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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex

Sexting....I’m either not very good or it’s just not for me.

I think certain chats can get the juices flowing but I’m not one to actually get off from it.

Is it something men enjoy more than women??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexting....I’m either not very good or it’s just not for me.

I think certain chats can get the juices flowing but I’m not one to actually get off from it.

Is it something men enjoy more than women?? "

I'm with you, it doesn't do anything for me at all.

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

Give me your phone number and let’s sext properly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I fucking love it!

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"Give me your phone number and let’s sext properly "

Lol don’t get me wrong the guy I’m chatting to is pretty good but I don’t think it does much

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

I just dont get it when you haven't even met someone. So its not just you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexting....I’m either not very good or it’s just not for me.

I think certain chats can get the juices flowing but I’m not one to actually get off from it.

Is it something men enjoy more than women?? "

Hmmm. Used to think the same but I really do believe it depends on the person you’re chatting with.

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex

It would be nice to know how many women actually enjoy it.

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"I just dont get it when you haven't even met someone. So its not just you."

Agreed

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"Sexting....I’m either not very good or it’s just not for me.

I think certain chats can get the juices flowing but I’m not one to actually get off from it.

Is it something men enjoy more than women??

Hmmm. Used to think the same but I really do believe it depends on the person you’re chatting with."

Nice to know that you’ve had good experiences of it

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

It's not for me. The times I've done it, generally I'm just watching TV

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexting....I’m either not very good or it’s just not for me.

I think certain chats can get the juices flowing but I’m not one to actually get off from it.

Is it something men enjoy more than women?? "
i don’t enjoy it personally I've been asked to do it in the past and that person enjoyed how i talked to her but i got very little out of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like a good flirty chat as much as anyone but sexting doesn’t do much for me. Just gets me going to the point I’ll waste my load in my hand and not be interested in chatting anymore. The dirty talks better in person Where words can manifest into physical fun

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"It's not for me. The times I've done it, generally I'm just watching TV "

Hahahaha faking an orgasm lol

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I enjoy it with someone I already have a connection with. I think it all depends on the person too. Some chats are naturally flirty and sexy, other times it feels forced x

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

Havent done it for years really not since my early 20s

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"Sexting....I’m either not very good or it’s just not for me.

I think certain chats can get the juices flowing but I’m not one to actually get off from it.

Is it something men enjoy more than women?? i don’t enjoy it personally I've been asked to do it in the past and that person enjoyed how i talked to her but i got very little out of it "

So it was more for her pleasure you must be good with your words

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"I like a good flirty chat as much as anyone but sexting doesn’t do much for me. Just gets me going to the point I’ll waste my load in my hand and not be interested in chatting anymore. The dirty talks better in person Where words can manifest into physical fun "

No definitely this is someone who could be a potential meet but lots going on in both of our life’s to put it into real play

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

I get stupidly shy face to face..I can be really filthy in messages though!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexting....I’m either not very good or it’s just not for me.

I think certain chats can get the juices flowing but I’m not one to actually get off from it.

Is it something men enjoy more than women?? i don’t enjoy it personally I've been asked to do it in the past and that person enjoyed how i talked to her but i got very little out of it

So it was more for her pleasure you must be good with your words "
i think thats the tallent of sexting to be good with words i mean try and say 10 really sexy sentences now right off the bat, its not easy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexting....I’m either not very good or it’s just not for me.

I think certain chats can get the juices flowing but I’m not one to actually get off from it.

Is it something men enjoy more than women??

Hmmm. Used to think the same but I really do believe it depends on the person you’re chatting with.

Nice to know that you’ve had good experiences of it "

Honestly? I don’t know if it’s good. I’m usually more of a meet and lust after person.

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"I enjoy it with someone I already have a connection with. I think it all depends on the person too. Some chats are naturally flirty and sexy, other times it feels forced x"

I think flirty chats are different from sexting.

Flirty chats can be fun and it’s a build up to meeting but I don’t actually get off from it.

My wand needs no words to help me get off. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My conversations may on occasion take a flirtatious route with sexual undertone or innuendo but rarely explicit sex talk.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexting....I’m either not very good or it’s just not for me.

I think certain chats can get the juices flowing but I’m not one to actually get off from it.

Is it something men enjoy more than women?? "

With the right person it's great, and be a good build up to your next meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get stupidly shy face to face..I can be really filthy in messages though!! "

I’m very similar, been told I have quite a slick tongue, then when I meet them I go all shy and they think I’m not the same person I was chatting with

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"Sexting....I’m either not very good or it’s just not for me.

