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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can anyone help woth first messages please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's your first messages like so we can help?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Help in what?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you tried asking for boobs....?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just send them a picture of your cock. Ladies on here love that

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

First message doesn't really matter, people will generally look at your profile first and see if it appeals.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just send them a picture of your cock. Ladies on here love that "

More impressive with a can of red bull or sky remote for size comparison

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

[Removed by poster at 09/03/20 00:29:26]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just send them a picture of your cock. Ladies on here love that

More impressive with a can of red bull or sky remote for size comparison "

Or looking over the toilet bowl

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just send them a picture of your cock. Ladies on here love that

More impressive with a can of red bull or sky remote for size comparison

Or looking over the toilet bowl"

Brownie points if its flushed and clean

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You need to get to the point as quickly as possible because of the competition on here. So I'd advise something like "do you fancy a fuck now?". The problem with that is it's too many words, takes too long to type, and so somebody else might get their message in first. So how can you cut that down? I'd suggest "fuck now?", and make sure you add a picture of your cock so they know what they're getting. This ALWAYS works for me, and I can't see any good reason why it won't for you too. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just send them a picture of your cock. Ladies on here love that

More impressive with a can of red bull or sky remote for size comparison

Or looking over the toilet bowl

Brownie points if its flushed and clean "

Brownie points for no brown.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to get to the point as quickly as possible because of the competition on here. So I'd advise something like "do you fancy a fuck now?". The problem with that is it's too many words, takes too long to type, and so somebody else might get their message in first. So how can you cut that down? I'd suggest "fuck now?", and make sure you add a picture of your cock so they know what they're getting. This ALWAYS works for me, and I can't see any good reason why it won't for you too. Good luck "

This is very good advice

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip


"Can anyone help woth first messages please"

I think this is a good template:

Start off saying hello, and if names are given a profile, use them.

Say why you are contacting them. It could be something you have seen in their profile or something you have read on the forum. Make sure they understand you are interested in them as people, not just because you want to get your end away or you want help fulfilling a fantasy.

One possible addition depending on how forward you want to be to say why you think you might be a hood match.

I hope that helps. We'll done for thinking of this. It's often forgotten and people send some truly awful first messages.

Feel free to give an example message on here for feedback. Not everybody will take the mick.

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By *amesidetopshaggerlolMan
over a year ago

Ashton under Lyne

Who knows ive tried and failed ive tried and had success

Just wrote a few words and its been same depends on the situations and persons mood receiving them

Just be you my profile is shit and I've done ok so anyone has a chance i suppose

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

FAF is usually very well received

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"FAF is usually very well received "

I'll need to try that

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"FAF is usually very well received "

Especially if they want it bareback.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone help woth first messages please"
learn to spell

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You need to get to the point as quickly as possible because of the competition on here. So I'd advise something like "do you fancy a fuck now?". The problem with that is it's too many words, takes too long to type, and so somebody else might get their message in first. So how can you cut that down? I'd suggest "fuck now?", and make sure you add a picture of your cock so they know what they're getting. This ALWAYS works for me, and I can't see any good reason why it won't for you too. Good luck "

This is excellent advice OP and definitely works for 99% of the males that are bold enough to be so commanding and straight to the point.

You might also like to mix it up a bit with something like "Hi Babe I want to fuck your arse rotten".

Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"FAF is usually very well received

I'll need to try that "

Let me know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"FAF is usually very well received

Especially if they want it bareback. "

Heaven on earth I mean on fab

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"FAF is usually very well received

I'll need to try that

Let me know "

I tried but I'm too old!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"FAF is usually very well received

Especially if they want it bareback.

Heaven on earth I mean on fab "

You're not the first lady to say that to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"FAF is usually very well received

I'll need to try that

Let me know

I tried but I'm too old! "

Better change that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i don’t think your first message is the problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Whats the problem then

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I message direct from the forums, so there is already a subject matter

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can anyone help woth first messages please

I think this is a good template:

Start off saying hello, and if names are given a profile, use them.

Say why you are contacting them. It could be something you have seen in their profile or something you have read on the forum. Make sure they understand you are interested in them as people, not just because you want to get your end away or you want help fulfilling a fantasy.

One possible addition depending on how forward you want to be to say why you think you might be a hood match.

I hope that helps. We'll done for thinking of this. It's often forgotten and people send some truly awful first messages.

Feel free to give an example message on here for feedback. Not everybody will take the mick. "

All good ideas. It's hard for guys, not sure if it's that difficult for us all

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