FabSwingers.com forum: any good sites to give mrs confidence

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi all my mrs has no confidence in her body , she has agreed to have some pics (with clothes on) on a site for people to comment, but she will not go on a swingers site or porn sites . so does anyone now any sites i can try , as i am hoping to move on and get a bit more daring with her if she gets her confidence back

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Um this one... if she won't trust a porn or swingers site you could always post naked pics of her on Facetube, but think that would be a very very bad idea

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Above all, dont rush her - it would spoil things for her, anybody you meet and also for you. Some people take a long time, if ever, to live the life style and it may not be a matter of just building up her confidence. I know if anybody tried to push me into doing something I didnt want to do .. it would never happen. So patience is the operative word I think.

If however, she genuinely wants to participate but is too shy, body conscious etc just visit a party or club and just watch to begin with. Sometimes it takes the reality check that other people are "normal" with faults etc as well? Hope this helps.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi all my mrs has no confidence in her body , she has agreed to have some pics (with clothes on) on a site for people to comment, but she will not go on a swingers site or porn sites . so does anyone now any sites i can try , as i am hoping to move on and get a bit more daring with her if she gets her confidence back

thanks"

i think maybe u need to help her get her confidence back and if its body issues and she wants to sort them join a gym together and not try and push her there us be a reason her confidence has gone xx

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over a year ago

I don't think putting pics of her on a site could be the answer to getting her confidence back

There will more likely be as many bad comments as good because thats what the internet is like,ive seen it happen in here and its not very pretty and could knock her confidence even more if you open her up to comments from complete strangers that really don't care what they say

She needs to feel that confidence from inside herself

Im a pretty confident lady but there is no way id ask for opinions of anyone else to say what they think about me,it would be opening myself up to receive a barrage of abuse

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

there is no such thing as a site where sh ewill ONLY get good feedback.

someone is not everything to everyone.

Ems lads GF put her pics up on some site and, although most of the somments were nice, there were some having a go at her because of her teeth (not bad, just a little crooked while she waits for her braces) and it was these she took on board.

if she cant be happy with herself because you find her sexy, and she thinks she looks nice, then strangers arent going to do that for her

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By *partan_dMan
over a year ago

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thanks

i think maybe u need to help her get her confidence back and if its body issues and she wants to sort them join a gym together and not try and push her there us be a reason her confidence has gone xx"

I agree with this... Make her feel good about herself. Drop her some compliments.. Whatever it is she has issues about help her overcome these by means of gym etc. But not sure you should pressure her into anything. You being on here with a picture of your cock out wont be doing her any favours.

Try taking some pics together or soemthing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't think putting pics of her on a site could be the answer to getting her confidence back

She needs to feel that confidence from inside herself

Im a pretty confident lady but there is no way id ask for opinions of anyone else to say what they think about me,it would be opening myself up to receive a barrage of abuse

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By *ovedupstillCouple
over a year ago

mullinwire

maybe you being on a swinging site looking for whatever (even though it is men you are looking for, not other women) isnt a good start to helping her get higher self esteem either

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

thanks for the advice, we was on swinging site before but lost her nerve when we was about to meet ,she does talk alot about other people being involved and we do go to a gym . so like someone said will just take it steady and see how it goes

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

you are trying to put the cart before the horse...she needs to feel good about her body first...

The problem with the internet is thier will always be some twunt who gets off on posting nastiness...and she will remember the one abusive comment not the 50 postive ones...

you might try going to a club...with no pressure to play...real people chatting her up would show her she is still fanciable.

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By *mm_n_ZedCouple
over a year ago

Fareham

I agree with a lot of what's been said on here. Definitely do NOT put any photos of her anywhere and ask for comments - some people are nasty bastards and make comments that could literally destroy any shred of self confidence she has left. If 50 people made nice comments about me and one said something nasty, you can be sure it's the nasty one I'd take on board.

I think going to a club (one where your wife can perhaps dress up a little rather than a spa where everyone wears towels) would be a good move. There is NO expectation to play or perform and she could see that not everyone there is a Barbie look-a-like. Normal people of every shape and size attend clubs and that might boost her confidence - it did mine.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

get on cam here xx in the chat rooms its good fun and it will all help xx you get a real mix of people its lovely at times xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let your wife have a look at some of the adult sites herself and make her own mind up, but only if she wants to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

thanks"

Ill be totally honest here.

if your mrs has no confidence doing photos being on cam or having meets probably wont work.

have you asked her why she feels like this, when you get to the bottom of how she is feeling then you can help her. often when you have a problem and dont talk about it it bothers you and knocks you down yet when you share a problem its shared and things can be done to help.

Until your wife admits she wants help to lose weight, or battle her demons its hard to move forward.

i hope i haven't offended you and i wish you luck x

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

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"I don't think putting pics of her on a site could be the answer to getting her confidence back

Agree too. The human psyche is a complex beast, and what's presenting as an issue may really be covering something else, and all stuff may need to be addressed.

It may just be that she's not ready to swing publicly atm; could be an overall confidence thing, not just related to body, we don't know. Counseling could help, though as her partner, you're in the best position to have a feel for what's up, when we don't have her to communicate with.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

confidence come from loving youself not maybe what you look like but for who you are as a person too x its not about sexy pics its not about others what thay think ......... its about being true to who you are .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" confidence come from loving youself not maybe what you look like but for who you are as a person too x its not about sexy pics its not about others what thay think ......... its about being true to who you are ."

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

We don't know your wife, but could you possibly be part of the problem? You're here looking for men, for some women that in itself would give them body issues.

Just saying.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if ur gonna post them anywhere online, expect some negative maybe even hurtful responses mate

better off just posting them onhere. if someone likes they`ll contact you i imagine

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We don't know your wife, but could you possibly be part of the problem? You're here looking for men, for some women that in itself would give them body issues.

Just saying."

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