I think certain chats can get the juices flowing but I’m not one to actually get off from it.

Is it something men enjoy more than women??

Hmmm. Used to think the same but I really do believe it depends on the person you’re chatting with.

Nice to know that you’ve had good experiences of it

Honestly? I don’t know if it’s good. I’m usually more of a meet and lust after person. "

Yep my kind of person.

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"My conversations may on occasion take a flirtatious route with sexual undertone or innuendo but rarely explicit sex talk. "

I like it like that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've got involved in sexting before. It's more of a giggle than anything else but I've had girls tell me their wet from reading it. They're maybe pulling my leg? Also been told I could write erotic novels too?!

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"I get stupidly shy face to face..I can be really filthy in messages though!!

I’m very similar, been told I have quite a slick tongue, then when I meet them I go all shy and they think I’m not the same person I was chatting with "

I think in person you should let the body do the talking

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do enjoy it with the right person as it can be a great mental stimulation and I do love using my mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The text should really only serve to stimulate the other person's imagination. If you WANT to imagine what you're going to do with each other when you're together then they can be a good prompt and can be very erotic. Although that said, I've got a mind like a sewer anyway and it doesn't take much!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With someone on my page, really switched on, who actively listens and responds, it can be an incredible tool for anticipating real life sex. But it’s quite rare to find that, otherwise it’s just constant nagging for photos at inopportune times ::awkward::

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn't do nothing for me either, i find it off putting.

If we have a connection i don't mind a little sex talk while having sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"My conversations may on occasion take a flirtatious route with sexual undertone or innuendo but rarely explicit sex talk.

I like it like that. "

It’s natural for me. Just as likely to happen in face to face conversation as in text. I can’t do forced dirty talk. Sometimes it slips out involuntarily though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get stupidly shy face to face..I can be really filthy in messages though!! "

Same here. I love sexting. My experience is that it’s mostly men that want to do it with me. Come to think of it, it’s mostly men that want sex with me too.

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"I've got involved in sexting before. It's more of a giggle than anything else but I've had girls tell me their wet from reading it. They're maybe pulling my leg? Also been told I could write erotic novels too?!"

I might need to hear from you Mr Bants.

It can get you’re juices flowing but that’s about it

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I enjoy it with someone I already have a connection with. I think it all depends on the person too. Some chats are naturally flirty and sexy, other times it feels forced x"

Definitely this

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"I've got involved in sexting before. It's more of a giggle than anything else but I've had girls tell me their wet from reading it. They're maybe pulling my leg? Also been told I could write erotic novels too?!

I might need to hear from you Mr Bants.

It can get you’re juices flowing but that’s about it "

Go team Bants!

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"With someone on my page, really switched on, who actively listens and responds, it can be an incredible tool for anticipating real life sex. But it’s quite rare to find that, otherwise it’s just constant nagging for photos at inopportune times ::awkward::"

I totally agree, when that connection is there It does mentally stimulate you to what’s coming for you lol

But to actually want to do it just to get off doesn’t do it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I fucking love it!"

I can be so good at it. But only if I am the one to initiate! Nothing worse than being asked or told to talk dirty or "send pics". I'm the kind that will lift up my skirt in the toilet and send u a sneaky pussy shot when you're at work...but if I'm asked to send it pissed me off!

I know, women eh??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both my past fwb were into it before we actually met. Possibly it gave an insight into compatibility? I had never done it before then. They used to get very worked up and much of our chats got acted out when we met..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it depends on the situation. If it's something that happens naturally in the flow of the conversation it can be a bit of a turn on but it's not something I would set out to do with someone I don't have a connection with.

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"I fucking love it!

I can be so good at it. But only if I am the one to initiate! Nothing worse than being asked or told to talk dirty or "send pics". I'm the kind that will lift up my skirt in the toilet and send u a sneaky pussy shot when you're at work...but if I'm asked to send it pissed me off!

I know, women eh?? "

Hahahha this is so me, I hate being asked to do something. Surely it means more without having to ask

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By *ire_thornMan
over a year ago

no comment

I have fun with it. I have a fairly creative mind. If i know what your limits are ill push them a little... And id like to think im very good at it. I try to paint a very clear picture too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Seems more normal in younger fabbers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it’s done right then it can be really stimulating, I’ve been told that I’ve had a Couple of ladies wet and even given one an orgasm through reading it, maybe she was pulling my leg but I like to do it with the right person

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"Seems more normal in younger fabbers"

Like yourself??

