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By *ympho6969 OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Everyone seems to have a different definition of kinky. Some think simply sleeping around is kinky while others seem to reserve this word for the wilder, less standard things.

Where do you stand with the definition of kinky

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne

I’m lying at the moment but if I was standing, I’d happily stand by the OED definition of ‘kinky’, whatever it is, as I really can’t be arsed to get out of bed and look it up!

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By *ympho6969 OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

OED defines at as unusual sexual behaviours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I have a few kinks. My interest in the erotic possibilities of the arsehole is pretty kinky as is my love for feet. I’m xploring other things but that’s at an early stage.

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I’ve never really liked the word kinky. It’s always had a seedy undertone to it in my head. Always preferred to think of it has having adventurous tastes.

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

I'm getting kinkier as my experiences broaden.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think I hover just above the vanilla line around 95% of the time. I have a few things that I like that are maybe a bit kinky but they're not essential to me and they're not too extreme.

I do have a more adventurous side but it takes a very special connection to bring that out in me and that's a rare find.

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By *uriousKinksterMan
over a year ago

Loughborough

Well I've had my arse whipped and my dick stuck in a plastic tube, so there's that. I've also got so many sex toys under my bed that when I sleep, I'm literally laid on top of hundreds of pounds of rubber dick. Jury's out though, think I'm borderline myself.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

It's one of those words that has a different "meaning" to each of us as individuals - one person's "kinky" is another's "normal" kind of thing.

Basically it comes down to "things you, as an individual, enjoy sexually which mah only be enjoyed by select others"

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By *ittyandtheboyCouple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

As we’ve just done a full on DDLG session, I’d sat ‘yes’!

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By *uriousKinksterMan
over a year ago

Loughborough


"As we’ve just done a full on DDLG session, I’d sat ‘yes’! "

Out of curiosity, if I act like a child in every day life, am I a little by extension?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My main kink is am a domestic submissive cleaner.

But over the years I have did most things. Wax and fire play. Water sports spanking and . So yes am a bit kinky

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By *etamourMan
over a year ago

York

Yes absolute kinkster over here I love hearing of other peoples fetishes and whilst I may not understand them I certainly don't put anyone down for their taste. I'm happy in the company of people dressed in all manner of clothing and doing whatever hey like to one another. Your kink may not be my kink but I will never judge.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone seems to have a different definition of kinky. Some think simply sleeping around is kinky while others seem to reserve this word for the wilder, less standard things.

Where do you stand with the definition of kinky "

Erotic is using a feather...Kinky is using the whole chicken

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By *uriousKinksterMan
over a year ago

Loughborough


"Everyone seems to have a different definition of kinky. Some think simply sleeping around is kinky while others seem to reserve this word for the wilder, less standard things.

Where do you stand with the definition of kinky

Erotic is using a feather...Kinky is using the whole chicken "

I've always felt somewhat ashamed to admit to fancying a large cock in my arse.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights


"Everyone seems to have a different definition of kinky. Some think simply sleeping around is kinky while others seem to reserve this word for the wilder, less standard things.

Where do you stand with the definition of kinky

Erotic is using a feather...Kinky is using the whole chicken "

Depends how you use a feather

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone seems to have a different definition of kinky. Some think simply sleeping around is kinky while others seem to reserve this word for the wilder, less standard things.

Where do you stand with the definition of kinky

Erotic is using a feather...Kinky is using the whole chicken

Depends how you use a feather"

Oooh..now I'm intrigued lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Everyone seems to have a different definition of kinky. Some think simply sleeping around is kinky while others seem to reserve this word for the wilder, less standard things.

Where do you stand with the definition of kinky "

I know I'm kinky, as far as definition, it definitely means different things to different people. I'd consider any sort of non standard sexual turn on to be a kink.

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I think most people would consider me kinky. Or just a freak

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most people would consider me kinky. Or just a freak "

I think that’s what I’d be considered, all in a good way for the right woman though ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would consider myself kinky. I like being dominated, caned, bruised....

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I’d class myself as dirty rather than kinky, i tend to think of kink as BDSM related stuff, whereas my “cough” interests are a bit more widespread across the sexual acts spectrum.

And, i’m not detailing those interests here, the forums aren’t that open minded.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I consider myself to be kinky however other people may consider me to be vanilla

The term kinky has very wide definitions and means different things to different people

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By *otsossieMan
over a year ago

local, but not too local

Depends who I’m with, but I’m not a fan of pain or unpleasant mess.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't class myself as kinky but have some filthy thoughts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both my partner and I are " kinksters " especially if " unusual sexual practices " is the defining line . Together i think we have most kinky bases covered .

