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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

.. ok its not an arguement in my specific senario but i still feel very much in the dog house. its just crap. restless nights.

Sounds really daft but although i sleep alone it felt colder than ever and that i was resigned to my own sofa.. meh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One solution...Talk...Talk to the person concerned air your differences,dont take offence at what they say,take it onboard ,build on it and move on..only way,not enough people talk they let it fester and it becomes worse...good luck and hope you get some sleep tonite.x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"One solution...Talk...Talk to the person concerned air your differences,dont take offence at what they say,take it onboard ,build on it and move on..only way,not enough people talk they let it fester and it becomes worse...good luck and hope you get some sleep tonite.x"

never thought id say this but i do need to learn to talk more and open up. sometimes i just go along with stuff and agree just because thats what the other person wants. always thought if they were happy it would make me happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We all learn...may take longer for others ,took me till i was 40 and lost my partner to realise it...so i now say whats goin off in my head,never nastily i.just open up...your halfway there you realised you need to talk more,be more open....you need to be happy as much as the other person ,so i say ring him....sort it lifes for living and enjoying....ohhh get me sound like agony aunt.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"We all learn...may take longer for others ,took me till i was 40 and lost my partner to realise it...so i now say whats goin off in my head,never nastily i.just open up...your halfway there you realised you need to talk more,be more open....you need to be happy as much as the other person ,so i say ring him....sort it lifes for living and enjoying....ohhh get me sound like agony aunt..... "

thanks.. i know that i dont want to lose him (i might have already). i just go into myself, see something i dont like, bottle it up then explode and go over the top. im just pants

Lesson learnt though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all learn...may take longer for others ,took me till i was 40 and lost my partner to realise it...so i now say whats goin off in my head,never nastily i.just open up...your halfway there you realised you need to talk more,be more open....you need to be happy as much as the other person ,so i say ring him....sort it lifes for living and enjoying....ohhh get me sound like agony aunt.....

thanks.. i know that i dont want to lose him (i might have already). i just go into myself, see something i dont like, bottle it up then explode and go over the top. im just pants

Lesson learnt though."

Noooooo you're not pants! Just human. Give yourself a hug. Think of yourself sometimes. people usually take more than they give. Don't give so much of yourself (it's hard, I know) and try to ask for something in return. You're worth it. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all learn...may take longer for others ,took me till i was 40 and lost my partner to realise it...so i now say whats goin off in my head,never nastily i.just open up...your halfway there you realised you need to talk more,be more open....you need to be happy as much as the other person ,so i say ring him....sort it lifes for living and enjoying....ohhh get me sound like agony aunt.....

U

thanks.. i know that i dont want to lose him (i

might have already). i just go into myself, see something i dont like, bottle it up then explode and go over the top. im just pants

Lesson learnt though."

So ring him......get if off your chest and if he is the one for you ,he will be there....but tell him how YOU feel.....cos its not just about him....theres two of ya......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".. ok its not an arguement in my specific but i still feel very much in the dog house. its just crap. restless nights.

Sounds really daft but although i sleep alone it felt colder than ever and that i was resigned to my own sofa.. meh"

I don't have arguments that cause the above, But I don't feel the need to have my private life on here like some do (not aimed at anyone in paticular) unless its just the attention seeking aspect or the look at me aspect!

senarios are usually just what they say but like yesterdays news Unless the person feels to bring it up and that sends one word to me insecurities. (sorry)

Forget move on or speak to the person resolve it move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"We all learn...may take longer for others ,took me till i was 40 and lost my partner to realise it...so i now say whats goin off in my head,never nastily i.just open up...your halfway there you realised you need to talk more,be more open....you need to be happy as much as the other person ,so i say ring him....sort it lifes for living and enjoying....ohhh get me sound like agony aunt.....

U

thanks.. i know that i dont want to lose him (i

might have already). i just go into myself, see something i dont like, bottle it up then explode and go over the top. im just pants

Lesson learnt though.

So ring him......get if off your chest and if he is the one for you ,he will be there....but tell him how YOU feel.....cos its not just about him....theres two of ya......"

Why bother ringing when the threads from the op are monopolised by it! Just let him read the posts loll

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why assume hes on here....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As last few days has been full of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well lets hope he reads em then.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

senarios i have a big one with work at the moment where 75 people could lose their job.

yes its worrying but its an senario not cut and dry its gonna happen

so remember it might never happen!

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By *etillanteWoman
over a year ago

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And does the person involved really want this discussing on an open forum?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And does the person involved really want this discussing on an open forum?"

seems it can be let lie

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


".. ok its not an arguement in my specific senario but i still feel very much in the dog house. its just crap. restless nights.

Sounds really daft but although i sleep alone it felt colder than ever and that i was resigned to my own sofa.. meh"

Huh? Am I the only one thinking that you sleep alone but banished yourself to the sofa?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"And does the person involved really want this discussing on an open forum?"
If its someone from here.

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By *r ManxMan
over a year ago

NeverWhere

Its good to talk like grown-ups and not to shout or bitch like children?

Also I find sleeping on it some time gives everyone time to look at a problem from a different perspective .

I also ban all arguments from the bedroom its neutral territory only for fun games and rest

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