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Not sure what irritates me more

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By *sm265 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

People who message without having read my profile, or people who have read it but chosen to ignore what it says & message regardless?

Both are bloody annoying

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By *est Wales WifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Carmarthen

Or the person who keeps repeatedly sending the same message, we block then he leaves and comes back with a new profile and the same or a very similar user name and sends the same message.

This happens regularly with the same guy.

Does he think joining and leaving multiple times and sending the same message will convince us that he is trustworthy?

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"People who message without having read my profile, or people who have read it but chosen to ignore what it says & message regardless?

Both are bloody annoying "

I was about to message saying - FAF & attaching a dick pic. I won't now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who message without having read my profile, or people who have read it but chosen to ignore what it says & message regardless?

Both are bloody annoying "

Agree 100%

T

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Personally I'd be happy to receive the correspondence

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By *sm265 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"People who message without having read my profile, or people who have read it but chosen to ignore what it says & message regardless?

Both are bloody annoying

I was about to message saying - FAF & attaching a dick pic. I won't now. "

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By *sm265 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"Or the person who keeps repeatedly sending the same message, we block then he leaves and comes back with a new profile and the same or a very similar user name and sends the same message.

This happens regularly with the same guy.

Does he think joining and leaving multiple times and sending the same message will convince us that he is trustworthy?"

He probably thinks he's being really clever

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ

Couples who have "won't meet smokers" & "straight" on their profiles, but message you at 05:30 looking for some fun now

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

People who sit in the middle lane......lol

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By *hedevilKTWoman
over a year ago

milton keynes

Why ppl send friend request but no msg don’t get that one either?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those who have read and ignore. They’re the arrogant pricks.

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By *sm265 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"Why ppl send friend request but no msg don’t get that one either?"

Yes, wonder if anyone accepts? I just delete (& if they bothered to read my profile they'd know that!)

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By *ittlemiss1985Woman
over a year ago

Lansing


"Why ppl send friend request but no msg don’t get that one either?"

I wonder too. I even state in my profile I won't accept friend requests without getting to know them first. I just delete them since it's a huge sign they didn't read my profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just like your tits!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who message without having read my profile, or people who have read it but chosen to ignore what it says & message regardless?

Both are bloody annoying "

Not as annoying as them people that read your messages but cant even give a no thanks..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"People who message without having read my profile, or people who have read it but chosen to ignore what it says & message regardless?

Both are bloody annoying "

Would be nice to get messages from who Want to meet , rather than men who want to suck my cock...

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By *est Wales WifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Carmarthen


"

Not as annoying as them people that read your messages but cant even give a no thanks.."

or who haven't read the site FAQ's?

"There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested.

If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?"

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Those who message regardless. Clear disrespect rather than just laziness.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree, or guys acting like its a red light destruct and automatically assume you will meet them, either with no conversation or very early messages, I think some lose concept that people need to talk before saying yes or no, or establishing if two people like each other


"People who message without having read my profile, or people who have read it but chosen to ignore what it says & message regardless?

Both are bloody annoying "

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By *sm265 OP   Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"I just like your tits! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

Not as annoying as them people that read your messages but cant even give a no thanks..

or who haven't read the site FAQ's?

"There are too many rude people on here who don't reply to my messages!

It's not rude not to reply.

Some ladies and couples get hundreds of messages a day so it simply isn't possible for them to reply to everyone. If you don't get a response, you should assume they aren't interested.

If you're getting a lot of "no-replies" then you should consider your profile and the messages you send. Are they giving the right message? Are you standing out from the thousands of other guys on here?""

Classic textbook answer! Its more effort to open and read a message instead of just bulk deleting them.

Zero excuse for ignorance. Period.

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By *ce WingerMan
over a year ago

P.O. Box DE1 0NQ


"I just like your tits! "

Why thanks sweetheart x

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