However i have watched changing attitudes towards kink for many years and wonder how many years before attitudes change so much , what we do is no longer an unusual practice ..

We both enjoy the lifestyle of Kinksters , proud even to a point .

Kinky as a word is a blanket term to cover so much ...

I for one though am pleased its become a " lesser " phrase perhaps . Means we are all moving on and getting on with it ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Got a couple of kinks or fetishes, if I could choose which one to drop it would be the sleeping thing cos it actually annoys me. I can’t even sleep myself if I have a man in my bed cos I don’t want to waste the time he’s there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’d class myself as dirty rather than kinky, i tend to think of kink as BDSM related stuff, whereas my “cough” interests are a bit more widespread across the sexual acts spectrum.

And, i’m not detailing those interests here, the forums aren’t that open minded."

I am practically the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think we would definitely be considered kinky, but there are plenty kinkier

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd.like to think I'm kinky but that would be up to the person in talking to I'd they think I'm kinky.

Is try most things and I'm not put off by alot lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I mostly attach kinky with fetish. I attend fetish parties and have been dominated by women. Have been pegged, spit on, spanked and slapped. I consider these things kinky. Sleeping around is just swinging, isn't it?

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By *oeofsussexMan
over a year ago

Eastbourne


"OED defines at as unusual sexual behaviours"

Thanks, you saved me getting out of a cosy bed!!!

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By *irtytqCouple
over a year ago

pembroke

We’ve had a few kinky bisexual meets, love pushing the boundaries ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not kinky

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

I'm very kinky, enjoy anything outside vanilla and have tried pretty much everything. I much prefer sex with a bit of kink chucked in.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One persons kinky is another persons foreplay.

Some people would recoil in horror at the things we've done, others would laugh and tell us to come back when we've grown some nads.

P

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By *irtytqCouple
over a year ago

pembroke

Exactly boundaries are there to be pushed x

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

Yesterday at a swingers club I was put into a latex vac bed, later punished with floggers and cane, roped to a bed, pegged twice with large strap ons, performed various blow jobs to men that were being spanked, had ice cream smeared all over me and later put on a lesbian show with a woman to get the men excited. I guess that makes me kinky

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By *erynaughtyMan
over a year ago

Derby

I’m extreme according to some...

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

Pretty normal but can easily goes as kinky as the other person wants.

As long as no pee or poo and legal I am game for most things.

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By *uciferLingerieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I'm pretty open minded and would try most things...with the exception of poo and pain! Other than that i'd like to think i'm a little bit kinky...and love hearing other peoples kinky ideas!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kinky is my normal. I don't like vanilla. I like sex against windows where there is the possibility of being caught. I like to be watched and watch others. I like to include toys and games. I like to be tied, bound and spanked, whipped, flogged and I love roleplay.

Very rarely do I get to indulge in my kinks So I've had to come to accept vanilla

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By *irtytqCouple
over a year ago

pembroke

It’s hard to find people who push boundaries although everyone has kinky thoughts x

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By *ipa2000TV/TS
over a year ago

kenfig hill

Think iam kinky ,just look at profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When the mood takes us we can be a tad kinky

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By *uciferLingerieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

Feeling a little kinky right now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m utterly vanilla.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kinky has been a nickname of mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im kinky

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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago

Essex

100% kinky bordering on the extreme..

I don't really like 'vanilla' sex or 'passionate'

Im more of a tie me down, spank me, whip me and do unspeakable things to me kind of girl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I own a rising crop, a flogger, two paddles, multiple sets of nipple clamps, a collar, a hogtie and a pinwheel. Kinky enough to justify the name?

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By *uciferLingerieMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"Kinky has been a nickname of mine "

Feel free to elaborate as to why/how this nickname came about??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I share my stories, so it was my old boss/friend who first called me by the name kinky many years ago & has stuck ever since


"Kinky has been a nickname of mine

Feel free to elaborate as to why/how this nickname came about?? "

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By *inkykat dirtydogCouple
over a year ago

Cov

Mmmmm, let me think about it

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By *uciferLingerieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

You look kinky!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm, not sure

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Erm!

Only a teeny tiny bit.

Jo.Xx

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By *uciferLingerieMan
over a year ago

Leeds

I do have a little bit of a kink for all things lingerie, on others as well as to wear! Some find it kinky...others say i'm just a weirdo!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Erm!

Only a teeny tiny bit.

Jo.Xx "

Everyone has to start somewhere

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