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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Have any of the women on here ever had bleeding appear the day after?

My female FWB likes it really hard, but said that with a previous she used to bleed the day after as he did it so hard. In her words, it took it to another level

I’m wondering what a man has to do

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Not do that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not do that

But she said she enjoyed it

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Not do that

But she said she enjoyed it

Well don't know then can't help you sorry

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not do that

But she said she enjoyed it

Well don't know then can't help you sorry

No worries thank you anyway

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

"Not do that

But she said she enjoyed it

Well don't know then can't help you sorry

No worries thank you anyway "
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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Bleeding after sex can be a sign of cervical cancer and she should be checked by a doctor.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Bleeding after sex can be a sign of cervical cancer and she should be checked by a doctor. "

It’s not happening now, I make sure she’s really turned on and normally have her orgasm before I penetrate.

It was with an ex she had, I just wondered how it came about. I mean I don’t think there was much fore play but it just seems a bit weird. I’m not huge, over 7 inch but I may need to buy a bath mate and see what’s up lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Umless he was big and caused her skin to tear then I dont think there should be blood x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not do that

But she said she enjoyed it

Well don't know then can't help you sorry

No worries thank you anyway "

What contraception does she use? I have coil and sometimes it causes me to bleed..... not always worst case senario but should get checked out to alay fear

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Think she said it was cervix

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why would you want to make someone bleed?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not do that

But she said she enjoyed it

Well don't know then can't help you sorry

No worries thank you anyway

What contraception does she use? I have coil and sometimes it causes me to bleed..... not always worst case senario but should get checked out to alay fear"

She doesn’t use any

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

It's not normal to bleed after sex she ought to get checked out

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

Heavy fingering can cause it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Bleeding after sex can be a sign of cervical cancer and she should be checked by a doctor. "

Ditto

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why would you want to make someone bleed?"

When she spoke of it I winced, she went on to say it took it to another level. I just assume in terms of pleasure. She said it was normally the day or so after she’d get blood.

She went to the docs abd they said it’s fine the cervix or whatever sometimes does that it’s quite normal.

I dunno, it’s left me curious because of course I want to be the best that I can.

Like, I want to be the one that takes you to another level. I’m too proud to admit it to her but it makes me feel a bit lacking.

Clearly I don’t want to hurt anyone though

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

She went to the docs and they said it’s fine the cervix or whatever sometimes does that it’s quite normal.

I don't believe a doctor would say this. Bleeding after sex is always investigated further.

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

She went to the docs and they said it’s fine the cervix or whatever sometimes does that it’s quite normal.

I don't believe a doctor would say this. Bleeding after sex is always investigated further. "

When I had this a few years ago, I was referred to a gynaecologist. Everything turned out fine, but they did investigate it thoroughly.

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

Pleased it turned out fine for you Jessie.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve ached intensely for a couple of days but never bled. That isn’t normal OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bleeding after sex can be a sign of Chlamydia or pelvic inflammatory disease she needs a full sexual health screen if she's not had one.

I've bled from bad fingering. Or a previous partner of mine was ridiculously huge and when he got too excited and just went for it he would made me bleed. I was aware these were the reasons though as I had been fully screened and examined.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have any of the women on here ever had bleeding appear the day after?

My female FWB likes it really hard, but said that with a previous she used to bleed the day after as he did it so hard. In her words, it took it to another level

I’m wondering what a man has to do

If she has post coital or breakthrough bleeding she may have an erosion in her cervix which is treatable with cauterisation. She needs a wee check up at her GPs.

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By *an For YouMan
over a year ago

belfast/holywood

Something is not right there

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

"Pleased it turned out fine for you Jessie. "

Yes I’m glad they checked it all out though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would you want to make someone bleed?

When she spoke of it I winced, she went on to say it took it to another level. I just assume in terms of pleasure. She said it was normally the day or so after she’d get blood.

She went to the docs abd they said it’s fine the cervix or whatever sometimes does that it’s quite normal.

