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By *istress_L-Captain OP   Couple
over a year ago

Southport

I've decided i'm going to scream at the next guy that tells me he can't wear a condom then won't give a reason why! If you want to become a dad or get an std you're welcome to but don't involve me! Rant over really does anyone else get guys complaining about them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes all the time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ive never had a guy tell me he cant wear a condom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not something anyone we've met has said

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By *__KMan
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Once had a woman tell me she couldn't have me use them 'cause she had a latex allergy... I asked her if she was on any birth control, she said "no, but you can just pull out, right?"

I didn't go anywhere near her with my cock, but since I was already there I just gave her oral 'til she was satisfied.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I still cannot believe in this age that some people (and not just men) have such an attitude to their health!

I appreciate its freedom of choice but just saying I cannot believe it!

Safe swinging is the ONLY way to go as far as I am concerned and as for excuses like "they are too tight" or "they make me itch" is rubbish, I can get a condom over my head and blow it up... not cock is that big and there are hypoallergenic (or however its spelt) ones out there now.

Rant over, happy SAFE swinging everyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've decided i'm going to scream at the next guy that tells me he can't wear a condom then won't give a reason why! If you want to become a dad or get an std you're welcome to but don't involve me! Rant over really does anyone else get guys complaining about them?

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Had the opposite recently, 2 seperate guys wanting to wear them to receive oral!!!!

What would be the point! I don't eat sweets with the wrappers on.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive had guys ask me if i do bareback or tell me they prefer bareback but when ive said i wouldnt meet them if they didnt use a condom they have been happy to use one, never had a guy protest and try to convince me they cant use them if we met

I did have a guy in a club once try to entre me bare so i pushed him away and he said...its ok i dont have anything so i just looked him straight in the face and said i have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've decided i'm going to scream at the next guy that tells me he can't wear a condom then won't give a reason why! If you want to become a dad or get an std you're welcome to but don't involve me! Rant over really does anyone else get guys complaining about them?

Had the opposite recently, 2 seperate guys wanting to wear them to receive oral!!!!

What would be the point! I don't eat sweets with the wrappers on..... "

ive met a few guys who have wanted to wear condoms for oral and not go down on me at all

i mean theres safe sex and theres crap sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had the snip over ten years ago so in theory i don,t need them but always wear one when on a meet, personally i will never do bareback

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've decided i'm going to scream at the next guy that tells me he can't wear a condom then won't give a reason why! If you want to become a dad or get an std you're welcome to but don't involve me! Rant over really does anyone else get guys complaining about them?

Had the opposite recently, 2 seperate guys wanting to wear them to receive oral!!!!

What would be the point! I don't eat sweets with the wrappers on.....

ive met a few guys who have wanted to wear condoms for oral and not go down on me at all

i mean theres safe sex and theres crap sex "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've decided i'm going to scream at the next guy that tells me he can't wear a condom then won't give a reason why! If you want to become a dad or get an std you're welcome to but don't involve me! Rant over really does anyone else get guys complaining about them? You need to change your name too Mistress Life

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"I've decided i'm going to scream at the next guy that tells me he can't wear a condom then won't give a reason why! If you want to become a dad or get an std you're welcome to but don't involve me! Rant over really does anyone else get guys complaining about them?

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no...

geordie men are hard didnt you know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've decided i'm going to scream at the next guy that tells me he can't wear a condom then won't give a reason why! If you want to become a dad or get an std you're welcome to but don't involve me! Rant over really does anyone else get guys complaining about them?

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He may not be thinking on softy grounds but what's the issue? He has told you he can't use condoms and if that's final then fair enough you don't have to play with him. I really dont see a reason to rant over it, its not as though you are looking to marry him.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've decided i'm going to scream at the next guy that tells me he can't wear a condom then won't give a reason why! If you want to become a dad or get an std you're welcome to but don't involve me! Rant over really does anyone else get guys complaining about them?

