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By *ympho6969 OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Why do men take it as a challenge to change my mind when I politely reply back telling them I'm not interested. And then continue to try and try and try. Why not respect a 'no' and move on.

Obviously not aimed at everyone here. Plenty respect the reply rather than being ignored.

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

A man who grovels is a turn off.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"A man who grovels is a turn off."

And a man who doesn't respect my no isn't one I'd ever want to be alone with

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From experience of being on fab I’d say it’s because all they see is your tits your rack your norks your breasts and your boobs which turns them into stupid wank bunnies that don’t understand the meaning of the word no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get this quite a bit. Bloody irritating. I just block them.

One guy even took to ranting about me over his status. He obviously didn't like the knock back.

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By *ympho6969 OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow


"A man who grovels is a turn off.

And a man who doesn't respect my no isn't one I'd ever want to be alone with"

Agreed

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters


"A man who grovels is a turn off.

And a man who doesn't respect my no isn't one I'd ever want to be alone with

Agreed"

Unfortunately their are good and bad. that is how the world is balanced

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I just delete after the first no now, not wasting anymore time on someone who dosnt respect your decision

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Men. Tut tut

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men take it as a challenge to change my mind when I politely reply back telling them I'm not interested. And then continue to try and try and try. Why not respect a 'no' and move on.

Obviously not aimed at everyone here. Plenty respect the reply rather than being ignored."
you're a nympho i mean your name is synonymous as is honey to a bee, what is the male equivalent to a nympho?

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By *uriousKinksterMan
over a year ago

Loughborough


"Why do men take it as a challenge to change my mind when I politely reply back telling them I'm not interested. And then continue to try and try and try. Why not respect a 'no' and move on.

Obviously not aimed at everyone here. Plenty respect the reply rather than being ignored.you're a nympho i mean your name is synonymous as is honey to a bee, what is the male equivalent to a nympho? "

Do people still say tart? Tarts. They're definitely tarts.

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By *ympho6969 OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow


"Why do men take it as a challenge to change my mind when I politely reply back telling them I'm not interested. And then continue to try and try and try. Why not respect a 'no' and move on.

Obviously not aimed at everyone here. Plenty respect the reply rather than being ignored.you're a nympho i mean your name is synonymous as is honey to a bee, what is the male equivalent to a nympho? "

Not sure. Still doesnt mean a no should be challenged and then result in rude name calling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it so odd that men do this lol Like if you tell me no, I don't want to know why or what I can do to improve hahaha I hope we get at least one response from a guy who does this! Please! Please explain this!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I went to my local library yesterday, and asked: "Have you got a book on handling rejection without killing?"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Should really say that was a joke by Stewart Francis.

Just in case some Don't get it and think I'm a Phyco

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By *ucy. AlCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle upon Tyne

I've been call a fat slag ugly whore act it's not nice people like that are just sad and desperate and have nothing better to do with their time x lucy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's no call for it. They spoil things for us good guys.

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By *ympho6969 OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow


"There's no call for it. They spoil things for us good guys. "

Totally agree. I just find it crazy

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By *ENGUYMan
over a year ago

Hull

When people have replied to my approach and say "No Thank you", often with a reason why not, I always respond with a 'thank you for replying and I won't bother you again'.

That has sometimes elicited a surprised reply. People don't expect it!

With one couple, we became good Social contacts, and still are, just on the basis of me being polite!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men take it as a challenge to change my mind when I politely reply back telling them I'm not interested. And then continue to try and try and try. Why not respect a 'no' and move on.

Obviously not aimed at everyone here. Plenty respect the reply rather than being ignored.you're a nympho i mean your name is synonymous as is honey to a bee, what is the male equivalent to a nympho? "

Its a satyromaniac...based on a greek satyr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fab tennis

Even with my arsey profile.

1.no thanks

2. It's still a no.. Or a choice of a few chosen sentances

3.blocked

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By *ympho6969 OP   Woman
over a year ago

glasgow


"When people have replied to my approach and say "No Thank you", often with a reason why not, I always respond with a 'thank you for replying and I won't bother you again'.

That has sometimes elicited a surprised reply. People don't expect it!

With one couple, we became good Social contacts, and still are, just on the basis of me being polite!"

I agree. I think respect is a 2 way street and still chat to some people from this situation, even if it wont go any further.

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By *ings66Man
over a year ago

Bristol


"Why do men take it as a challenge to change my mind when I politely reply back telling them I'm not interested. And then continue to try and try and try. Why not respect a 'no' and move on.

Obviously not aimed at everyone here. Plenty respect the reply rather than being ignored."

When can we meet I want it now I will not take no as a answer go on lets meet I can come to you now you now you need me and any more you can think of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Come on gents...if you’re the type to ask why a lady won’t meet you, own it! Have you ever managed to change someones mind? Do you think they are just playing hard to get?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"There's no call for it. They spoil things for us good guys. "
awww you're a good guy

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By *AYENCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire


"Why do men take it as a challenge to change my mind when I politely reply back telling them I'm not interested. And then continue to try and try and try. Why not respect a 'no' and move on.

Obviously not aimed at everyone here. Plenty respect the reply rather than being ignored."

Once you've replied 'no thanks' why don't you block them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So is that a Mayb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why do men take it as a challenge to change my mind when I politely reply back telling them I'm not interested. And then continue to try and try and try. Why not respect a 'no' and move on.

Obviously not aimed at everyone here. Plenty respect the reply rather than being ignored."
maybe they were transfixed by your pics......... you know when you go out shopping and you see a pair of shoes you love and you've forgot your purse and your hubby but you've just got to have them i mean these are bed heels, 6" heels to die for, you can't think of anything else that type of focused

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"A man who grovels is a turn off.

And a man who doesn't respect my no isn't one I'd ever want to be alone with"

I haven't even asked a question....yet.

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