I dunno, it’s left me curious because of course I want to be the best that I can.

Like, I want to be the one that takes you to another level. I’m too proud to admit it to her but it makes me feel a bit lacking.

Clearly I don’t want to hurt anyone though "

You seem naive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Heavy fingering can cause it.

Mine are quite light

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have had bleeding after sex but due to my contraception moving after fisting

Like others have said it can be a sign of infections, cervical cancer, and contraception problems if its after penetration not foreplay (unless insertables are used).

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By *he riverdeep69Couple
over a year ago

North west ish

"Have any of the women on here ever had bleeding appear the day after?

My female FWB likes it really hard, but said that with a previous she used to bleed the day after as he did it so hard. In her words, it took it to another level

I’m wondering what a man has to do

If she has post coital or breakthrough bleeding she may have an erosion in her cervix which is treatable with cauterisation. She needs a wee check up at her GPs. "

This. Definitely need to get it checked out. Bleeding after sex is not ok.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have had bleeding after sex but due to my contraception moving after fishing

Why did he hope to catch down there ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd also be more pissed off than pleased if I bled after sex everytime

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Have had bleeding after sex but due to my contraception moving after fishing

Why did he hope to catch down there ?"

Crabs ?

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

"Bleeding after sex can be a sign of cervical cancer and she should be checked by a doctor.

It’s not happening now, I make sure she’s really turned on and normally have her orgasm before I penetrate.

Has she been checked for up to date sti check as open wounds can be suspectible to all sorts.. Hope you guys are playing safe sex from knowing this?

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

She should of got the bleeding checked out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have had bleeding after sex but due to my contraception moving after fishing

Why did he hope to catch down there ?

Crabs ?"

Probably

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have had bleeding after sex but due to my contraception moving after fishing

Why did he hope to catch down there ?"

Not a mirena coil anyway!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why would you want to make someone bleed?

When she spoke of it I winced, she went on to say it took it to another level. I just assume in terms of pleasure. She said it was normally the day or so after she’d get blood.

She went to the docs abd they said it’s fine the cervix or whatever sometimes does that it’s quite normal.

I dunno, it’s left me curious because of course I want to be the best that I can.

Like, I want to be the one that takes you to another level. I’m too proud to admit it to her but it makes me feel a bit lacking.

Clearly I don’t want to hurt anyone though

You seem naive"

Perhaps I am, but can you help me and explain ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have any of the women on here ever had bleeding appear the day after?

My female FWB likes it really hard, but said that with a previous she used to bleed the day after as he did it so hard. In her words, it took it to another level

I’m wondering what a man has to do

That happens to me too, if the sex is really rough, it doesn't add to it for me though, it's just inconvenient.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have any of the women on here ever had bleeding appear the day after?

My female FWB likes it really hard, but said that with a previous she used to bleed the day after as he did it so hard. In her words, it took it to another level

I’m wondering what a man has to do

Ehhhhmmmm no

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have any of the women on here ever had bleeding appear the day after?

My female FWB likes it really hard, but said that with a previous she used to bleed the day after as he did it so hard. In her words, it took it to another level

I’m wondering what a man has to do

That happens to me too, if the sex is really rough, it doesn't add to it for me though, it's just inconvenient."

Ok thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Have any of the women on here ever had bleeding appear the day after?

My female FWB likes it really hard, but said that with a previous she used to bleed the day after as he did it so hard. In her words, it took it to another level

I’m wondering what a man has to do

Ehhhhmmmm no"

Doesn’t seem like a clever move does it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ALWAYS investigate bleeding after sex. Thank goodness i did years ago! Please tell her to see a professional, even if it turns out to be nothing. Better safe than sorry. Nikki x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If she up to date with smears etc could be sumat simple.... If is still happening get checked out is the overwhelming advice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would you want to make someone bleed?

When she spoke of it I winced, she went on to say it took it to another level. I just assume in terms of pleasure. She said it was normally the day or so after she’d get blood.

