FabSwingers.com forum: okay... i have a serious question

By *abio OP Man
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

if you get the virus (after all they reckon at least 60% of us will)

will you announce it on here if you go to clubs,

will you alert the clubs that you have been

are you going to send e-mail to any meets you would have had in at least the 14 day period......

just thinking out loud today... just because "none of your business" isn't really a right answer at the moment if the goal is to try and protect each other.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would contact everyone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would be totally upfront with anyone I had crossed paths with if I was a confirmed case. Can’t understand anyone that wouldn’t.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all reality they arent testing everyone with symptoms so you'll never be sure if it was a cold or covid-19 unless you need hospital treatment

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I don't go to clubs, but if I'd met someone I would definitely let them know

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"if you get the virus (after all they reckon at least 60% of us will)

will you announce it on here if you go to clubs,

will you alert the clubs that you have been

are you going to send e-mail to any meets you would have had in at least the 14 day period......

just thinking out loud today... just because "none of your business" isn't really a right answer at the moment if the goal is to try and protect each other......."

The only place I go socially is a club so yes, I would inform the club so they could take any steps required to keep as many people virus free as possible. I'd also want to know if another attendee came down with it so I could keep a closer eye out for symptoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if you get the virus (after all they reckon at least 60% of us will)

will you announce it on here if you go to clubs,

will you alert the clubs that you have been

are you going to send e-mail to any meets you would have had in at least the 14 day period......

just thinking out loud today... just because "none of your business" isn't really a right answer at the moment if the goal is to try and protect each other......."

Spot on Fabio. Sanity and compassion

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I think the bigger problem is that most who get it won't know for sure.

If I have the basic symptoms, best self isolate but they won't test me.

Do I notify everyone just in case it is Corvid-19 or not?

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

I’m not meeting anyway at the mo, but if I had then yes I’d inform people .

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I think the bigger problem is that most who get it won't know for sure.

If I have the basic symptoms, best self isolate but they won't test me.

Do I notify everyone just in case it is Corvid-19 or not?"

Yes, if you're showing the symptoms of it, not just cold symptoms but the persistent, dry cough and fever.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you? You're meant to be self-isolating anyway, you shouldn't be in a club or on a meet while you are contagious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if you get the virus (after all they reckon at least 60% of us will)

will you announce it on here if you go to clubs,

will you alert the clubs that you have been

are you going to send e-mail to any meets you would have had in at least the 14 day period......

just thinking out loud today... just because "none of your business" isn't really a right answer at the moment if the goal is to try and protect each other......."

To not announce that you have the Virus is irresponsible and defines the type of person that you are.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I had a computer virus once, emailed everyone I knew to tell them.

Didn’t go down well.

For interest, how far are we off the normal death rate for every years viral flu?

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I think the bigger problem is that most who get it won't know for sure.

If I have the basic symptoms, best self isolate but they won't test me.

Do I notify everyone just in case it is Corvid-19 or not?

Yes, if you're showing the symptoms of it, not just cold symptoms but the persistent, dry cough and fever. "

I agree actually, but I worry many may not or will misuse the system. To me testing is important. Those who are negative can return to work rather than waste 2 weeks off.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I had a computer virus once, emailed everyone I knew to tell them.

Didn’t go down well.

For interest, how far are we off the normal death rate for every years viral flu?"

No where near yet but there's a vaccine for flu. Thd lack of a vaccine is the worry given the rapid global spread.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I think the bigger problem is that most who get it won't know for sure.

If I have the basic symptoms, best self isolate but they won't test me.

Do I notify everyone just in case it is Corvid-19 or not?

Yes, if you're showing the symptoms of it, not just cold symptoms but the persistent, dry cough and fever.

I agree actually, but I worry many may not or will misuse the system. To me testing is important. Those who are negative can return to work rather than waste 2 weeks off."

I agree to a certain extent but people are taking the piss, they sneeze and call 111, expect to be tested and throw a paddy if they aren't, all it takes is abit of common sense and we can reduce the strain on the nhs massively.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Why would you? You're meant to be self-isolating anyway, you shouldn't be in a club or on a meet while you are contagious."

