FabSwingers.com forum: It is not Facebook

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Those who come online and post

'Not into meeting, just clean chat'. Am i wrong in thinking this isn't Facebook.

Are we all on here in hope of meeting?

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By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

No you're right. As far as I'm aware, this isn't Facebook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope, this is fabswingers, Facebook is over there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am hoping I meet either a straight couple or a straight female for fun

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By *ildatheart6969Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

You are a very clever guy.

This is not Facebook

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"No you're right. As far as I'm aware, this isn't Facebook"

Ha ha.

I just dont get people who sigb up for swinging site to never want to meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer to think of fab as a social media outlet for people with a certain lifestyle

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Open up a load of comedy abuse on myself.. .shall take it on the chin...lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer to think of fab as a social media outlet for people with a certain lifestyle"

You can think of it anyway you like, but there will always be someone to tell you you’re wrong.

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By *ildatheart6969Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

This is a forum.

If you want to meet people you post in the meets section

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer to think of fab as a social media outlet for people with a certain lifestyle

You can think of it anyway you like, but there will always be someone to tell you you’re wrong."

No there wont.

Youre wrong!

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

"Those who come online and post

'Not into meeting, just clean chat'. Am i wrong in thinking this isn't Facebook.

Are we all on here in hope of meeting? "
. Fabs is what you want it to be.Some are just here to chat , others just use the forums , others like to see what meets and events are on and turn up , others are looking to meet.Fabs is what you want it to be respect each persons wishes and we will all get along just fine.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block those profiles that say ‘Not Meeting, just here to chat’ ain’t nobody got time for that shit

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Those who come online and post

'Not into meeting, just clean chat'. Am i wrong in thinking this isn't Facebook.

Are we all on here in hope of meeting? "

For some people I think it’s purely an attention thing. Women get far more Male attention on here than they do in the real world, generally speaking.

That being said - most females I’ve come across on fab are here for something - be that meets, clubs, just forum chat or even, in some cases, just picture posting.

I can well imagine how disheartening that must be for some men on fab when the pool of women is relatively small anyway - but the rules of fab don’t dictate that it’s compulsory to shag and meet virtual strangers on a regular basis!

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Maybe they are not planning one to one meets but go to clubs and parties for fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've hardly been in Facebook since I started using the forums. I prefer it here.

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

I'm currently sat in my office, with a cup of tea. I'm about to dunk a biscuit.

Nots, I thought this was facebook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe they just say that to avoid getting messages, asking them to meet people who don’t fit their particular taste, and they can then freely message those who do, with no pressure.

Maybe they like having a social platform with like minded people to simply chat to.

Maybe, they are just absolute time wasters and fakes who should be thrown to the ground and beaten with a kipper!!

It’s a great mystery...there’s a thread about that- post this to it, might get the answer

Viv xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Maybe they are not planning one to one meets but go to clubs and parties for fun."

Same here.

I used to, but found too many timewasters, so stick to forums, chat rooms and club meets now

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

10 out of 10 for observation OP.

You use this site how you wiah and let others use it how they wish. We believe in the attitude of live and let live.

Give that attitude a try yourself sometime.

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"Those who come online and post

'Not into meeting, just clean chat'. Am i wrong in thinking this isn't Facebook.

Are we all on here in hope of meeting? "

It isn't Facebook but why cant people use it to chat?..

Thats like saying if you are in a pub you must drink!

They can order a water and chat.

Why consume your energies over whether someone is meeting or not? It's their choice

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

U ok hun?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I couldn't meet for awhile due to health reasons, should I have left the site?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't meet for awhile due to health reasons, should I have left the site?"

Yes

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I couldn't meet for awhile due to health reasons, should I have left the site?

Yes"

Thanks, I'm now aware of the rules.

Any ladies on their period and not meeting? Delete your profiles!

Anyone who doesn't fancy a meet today? Feck off!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not everyone is here to meet but it isn't Facebook either. Its the statuses talking about their household appliances having packed in or something of the like that might lead you to believe it is Facebook, but it isn't. Maybe a mixture, Facefuck? lol

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Most of my messages are with friends and contain next to no sexual references. The social aspect to this site/lifestyle is why I'm still around

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By *tticusukMan
over a year ago

Formby

"Those who come online and post

'Not into meeting, just clean chat'. Am i wrong in thinking this isn't Facebook.

Are we all on here in hope of meeting? "

This is fabbook or faceswing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't use fb

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I couldn't meet for awhile due to health reasons, should I have left the site?

Yes

Thanks, I'm now aware of the rules.

Any ladies on their period and not meeting? Delete your profiles!

Anyone who doesn't fancy a meet today? Feck off! "

Thats all we ask

Thank you for being understanding

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By *ifty grades of shadyCouple
over a year ago

Carisbrooke, Isle of Wight

"No you're right. As far as I'm aware, this isn't Facebook

Ha ha.