I don’t know whether to class myself as young or old now lol

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"If it’s done right then it can be really stimulating, I’ve been told that I’ve had a Couple of ladies wet and even given one an orgasm through reading it, maybe she was pulling my leg but I like to do it with the right person "

I think if the woman is ok and wanting it, it’s all good

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If it’s done right then it can be really stimulating, I’ve been told that I’ve had a Couple of ladies wet and even given one an orgasm through reading it, maybe she was pulling my leg but I like to do it with the right person

I think if the woman is ok and wanting it, it’s all good "

Absolutely, it has to be welcomed and to achieve the mental stimulation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems more normal in younger fabbers

Like yourself??

I don’t know whether to class myself as young or old now lol"

Yes, I suppose like myself. Go with however you feel. But younger fabbers might be more inclined. for example snapchat etc etc

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By *ick_and_BickerCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

I’ve tried often over the years, it simply makes me cringe.

T.

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"Seems more normal in younger fabbers

Like yourself??

I don’t know whether to class myself as young or old now lol

Yes, I suppose like myself. Go with however you feel. But younger fabbers might be more inclined. for example snapchat etc etc "

As long as you’re both into it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seems more normal in younger fabbers

Like yourself??

I don’t know whether to class myself as young or old now lol

Yes, I suppose like myself. Go with however you feel. But younger fabbers might be more inclined. for example snapchat etc etc

As long as you’re both into it. "

Well that’s how it works.

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By *ebjonnsonMan
over a year ago

Maldon


"Sexting....I’m either not very good or it’s just not for me.

I think certain chats can get the juices flowing but I’m not one to actually get off from it.

Is it something men enjoy more than women?? "

Fun in a new relationship . But if I’m honest I soon run out of things to say.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy it! Me and the mr sext often it’s just the very first forplay. We get these scenarios in our head and build each other up then by the time we get home we’re aching for each other. Sexting here, not so much. It usually is enough for them and then they don’t meet you so your left frustrated or the other way they get obsessed with you and try to cross boundaries. I don’t sext mr’s I’ve met either as I think it’s be disrespectful. Sexting a couple you met can be fun but it’s never anything more than pre forplay and gets you into a plan of what you want to do to them. Don’t think I fall into the younger category but I enjoy it

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By *urvy10Woman
over a year ago

Manchester


"Sexting....I’m either not very good or it’s just not for me.

I think certain chats can get the juices flowing but I’m not one to actually get off from it.

Is it something men enjoy more than women?? "

I love sexting, it really gets me going and I love being teased during work ready for some fun later on!

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

Not into sexting. Prefer face to face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not into sexting at all ..it does absolutely nothing for me !!! especially when a guy I’ve not met asks to send a video or pic of me doing something naughty ..instant put off and I end the convo ..on the other hand if it’s a guy I have met then he will get spur of the moment sex txts ,videos and pics without asking all the time

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Never tried it Jo has done it a few times, and she definitely enjoyed it! I suppose if there is a proper connection between those involved it makes it quite horny

D.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got involved in sexting before. It's more of a giggle than anything else but I've had girls tell me their wet from reading it. They're maybe pulling my leg? Also been told I could write erotic novels too?!

I might need to hear from you Mr Bants.

It can get you’re juices flowing but that’s about it "

Anytime gorgeous!

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

It's not something I indulge in with everyone but when it works, it works and when the other person gets into your mind it can be amazing foreplay or more and can even be the precursor to meeting.

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By *irty Flirty HarryMan
over a year ago

East Sussex

I've done it in the past with some very horny results but it has to be with someone who is happy to do it. I've tried it with some that have been very unresponsive and that's a complete waste of time. When it does well and both parties get really horny then is great.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It honestly does nothing for me! I get really awkward with what to say back!

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

All to do with the recipient and how she participates.. if she doesn’t then it’s odd being so one sided lol

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By *imply_SensualMan
over a year ago

warrington

Sexting or Phone Sex, neither do anything for me, it all feels false... I am definitely a face to face, skin on skin interactive person.

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales


"It's not something I indulge in with everyone but when it works, it works and when the other person gets into your mind it can be amazing foreplay or more and can even be the precursor to meeting. "

This.... it builds up the anticipation and passion for a future meet

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By *eah BabyCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire, Windermere ,Cumbria

I love it if it’s someones pants I’m hoping to get into if it’s not then it’s euugggghhhh!

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales


"Seems more normal in younger fabbers"

As an old sod I’d say not tbh...