Problem is that you are contagious before the symptoms start.

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

"if you get the virus (after all they reckon at least 60% of us will)

will you announce it on here if you go to clubs,

will you alert the clubs that you have been

are you going to send e-mail to any meets you would have had in at least the 14 day period......

just thinking out loud today... just because "none of your business" isn't really a right answer at the moment if the goal is to try and protect each other......."

Is that what you do when you have a cold ?

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By *eastAndTheHarlotCouple
over a year ago

Hartlepool

We'd definitely tell anyone and everyone we'd been in contact with, swinging or otherwise, if one of us had it.

It's only fair. And there's no shame to getting ill, not sure why anyone would hide it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to see so many honest people, that's how it should be.

It's just those few that wouldnt bother because they only care about themselves that worry me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would be totally upfront with anyone I had crossed paths with if I was a confirmed case. Can’t understand anyone that wouldn’t."
this

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"I had a computer virus once, emailed everyone I knew to tell them.

Didn’t go down well.

For interest, how far are we off the normal death rate for every years viral flu?

No where near yet but there's a vaccine for flu. Thd lack of a vaccine is the worry given the rapid global spread. "

There isn’t a vaccine for the flu.

Experts to look at the flu development in Canada and Australia and predict an antibody for a predicted flu epidemic.

They don’t look to China, if I remember rightly, that is where the worst genetic virus jumps are coming from at the moment.

The chickens are too scared to ask.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"I had a computer virus once, emailed everyone I knew to tell them.

Didn’t go down well.

For interest, how far are we off the normal death rate for every years viral flu?

No where near yet but there's a vaccine for flu. Thd lack of a vaccine is the worry given the rapid global spread.

There isn’t a vaccine for the flu.

Experts to look at the flu development in Canada and Australia and predict an antibody for a predicted flu epidemic.

They don’t look to China, if I remember rightly, that is where the worst genetic virus jumps are coming from at the moment.

The chickens are too scared to ask."

Yes, there's a flu vaccine. Or more accurately several, since there are several strains.

At risk groups are encouraged to be vaccinated each year against the ones currently doing the rounds.

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

Link to NHS info on flu vaccine

https://www.nhs.uk/conditions/vaccinations/who-should-have-flu-vaccine/

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

"I had a computer virus once, emailed everyone I knew to tell them.

Didn’t go down well.

For interest, how far are we off the normal death rate for every years viral flu?

No where near yet but there's a vaccine for flu. Thd lack of a vaccine is the worry given the rapid global spread.

There isn’t a vaccine for the flu.

Experts to look at the flu development in Canada and Australia and predict an antibody for a predicted flu epidemic.

They don’t look to China, if I remember rightly, that is where the worst genetic virus jumps are coming from at the moment.

The chickens are too scared to ask.

Yes, there's a flu vaccine. Or more accurately several, since there are several strains.

At risk groups are encouraged to be vaccinated each year against the ones currently doing the rounds."

Yes, L has to have one every year.

However the vaccine is purely a guess, from data from Canada and Australia.

China never comes into the equation.

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By *crumdiddlyumptiousMan
over a year ago

Why would you want to go to a club or arrange a meet if you have it or flu like symptoms, If you've recently been to a club/had a meet and now have it then you really should contact the people you have met or the club

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I would try and tell as many as possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would.

I would want to know if I'd been in contact with it. Xx

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

How many people caught it in wuhan, a city of 11 million?

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

When is the contagious period? Before you get the symptoms? During the symptoms?

How do you know if you definetly have it?

Serious questions.

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By *hedevilKTWoman
over a year ago

milton keynes

Ofcourse I would but the intention for short term is to not go clubs or meets so shouldn’t have to have anyone to tell

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"When is the contagious period? Before you get the symptoms? During the symptoms?

How do you know if you definetly have it?

Serious questions."

There is a small chance you can pass it on before you get symptoms but you are most contagious when you have the symptoms.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a computer virus once, emailed everyone I knew to tell them.

Didn’t go down well.

