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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, I've got a problem that a lot people would kill for. I find it very difficult to gain weight. I'm normally about 85kg, I've managed to get to 88kg. My goal is 100kg.

I'm trying to get a bulkier but leaner look.

I know I need to eat more. But what kind of meals can I eat to gain weight but not intake loads of fat?

I'm a complete beginner so any advice would be nice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like you as you are

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By *iss KissWoman
over a year ago

near Coventry

Ah. I used to be like you. I did solve the problem. But alas you can't do it. I had a baby.

I tried for years to put on weight. You look fine to me. Just right. I was always being asked if i was anorexic.

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By *ildatheart6969Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Carbs will make you gain weight. But try not to burn them off and slob instead.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like you as you are "

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By *nlyIfItsWorthItMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

To gain weight, do less activity.

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By *ottielayWoman
over a year ago

by the bay

Lots and lots of pasta

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By *enn68Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

I have same problem can not put on wieght I have high metabolism and a burn calories when I sleep ,there is the skinny survivor in IG good tips

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like you as you are "

Thank you. I kind of want to be the same shape, just a bit bigger if that makes sense

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By *edVelveteenCouple
over a year ago

Heaven in the Midlands

A diet to gain weight is as complicated as a diet to lose weight. I'd seek a nutritionists advice.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have same problem can not put on wieght I have high metabolism and a burn calories when I sleep ,there is the skinny survivor in IG good tips "

I'm the same. Doesn't matter how much or how little exercise I do, I just seem to hover around the same weight

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By *r_Jake70Man
over a year ago

London


"A diet to gain weight is as complicated as a diet to lose weight. I'd seek a nutritionists advice."

Huge quantities of protein. You’ll build muscle and put on weight without looking like a fat bastard like me. 100kg is pretty heavy for a guy of your height.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A diet to gain weight is as complicated as a diet to lose weight. I'd seek a nutritionists advice.

Huge quantities of protein. You’ll build muscle and put on weight without looking like a fat bastard like me. 100kg is pretty heavy for a guy of your height. "

I'm aiming for 100kg. But if I get to say 95kg and like the results then I'll stop there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I like you as you are

Thank you. I kind of want to be the same shape, just a bit bigger if that makes sense"

It does but......I still like you as you are

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

I think like cheeky. Your sexy the way you are

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think like cheeky. Your sexy the way you are "

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A clean bulk is hard to do that’s why they have protein shakes.

You’d probably benefit from casein whey protein cos it’s normally slightly higher in calories yet still low sugar and standard 24grams of protein.

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By *ustme34Man
over a year ago

Bradford


"So, I've got a problem that a lot people would kill for. I find it very difficult to gain weight. I'm normally about 85kg, I've managed to get to 88kg. My goal is 100kg.

I'm trying to get a bulkier but leaner look.

I know I need to eat more. But what kind of meals can I eat to gain weight but not intake loads of fat?

I'm a complete beginner so any advice would be nice "
have some of mine I'm trying g to lose some and struggling

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"A clean bulk is hard to do that’s why they have protein shakes.

You’d probably benefit from casein whey protein cos it’s normally slightly higher in calories yet still low sugar and standard 24grams of protein. "

Protein shakes always make me feel bloated and abit sick. Trying to stick to food rather than supplements

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lean protein sources, wholegrain carbs, good fats, plenty of fruit and veg.

250 calories a day surplus is all you need, as you get heavier you'll need to increase calories.

Lift heavy and often, be consistent, track calories.

12kg of lean tissue is a shed load of muscle.

Youre looking at a few years to gain that without turning into mr Bobby.

100kg at 5'11" is big, I'm 6'2" at 110kg and I'm a big un

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By *enn68Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Why do "want" to be 100kg ?

Becarfull of protein intake if body is overloaded it wont process it and will turn to fat or you will just urinate it out so a waste of time and money takes a long time to bulk properly very strict food and training correctly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Lift heavy and eat loads. Smaller meals but more often throughout the day. You can also get mass gainer protein shakes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Why do "want" to be 100kg ?

