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"I’m with you on being stubborn, once I’ve made my mind up there’s no changing me, very frustrating for others at times" It is and it’s not done me any favours a lot of the time either. | |||
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"I'm too nice and forgiving. " I’d say that was a good thing though chunks I think I am too nice sometimes but not so much forgiving. | |||
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"I'm too nice and forgiving. I’d say that was a good thing though chunks I think I am too nice sometimes but not so much forgiving. " But people end up using me and its me that pays for it. | |||
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"I have problems understanding other people's thought streams." Yes I agree. I do find myself thinking how can people think like that!? Or I really can’t get my head around that. | |||
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"For me, overthinking. For others, my stubbornness when I think I'm right and they won't listen to reason! " Yep!! | |||
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"I'm too nice and forgiving. I’d say that was a good thing though chunks I think I am too nice sometimes but not so much forgiving. But people end up using me and its me that pays for it. " I get that. I used to be like that but I think recent life has changed me a bit. It’s accepting that not everyone thinks, cares, respects etc like you do. It’s difficult x | |||
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"I have a temper. It simmers, explodes and then everything is good again... for a while. " Have to admit to not being sure about you at first. But you’re bloody brilliant. Especially once i’d met you! Shows how th’internet can be deceiving x | |||
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"Suspiciousness. I'm wary of people and their intentions, however it's people that have made this the case. Holding on to past life lessons. Letting go of them completely has the capacity to leave me vulnerable, and there's plenty of experiences I don't want to relive. P" Those barriers eh? I can never let them down fully. It’s sad really x | |||
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"I'm very inpatient. Oh god yes and that!" Yep - stubborn and impatient here too! Been told the kids can’t go to school for 2 weeks and I can’t go to work for 2 weeks (I imagine they’ll be laying off staff soon so that’ll make me a prime candidate) - all because my daughter had a temperature for under 24hrs due to her ongoing issues with IBS. Apparently there’s no contingency within the current ‘lockdown’ procedures for illnesses other than corona virus which can cause a temperature! As she gets these symptoms roughly once a month - it means I’ll be perpetually off work and the kids - who are in year 10 and year 11 - don’t get to go to school. My daughter - who has mental health issues - is having all our panic attacks on a regular basis! And me? I can’t have sex so I stocked up on chocolate! Should’ve bought some bigger pants! (And breathe!) | |||
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"Suspiciousness. I'm wary of people and their intentions, however it's people that have made this the case. Holding on to past life lessons. Letting go of them completely has the capacity to leave me vulnerable, and there's plenty of experiences I don't want to relive. P" It was actually your comment on the toilet roll thread that prompted this thread | |||
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"I'm very inpatient. Oh god yes and that! Yep - stubborn and impatient here too! Been told the kids can’t go to school for 2 weeks and I can’t go to work for 2 weeks (I imagine they’ll be laying off staff soon so that’ll make me a prime candidate) - all because my daughter had a temperature for under 24hrs due to her ongoing issues with IBS. Apparently there’s no contingency within the current ‘lockdown’ procedures for illnesses other than corona virus which can cause a temperature! As she gets these symptoms roughly once a month - it means I’ll be perpetually off work and the kids - who are in year 10 and year 11 - don’t get to go to school. My daughter - who has mental health issues - is having all our panic attacks on a regular basis! And me? I can’t have sex so I stocked up on chocolate! Should’ve bought some bigger pants! (And breathe!) " Oh peachey. I’m trying not to think of when school closes! I’ll be having constant panic attacks! x | |||
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"Suspiciousness. I'm wary of people and their intentions, however it's people that have made this the case. Holding on to past life lessons. Letting go of them completely has the capacity to leave me vulnerable, and there's plenty of experiences I don't want to relive. P Those barriers eh? I can never let them down fully. It’s sad really x" It is sad. I want to surrender to the universe and one day I hope I can, but surrendering means trusting completely and letting go.... and there's normally a snake waiting to bite. Maybe on my deathbed eh. P | |||
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"I have a temper. It simmers, explodes and then everything is good again... for a while. Have to admit to not being sure about you at first. But you’re bloody brilliant. Especially once i’d met you! Shows how th’internet can be deceiving x" Awwww. Thanks duck | |||