For interest, how far are we off the normal death rate for every years viral flu?"

About 30,000 deaths yearly from pneumonia after flu like symptoms I read. We should be in a panic like this every year really and trying to stop those deaths too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would contact everyone I have been in contact with

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"How many people caught it in wuhan, a city of 11 million?"

Can't find data for the city itself, but the wider province of Hubei that Wuhan is in (data from Weds 11th March):

In Hubei province, 67,781 cases, 3,056 deaths and 50,298 recoveries have been reported so far.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

PS: Hubei province has over 58 million people in it.

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

It’s not easy as I can’t be tested as I am not serious enough, I don’t know if I have it. I haven’t been to a club for a week. I have minor symptoms

Sore throat, minimal cough, ribs were hurting yesterday but not today. Achy muscles some yesterday and this morning not so much in last few hours

I know people that are far far worse than me - I am not meeting at the moment as I am self isolating anyway

I feel in limbo - would like to be tested if I have so be it, if not brilliant.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The thing is most of the people who do get it will find it hard to determine if it's standard cold/cough symptoms or something worse.

If I had those I wouldn't want to meet anyway.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

"The thing is most of the people who do get it will find it hard to determine if it's standard cold/cough symptoms or something worse.

If I had those I wouldn't want to meet anyway.

Yes same here, I wouldn't meet anyone if I had a cold and I'd expect the same courtesy.

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

"PS: Hubei province has over 58 million people in it. "

So 3000 died in a region of 58 million people ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"PS: Hubei province has over 58 million people in it.

So 3000 died in a region of 58 million people ?"

I need more toilet roll

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By *agneto.Man
over a year ago

Bham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In all reality they arent testing everyone with symptoms so you'll never be sure if it was a cold or covid-19 unless you need hospital treatment "

True

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i would do the right thing and contact everyone, but how would you know if you got the virus or not, they not testing for it now!!

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

If I suspect that I have it, I'm staying home and not meeting. It's a good reasons for some rest. I've no Idea about sex drive but I can manage.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

Common courtesy to advise anyone I’ve been in contact with, not just for their benefit but anyone who could be high risk.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

If I started exhibiting symptoms I would self-isolate and tell anyone I'd been in contact with.

I wouldn't expect to be tested so probably wouldn't know for sure whether it was coronavirus, but I'd still contact them to explain the situation.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

"PS: Hubei province has over 58 million people in it.

So 3000 died in a region of 58 million people ?"

Correct!

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"i would do the right thing and contact everyone, but how would you know if you got the virus or not, they not testing for it now!!"

Well you wouldn't know for sure but if you have a fever and a cough self isolate just in case.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

If your poorly the last thing on your mind is meeting anyone but if I had symptoms and did meet someone yes I'd tell them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"if you get the virus (after all they reckon at least 60% of us will)

will you announce it on here if you go to clubs,

will you alert the clubs that you have been

are you going to send e-mail to any meets you would have had in at least the 14 day period......

just thinking out loud today... just because "none of your business" isn't really a right answer at the moment if the goal is to try and protect each other......."

Its the responsible thing to do, and I don't want to be responsible for putting people through pain or stress x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"PS: Hubei province has over 58 million people in it.

So 3000 died in a region of 58 million people ?

Correct! "

Its not over yet more cases in China today.

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By *usietranslutTV/TS
over a year ago

carlow

"PS: Hubei province has over 58 million people in it.

So 3000 died in a region of 58 million people ?

Correct! "

But they literally imposed martial law and total lockdown. Won’t happen in the west so effect will be much more serious in terms of deaths.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

"Common courtesy to advise anyone I’ve been in contact with, not just for their benefit but anyone who could be high risk."

Who would you classify as "high risk"?

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

"if you get the virus (after all they reckon at least 60% of us will)

will you announce it on here if you go to clubs,

will you alert the clubs that you have been

are you going to send e-mail to any meets you would have had in at least the 14 day period......

just thinking out loud today... just because "none of your business" isn't really a right answer at the moment if the goal is to try and protect each other......."