Becarfull of protein intake if body is overloaded it wont process it and will turn to fat or you will just urinate it out so a waste of time and money takes a long time to bulk properly very strict food and training correctly. "

100kg is the maximum, I should have said that rather than goal

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lean protein sources, wholegrain carbs, good fats, plenty of fruit and veg.

250 calories a day surplus is all you need, as you get heavier you'll need to increase calories.

Lift heavy and often, be consistent, track calories.

12kg of lean tissue is a shed load of muscle.

Youre looking at a few years to gain that without turning into mr Bobby.

100kg at 5'11" is big, I'm 6'2" at 110kg and I'm a big un"

What do you mean by good fats? Like what you find in fish?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Lean protein sources, wholegrain carbs, good fats, plenty of fruit and veg.

250 calories a day surplus is all you need, as you get heavier you'll need to increase calories.

Lift heavy and often, be consistent, track calories.

12kg of lean tissue is a shed load of muscle.

Youre looking at a few years to gain that without turning into mr Bobby.

100kg at 5'11" is big, I'm 6'2" at 110kg and I'm a big un

What do you mean by good fats? Like what you find in fish?"

Oily fish, avocado, extra virgin olive oil, all good sources

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think there is anything wrong with your weight, pics look good to me

Hubby is the same weight and he is 6ft 2. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those tins of mackerel in evoo is what I used to eat a lot of when I was flat out training.

Fanny used to kick off a right pong.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Those tins of mackerel in evoo is what I used to eat a lot of when I was flat out training.

Fanny used to kick off a right pong. "

I usually get mackerel fillets but everyone in the office moaned

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Lean protein sources, wholegrain carbs, good fats, plenty of fruit and veg.

250 calories a day surplus is all you need, as you get heavier you'll need to increase calories.

Lift heavy and often, be consistent, track calories.

12kg of lean tissue is a shed load of muscle.

Youre looking at a few years to gain that without turning into mr Bobby.

100kg at 5'11" is big, I'm 6'2" at 110kg and I'm a big un

What do you mean by good fats? Like what you find in fish?

Oily fish, avocado, extra virgin olive oil, all good sources"

Thank you

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By *DreamOfGenieWoman
over a year ago

London

You're welcome to some of mine - plenty going spare on my arse

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

Eggs, chicken, steak, 4 meals a day, fresh raw veg and salads, simple carbs to keep you going. Lots of water. Stay off too much wheat, it'll slow you down.

Heavy weights, floor work, even yoga for developing your core strength, then build on that.

I reckon even 5kg on you will be a significant (and more achievable) difference, if that's what'll make you happy

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"Lean protein sources, wholegrain carbs, good fats, plenty of fruit and veg.

250 calories a day surplus is all you need, as you get heavier you'll need to increase calories.

Lift heavy and often, be consistent, track calories.

12kg of lean tissue is a shed load of muscle.

Youre looking at a few years to gain that without turning into mr Bobby.

100kg at 5'11" is big, I'm 6'2" at 110kg and I'm a big un"

2_ 3 kg of lean muscle in a year is plausible first year beyond that its prob fat

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Really ?

I did when I was younger, just cut cardio to the min, and train really heavy 2-3 times a week max with plenty of rest and sleep.

Look up progressive resistance training, if you do this the eating required will happen naturally

It’s not healthy though, if you eat healthily be keep active you ate the weight and shape you are meant to be

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Foodstuff high in protein. Peanut butter, natural yoghurt, cottage cheese, unsalted nuts. Full fat milk is good also. All cheap, tasty and hopefully will do the trick.

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By *2000ManMan
over a year ago

Worthing

Tuna as well!

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"Foodstuff high in protein. Peanut butter, natural yoghurt, cottage cheese, unsalted nuts. Full fat milk is good also. All cheap, tasty and hopefully will do the trick."

That’s true but unless you are progressively ripping and repairing with deep sleep you can’t physically eat enough to gain muscle

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