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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I can never find a woman on here who wants to meet me,men and tv,ts but no woman. Anyone else have that problem

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I know women don't seem to have that problem

By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

What kind of messages do you send out to start a conversation? That's where a lot of people go wrong without realising how badly they come across. Can you give us an example?

By *dam_TinaCouple
over a year ago

Hampshire

Yeah, you mentioned

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What kind of messages do you send out to start a conversation? That's where a lot of people go wrong without realising how badly they come across. Can you give us an example? "

Having taken a glance at OP's profile, I would imagine that he doesn't send message and is instead hoping that he will get responses to winks.

Unfortunately OP, a lot of users on fab simply ignore winks.

I've lost count of how many times I've been winked at, only to send a message back and then be completely ignored.

Think of it another way OP, try and put yourself in a womans position for a moment.

You've just logged into fab and found over 100 messages in your inbox all from men showing an interest in you. All from men actually trying to engage with you. You go through them, deleting the ones you're not interested in and focusing on the ones that you are.

Why would you then bother to look at winks, then visit a profile that then expects you to write a message?

This is why many consider winks to be lazy.

Get proactive, and actually send a message

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You already started a thread about the same thing.

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope met loads of women