Nothing to be ashamed of. Yeh,tell. Honesty the best policy.

Swingers didn't invent the virus.

Club swingers are the cleanest peeps around. They already have the right mindset in terms of preventing passing on deseases. The rest of the world should take a leaf out their book.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Common courtesy to advise anyone I’ve been in contact with, not just for their benefit but anyone who could be high risk.

Who would you classify as "high risk"?"

Everyone is, and this touching elbows instead of handshakes it be more safer to use your cock or fanny to meet and fun. Lol Donald trump and Boris Johnson slapping there cocks together not a nice thought feel the love people x

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By *olly_chromaticTV/TS
over a year ago

Stockport

I decided last week to start cancelling things where i would come into close contact with others. My name is still on the lists for a couple of group socials, but I'll be amazed if they go ahead anyway.

Won't be going to any clubs until it's over. And afterwards, if I've had it I'll certainly tell any prospective meet. And if I've not had it, i would expect other people to tell me if they have.

There's no shame to it either way, it's just going to be a matter of common courtesy and respect for others.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we all tell each other we've had the flu virus so no difference really

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By *ercuryMan
over a year ago

Grantham

Still seeing pictures on here of people having unprotected sex with strangers.

Madness!

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"PS: Hubei province has over 58 million people in it. "

Did you get them figures from WHO website? When looking at data, you can take it face value as lots of factors are involved. Remember China has better medical resources, they went through very authoritarian and strict strategies to contain the virus. So looking at data alone isn't the best way to assess what issues were facing. One thing i do know about Asia, generally people's attitudes are very community based. My British friend is temporary living in Singapore. The country has much smaller population but live in quite crowded city like conditions with quite high percentage of people over 60. When the government noticed their numbers were climbing, they took fast action by developing an thermo scanner and tested EVERYONE during transition points like university, supermarkets. Gave excellent health care to anyone found to be infected. They kept their numbers to less than 300 and no deaths...

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"we all tell each other we've had the flu virus so no difference really

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By *ikeC81Man
over a year ago

harrow

"When is the contagious period? Before you get the symptoms? During the symptoms?

How do you know if you definetly have it?

Serious questions.

There is a small chance you can pass it on before you get symptoms but you are most contagious when you have the symptoms. "

This is where I am today - due to some twat who decided it would be funny to email people on my friends list saying I am self isolating for corona - I have since hidden all veri in the last 12 months.

I have not had symptoms since Thursday last week and that was a light cough, and the sore throat came Friday mornings.

I am being precautionary and it could just be a cold or flu but I don’t know because I can’t get tested. Which is crazy.

When is the time lines for getting it, when do we notify people - there is no guidance. The guidance says self isoloate - so that’s what I have done

Do people tell me if they have a std scare or waiting for results - no the use a condom

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

"PS: Hubei province has over 58 million people in it.

So 3000 died in a region of 58 million people ?

Correct!

But they literally imposed martial law and total lockdown. Won’t happen in the west so effect will be much more serious in terms of deaths."

No total lockdown in the west ??. Do you not keep up with the news ? Is Italy in the west ?. Other countries about to go into lockdown ?. Borders closed?. No flights ?

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Do I have to tell Tescos? Because aside from a board meeting at work on Friday and stroking a cat in the farmyard yesterday that's the only social interaction I've had in the last 5 days.

DD - Self Isolating since 2009

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't keep it a secret from anyone, if I get infected I'll self isolate and let people know why.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"we all tell each other we've had the flu virus so no difference really

I really don't think people do... Tell strangers that they were in the same room for more than 15 minutes, touching the same surfaces and not washing hands regularly (which i know for a fact people don't do it properly etc) then touching faces and maybe kissing if they had the flu which still can and does kill people. I visited Japan and can say our public hygiene isn't up to the standard it should be. "
if the flu has been and gone and youre not at the stage where you might infect someone with the common flu no need to say really but if you have the symptoms then generally its pretty obvious and we do, everyones sense of hygiene is different and maybe the Japanese have exceptional hygiene practices i don't know not been, i rarely get colds even when in the company of those that do

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