FabSwingers.com forum: Young women with older men

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Would younger women actually want a relationship with a much older guy??

What age gap is deemed acceptable??

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By *ewrocksWoman
over a year ago

button moon

17 yrs between me and ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age dont count at all . Bank accounts do.

Fact of life guys.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Age dont count at all . Bank accounts do.

Fact of life guys."

I don't think many are that shallow

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

"Age dont count at all . Bank accounts do.

Fact of life guys."

Well I'm as poor as a church mouse and Tina is hot and ten years younger than me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Age dont count at all . Bank accounts do.

Fact of life guys.

Well I'm as poor as a church mouse and Tina is hot and ten years younger than me

And very sexy too.

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

My previous lover was 15 years older. He was a kinky sod and an amazing kisser. Age gap was never an issue for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age dont count at all . Bank accounts do.

Fact of life guys."

You sound like my dear friend Meli

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

DAted 16 yrs younger (amateur body builder 4th in County) and 16 yrs older.. My daughters father.

Age is irrelevant. The persons were lovely to me.

Ex 5 yrs older was an utter abusive twunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It would come down to maturity for me and where we are in life.....interests etc. I'm passed clubbing every single weekend but most of the younger girls are still really keen for this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It would come down to maturity for me and where we are in life.....interests etc. I'm passed clubbing every single weekend but most of the younger girls are still really keen for this."

I’m secretly an old man in disguise. Been clubbing once.

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

I had a two year relationship with a woman 20 years younger than me. I never, ever thought about the age gap when we were together. It’s about the individuals and what they’re comfortable with, I don’t actually care what others thought about it.

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By *edmark07Man
over a year ago

liverpool

I love this in a porn setting especially the younger girl seducing an older man but in real life I'd be too self conscious I think. I've had fab meets 20 yrs younger but not a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they do and I’m all for it but 28 is my cap

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By *rjimMan
over a year ago

nr bristol

Just look at the media situation.

Young good looking women with older guys...they would not look at if they had no money or power to progress their so called careers.

Gold diggers.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"Would younger women actually want a relationship with a much older guy??

What age gap is deemed acceptable?? "

Some would, some wouldn't. I personally wouldn't go for someone with too much of an age difference to myself but I'm not interested in relationships full stop so I guess it's irrelevant lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For a sexual meet, I wouldnt have a lower age limit (legally obviously) but for a relationship, probably no more than 15 years....this might go up as I get older though?

Even on the other side (older women) I dont think I'd have an upper age limit for a sexual meet. Not sure I'd have a relationship with an older lady now though?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sorry...I should say, I would have an upper age limit!!

Would probably be 65/70 if they took care of their body.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There was a guy that lives local to me who was filthy rich in his 40s he was sleeping with a 16 year old still at school she fell pregnant and dropped out of school he had 2 children with here and once she turned 22 he ditched her and got with a 17 year old she spent get preg and once she was 20 he ditched her and slept with several girls not women under 20.

He then got with another young woman in here early 20s he was now in his 50s and got her pregnant then ditched her he is now 61 and just married a 25 year old.

I cant believe for one moment they where wit him for anything but money he has had several face lifts and dies his hair but drives a fancy car and owns a holiday park.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I love older guys but I have my limit x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

15 year age gap between myself & hubby. It makes absolutely no difference at all, and I take great offence to outsiders passing judgement. No body has the right to have opinions on other peoples relationships.

Be kind & live life to the fullest I say.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

"Age dont count at all . Bank accounts do.

Fact of life guys.

I don't think many are that shallow "

A lot of men are

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By *ent_couple2019Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

I (Cheri) have actually always preferred older men.

10 year age gap between S and I

Also been with much old.

Sad situation when money is involved. However both parties are usually aware. Whatever works for them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the maturity of both in question. If the maturity and mindset matches, that’s a match.

However, for me, I’m still yet to meet someone younger than me who has taken my fancy (other than a physical/sensual sense).

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By *edmark07Man
over a year ago

liverpool

"I love older guys but I have my limit x"

Puts hand in the air

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I (Cheri) have actually always preferred older men.

10 year age gap between S and I

Also been with much old.

Sad situation when money is involved. However both parties are usually aware. Whatever works for them. "

Wow what a lucky guy he is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"15 year age gap between myself & hubby. It makes absolutely no difference at all, and I take great offence to outsiders passing judgement. No body has the right to have opinions on other peoples relationships.

Be kind & live life to the fullest I say.

So nice to see x

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Age dont count at all . Bank accounts do.

Fact of life guys.

You sound like my dear friend Meli "

I feel seen right now.

*My partner is considerably older than me, I love him for him. Age doesn't seem that important when he makes me as happy as he does.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

Flagrante

"Age dont count at all . Bank accounts do.

Fact of life guys."

Flik is 10 years younger than me but also at least 10 times wealthier so not sure your theory holds water.

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

"Age dont count at all . Bank accounts do.

Fact of life guys.

Flik is 10 years younger than me but also at least 10 times wealthier so not sure your theory holds water."

I’m the same my partner is five years younger but much more wealthy than my broke ass.