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"Suspiciousness. I'm wary of people and their intentions, however it's people that have made this the case. Holding on to past life lessons. Letting go of them completely has the capacity to leave me vulnerable, and there's plenty of experiences I don't want to relive. P It was actually your comment on the toilet roll thread that prompted this thread " More than bog roll I'll set fire too believe me. P | |||
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"Suspiciousness. I'm wary of people and their intentions, however it's people that have made this the case. Holding on to past life lessons. Letting go of them completely has the capacity to leave me vulnerable, and there's plenty of experiences I don't want to relive. P Those barriers eh? I can never let them down fully. It’s sad really x It is sad. I want to surrender to the universe and one day I hope I can, but surrendering means trusting completely and letting go.... and there's normally a snake waiting to bite. Maybe on my deathbed eh. P" I get you. x | |||
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"Suspiciousness. I'm wary of people and their intentions, however it's people that have made this the case. Holding on to past life lessons. Letting go of them completely has the capacity to leave me vulnerable, and there's plenty of experiences I don't want to relive. P It was actually your comment on the toilet roll thread that prompted this thread More than bog roll I'll set fire too believe me. P" Haha I’m the one who if I’m in a parking space and someone’s beeping me to hurry up I will literally stay there till they give up or one of us dies!! | |||
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"I have a temper. It simmers, explodes and then everything is good again... for a while. Have to admit to not being sure about you at first. But you’re bloody brilliant. Especially once i’d met you! Shows how th’internet can be deceiving x" It was exactly the same for me. With both of you ladies actually. But I'm happy to say I was wrong and I think you are both brilliant. Xx | |||
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"I have a temper. It simmers, explodes and then everything is good again... for a while. Have to admit to not being sure about you at first. But you’re bloody brilliant. Especially once i’d met you! Shows how th’internet can be deceiving x It was exactly the same for me. With both of you ladies actually. But I'm happy to say I was wrong and I think you are both brilliant. Xx" Yes. You and I had some moments! Haha x | |||
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"I have a temper. It simmers, explodes and then everything is good again... for a while. Have to admit to not being sure about you at first. But you’re bloody brilliant. Especially once i’d met you! Shows how th’internet can be deceiving x It was exactly the same for me. With both of you ladies actually. But I'm happy to say I was wrong and I think you are both brilliant. Xx Yes. You and I had some moments! Haha x" And I'm sure we will have more but it just goes to show you can still be lovely and supportive even if you disagree on almost everything. | |||
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"I’m with you on being stubborn, once I’ve made my mind up there’s no changing me, very frustrating for others at times It is and it’s not done me any favours a lot of the time either. " Yes but being true to yourself and sticking with your decision can also be a positive thing | |||
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"I have a temper. It simmers, explodes and then everything is good again... for a while. Have to admit to not being sure about you at first. But you’re bloody brilliant. Especially once i’d met you! Shows how th’internet can be deceiving x It was exactly the same for me. With both of you ladies actually. But I'm happy to say I was wrong and I think you are both brilliant. Xx Yes. You and I had some moments! Haha x And I'm sure we will have more but it just goes to show you can still be lovely and supportive even if you disagree on almost everything. " I agree. It’s about respecting other people’s views and not getting personal. Estella and I are probably the most opposite you could get but I adore her! | |||
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"I have a temper. It simmers, explodes and then everything is good again... for a while. Have to admit to not being sure about you at first. But you’re bloody brilliant. Especially once i’d met you! Shows how th’internet can be deceiving x It was exactly the same for me. With both of you ladies actually. But I'm happy to say I was wrong and I think you are both brilliant. Xx Yes. You and I had some moments! Haha x And I'm sure we will have more but it just goes to show you can still be lovely and supportive even if you disagree on almost everything. " Exactly | |||
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"I am known to be very stubborn to the point of pig/dickheadedness.. But it only really comes out when I've been wronged in a bad way, as in holding a grudge. Really not my best feature. I know this, I can forgive quite easy, but depending on situation, do not let go easy.... So take heed, two strikes and your off my Christmas card list haha" | |||
