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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you guys and girls think it’s rude to leave someone on read I do and it happens entirely too often

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

If they’re interested they’ll message back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There could be a whole host of reaons whynyour message has not been read.

Some women get over 100 messages per day and sometimes just don't have the time to look at them all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it rude? Did they ask you to mail them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Folk have a life off here. So

No i dont i sometimes chat forums only or phones online when actually im busy

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

It's one of the Fab facts of life.

I don't personally think it's rude not to answer. I don't answer every message. That's my choice.

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

When someone clearly hasn't read my profile & is completely incompatible with what I'm looking for, I don't just leave unread, I delete.

I don't have time to explain why I don't want to know, because it happens daily, multiple times. God knows what it must be like for the young attractive women on here!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No because I have a life too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry but I do this too when I plan on getting back to them but can’t do right atm.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's so easy to delete an email which shows you're not interested I'm surprised more don't do it.

I've emailed a few couples, only 20% have deleted, the rest have read and not replied so I don't know if they're interested in meeting in the future or not.

I was a member of another swinging site years ago, one couple read an email I sent them and two years later decided to reply asking to meet me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Without giving away too many secrets, we sometimes wait until the person who has mailed is offline, read their message and then mark it as unread

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if you don’t get a reply, they’re not interested, just delete what’s in your sent box and the stress and worry will disappear

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

Why worry about it, just move on. Maybe they’re using the forums or chatrooms that day and not even looking at messages.

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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Not as rude as stalking their inbox

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Do you guys and girls think it’s rude to leave someone on read I do and it happens entirely too often "

When you get 300+ messages per day is it surprising? It's not intentional but if you haven't got a secretary it's impossible

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By *lint-EverhardMan
over a year ago

Perpignan and cap

Un read?

Maybe they can't read it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not duty bound to reply to every message

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

No I don't think it's rude, I'd assume they weren't interested and move on.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

Are you sending anything worth reading, OP? If not you don't have anything to complain about.

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By *winger212Woman
over a year ago

Live in spain

9 out of 10 of my messages are asking for me to play where in fact my whole bio says I watch men fuck men.

I still however reply back to every single 1 with a thanks but no but that's my choice as I hate not getting a reply on a dating site I use and know how it makes me feel so I wouldn't do it to people in here either as not everyone reads a profile but looks at pictures

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Afraid you will have to get over it op

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