FabSwingers.com forum: Does size matter to you?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

And I’m not talking about cock size, that’s a whole other subject.

I’m talking about do you have a preference when it comes to body fat?

Do you go for athletic, slim, Average, chubby etc. And does it matter to you?

Obviously personality is much more important, I’m talking from a physical attraction point of view.

By the way, this is not a body shaming thread. So if you have nothing nice to say, don’t say it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am not attracted to very slim people. Male or female. I am also not attracted to obese people. Male or female

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like people

I’m attracted to people

I care not about their size

If someone wouldn’t want me larger, then I likely wouldn’t meet them at the size I am now.

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

I’m attracted to people who will sometimes share cake with me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

no i dont mind what dress size i literally go on look and personality literally..... no argument

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

I don't really have a preference, I like all sorts of body shapes and sizes. If I like you, I like you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like people

I’m attracted to people

I care not about their size

If someone wouldn’t want me larger, then I likely wouldn’t meet them at the size I am now.

Don’t you have to be physically attracted to someone though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think I have a preference, beauty comes in all shapes and sizes, personality and how a person holds themselves has a lot to do with how attracted I am to someone.

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By *eBornGeminiMan
over a year ago

Darlington

I am currently going to the gym to lose weight and tone up, my goal is 6 pack and V line.. currently I have lost nearly 23 pounds and still going strong..

Why am I doing this?

I believe the single most important thing is how YOU feel about YOURSELF... if someone doesn’t like you for who you are then they aren’t worth having in your life... wether slim, toned, large, curvy, big booty, small boobs, small dick etc etc

I have always wanted to be toned and fit but due to a major trauma in my life and medical reasons I wasn’t able/didn’t have the passion or drive to get it done... now my head is in the right place for ME and no one else... if they don’t like me, my mind, my look then I say bollocks to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a bit of a thing for slim guys but it's not a deal breaker, I'm attracted to people for all different reasons, it's too hard to pin down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am currently going to the gym to lose weight and tone up, my goal is 6 pack and V line.. currently I have lost nearly 23 pounds and still going strong..

Why am I doing this?

Couldn’t agree more. Doesn’t matter what anyone says about me if I’m not happy with myself it will make no difference whatsoever.

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By *nlyIfItsWorthItMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

The bigger the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think I have a preference, beauty comes in all shapes and sizes, personality and how a person holds themselves has a lot to do with how attracted I am to someone. "

This

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By *eBornGeminiMan
over a year ago

Darlington

"I am currently going to the gym to lose weight and tone up, my goal is 6 pack and V line.. currently I have lost nearly 23 pounds and still going strong..

Why am I doing this?

Couldn’t agree more. Doesn’t matter what anyone says about me if I’m not happy with myself it will make no difference whatsoever. "

Exactly, I am aiming to start joining clubs to meet new people but right at this moment I am not comfortable in my own body, what other people think is secondary at the minute, however nice and complimentary they or however welcoming they are I will always have that voice in my head telling me I’m not comfortable

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It should never be about body size or shape, it how they stimulate your mind.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I must be terribly shallow, I lean towards slim to average. Curvy is a shape, not a size..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer average to chunky men. And woman size 14+

Preferences are fine. I know I won't be to everyone's taste and I'm cool with that.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I do tend to go for the more solid man, I like a man to be able to grip me hard and throw me around, not being of the petite range he would have to be bigger than me to accomplish this so I guess I do have a type

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm usually attracted to personality more than anything, obviously there has to be some kind of visual attraction, but an "attractive" person could have an horrible personality and that would make them visually unattractive to me and vice versa, size doesn't matter one bit but having said that apparently according to friends, I do have "a type". Its been pointed out on more than one occasion by some of my more narrow minded "friends" that I like a bigger woman.

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By *om and JennieCouple
over a year ago

Chams or Socials

Me & T are complete opposites body wise. He is tall & slender whereas I am short & have put on a lot of weight. I worry about what people think of my body & why they would want to meet us. I have always had serious negative body issues even when slimmer.

I need a spark, a sense of humour & good conversation. If they have a nice body too then it’s a bonus

J x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It should never be about body size or shape, it how they stimulate your mind."