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"Suspiciousness. I'm wary of people and their intentions, however it's people that have made this the case. Holding on to past life lessons. Letting go of them completely has the capacity to leave me vulnerable, and there's plenty of experiences I don't want to relive. P It was actually your comment on the toilet roll thread that prompted this thread More than bog roll I'll set fire too believe me. P Haha I’m the one who if I’m in a parking space and someone’s beeping me to hurry up I will literally stay there till they give up or one of us dies!! " I'd be a fucker if I could drive and got beeped at in a parking space. I'd have to get out the car and kindly remind them that honking their fucking horn has not sped things up at all, in fact it has caused me to get out my car and come and have a quiet word about honking, and how it could be scary for an old person or mum with a baby, or anyone at all. Then I would suggest very politely that they take more care over horn use, and save it for when it's actually necessary rather than when they choose to deem it necessary to let another person know they require the parking space said person is currently in. Coz said person isn't a cunt, and WOULD have left the space as soon as they could and were ready to, but now it's been 10 minutes.... and they're still waiting to get in that space because they insulted the intelligence of someone by beeping to let them know they were there when they didn't need to, coz the person in the space already knew and was preparing to make way for them anyway. P | |||
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"I am known to be very stubborn to the point of pig/dickheadedness.. But it only really comes out when I've been wronged in a bad way, as in holding a grudge. Really not my best feature. I know this, I can forgive quite easy, but depending on situation, do not let go easy.... So take heed, two strikes and your off my Christmas card list haha " What I really wanted to say was... I'm an egotistical megalomaniac with narcissistic tendancies and homicidal rage, but I'm trying to make friends here | |||
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"Suspiciousness. I'm wary of people and their intentions, however it's people that have made this the case. Holding on to past life lessons. Letting go of them completely has the capacity to leave me vulnerable, and there's plenty of experiences I don't want to relive. P It was actually your comment on the toilet roll thread that prompted this thread More than bog roll I'll set fire too believe me. P Haha I’m the one who if I’m in a parking space and someone’s beeping me to hurry up I will literally stay there till they give up or one of us dies!! I'd be a fucker if I could drive and got beeped at in a parking space. I'd have to get out the car and kindly remind them that honking their fucking horn has not sped things up at all, in fact it has caused me to get out my car and come and have a quiet word about honking, and how it could be scary for an old person or mum with a baby, or anyone at all. Then I would suggest very politely that they take more care over horn use, and save it for when it's actually necessary rather than when they choose to deem it necessary to let another person know they require the parking space said person is currently in. Coz said person isn't a cunt, and WOULD have left the space as soon as they could and were ready to, but now it's been 10 minutes.... and they're still waiting to get in that space because they insulted the intelligence of someone by beeping to let them know they were there when they didn't need to, coz the person in the space already knew and was preparing to make way for them anyway. P" Haha. Love it | |||
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"I am known to be very stubborn to the point of pig/dickheadedness.. But it only really comes out when I've been wronged in a bad way, as in holding a grudge. Really not my best feature. I know this, I can forgive quite easy, but depending on situation, do not let go easy.... So take heed, two strikes and your off my Christmas card list haha What I really wanted to say was... I'm an egotistical megalomaniac with narcissistic tendancies and homicidal rage, but I'm trying to make friends here " | |||
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"My bluntness has got me into some interesting situations, luckily my dominant logical reasoning side balances it out " Logical???? Lol | |||
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"My bluntness has got me into some interesting situations, luckily my dominant logical reasoning side balances it out " Yes I’m quite blunt sometimes x | |||
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"Self doubt. I'm a lot better than I used to be, but I need to be less quick to blame myself." I still think you're a lovely lady that has a lot to offer. You have a big heart. Xx | |||
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"What’s your worst trait? Be honest. I’m a lot of good things but boy am I stubborn! Is headstrong the same as stubborn though? Wish I wasn’t but I always have been. " Exactly this | |||
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"My bluntness has got me into some interesting situations, luckily my dominant logical reasoning side balances it out Logical???? Lol" Sarky git | |||