She went to the docs abd they said it’s fine the cervix or whatever sometimes does that it’s quite normal.

I dunno, it’s left me curious because of course I want to be the best that I can.

Like, I want to be the one that takes you to another level. I’m too proud to admit it to her but it makes me feel a bit lacking.

Clearly I don’t want to hurt anyone though

You seem naive

Perhaps I am, but can you help me and explain ?"

You’re wanting to make people bleed so you can be the best. That’s how it reads to me, anyway.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just to be clear, again, she got checked, she’s fine. It wasn’t me it was a previous

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why would you want to make someone bleed?

When she spoke of it I winced, she went on to say it took it to another level. I just assume in terms of pleasure. She said it was normally the day or so after she’d get blood.

She went to the docs abd they said it’s fine the cervix or whatever sometimes does that it’s quite normal.

I dunno, it’s left me curious because of course I want to be the best that I can.

Like, I want to be the one that takes you to another level. I’m too proud to admit it to her but it makes me feel a bit lacking.

Clearly I don’t want to hurt anyone though

You seem naive

Perhaps I am, but can you help me and explain ?

You’re wanting to make people bleed so you can be the best. That’s how it reads to me, anyway. "

No, but I see what you’re saying

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London

"Just to be clear, again, she got checked, she’s fine. It wasn’t me it was a previous

I can’t see any reason why you would aspire to making a woman bleed internally, regardless as to what happened with another partner. If it’s not happening with you I’d be happy that that’s the case and just enjoy each other as much as you can. Trying to emulates the actions of a previous lover will inevitably prove fruitless and frustrating. Just be yourself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just to be clear, again, she got checked, she’s fine. It wasn’t me it was a previous

Thank you

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

"Just to be clear, again, she got checked, she’s fine. "

You said she didn't need to get checked as the doctor told her it was normal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why would you want to make someone bleed?

When she spoke of it I winced, she went on to say it took it to another level. I just assume in terms of pleasure. She said it was normally the day or so after she’d get blood.

She went to the docs abd they said it’s fine the cervix or whatever sometimes does that it’s quite normal.

I dunno, it’s left me curious because of course I want to be the best that I can.

Like, I want to be the one that takes you to another level. I’m too proud to admit it to her but it makes me feel a bit lacking.

Clearly I don’t want to hurt anyone though

You seem naive

Perhaps I am, but can you help me and explain ?

You’re wanting to make people bleed so you can be the best. That’s how it reads to me, anyway. "

I disagree, it sounds like he is trying to explain that he finds it a bit hurtful that She measures a good seeing to, by whether she bled afterwards, and he has taken a bashing to the ego as a result.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Why would you want to make someone bleed?

When she spoke of it I winced, she went on to say it took it to another level. I just assume in terms of pleasure. She said it was normally the day or so after she’d get blood.

She went to the docs abd they said it’s fine the cervix or whatever sometimes does that it’s quite normal.

I dunno, it’s left me curious because of course I want to be the best that I can.

Like, I want to be the one that takes you to another level. I’m too proud to admit it to her but it makes me feel a bit lacking.

Clearly I don’t want to hurt anyone though

You seem naive

Perhaps I am, but can you help me and explain ?

You’re wanting to make people bleed so you can be the best. That’s how it reads to me, anyway.

To be honest, yes that’s right.

I’m not sure if it was;

1) Really hard and fast tempo with little for play, and so good fun at the time from her view but resulted in bleeding from cervix the day or so after

2) She simply wants to play a bit of a mind game as I’m enthusiastic.

On balance I think I’ll swerve her going forwards because;

1) that style isn’t something I aspire to, it’s not really my personality to just pile drive, ok now and again but not regular.

2) If that is her aspiration then to me it indicates a narcissism as does the way it was said, a preference for intensity rather than intimacy, and my personality craves intimacy.

3) I really wouldn’t want to injure someone, hard form fast once priory lubed, yes absolutely but not damage. After all I want for myself and any partner to be left wanting more, not convalescence

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