Not for me. I need both. Plus a whole lot more. Hence hardly meeting anyone as it’s hard to find. Just the way I am though.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By *tace 309TV/TS
over a year ago

durham

It's the person themselves that counts not what size shape or age they are

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

It's all about the person not their size.

Confidence plays its part, far more than size ever will.

If I like you then it's as simple as that....I like you and pretty much everything about you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I honestly dont care about there body size, if i like the person i like them there nothing else that matter, i don't care what others think of my choices because at the end of the day its about what makes me happy so long as that is all you focus upon what does it matter to anyone else

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

I'm generally not attracted to very slim or obese people but in reality it is not that simple.

Personality can change your initial decision as to attraction.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Prince is huge so I'm OK x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a larger than life personality.

If that comes in a slim package or a large package then I don't mind either way.

Being very large myself I understand I would not be everyone's cup of tea.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like tall men

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Nope, i’ve had all different shapes and heights as lovers.

I tend to go on their aura. Some people exude sexiness and that and a good sense of humour/good personality is what attracts me.

Although facially i tend to favour men who look like they’re rugged/outdoorsy/weathered.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I like tall men

In heels?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sexually attracted to the extremely skinny or the very overweight. If a person has a nice personality, and we get on then there's a good chance I'm interested.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Either extreme I've tended to not be attracted to. Generally though I'm more about that spark I have in someone and the passion I see in their eyes. Don't get me wrong, a nice low slung pair of boxers with a V on show and I'll be thinking about how quickly to remove them but overall it isn't so much about the body, more the person inside it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not attracted to any extreme. I like someone who obviously cares about their appearance. Personality doesn't come into it unless I find them attractive physically. I'm not looking for a soul mate. A good fucking is all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It should never be about body size or shape, it how they stimulate your mind."

Why shouldn't it? Many on here are simply looking for sex. Why shouldn't we pick our sex partners based on body size/ shape?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It should never be about body size or shape, it how they stimulate your mind.

Why shouldn't it? Many on here are simply looking for sex. Why shouldn't we pick our sex partners based on body size/ shape?"

I was talking from my perspective, everyone is different

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

"I'm not attracted to any extreme. I like someone who obviously cares about their appearance. Personality doesn't come into it unless I find them attractive physically. I'm not looking for a soul mate. A good fucking is all. "

Pretty much the same for me, shallow as it sounds.

If I was looking for a ltr it might be different....but not much!

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"It should never be about body size or shape, it how they stimulate your mind.

Why shouldn't it? Many on here are simply looking for sex. Why shouldn't we pick our sex partners based on body size/ shape?

I was talking from my perspective, everyone is different "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It should never be about body size or shape, it how they stimulate your mind.

Why shouldn't it? Many on here are simply looking for sex. Why shouldn't we pick our sex partners based on body size/ shape?

I was talking from my perspective, everyone is different "

That's not what you said though. So forgive me if I read what you actually wrote.

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

"Either extreme I've tended to not be attracted to. Generally though I'm more about that spark I have in someone and the passion I see in their eyes. Don't get me wrong, a nice low slung pair of boxers with a V on show and I'll be thinking about how quickly to remove them but overall it isn't so much about the body, more the person inside it."

Does V stand for Vagina?

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By *eBornGeminiMan
over a year ago

Darlington

If it’s a good fuck you are looking for how do you know the larger person isn’t going to give the best orgasm you have ever had??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like tall men

In heels?"

Oh definitely

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"I like tall men

In heels?

Oh definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If it’s a good fuck you are looking for how do you know the larger person isn’t going to give the best orgasm you have ever had?? "

Because I don't find them physically attractive so I wouldn't be into it at all. That's how.

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I definitely do.

Tall, slim (not skinny) toned (not overly) strong jaw line and good hands.

But.....I've met people who are nothing like that and been attracted to them and I've met people who are exactly that and not been attracted to them.

It's about chemistry, and intelligence and personality.

But for initial attraction then that's what I look for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It definitely doesn't. I find women of all sizes attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Attraction is a fickle thing. You think you know what you like and then boof! Along comes someone who doesn’t meet any of your criteria but is as hot as hell.

