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Expectations v Reality

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What were your expectations of Fab when you first joined and what do you feel is the reality now?

For me I thought I would be having great sex with a different man most weeks (well maybe not a different one each week but at least great sex every week) my reality is many men messaging me and not many can put there money where there mouth is, I’ve had 3 meets from fab and 1 was with an old friend!! So my reality is now great banter in forums and repetitive messages!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's just forums for me now.

I joined this site after a woman on tinder told me about it.

She said..

"join fab and you will have sex in no time!"

Yeah right lol

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By *ogisticalBigManMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

Well I wasn't holding my breath when I joined but figured it would be something more than ignored messages. On the plus side I've found some great banter on the forums

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

Sadly I guess timing and distance can be an issue ,,, is for me , living where I live and my job ,,,

Thought I'd be at it like a rabbit , but alas it's not all that , but also it's not all

About the sex either ,,, just cuddles etc are good ,, so Little on here want those things too though

But I'm

Happy most of the time

On here xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I guess it is like most things in life, if you expect too much you won’t get it!!

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in


"I guess it is like most things in life, if you expect too much you won’t get it!! "

That's ture , always used to say don't expect too much and you won't be disappointed , wise words

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

Expectations generally lead to disappointment. We have no expectations.

K

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Expectations generally lead to disappointment. We have no expectations.

K"

I get that but surely you must have joined Fab hoping for something?!

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

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I only popped on for a nosey I didn’t have expectations as such.

I’ve enjoyed my time here. I rarely meet, I like an occasional social and I enjoy the MLSs and the forums and chats are a giggle. I’ve met some amazing people, made some wonderful friends so it’s all positive stuff for me

I suppose the only shocker is the lengths some people will go to for sex. That was something I hadn’t realised until some time after being on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was expecting to find women in my local area to have sex with

What I found was women 100s of miles away to have sex with

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

I don't know what I was expecting it popped up on my partner computer. I thought what's this. His my ex now. I'm having more fun now and made lots good friend's. I would like to meet them.

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By *xMFM3sumsxxWoman
over a year ago

SouthWest Lancashire

Didn't have any expectations at all apart from meeting guys for sex.

Reality = mostly alright guys messaging me for sex, quite a few regular meetups, sex every day (apart from when i was on), bit of kink, tried a couple of clubs, hosted socials until i became disabled and unable to get out and about, used to enjoy chatting to a lot of people but again my disablity has affected how i can socialise that way too.

Had mostly a good time though.

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By *he Little Fuck MachineMan
over a year ago

Co.Antrim

Didn’t have any expectations when I joined. Obviously the goal was to meet people but wasn’t expecting to be successful. Currently contemplating leaving Fab but will probably stick around a wee while yet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That it was just a place for people to casually hook up.

I didn't realise that there was such a social aspect to the site in terms of the forums and big social events

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

I was on another site, great fun.

Someone mentioned fab in the local pub.

Lead us to clubs, no looking back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our expectations were hopefully to get the chance to explore some long standing fantasies and make them a reality. Happy to say that’s mostly what we’ve done. There have been a few dodgy messages along the way and some strange encounters but we don’t let Fab rule our lives.

We’ve met some great people and been to some good clubs. All in all a positive experience considering we’re not the most conventional of couples X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I live I hope.....and I'm still alive so there's still a chance

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