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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

When you really fancy someone on fab and you want them, what do you do to make it known?

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

They're pretty good at making it obvious from forum posts and messages

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex

I’ve never really fancied anyone enough like that, to want them to know but I’m usually subtle, so might send a wink

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes


"When you really fancy someone on fab and you want them, what do you do to make it known? "

I don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send them a cut n paste and my cock pic!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you really fancy someone on fab and you want them, what do you do to make it known?

I don't. "

Is that because you dont have too, because men will just message anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you really fancy someone on fab and you want them, what do you do to make it known?

I don't. "

And there was me thinking you were flirting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Message them. Shy weans don't get any sweeties

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales


"Send them a cut n paste and my cock pic! "

It was very welcome too

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Send them a cut n paste and my cock pic! "

Oh, the surprise approach

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

Send them a message!

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

message them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would message and tell them, or if in a club, just approach them.

It is pretty easy, and can take a no if that be the case

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By *ildatheart6969Couple
over a year ago

Cheltenham

Wink first

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tell them. Ground breaking stuff!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Women messaging men it actually happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell them. Ground breaking stuff!"

Calm down you thirsty bitch!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve never really fancied anyone enough like that, to want them to know but I’m usually subtle, so might send a wink "

Is that why you sent me a wink?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not here to fancy anyone however there has to be an attraction and connection for sure

Sass

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By *inkyandPerkyxWoman
over a year ago

essex

Well said guys x

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Yet to find anyone I fancy enough

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Straight to the point. Why pussy foot around? Not with the "want to fuck?" Message.

Make a message what you want to put across with some initiative, simple to converse and be straight at the same time.

F.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Women messaging men it actually happens "

It does indeed

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I wonder do any of you ladies send a pussy pic and a want to meet now text

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Tell them.... it’s not hard and what have you got to lose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you really fancy someone on fab and you want them, what do you do to make it known?

I don't. "

Me either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I wonder do any of you ladies send a pussy pic and a want to meet now text "

Dont encourage them, I'm sick of having to bulk delete all the FAF messages

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"When you really fancy someone on fab and you want them, what do you do to make it known? "

Not overly as i strongly believe a man should chase as they want the prize. I find when i chase them... They so not bothered much about me

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I send them a wink, message or a fancy a fuck message, depending on my level of interest.

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I message them and tell them - what else would I do?

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"I’ve never really fancied anyone enough like that, to want them to know but I’m usually subtle, so might send a wink

Is that why you sent me a wink? "

Lol I sent you a wink and body parts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Tell them. Ground breaking stuff!

Calm down you thirsty bitch!"

Alright, cakeboy

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I’ve never really fancied anyone enough like that, to want them to know but I’m usually subtle, so might send a wink

Is that why you sent me a wink?

Lol I sent you a wink and body parts "

That's a proper green light

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Send them a message saying “lush” in 9 years 100% success rate!

Met every single person I’ve wanted to meet. But in 9 years until recently never have I ever had someone that wouldn’t meet me again. I have tasted my own medicine and I don’t like it one bit. Ego is shattered and all kinds of shit has gone through me head from me stalling my car when he got in to me being a shit shag, didn’t make him cum enough, fanny kicking off a pong. Feel as fat as a walrus and when I get back from Amsterdam I’m starting back in the gym and going on a mega cut and cleanse.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I message them and tell them - what else would I do? "

Well I guess you could put it on a plate for them

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"I message them and tell them - what else would I do? "

Semaphore? Smoke signals?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you really fancy someone on fab and you want them, what do you do to make it known? "

I'd message & make general conversation to test the water

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like to send them a polite well written message without cock pics.

0% success rate

100% delete no reply hahaha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Send them a message saying “lush” in 9 years 100% success rate!