I just dont get people who sigb up for swinging site to never want to meet."
loads of people on Facebook we don't meet either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Facefuck maybe. Not Facebook x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of my messages are with friends and contain next to no sexual references. The social aspect to this site/lifestyle is why I'm still around

This!

I don't always want to meet random strangers but making friendships that then may later develop in to something else later on appeals to me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer to think of fab as a social media outlet for people with a certain lifestyle"

This

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

No it's not Facebook, you are correct OP.

It is however a site that people can use as they wish, as long as they abide by the site rules, and some people are purely here for the social aspect.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Once again I ask myself why people worry about how others choose to use the site - people that are clearly using it differently to me are easy enough to avoid.

Surely it's better to focus on those that do use it the same way as you OP?

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

It’s not Facebook no, but we’re not looking to turn up, shake hands and get down to business.

Much rather we met someone who could hold a decent conversation first.

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

I’m fummin

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I put up I'm meeting.. I get multiples of messages and putting no thanks too.. many get a tennis style return of abuse from them. Something I don't need in life.

I have met

I will meet

But when I want to

Circumstances that I don't have to explain to anyone means at present I'm not meeting but I can chat on forums n fabsters as I believe the rules allow me to do that.

Plus a fabster helped me during a dark time. Never met but his kindness is precious.

Prehaps #be kind

Sometimes life stress stops

Us from being rampent rabbits

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Ah, black and white thinking. How refreshing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is the only social media site I use so the fora are like an adult FB for me and every now and again I come across a gem who I arrange to meet and fuck. Best of both worlds really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Anyone fancy a poke? ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone fancy a poke? ??"

Ouch not in my eye next time

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"This is the only social media site I use so the fora are like an adult FB for me and every now and again I come across a gem who I arrange to meet and fuck. Best of both worlds really

Awww thanks, when are we meeting then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No you're right. As far as I'm aware, this isn't Facebook

Ha ha.

I just dont get people who sigb up for swinging site to never want to meet."

Ignore them,as they're probably ignoring you

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By *G CoupleCouple
over a year ago

kent

We aren't on here to meet anyone through the site.

We use it to keep in contact with people we have met at parties or clubs.

Also we don't see possible parties advertised on facebook.

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes departure lounge NN9 Northamptonshire East not West MidlandsMidlands

"I couldn't meet for awhile due to health reasons, should I have left the site?"

I am in exactly this situation and I am certainly NOT leaving,in fact, against all expectations I seem to be getting messages of support and some interesting offers of sex free meets from members of the Fab family.

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By *rystaldenisonWoman
over a year ago

salisbury

people are here to do as they want x

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

This place won't let me upload a pic of my dinner

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"This place won't let me upload a pic of my dinner

It will if you put your thumb in the picture!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a social site such as those name

So most just here to chat n don't meet.

If you don't want them don't mail them

Simple

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By *andybeachWoman
over a year ago

In the middle

"I’m fummin "

U ok hun? Txt me

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

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"This place won't let me upload a pic of my dinner

It will if you put your thumb in the picture!

Stick me thumb in me egg and chips !? I prefer dipping a chip butty in me egg, or me sausage

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for the abuse being sent directly to my inbox. I asked a question. Did not expect the grief being sent my way.. wow. Some of you have a lot of anger issues.

Others are just blooming lovely the few spoil it..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the abuse being sent directly to my inbox. I asked a question. Did not expect the grief being sent my way.. wow. Some of you have a lot of anger issues.

Others are just blooming lovely the few spoil it.."

Oh there's a lot on here with issues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Those who come online and post

'Not into meeting, just clean chat'. Am i wrong in thinking this isn't Facebook.

Are we all on here in hope of meeting? "

I was rather hoping to get laid

Can facebook do that? I might give it a try if so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Thanks for the abuse being sent directly to my inbox. I asked a question. Did not expect the grief being sent my way.. wow. Some of you have a lot of anger

Others are just blooming lovely the few spoil it.."
rather than moan about it. Did you reported it

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By *olgateMan
over a year ago

on the road to nowhere in particular

"I’m fummin

U ok hun? Txt me

S’alrite don’t matter naw

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By *arlo82Couple
over a year ago

the gym and random places

"Those who come online and post

'Not into meeting, just clean chat'. Am i wrong in thinking this isn't Facebook.

Are we all on here in hope of meeting?

I was rather hoping to get laid

Can facebook do that? I might give it a try if so

Instagram is better for getting laid

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe, they are just absolute time wasters and fakes who should be thrown to the ground and beaten with a kipper!!

Viv xx"

Given all of the potential weapons you have chosen a kipper? I can't believe you have discounted sea bass as a weapon of choice.

I personally love the pointless status updates. One less female to spam ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Those who come online and post

'Not into meeting, just clean chat'. Am i wrong in thinking this isn't Facebook.