The only thing I’m sure of now if that the guy cannot be shorter than me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

All you people who say it doesn’t matter it’s about the person/personality (which I do find difficult to believe tbh) what about the face? Does that matter?

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Does V stand for Vagina?"

Yeah, I'm going back to women now. Far easier.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"And I’m not talking about cock size, that’s a whole other subject.

I’m talking about do you have a preference when it comes to body fat?

Do you go for athletic, slim, Average, chubby etc. And does it matter to you?

Obviously personality is much more important, I’m talking from a physical attraction point of view.

By the way, this is not a body shaming thread. So if you have nothing nice to say, don’t say it.

Oops I thought you meant cock Prince has a big one

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Tend to be attracted to bigger than average when looking at pics , curvy, solid, voluptuous. In real life body size doesn’t make the slightest bit of difference to chemistry, it’s eyes, smile, personality.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All you people who say it doesn’t matter it’s about the person/personality (which I do find difficult to believe tbh) what about the face? Does that matter?"

A bit of both, I meant I find them attractive sexually. But personality also comes into play, especially since a lot of conventionally attractive people are known to not have much of a personality anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All you people who say it doesn’t matter it’s about the person/personality (which I do find difficult to believe tbh) what about the face? Does that matter?

Yes both. That’s what I said. I find it difficult to believe that physical and/or facial attraction doesn’t come into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All you people who say it doesn’t matter it’s about the person/personality (which I do find difficult to believe tbh) what about the face? Does that matter?

Have you been turned down by a lot of conventionally attractive people???

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By *dam1971Man
over a year ago

Bedford

"Attraction is a fickle thing. You think you know what you like and then boof! Along comes someone who doesn’t meet any of your criteria but is as hot as hell.

The only thing I’m sure of now if that the guy cannot be shorter than me...

I’m shorter than you if I’m on my knees in front of your naked body, if that’s any help

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a guy had a really handsome face and was loved all the same things as me and wanted to be exclusive to me yet he was carrying a few extra lbs and slightly overweight, I’d snap him up...and then get him in shape.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All you people who say it doesn’t matter it’s about the person/personality (which I do find difficult to believe tbh) what about the face? Does that matter?

Have you been turned down by a lot of conventionally attractive people???

Not really, I do pretty well. I meant conversationally for instance.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

"All you people who say it doesn’t matter it’s about the person/personality (which I do find difficult to believe tbh) what about the face? Does that matter?"

Depends. My idea of good looking is not necessarily conventionally good looking.

I find Paul Kaye attractive and i found John Candy attractive. It’s that “something” that gives them that fwoar factor.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"All you people who say it doesn’t matter it’s about the person/personality (which I do find difficult to believe tbh) what about the face? Does that matter?

Depends. My idea of good looking is not necessarily conventionally good looking.

I find Paul Kaye attractive and i found John Candy attractive. It’s that “something” that gives them that fwoar factor. "

I agree. Neither is mine. I don’t see anything good looking about George clooney for example. That’s not what i mean though. Surely the person had to be facially and physically attractive to you is what I mean, not just have a great personality.

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

I am rather patial to tall men, but that's not set in stone.

I also rather like curvy ladies.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a type but that doesn't mean that's the only type im attracted to. A person can look great but have no depth to them and whether it's just one-off sex or not im turned off by that. Arrogance is also a massive turn off even if it comes in a pretty box.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

If it was just about personality then I'd get to more more nice people.

But its about the whole package for most of the people on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My attraction is to someones face, their body type is very unimportant if their face is one I like and they are a nice person that I can get on with

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

No preference body shape and size wise. Mind, personality then face physical attraction in that order

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"No preference body shape and size wise. Mind, personality then face physical attraction in that order"

Damn. 2 out of 3 again. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not really.

It doesn't really feature on my list of requirements as such.

Facial attraction first, without that then it's a no.

Personality overall is the biggest part of it, I dont fuck just based on looks. I also wont fuck based on just a personality, if I dont fancy the face then no amount of personality can make me want to take it further.

If I fancy your face and personality then bodyshape/size is largely irrelevant.

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