Met every single person I’ve wanted to meet. But in 9 years until recently never have I ever had someone that wouldn’t meet me again. I have tasted my own medicine and I don’t like it one bit. Ego is shattered and all kinds of shit has gone through me head from me stalling my car when he got in to me being a shit shag, didn’t make him cum enough, fanny kicking off a pong. Feel as fat as a walrus and when I get back from Amsterdam I’m starting back in the gym and going on a mega cut and cleanse. "

Married maybe?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you really fancy someone on fab and you want them, what do you do to make it known?

I'd message & make general conversation to test the water"

What if you messaged him and he immediately replied with a dick pic.

Good or bad?

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley


"When you really fancy someone on fab and you want them, what do you do to make it known?

I'd message & make general conversation to test the water

What if you messaged him and he immediately replied with a dick pic.

Good or bad? "

Just a dick pic?

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes


"When you really fancy someone on fab and you want them, what do you do to make it known?

I don't.

Is that because you dont have too, because men will just message anyway "

I replied in PM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Richard the Third?

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

If they use forums will wait till they join in in one of the fun/games thread and will let them no that way, occasionally felt brave and sent the first message but not very often

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I like to send them a polite well written message without cock pics.

0% success rate

100% delete no reply hahaha"

Ooof I know man.

I think I should post a dick pic and fancy a shag message to everyone. If I treated it like a numbers game and just bombed everyone with a quick message I'm sure It couldn't be much worse.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send them a message saying “lush” in 9 years 100% success rate!

Met every single person I’ve wanted to meet. But in 9 years until recently never have I ever had someone that wouldn’t meet me again. I have tasted my own medicine and I don’t like it one bit. Ego is shattered and all kinds of shit has gone through me head from me stalling my car when he got in to me being a shit shag, didn’t make him cum enough, fanny kicking off a pong. Feel as fat as a walrus and when I get back from Amsterdam I’m starting back in the gym and going on a mega cut and cleanse.

Married maybe? "

Nah 100% not. Probably just didn’t enjoy it enough.

But as for your question, just message people you like the look of. They’re either going to respond or they’re not. If you don’t ask you won’t know.

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By *obbychickWoman
over a year ago

Essex


"I’ve never really fancied anyone enough like that, to want them to know but I’m usually subtle, so might send a wink

Is that why you sent me a wink?

Lol I sent you a wink and body parts

That's a proper green light "

Lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"When you really fancy someone on fab and you want them, what do you do to make it known?

I'd message & make general conversation to test the water

What if you messaged him and he immediately replied with a dick pic.

Good or bad?

Just a dick pic?"

And balls

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes


"When you really fancy someone on fab and you want them, what do you do to make it known?

I don't.

And there was me thinking you were flirting "

You're my friend. I know you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"When you really fancy someone on fab and you want them, what do you do to make it known?

I don't.

And there was me thinking you were flirting

You're my friend. I know you x "

Hahaha even I dont know me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I click on the message thingy and as if by magic you type some text and fingers crossed you get a reply.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

No secret codes to look out for then. I thought I might of been missing something.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hit the message button, let them know, chat, hopefully arrange a social,go from there. Not really rocket science

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Send them a cut n paste and my cock pic! "

Perfect!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wink or I message them.

But I don't include 15 pics of my vagina or ask them straight out if they want to eat me out!

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By *adMerWoman
over a year ago

Sandwich

Send a wink, sometimes a message if there’s something on their profile I appreciate or something they’ve said in the forums. In a club they mostly flock to me, but I am more interested in the cool dudes, so prefer to play the long game . Still fun teasing though

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Hit the message button, let them know, chat, hopefully arrange a social,go from there. Not really rocket science"

What was that first bit again??

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By *orraine999Woman
over a year ago

Somewhere

I also wink or message. The wink gets the conversation started.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hit the message button, let them know, chat, hopefully arrange a social,go from there. Not really rocket science

What was that first bit again?? "

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit


"Hit the message button, let them know, chat, hopefully arrange a social,go from there. Not really rocket science"

If that *were* rocket science I'd be steering clear of NASA

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