos of both too; if I'm playing I want both, and as such need an attraction to both

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the female is generally seen as the lure on the profile.

But when I look for couples I like to see photos of both too; if I'm playing I want both, and as such need an attraction to both"

Us too...we won't play if we are all not attracted..

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think the female is generally seen as the lure on the profile.

But when I look for couples I like to see photos of both too; if I'm playing I want both, and as such need an attraction to both"
So true

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe


"L is considerably hotter than G, quite simply.

We do have pics of G, but they get a tiny fraction of the fabs of L’s pics - not that it’s all about Fabs.

We are looking to play as a couple, so it’s right that potential playmates see us both and can decide if they want to meet us based on that. "

This is exactly how my couple profile works.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Couple of me on ours - she’s just sexier and pulls them in better than me

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top