He may not be thinking on softy grounds but what's the issue? He has told you he can't use condoms and if that's final then fair enough you don't have to play with him. I really dont see a reason to rant over it, its not as though you are looking to marry him. "

to be honest i find these kids of threads odd, i have never had a guy tell me if i meet we cant use condoms, ive never had a guy turn me down in favour of finding someone who will go bare with them

As i have said i have had guys say they prefer bare but when ive said not with me they have been fine and that subjects closed

But yeah if i did ever have a guy say he couldnt use a comdom id tell him he was talking bollocks and move on lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've decided i'm going to scream at the next guy that tells me he can't wear a condom then won't give a reason why! If you want to become a dad or get an std you're welcome to but don't involve me! Rant over really does anyone else get guys complaining about them?

He may not be thinking on softy grounds but what's the issue? He has told you he can't use condoms and if that's final then fair enough you don't have to play with him. I really dont see a reason to rant over it, its not as though you are looking to marry him.

to be honest i find these kids of threads odd, i have never had a guy tell me if i meet we cant use condoms, ive never had a guy turn me down in favour of finding someone who will go bare with them

As i have said i have had guys say they prefer bare but when ive said not with me they have been fine and that subjects closed

But yeah if i did ever have a guy say he couldnt use a comdom id tell him he was talking bollocks and move on lol"

Theres a difference between can't and won't!

I think some guys just try there luck... If they are allergic to latex then they should have latex-free ones!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've decided i'm going to scream at the next guy that tells me he can't wear a condom then won't give a reason why! If you want to become a dad or get an std you're welcome to but don't involve me! Rant over really does anyone else get guys complaining about them?

He may not be thinking on softy grounds but what's the issue? He has told you he can't use condoms and if that's final then fair enough you don't have to play with him. I really dont see a reason to rant over it, its not as though you are looking to marry him.

to be honest i find these kids of threads odd, i have never had a guy tell me if i meet we cant use condoms, ive never had a guy turn me down in favour of finding someone who will go bare with them

As i have said i have had guys say they prefer bare but when ive said not with me they have been fine and that subjects closed

But yeah if i did ever have a guy say he couldnt use a comdom id tell him he was talking bollocks and move on lol"

Me i just grin big time as so many women grumble at guys who ask 'WHY' after being told on thanks on here. I am waiting for someone saying.... they wont give me their account no and sort code

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With a name like "Mistress_death " I would put 3 jonnies on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've decided i'm going to scream at the next guy that tells me he can't wear a condom then won't give a reason why! If you want to become a dad or get an std you're welcome to but don't involve me! Rant over really does anyone else get guys complaining about them?

He may not be thinking on softy grounds but what's the issue? He has told you he can't use condoms and if that's final then fair enough you don't have to play with him. I really dont see a reason to rant over it, its not as though you are looking to marry him.

to be honest i find these kids of threads odd, i have never had a guy tell me if i meet we cant use condoms, ive never had a guy turn me down in favour of finding someone who will go bare with them

As i have said i have had guys say they prefer bare but when ive said not with me they have been fine and that subjects closed

But yeah if i did ever have a guy say he couldnt use a comdom id tell him he was talking bollocks and move on lol

Theres a difference between can't and won't!

I think some guys just try there luck... If they are allergic to latex then they should have latex-free ones!"

no such thing as cant use condoms, they do them in all sizes and in latex and none latex, you can also buy them made from polyurethane which is an organic materical suitable for extra sensative skin, if someone can prove me wrong and tell me what reason there would be why you CAN'T use a condom id be interested to know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

younger men dont mind, they seem to be more used to using them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've decided i'm going to scream at the next guy that tells me he can't wear a condom then won't give a reason why! If you want to become a dad or get an std you're welcome to but don't involve me! Rant over really does anyone else get guys complaining about

Had the opposite recently, 2 seperate guys wanting to wear them to receive oral!!!!