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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If its with the right person at the right time it can be great and I really enjoy it.

I've had some conversations that just make me cringe though!

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"It honestly does nothing for me! I get really awkward with what to say back! "

I know right.....I take a back seat as I’m unsure sometimes if what to even say and when lol

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"All to do with the recipient and how she participates.. if she doesn’t then it’s odd being so one sided lol"

What do you usually tend to do when it’s one sided??

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By *obbychick OP   Woman
over a year ago

Essex


"If its with the right person at the right time it can be great and I really enjoy it.

I've had some conversations that just make me cringe though! "

Lol enlighten us

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

‘I’m peeling off your wet panties and gawping at your hoo ha. Mmmmm yes....’

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Yeah, I'm crap at it, I enjoy some filthy talk with someone I'm going to meet, it's builds up anticipation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it really boring...Reality over sexting for me....Nothing will come close to touch and feel

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.


"I find it really boring...Reality over sexting for me....Nothing will come close to touch and feel "

Any chance of a nice chat about galvanised zinc aluminium window frames. How does that float your boat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I find it really boring...Reality over sexting for me....Nothing will come close to touch and feel

Any chance of a nice chat about galvanised zinc aluminium window frames. How does that float your boat. "

Lol now I'm going to sleep x

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By *evil-AngelWoman
over a year ago

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"If its with the right person at the right time it can be great and I really enjoy it.

I've had some conversations that just make me cringe though!

Lol enlighten us "

I find really good descriptions sexy. I like being told what they want to do to me, and I like telling them what I'll do to them.

'I want to pound you until I cum' is one example of what not to write

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By *s_bettyboopWoman
over a year ago

-3

Definitely not for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In London, a ‘sex ting’ is a little different

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's like going to a lap dancing club, pointless if you cant touch!

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I'm absolutely awful at it. Receiving the messages that detail a scene they believe to be sexy (often from absolute randomers) makes me cringe and want to chuck my phone out the window.

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By *lair101TV/TS
over a year ago

Aberdeen, westhill

Does nothing for me either.. Plus I'm lazy and hate typing on my phone :p

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By *ustfulmusingCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk

We love it ,as Ady is away a lot it keeps us connected.he also writes me very sexy stories

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I do really like it.

Knowing I've made a lady cum from having sexy chats with her is a big turn on.

I'm talking about a sensual, erotic conversation, no just crude remarks.

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk


"It's like going to a lap dancing club, pointless if you cant touch! "

You don't need to be touch to be sexually aroused. I'm lucky I can orgasm with out touch it's all with the mind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Sexting....I’m either not very good or it’s just not for me.

I think certain chats can get the juices flowing but I’m not one to actually get off from it.

Is it something men enjoy more than women?? "

You don't need to sext lady ..a picture paints a 1000 words ...yours ?....10000 !!!

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I’m crap at it and it dosnt do anything for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m terrible at doing it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've got involved in sexting before. It's more of a giggle than anything else but I've had girls tell me their wet from reading it. They're maybe pulling my leg? Also been told I could write erotic novels too?!

I might need to hear from you Mr Bants.

It can get you’re juices flowing but that’s about it

Go team Bants!"

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

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I really like it. Throw in a few audios and the odd video for good measure, I'd quite happily do anything they asked. I think it's because I love erotica and the powerful evocation that arousing wordplay can inspire - sexting when done skilfully and I'm in the right mood is a personalised, live, responsive piece of erotica.

I love reading that the other person is aroused, thinking about me (because who doesn't love a good ego stroke) and wanting to talk to me about it. I don't think I'm particularly adept at it but I'm not dire at it. Sometimes I struggle to keep a momentum going because one handed typing is not my forte but I have fun with it and that's why I love it.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Well there appears to be a few people that enjoy it.

I'm happy to chat to anyone who would like to try at least.

If you decide it's not for you then we can stop.

No harm done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don’t really tend to do much sexual chat before I’ve met the person because you might not even be speaking to the person in the pictures.

If you 100% know who you’re speaking to cos you’ve video chatted or seen many videos of them and pictures and you have no doubt then a bit of sexy chat can take place.

It’s after you’ve had sex that sexting is better cos you know what they feel like and taste like and everything else.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its not for me. I like the odd "can't wait to get you into bed" kind of messages. But once they start describing what they want to do I lose interest

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

No it’s not for me really.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's so hit or miss. With some people I absolutely love it and it just flows but with others it can totally awkward. It's not even to do with how much I fancy them, just sometimes clicks for sexting and sometimes not.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

When it happens naturally and just flows with someone that's on the same wavelength and you almost anticipate what they are going to say, and build a mutual picture in your head, it can be quite heady and intense, and definitely stimulating.

