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By *razydriver8 OP   Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

one of those days, where you just feel out of sorts, for no real reason, when you wanna go somewhere and scream and shout.

if a friend asks if your ok, you almost burst into tears,

what do you do to pick up your mood?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah regularly I asked my doc if I was depressed she said no stressed ( I a full time carer) does being stressed ring any alarm bells with you ?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


" one of those days, where you just feel out of sorts, for no real reason, when you wanna go somewhere and scream and shout.

if a friend asks if your ok, you almost burst into tears,

what do you do to pick up your mood? "

Depends on whether I feel more angry or more sad. In case of angry I go for a good work out at the gym and a swim. In case of sad I go with the flow, allow myself to be miserable for the evening and havea treat in the shape of a nice meal, some wine and chocolate. Alternatively a nice massage. Works for me!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes sometimes when i have a day like that i dont log onto fab lol ( as im usually to peed off) but havent had a day like that for ages

have a long bubble bath some wine and music on and should cheer u up

or call a good friend for a natter x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stressed ... that is so right

Things add up over time and all of sudden you just get to the point where you need to jump up and down and have a good cry and rant xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes today is totally one of those days! wish i could wake up and do it all over again and change it all

hopefully i'll wake up and today would have been a nightmare

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

stressed and depression are quite commonly misdiagnosed

a good scream does wonders.

a good sex session also will work

or a wii session boxing works well to get te aggression out

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By *razydriver8 OP   Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

my life is and has been for the last few years, one crisis after another, to the point if something doesn't go wrong or a family member isnt on the phone asking for help, then I worry something is wrong but no more stress at the moment then before , in fact things are to a point the best they have been for a few months.

is there a sound proof room in the lounge? lol

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By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon

Got overly emotional last friday when very d*unk on rugby tour ending up crying in front of mates have buried lots of feelings during divorce etc hasent done me any favours best to talk to someone

have good days and bad best cure for me is to ring my daughter

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"my life is and has been for the last few years, one crisis after another, to the point if something doesn't go wrong or a family member isnt on the phone asking for help, then I worry something is wrong but no more stress at the moment then before , in fact things are to a point the best they have been for a few months.

is there a sound proof room in the lounge? lol"
I am now going to open the forum bar ... what will it be for you?

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"Got overly emotional last friday when very d*unk on rugby tour ending up crying in front of mates have buried lots of feelings during divorce etc hasent done me any favours best to talk to someone

"
Absolutely nothing wrong with that - takes a man to admit to this and I hope you feel a bit better for it

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By *razydriver8 OP   Couple
over a year ago

plymouth


"my life is and has been for the last few years, one crisis after another, to the point if something doesn't go wrong or a family member isnt on the phone asking for help, then I worry something is wrong but no more stress at the moment then before , in fact things are to a point the best they have been for a few months.

is there a sound proof room in the lounge? lolI am now going to open the forum bar ... what will it be for you? "

ummm ohh how about a triple voddie and , a large chocie bar all served by a hunk in a pair of gold tight shorts...........

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" one of those days, where you just feel out of sorts, for no real reason, when you wanna go somewhere and scream and shout.

if a friend asks if your ok, you almost burst into tears,

what do you do to pick up your mood? "

i had surgery on 20th april and still feeling rough so hell yeah i know the feeling

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland


"my life is and has been for the last few years, one crisis after another, to the point if something doesn't go wrong or a family member isnt on the phone asking for help, then I worry something is wrong but no more stress at the moment then before , in fact things are to a point the best they have been for a few months.

is there a sound proof room in the lounge? lolI am now going to open the forum bar ... what will it be for you?

ummm ohh how about a triple voddie and , a large chocie bar all served by a hunk in a pair of gold tight shorts........... "

I m working on the latter -

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" one of those days, where you just feel out of sorts, for no real reason, when you wanna go somewhere and scream and shout.

if a friend asks if your ok, you almost burst into tears,

what do you do to pick up your mood? "

Yep and today has been one of those days.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Siren often accuses me of being apathetic as I don't react to things that other people might let get to them. I've tried to explain that if I feel I can't change something I don't fret over it but she sees that as holding back or holding something in. I think to be as laid back as I am one needs to be a little bit selfish, which in itself is not a good trait, but it's saved me from a shed load of grief in the past.