What would be the point! I don't eat sweets with the wrappers on.....

ive met a few guys who have wanted to wear condoms for oral and not go down on me at all

i mean theres safe sex and theres crap sex "

Wouldnt bother me, as i am easily pleased.

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By *inkyScot22Man
over a year ago

Anniesland


"younger men dont mind, they seem to be more used to using them."

Absolutely, ever since "The Joy of Teen Sex" made putting the condom on sexy (the girl rolls it on using her lips)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've decided i'm going to scream at the next guy that tells me he can't wear a condom then won't give a reason why! If you want to become a dad or get an std you're welcome to but don't involve me! Rant over really does anyone else get guys complaining about them?

He may not be thinking on softy grounds but what's the issue? He has told you he can't use condoms and if that's final then fair enough you don't have to play with him. I really dont see a reason to rant over it, its not as though you are looking to marry him.

to be honest i find these kids of threads odd, i have never had a guy tell me if i meet we cant use condoms, ive never had a guy turn me down in favour of finding someone who will go bare with them

As i have said i have had guys say they prefer bare but when ive said not with me they have been fine and that subjects closed

But yeah if i did ever have a guy say he couldnt use a comdom id tell him he was talking bollocks and move on lol

Theres a difference between can't and won't!

I think some guys just try there luck... If they are allergic to latex then they should have latex-free ones!

no such thing as cant use condoms, they do them in all sizes and in latex and none latex, you can also buy them made from polyurethane which is an organic materical suitable for extra sensative skin, if someone can prove me wrong and tell me what reason there would be why you CAN'T use a condom id be interested to know"

Thats what i mean; they say can't but mean won't!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"younger men dont mind, they seem to be more used to using them.

Absolutely, ever since "The Joy of Teen Sex" made putting the condom on sexy (the girl rolls it on using her lips)"

..... been my party piece since my teens.

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By *ust a TeaseMan
over a year ago

Earth

as they say, no glove no love, u dont know what people carry until its to late

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

Never fails to amaze me the stupidness and hap hazard way people dont look after their own health

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I missed out on a meet on Sunday because i said that i would only use protection. Think they will regret having that rule.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men might be able to enlighten me on fact or fiction but I been told by a few they lose erection when put one on. No I didn't meet them but I didn't tell them they bullShite either as I really didn't know if true or not I just said I sorry that happens but I not do bareback goodbye

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen

Happens ALL the time, i have seen myself have to make a scene or push a gentleman off to make my feeling's on the matter even clearer.

I have a latex allergy but tend to always carry latex free condom's, you can now get 'spray on' condom's very expensive but worth it if you hate them.

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By *issNaughtyxxxWoman
over a year ago

Aberdeen


"Men might be able to enlighten me on fact or fiction but I been told by a few they lose erection when put one on. No I didn't meet them but I didn't tell them they bullShite either as I really didn't know if true or not I just said I sorry that happens but I not do bareback goodbye "

My partner would loose erection on occasion's because the condom was too tight, we tried a larger size and it's a much nicer fit and we have no further problem's.

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By *ezebelWoman
over a year ago

North of The Wall - youll need your vest


"With a name like "Mistress_death " I would put 3 jonnies on "

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By *ue care and attentionWoman
over a year ago

birmingham


"younger men dont mind, they seem to be more used to using them."

Younger men have sexually matured in a safe sex environment where sex education has drummed into them the need for protection. For those of us in our 40s plus, all we really needed was to make sure the woman was on the pill and we were away. I have encountered men my own age who have struggled to maintain an erection once they put a condom on. I think there is a psychological reason for this as it's not so natural for them to do it.

I have not encountered this for a while now thankfully but was always polite and sympathetic when it did happen and tried my best to recover the situation. They were more embarassed than enything and I was never pressured into bareback sex.

Personally condoms do spoil the sensation for me as there is nothing like skin to skin but to be honest, I value my safety and peace of mind more than to take the risk.

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