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

The wealth thing isn’t just about younger/older though. I’m sure many couples of a similar age are together because one of them is perceived to be wealthy. No-one is bothered by that are they?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"The wealth thing isn’t just about younger/older though. I’m sure many couples of a similar age are together because one of them is perceived to be wealthy. No-one is bothered by that are they? "

I don't think many couples are together because of money

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age shoudnt matter I've been with someone 23 years younger

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

"The wealth thing isn’t just about younger/older though. I’m sure many couples of a similar age are together because one of them is perceived to be wealthy. No-one is bothered by that are they?

I don't think many couples are together because of money "

WAGS....

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By *ent_couple2019Couple
over a year ago

canterbury

"I (Cheri) have actually always preferred older men.

10 year age gap between S and I

Also been with much old.

Sad situation when money is involved. However both parties are usually aware. Whatever works for them.

Wow what a lucky guy he is. "

That's kind. Thankyou! Xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I (Cheri) have actually always preferred older men.

10 year age gap between S and I

Also been with much old.

Sad situation when money is involved. However both parties are usually aware. Whatever works for them.

Wow what a lucky guy he is.

That's kind. Thankyou! Xxx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Would younger women actually want a relationship with a much older guy??

What age gap is deemed acceptable?? "
a 48 year old who dresses as a woman did you mean?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Would younger women actually want a relationship with a much older guy??

What age gap is deemed acceptable?? a 48 year old who dresses as a woman did you mean?

I was just referring to straight boys n girls..

I k ow nobody really wants a tranny bf or hubby x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we're both broke, what does that mean?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What is old. And what is young?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like my women like I like my Covid

19 and easily spread!

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By *H and HJCouple
over a year ago

Bangor

"There was a guy that lives local to me who was filthy rich in his 40s he was sleeping with a 16 year old still at school she fell pregnant and dropped out of school he had 2 children with here and once she turned 22 he ditched her and got with a 17 year old she spent get preg and once she was 20 he ditched her and slept with several girls not women under 20.

He then got with another young woman in here early 20s he was now in his 50s and got her pregnant then ditched her he is now 61 and just married a 25 year old.

I cant believe for one moment they where wit him for anything but money he has had several face lifts and dies his hair but drives a fancy car and owns a holiday park. "

Oh he sounds like a real catch...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like my women like I like my Covid

19 and easily spread!

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By *erdyWoman
over a year ago

wiltshire

"Age dont count at all . Bank accounts do.

Fact of life guys."
Damn straight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had a ‘real’ relationship with a guy I met off here, many years ago, he was 15 years older.

I’ve had sex with a guy when I was around 30 and he was in his 70s.

Don’t think there is, an acceptable age gap, as long as it legal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age dont count at all . Bank accounts do.

Fact of life guys.Damn straight

Mines with HSBC, I get cashback rewards ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My dad's 2nd wife is 17 years younger than him so I always use that to annoy my younger sister by telling her it would be perfectly acceptable for me to date someone her age seeing as our dad has already set the precedent.

The chance would be a fine thing tho.

Being a guy that doesn't have kids and really wants them, I tend to put my lower age limit on dating sites around 30.

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By *etite_delightWoman
over a year ago

BunnyLand

"Would younger women actually want a relationship with a much older guy??

What age gap is deemed acceptable?? "

One of my best sex experiences happened with a guy who is 15yrs older than me so non-sense in that aspect.

In terms of long-term relationship or life partnerships I think age gap again become senseless when you hit 35. I find it quite risky before that as people still growing in life

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Age dont count at all . Bank accounts do.

Fact of life guys.

I don't think many are that shallow "

I think there's an interesting truth behind the oversimplified point there.

Typically, culturally, it's fair to say that men look for physical attraction, beauty etc. Whilst Women look for someone to protect them, support them and future children, be a good provider. That doesn't mean they are gold diggers or anything at all, but it's how society values the genders differently.

As such, when you get to swinging and the things that make men appealing for relationships broadly irrelevant, you're left with women who are still able to be held up to those qualities, but men are left looking ugly and undesirable as they are not used to being judged on those terms as frequently.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

I (Mr) know of very few couples where the Mr is Younger than the Mrs. I'd say most couples I know the Mr is older that the Mrs by a fair few years. This also seems to be true of most of the couples I've come across in the lifestyle. Also there are a fair few guys I've known who seem to date/marry women even more years younger post divorce/separation. I've seen it the other way round too (I am the youngest one in our relationship), but the norm tents to be older guys for younger women in my experience.

Almost seems an ironic joke of evelution/societal norms and power structures.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Age dont count at all . Bank accounts do.

Fact of life guys.

Well I'm as poor as a church mouse and Tina is hot and ten years younger than me

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tina is a very sexy lady

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

I can only wish lol

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

22 years between me and my partner and weve been together 14 years

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

A good friend of mine is 10 years younger than her fella. They've been together 13 or 14 years so it works for them. Both were previously married to people nearer their own age.

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By *WillowxWoman
over a year ago

Oo err Devon

It completely depends on the person.. If I'm attracted to someone and they feel the same age doesn't really come into it.

As long as you are compatable in what you want from the relationship.. Then it's all good. The biggest age gap for me was 15 years and the smallest 2 years...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's age got to do with anything either side of the scale? It's the person who matters

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By *evchar56Couple
over a year ago

bristol

30 year between us get a lot of funny looks we been together 5 years

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

Most guys don’t mature until at least 40!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both of my ex partners where 10 and 11 years younger than me I have a child with one of them so still see her but not in a sex or anything else just to pick up my daughter and drop her off

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire

as an older male I find the thread very interesting

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