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"Sarcasm... Outspoken .... Impatient Direct " Are you me?!! | |||
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"My bluntness has got me into some interesting situations, luckily my dominant logical reasoning side balances it out Logical???? Lol Sarky git " Yes, and??? | |||
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"I'm too nice and forgiving. I’d say that was a good thing though chunks I think I am too nice sometimes but not so much forgiving. But people end up using me and its me that pays for it. I get that. I used to be like that but I think recent life has changed me a bit. It’s accepting that not everyone thinks, cares, respects etc like you do. It’s difficult x" Ive had to learn that not everyone has good in them and you have to walk away for youre own good. I was a rescuer, now im a coach. Self care isnt selfish, its vital. As an empath ive had to learn to protect myself through councilling | |||
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"Self doubt and insecurity, struggle thinking I’m good enough at times, but working on that and developing a thicker skin every day. I also care too much, so it’s easy to hurt me- lol, working on that too x Viv xx" Are you me? x | |||
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"Self doubt and insecurity, struggle thinking I’m good enough at times, but working on that and developing a thicker skin every day. I also care too much, so it’s easy to hurt me- lol, working on that too x Viv xx Are you me? x" Haha, we definitely seem to share a lot of the same traits xx | |||
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"Sarcasm... Outspoken .... Impatient Direct Are you me?!! " Apparently I missed out demanding | |||
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"I have a really, really bad temper when I'm crossed, if anyone I care for gets hurt, or if I see an injustice. I'm also very impatient and stubborn. Other than that I'm a catch haha x" I don't trust easy but when I do I'm the most loyal person you will know x | |||
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"I can’t suffer fools... " Haha same.. dont take fools lightly | |||
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"I have a really, really bad temper when I'm crossed, if anyone I care for gets hurt, or if I see an injustice. I'm also very impatient and stubborn. Other than that I'm a catch haha x I don't trust easy but when I do I'm the most loyal person you will know x" I’m the same, I find it really hard to trust anyone, but when I find someone who I can let my guard down with, and who proves to me I can do that safely I’m a very open and loyal person. But the guards go back up easily, and I will tend to distance myself, at the same time as staying loyal, until I know if it’s safe to trust again. I don’t give up on someone I care about easily though x Viv x | |||
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"I have a really, really bad temper when I'm crossed, if anyone I care for gets hurt, or if I see an injustice. I'm also very impatient and stubborn. Other than that I'm a catch haha x I don't trust easy but when I do I'm the most loyal person you will know x" Same x | |||
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"Sarcasm... Outspoken .... Impatient Direct Are you me?!! Apparently I missed out demanding " Cheeky | |||
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"I'm very inpatient. " impatient.. bad spelling a pet hate | |||
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"Sarcasm... Outspoken .... Impatient Direct Are you me?!! Apparently I missed out demanding " You did | |||
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"Sarcasm... Outspoken .... Impatient Direct Are you me?!! Apparently I missed out demanding You did " Oi you! I’m specific not demanding. There a difference | |||
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"Sarcasm... Outspoken .... Impatient Direct Are you me?!! Apparently I missed out demanding You did Oi you! I’m specific not demanding. There a difference " I think it was directed my way.. and your comment has just indicated another trait for you | |||
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"Sarcasm... Outspoken .... Impatient Direct Are you me?!! Apparently I missed out demanding You did Oi you! I’m specific not demanding. There a difference I think it was directed my way.. and your comment has just indicated another trait for you " She probably meant me too lol. What’s that then? | |||
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"Sarcasm... Outspoken .... Impatient Direct Are you me?!! Apparently I missed out demanding You did Oi you! I’m specific not demanding. There a difference I think it was directed my way.. and your comment has just indicated another trait for you She probably meant me too lol. What’s that then? " Scary | |||
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"Sarcasm... Outspoken .... Impatient Direct Are you me?!! Apparently I missed out demanding You did Oi you! I’m specific not demanding. There a difference I think it was directed my way.. and your comment has just indicated another trait for you She probably meant me too lol. What’s that then? Scary " . People have got me wrong. I’m a pussy cat really | |||
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