FabSwingers.com forum: Rejection

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

For us guys it's part of the course of fab but how many of you women have been rejected and was there a reason given?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv never been rejected but Iv been strung along.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Rejection can hurt, but you get used to it after the first couple of hundred. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's PAR for the course....

....but it depends on your outlook....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't message first so never experienced rejection.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been told the grass is always greener

Let me tell you... It isn't

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Depends how you define "rejection" OP? In over three years of being on the site I don't think I've been out and out "rejected" once when I've suggested meeting.

I don't think of initial messages being deleted as me being rejected though - more just a sign that based on profile text and pics alone we weren't a good match

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been rejected.

I don't take it personally. No one is for everyone. There will be people who find you or your profile attractive and then those who won't.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

"I've been rejected.

I don't take it personally. No one is for everyone. There will be people who find you or your profile attractive and then those who won't. "

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By *pecialK88Man
over a year ago

Aberdeen

I think I would only class rejection as arranging to meet someone and then after the initial chat and getting to know one another they change there minds. I wouldn't have an issue with it if it happened. Everyone has a type and if it doesn't work out then it's not a problem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve only been rejected after getting to know someone on here twice. One of them hurt.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No reason att they just block after asking my face picture

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Depends how you define "rejection" OP? In over three years of being on the site I don't think I've been out and out "rejected" once when I've suggested meeting.

I don't think of initial messages being deleted as me being rejected though - more just a sign that based on profile text and pics alone we weren't a good match"

I mean after you've met someone or approached someone in a club, can't count messages as you ladies would be on here 24/7 replying to messages

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

"Depends how you define "rejection" OP? In over three years of being on the site I don't think I've been out and out "rejected" once when I've suggested meeting.

I don't think of initial messages being deleted as me being rejected though - more just a sign that based on profile text and pics alone we weren't a good match

I mean after you've met someone or approached someone in a club, can't count messages as you ladies would be on here 24/7 replying to messages"

"You ladies"?

Have you looked at my profile pics?

Either way my initial post stands in over three years I've not been out and out rejected in the way you suggest - I've had meets where a second meet hasn't happened but they've mainly fizzled from both sides rather than it being a conscious rejection

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Not rejected bt been stood up twice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually don't think I've been rejected. Ppl usually ask me rather than me asking them.....

.....no interest in meeting rn though....

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By *candiumWoman
over a year ago

oban

I've been ghosted by someone I'd met several times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I normally have a meet then get rejected by never hearing from them again

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By *candiumWoman
over a year ago

oban

"I normally have a meet then get rejected by never hearing from them again"

This happens to me as well.

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By *otrockWoman
over a year ago

Essex

Not be rejected as such as I very rarely message first unless he's a wow... But ive been ghosted as few times... X

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I've been told I'm not someone's type and after meeting someone socially at a club they said they didn't feel any spark between us. I didn't insult either guy or stamp my feet, I accepted that I won't be everyone's type and got on with my life. I still see one of the guys at the club and we always have a chat and a giggle.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

not rejected as such but have swapped a couple of messages.and then it fades off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have been told they are not keen on tattoos or they like athletic type women.

No biggie at all,I would only want to sleep with people who found me sexy so rather they told me, never any hard feelings

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rejected foe being goth and having ink and curves. Shrug your shoulders and move on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was rejected on another website. Reason given was that I look too serious for this kind of thing

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For us guys it's part of the course of fab but how many of you women have been rejected and was there a reason given?"

Me, usually kindly though.

The only ones that resort to insults are when they cant handle it from me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Was in 9m happy (So i thought relationship) ghosted after a lovely few days together.

If thats how he was.. best of out of it..

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By *horehouseprincessWoman
over a year ago

small town near Munich

I have been rejected and it sucks. But thats life, and life goes on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy rejection

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By *herrySnickersWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere

Ha. Rejection is always part of the game..I’ve been rejected (disconnected from) on another site/app:

For wanting to chat for longer than he wanted to before meeting...

For again wanting to message longer than 10 messages before deciding to meet...

And for distance reasons...

I see it as good thing as it rules out meeting someone who’s not on your wavelength... I love communication and getting a sense of someone prior to meeting and if you don’t want to chat some then you aren’t for me!

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

I've been rejected on here a few times which is fair enough everyone should be able to say no. Never got mad over it or peeved off. Just said that's fine and have fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only reject the ones who drive red Kia ceed

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I tend to have the natural fade away or the move to friend zone, which I actually enjoy as I know where I stand with them, cannot abide ghosting or benching and will not tolerate it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks for responses more responses than I imagined just remember for all those that have been rejected it's there loss

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By *rwhowhatwherewhyMan
over a year ago

Aylesbury

"I don't message first so never experienced rejection."

How nice for you!

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By *erdyWoman
over a year ago

wiltshire

Never been rejected. But in the years I've been on/off fab I've never sent a message first to anyone.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been rejected and also rejected people ourselves, it's normal. Just pull your big boy pants up and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never been rejected at the messaging stage but you can’t really call that a rejection. I think to be rejected the person would’ve had to spend time with you, see what you’re about and then decide you’re not for them or they wouldn’t want to see you again.

I had one recently and he said it was distance but it’s only a 10 hour round trip!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For us guys it's part of the course of fab but how many of you women have been rejected and was there a reason given?"

Mrs. Because she was a redhead.

Second time was told she was too old.

And yes, pics had been exchanged before hand.

Good job they were only social meets.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've been rejected in our couples and as a single.

Its life, but I've also rejected.

You can't tickle everyone's pickle!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not so much rejection, but I tend to fancy older men. The older men I fancy from the forum, tend not to fancy me.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

"Not so much rejection, but I tend to fancy older men. The older men I fancy from the forum, tend not to fancy me.

Or they are 300 miles away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not rejected as don't really put myself out there but had someone I gave a lot to emotionally and physically put someone new (who ended up not turning up!) Before me. Hence that felt like rejection and I didn't see him again after that.

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