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"I like people I’m attracted to people I care not about their size If someone wouldn’t want me larger, then I likely wouldn’t meet them at the size I am now. " Don’t you have to be physically attracted to someone though? | |||
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"I am currently going to the gym to lose weight and tone up, my goal is 6 pack and V line.. currently I have lost nearly 23 pounds and still going strong.. Why am I doing this? I believe the single most important thing is how YOU feel about YOURSELF... if someone doesn’t like you for who you are then they aren’t worth having in your life... wether slim, toned, large, curvy, big booty, small boobs, small dick etc etc I have always wanted to be toned and fit but due to a major trauma in my life and medical reasons I wasn’t able/didn’t have the passion or drive to get it done... now my head is in the right place for ME and no one else... if they don’t like me, my mind, my look then I say bollocks to them " Couldn’t agree more. Doesn’t matter what anyone says about me if I’m not happy with myself it will make no difference whatsoever. | |||
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"I don't think I have a preference, beauty comes in all shapes and sizes, personality and how a person holds themselves has a lot to do with how attracted I am to someone. " This | |||
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"I am currently going to the gym to lose weight and tone up, my goal is 6 pack and V line.. currently I have lost nearly 23 pounds and still going strong.. Why am I doing this? I believe the single most important thing is how YOU feel about YOURSELF... if someone doesn’t like you for who you are then they aren’t worth having in your life... wether slim, toned, large, curvy, big booty, small boobs, small dick etc etc I have always wanted to be toned and fit but due to a major trauma in my life and medical reasons I wasn’t able/didn’t have the passion or drive to get it done... now my head is in the right place for ME and no one else... if they don’t like me, my mind, my look then I say bollocks to them Couldn’t agree more. Doesn’t matter what anyone says about me if I’m not happy with myself it will make no difference whatsoever. " Exactly, I am aiming to start joining clubs to meet new people but right at this moment I am not comfortable in my own body, what other people think is secondary at the minute, however nice and complimentary they or however welcoming they are I will always have that voice in my head telling me I’m not comfortable | |||
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"It should never be about body size or shape, it how they stimulate your mind." Not for me. I need both. Plus a whole lot more. Hence hardly meeting anyone as it’s hard to find. Just the way I am though. | |||
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"I like tall men " In heels? | |||
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"It should never be about body size or shape, it how they stimulate your mind." Why shouldn't it? Many on here are simply looking for sex. Why shouldn't we pick our sex partners based on body size/ shape? | |||
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"It should never be about body size or shape, it how they stimulate your mind. Why shouldn't it? Many on here are simply looking for sex. Why shouldn't we pick our sex partners based on body size/ shape?" I was talking from my perspective, everyone is different | |||
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"I'm not attracted to any extreme. I like someone who obviously cares about their appearance. Personality doesn't come into it unless I find them attractive physically. I'm not looking for a soul mate. A good fucking is all. " Pretty much the same for me, shallow as it sounds. If I was looking for a ltr it might be different....but not much! | |||
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"It should never be about body size or shape, it how they stimulate your mind. Why shouldn't it? Many on here are simply looking for sex. Why shouldn't we pick our sex partners based on body size/ shape? I was talking from my perspective, everyone is different " | |||
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"It should never be about body size or shape, it how they stimulate your mind. Why shouldn't it? Many on here are simply looking for sex. Why shouldn't we pick our sex partners based on body size/ shape? I was talking from my perspective, everyone is different " That's not what you said though. So forgive me if I read what you actually wrote. | |||
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"Either extreme I've tended to not be attracted to. Generally though I'm more about that spark I have in someone and the passion I see in their eyes. Don't get me wrong, a nice low slung pair of boxers with a V on show and I'll be thinking about how quickly to remove them but overall it isn't so much about the body, more the person inside it." Does V stand for Vagina? | |||
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"I like tall men In heels? Oh definitely " | |||
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"If it’s a good fuck you are looking for how do you know the larger person isn’t going to give the best orgasm you have ever had?? " Because I don't find them physically attractive so I wouldn't be into it at all. That's how. | |||
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"Either extreme I've tended to not be attracted to. Generally though I'm more about that spark I have in someone and the passion I see in their eyes. Don't get me wrong, a nice low slung pair of boxers with a V on show and I'll be thinking about how quickly to remove them but overall it isn't so much about the body, more the person inside it. Does V stand for Vagina?" Yeah, I'm going back to women now. Far easier. | |||
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"And I’m not talking about cock size, that’s a whole other subject. I’m talking about do you have a preference when it comes to body fat? Do you go for athletic, slim, Average, chubby etc. And does it matter to you? Obviously personality is much more important, I’m talking from a physical attraction point of view. By the way, this is not a body shaming thread. So if you have nothing nice to say, don’t say it. " Oops I thought you meant cock Prince has a big one | |||
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"All you people who say it doesn’t matter it’s about the person/personality (which I do find difficult to believe tbh) what about the face? Does that matter?" A bit of both, I meant I find them attractive sexually. But personality also comes into play, especially since a lot of conventionally attractive people are known to not have much of a personality anyway. | |||
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"All you people who say it doesn’t matter it’s about the person/personality (which I do find difficult to believe tbh) what about the face? Does that matter? A bit of both, I meant I find them attractive sexually. But personality also comes into play, especially since a lot of conventionally attractive people are known to not have much of a personality anyway. " Yes both. That’s what I said. I find it difficult to believe that physical and/or facial attraction doesn’t come into it. | |||
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"All you people who say it doesn’t matter it’s about the person/personality (which I do find difficult to believe tbh) what about the face? Does that matter? A bit of both, I meant I find them attractive sexually. But personality also comes into play, especially since a lot of conventionally attractive people are known to not have much of a personality anyway. " Have you been turned down by a lot of conventionally attractive people??? | |||
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"Attraction is a fickle thing. You think you know what you like and then boof! Along comes someone who doesn’t meet any of your criteria but is as hot as hell. The only thing I’m sure of now if that the guy cannot be shorter than me... " I’m shorter than you if I’m on my knees in front of your naked body, if that’s any help | |||
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"All you people who say it doesn’t matter it’s about the person/personality (which I do find difficult to believe tbh) what about the face? Does that matter? A bit of both, I meant I find them attractive sexually. But personality also comes into play, especially since a lot of conventionally attractive people are known to not have much of a personality anyway. Have you been turned down by a lot of conventionally attractive people??? " Not really, I do pretty well. I meant conversationally for instance. | |||
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"All you people who say it doesn’t matter it’s about the person/personality (which I do find difficult to believe tbh) what about the face? Does that matter?" Depends. My idea of good looking is not necessarily conventionally good looking. I find Paul Kaye attractive and i found John Candy attractive. It’s that “something” that gives them that fwoar factor. | |||
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"All you people who say it doesn’t matter it’s about the person/personality (which I do find difficult to believe tbh) what about the face? Does that matter? Depends. My idea of good looking is not necessarily conventionally good looking. I find Paul Kaye attractive and i found John Candy attractive. It’s that “something” that gives them that fwoar factor. " I agree. Neither is mine. I don’t see anything good looking about George clooney for example. That’s not what i mean though. Surely the person had to be facially and physically attractive to you is what I mean, not just have a great personality. | |||
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"No preference body shape and size wise. Mind, personality then face physical attraction in that order" Damn. 2 out of 3 again. Lol | |||
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