I think my gravestone will probably have on it:

Here's lies Wishy.

Oh well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

+1

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By *U1966Man
over a year ago

Devon


"Got overly emotional last friday when very d*unk on rugby tour ending up crying in front of mates have buried lots of feelings during divorce etc hasent done me any favours best to talk to someone

Absolutely nothing wrong with that - takes a man to admit to this and I hope you feel a bit better for it "

Was so d*unk i dont remember doing it but my mates told me and some were worried i have done it before this year when not really d*unk dont drink much usually not ashamed of doing it went through a lot it is part of who i am

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

ive just had a proper good cry actually, i've thrown away possibly the best thing to happen to me in the past few years over something really petty.

im such a twat

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By *razydriver8 OP   Couple
over a year ago

plymouth


"ive just had a proper good cry actually, i've thrown away possibly the best thing to happen to me in the past few years over something really petty.

im such a twat "

ohh sassy honey.. ( big hugs)xxxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Got overly emotional last friday when very d*unk on rugby tour ending up crying in front of mates have buried lots of feelings during divorce etc hasent done me any favours best to talk to someone

Absolutely nothing wrong with that - takes a man to admit to this and I hope you feel a bit better for it

Was so d*unk i dont remember doing it but my mates told me and some were worried i have done it before this year when not really d*unk dont drink much usually not ashamed of doing it went through a lot it is part of who i am "

nothing wrong with feelings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive just had a proper good cry actually, i've thrown away possibly the best thing to happen to me in the past few years over something really petty.

im such a twat

ohh sassy honey.. ( big hugs)xxxx"

We all do it I the queen of fuckin things up for myself but be to stubborn to stop it I can see it happening but do it anyway I no that's absolutely no help right now but your not a twat your human that's all

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By *ub bbwWoman
over a year ago

oldbury


"ive just had a proper good cry actually, i've thrown away possibly the best thing to happen to me in the past few years over something really petty.

im such a twat

ohh sassy honey.. ( big hugs)xxxx

"

your not a twat sassy we all make mistakes . hugs x x

To the op yes i do and have had oen today where i just want to be left alone and stay in bed and hide from the world as i know if someone talks to me i will cry or scream at them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"ive just had a proper good cry actually, i've thrown away possibly the best thing to happen to me in the past few years over something really petty.

im such a twat "

Big hugs Cute - all of us react emotionally at times to things that are really petty and not worth it. Perhaps when you're not so emotional you will be able to sort things for the better with a clear head.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm feeling stressed I tend to read as I can totally switch off when reading.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I'm stressed I go to zumba or my burleqsue

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes sometimes when i have a day like that i dont log onto fab lol ( as im usually to peed off) but havent had a day like that for ages

have a long bubble bath some wine and music on and should cheer u up

or call a good friend for a natter x"

likewise and had quite a shit time of it over the last year but coming on fabs and mucking about helps me escape.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" one of those days, where you just feel out of sorts, for no real reason, when you wanna go somewhere and scream and shout.

if a friend asks if your ok, you almost burst into tears,

what do you do to pick up your mood? "

One day like that? Naa mine come in weeks! A good scream, bite your lip and take the attitude that nothing to going to grind you down! Not saying it works all the time but it works for me!

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By *razydriver8 OP   Couple
over a year ago

plymouth

Hi guys N girls.,

just wanted to say thank you for all your supportive PM's feel better today, I took a long shower and had some fun time with fsm. lol orgasums are very good for your health...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes most of this weekend I was feeling like that. I was very irritable to those around me, I just felt low. New week though and I got a new job today so onwards and upwards.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" orgasums are very good for your health... "

Best off prescription remedy there ever was!

Wolf

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