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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I just got blocked by someone because I messaged twice i.e. they didn’t reply to the first one.

I was really polite too

I mean okay lesson learned but man that was harsh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got blocked by someone because I messaged twice i.e. they didn’t reply to the first one.

I was really polite too

I mean okay lesson learned but man that was harsh "

Not really.

Site rules state no reply is a reply.

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

Breathing can sometimes get you blocked. As a bloke. well done on lasting so long

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

If they felt no attraction then blocking makes sense as you won't see them any more.

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By *ick_and_BickerCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"I just got blocked by someone because I messaged twice i.e. they didn’t reply to the first one.

I was really polite too

I mean okay lesson learned but man that was harsh "

The blocking facility on here is nothing but a positive one. Saves them getting another message from someone they don't want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your profile says "Please do not be offended if I don't respond to your message."

So maybe they have the same motto

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"I just got blocked by someone because I messaged twice i.e. they didn’t reply to the first one.

I was really polite too

I mean okay lesson learned but man that was harsh "

Was it harsh though. You know when the lady phones up, you know the one "I am calling about the accident you had", well you pick it up and she starts rambling on, so you hang up.... do you block the number? Yes? Why? Because you don't want to hear from them again. What makes you different from the accident lady?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile says "Please do not be offended if I don't respond to your message."

So maybe they have the same motto "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got blocked by someone because I messaged twice i.e. they didn’t reply to the first one.

I was really polite too

I mean okay lesson learned but man that was harsh

Was it harsh though. You know when the lady phones up, you know the one "I am calling about the accident you had", well you pick it up and she starts rambling on, so you hang up.... do you block the number? Yes? Why? Because you don't want to hear from them again. What makes you different from the accident lady?

"

Ignore this person

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got blocked by someone because I messaged twice i.e. they didn’t reply to the first one.

I was really polite too

I mean okay lesson learned but man that was harsh "

Op do you have any idea how many men message repeatedly, even if you have never replied?

Much easier to block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got blocked by someone because I messaged twice i.e. they didn’t reply to the first one.

I was really polite too

I mean okay lesson learned but man that was harsh "

It’s a good thing. Keep your chins up.

If I send a message to someone and they read/delete without reply, I block them. Saves that embarrassing moment a few weeks later when you message them again.

#wevealldoneit

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

If they haven't also gone onto another forum post to tear you to shreds for daring to contact them twice you'll have done better than most.

Well done in advance.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got blocked by someone because I messaged twice i.e. they didn’t reply to the first one.

I was really polite too

I mean okay lesson learned but man that was harsh

Op do you have any idea how many men message repeatedly, even if you have never replied?

Much easier to block."

What about guys actively working out, they may change and you wouldn't see them haha

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"I just got blocked by someone because I messaged twice i.e. they didn’t reply to the first one.

I was really polite too

I mean okay lesson learned but man that was harsh

Was it harsh though. You know when the lady phones up, you know the one "I am calling about the accident you had", well you pick it up and she starts rambling on, so you hang up.... do you block the number? Yes? Why? Because you don't want to hear from them again. What makes you different from the accident lady?

Ignore this person "

Have you got a cob on because I mentioned your penis? (or should I say a lob-on)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got blocked by someone because I messaged twice i.e. they didn’t reply to the first one.

I was really polite too

I mean okay lesson learned but man that was harsh

Was it harsh though. You know when the lady phones up, you know the one "I am calling about the accident you had", well you pick it up and she starts rambling on, so you hang up.... do you block the number? Yes? Why? Because you don't want to hear from them again. What makes you different from the accident lady?

Ignore this person

Have you got a cob on because I mentioned your penis? (or should I say a lob-on)"

Your such a tit. I’m crying laughing

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I just got blocked by someone because I messaged twice i.e. they didn’t reply to the first one.

I was really polite too

I mean okay lesson learned but man that was harsh

It’s a good thing. Keep your chins up.

If I send a message to someone and they read/delete without reply, I block them. Saves that embarrassing moment a few weeks later when you message them again.

#wevealldoneit

"

No we haven't.

It's easy to not do it.

There's a f#cking great big warning sign that pops up before you make a keystroke.

#donttarusallwithyourhashtagbrush

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By *itonmyfacebookMan
over a year ago

Burton on Trent


"I just got blocked by someone because I messaged twice i.e. they didn’t reply to the first one.

I was really polite too

I mean okay lesson learned but man that was harsh "

Has happened to me hundreds of times. Welcome to the club.

I now send a second message something like: 'shame because it could have been good' which I suppose will pee some up themselves people off. If they ever actually read it. Which most probably don't.

Despite the harsh attitude of remessaging amongst swingers however pester power has occasionally got results.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got blocked by someone because I messaged twice i.e. they didn’t reply to the first one.

I was really polite too

I mean okay lesson learned but man that was harsh "

If your second message was complaining that they hadn't replied then you deserved it and not at all harsh.

If you'd left it weeks/months and sent another message then yes its harsh

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

Just send a second message that say...

Sorry for previous message, was meant for someone else

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I just got blocked by someone because I messaged twice i.e. they didn’t reply to the first one.

I was really polite too

I mean okay lesson learned but man that was harsh

It’s a good thing. Keep your chins up.

If I send a message to someone and they read/delete without reply, I block them. Saves that embarrassing moment a few weeks later when you message them again.

#wevealldoneit

"

Yeah if I see someone deleted my message then I wouldn’t take it further. But if it’s read but not deleted as this was I thought I’d try once more and even said in the message that I won’t hassle

So yeah I think it was a bit harsh but not to worry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Your profile says "Please do not be offended if I don't respond to your message."

So maybe they have the same motto "

Reasonable enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I just got blocked by someone because I messaged twice i.e. they didn’t reply to the first one.

I was really polite too

I mean okay lesson learned but man that was harsh "

Don't take it personal move on

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