When it feels forced, or is one sided, it's quite the opposite

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It makes me cringe with anyone else other than my hubby...with him no issue with others it all feels a bit cheesy and fake..

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Not for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a first message absolutely not. Can’t stand guys that write that they’re going to do this and that with me and make me scream.

Once I’ve met someone and we know what we shag like then sexting is better.

I love feedback so if a guy wants to tell me how nice I feel and that he can’t wait to put his umbrella back in my stand, I’m all over that. Also when I know what the guys bum hole tastes like it makes it so much easier to talk about later in texts.

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By *ustfulmusingCouple
over a year ago

Norfolk


"When it happens naturally and just flows with someone that's on the same wavelength and you almost anticipate what they are going to say, and build a mutual picture in your head, it can be quite heady and intense, and definitely stimulating.

When it feels forced, or is one sided, it's quite the opposite"

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

It does nothing for me if I’m honest.

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By *atricia ParnelWoman
over a year ago

In a town full of colours

I enjoy it if I'm in the mood, I can't sext well when I'm distracted

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Unless "we" have met and had a fun filled night - I don't do it... it does nothing for me.. even if she starts sexting me first....

"oh yeah babe - I'm so ....... I can wait to ...... with you" "hmmmmmm"...

WHAT IS THAT ALL ABOUT???? it seems sooooo fake.... just pick UP the phone.. speak to each other.. maybe start with "WHat are you wearing?" - lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I fucking love it!

I can be so good at it. But only if I am the one to initiate! Nothing worse than being asked or told to talk dirty or "send pics". I'm the kind that will lift up my skirt in the toilet and send u a sneaky pussy shot when you're at work...but if I'm asked to send it pissed me off!

I know, women eh?? "

Totally!!

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire


"I fucking love it!

I can be so good at it. But only if I am the one to initiate! Nothing worse than being asked or told to talk dirty or "send pics". I'm the kind that will lift up my skirt in the toilet and send u a sneaky pussy shot when you're at work...but if I'm asked to send it pissed me off!

I know, women eh??

Hahahha this is so me, I hate being asked to do something. Surely it means more without having to ask"

It does mean more.

I quite enjoy sexting with the right person. But it’s as much if not more about the mental connection and being on the same page in how the story evolves, than the physical description.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m terrible at doing it "

You just need practice and a little imagination..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's interesting really. People can be aroused by pictures, but not by actual communication. I think making the connection is the important thing, and the rest just flows naturally in my experience. Of course it helps having a creative mind, and I never actually texted, but conversed in real time through a messaging board on a forum. You can learn a lot about a person and their fantasies and desires. It wasn't until I came on here that I became wary because it might actually be another bloke!

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant

Willing to help out

Sometimes it can be fun, especially with the odd pic or two as well.

Find it easier saying things by text that I would never dream of saying in person.

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By *oupleforxtrafunCouple
over a year ago

Nottingham

No one txs me

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By *eeBee67Man
over a year ago

Masked and Distant


"No one txs me "

Join the club

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire


"Sexting....I’m either not very good or it’s just not for me.

I think certain chats can get the juices flowing but I’m not one to actually get off from it.

Is it something men enjoy more than women?? "

It’s a fine art of not crossing the vulgar/crude line... not many men are capable of sexting without it being either

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By *innie The MinxWoman
over a year ago

Under the Duvet

Well what can I say, with some people it's like trying to dance the Tango with one built up shoe, while some people ( you know who you are...) have the skills

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Well what can I say, with some people it's like trying to dance the Tango with one built up shoe, while some people ( you know who you are...) have the skills "

The perfect analogy

It's when you get a response and think "hang on a sec that's not physically possible" based on what went before - never fails to crack me up

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Sexting....I’m either not very good or it’s just not for me.

I think certain chats can get the juices flowing but I’m not one to actually get off from it.

Is it something men enjoy more than women??

It’s a fine art of not crossing the vulgar/crude line... not many men are capable of sexting without it being either"

Agree DC it's a dance and an artform, sensuality with words, creating a visual image that teases and tantalises rather than "Insert Fig A into Fig B"

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

It depends on who is sexting. My fwb and I have it down to a fine and very sexy art, but I think it helps that we know how to push each other's buttons in real life, as well as virtually. It's not so easy with someone met from here unless you know them a bit.

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