Are we all on here in hope of meeting?

I was rather hoping to get laid

Can facebook do that? I might give it a try if so

Instagram is better for getting laid "

Good to know. Thanks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Thanks for the abuse being sent directly to my inbox. I asked a question. Did not expect the grief being sent my way.. wow. Some of you have a lot of anger

Others are just blooming lovely the few spoil it..rather than moan about it. Did you reported it "

Of course. .

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Nope, this is fabswingers, Facebook is over there"

You might want to tell that to the thousands of fools who have a Facebook warning on their profile, esp the ones where it still even literally says Facebook... good grief...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It starts with an F and I do have friends on here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not Facebook far to many singles on here just looking for attention living in there dream world.

Good night in a club 100 people but 1000s on here saying can't get a meet or not looking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is a naked Facebook

People will use fab exactly as they want and there's not much you can do about it, OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You're right OP!

Bitches... stop all this chatter chatter and spread em

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id rather the chat was a bit dirty but I dont wanna meet. Ive done all that. I always smile when I read in profiles 'we're all here for the same thing'. Are we, are we really?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sure every single one of us uses fab differently in our own little way.

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

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This is Cockbook

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"This is Cockbook "

Cock block you mean. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is a naked Facebook

People will use fab exactly as they want and there's not much you can do about it, OP."
exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't have a joint Facebook as that would be wrong, so no definatly no Facebook as far as I can tell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just use fab for the odd casual sex meets , not interesting in really getting to know much about peoples lives etc , for me its a very fire and forget setup , enough banter to flow but not spilling life stories .. forums can be amusing entertainment for killing time while working online at same time doing automated stuff .

as others mention people use it for different things .. for me I see it as a sex site ultimately .

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Find forums and chatting a great way find out what people are looking for.

It’s a bit like Facebook I suppose.

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By *essie.Woman
over a year ago

Serendipity

You can use Fab however you wish.

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By *arlomaleMan
over a year ago

darlington

What fab isn’t Facebook??? Shock horror

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No you're right. As far as I'm aware, this isn't Facebook

Ha ha.

I just dont get people who sigb up for swinging site to never want to meet."

It’s their choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everything is Facebook if you try really hard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I used to meet but now I'm In a relationship and on whole don't want to meet.

Iv made lots of friends on here that I like to keep in contact with plus I love the social side.

I think alot of people forget that for many this isn't about sex and sexy messages, it's a lifestyle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Those who come online and post

'Not into meeting, just clean chat'. Am i wrong in thinking this isn't Facebook.

Are we all on here in hope of meeting? "

Let me show you this plate of shit.... this is my dinner.... Do you remember me waving a polaroid instamatic photo of my dinner around in the 80s? no? why not - surely it was the done thing?

Facebook - more like shite book!

I hate it - but have an account admittedly for business purposes only.. (oh hang on... )

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If I put up I'm meeting.. I get multiples of messages and putting no thanks too.. many get a tennis style return of abuse from them. Something I don't need in life.

I have met

I will meet

But when I want to

Circumstances that I don't have to explain to anyone means at present I'm not meeting but I can chat on forums n fabsters as I believe the rules allow me to do that.

Plus a fabster helped me during a dark time. Never met but his kindness is precious.

Prehaps #be kind

Sometimes life stress stops

Us from being rampent rabbits"

As above there are many reasons why sometimes i want to take a break but still come on the forums. Judging by my inbox it makes no difference to most people. When im asked i'm happy to explain what's going on in my life and i try not to judge people without knowing their reasons. I don't personally use fb a great deal due to the drama that some people wish to share with anyone who'll listen. I find it very sad that the OP has received abuse, we are all entitled to our own opinions.

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

"This is Cockbook

Cock block you mean. Lol"

Can't argue there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Anyone fancy a poke? ??

Ouch not in my eye next time"

Ooops

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This is a naked Facebook

People will use fab exactly as they want and there's not much you can do about it, OP."

True!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only posting to bookmark and find later to see if anyone doesn’t see this is a few weeks old

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By *MP3Man
over a year ago

Between Scylla and Charybdis

"Open up a load of comedy abuse on myself.. .shall take it on the chin...lol"

Never say you'll take it on the chin - that may inspire lots of mail you may not necessarily appreciate

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Correct. Everyone wants different things and there are enough here to satisfy you. It's fab, not fbook

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Those who come online and post

'Not into meeting, just clean chat'. Am i wrong in thinking this isn't Facebook.

Are we all on here in hope of meeting? "

God this was only 3 weeks ago! Who knew we'd all be just chatting by now

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

"Open up a load of comedy abuse on myself.. .shall take it on the chin...lol

Never say you'll take it on the chin - that may inspire lots of mail you may not necessarily appreciate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I prefer to think of fab as a social media outlet for people with a certain lifestyle"

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