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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Do you get guys asking for nudes through say a hour long conversation and then when you say no to their request the conversation dies?

Have men lost their imaginations lately? I think sometimes the unknown is sexy or do you think nudes are a must in a first conversation?

Personally I don't send nudes, I send maybe sexy, teasing pictures, but never full nude or revealing pictures, because I think they're more for someone you see regularly, just my rules, but lately a couple of guys have from going extremely keen to then nothing after I say no to nudes or anything revealing.. Are they just picture collectors, full of BS, or that's just turned them off all of sudden because they can't see what they want.. Let me know

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Blimey thats bad lol if i want to see nude picks i look on porn sites haha no seriously if you want to perve from a far push the hot button x personaly i only send winks or messages to people im intrested in but i am very picky too.

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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago

London St Helier Trier

Imagination is where the art of seduction is. Describing is great. Optional bonus photos that suggest but do not reveal.

When the above happens it is a filter for you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some may be pic collectors but it's also likely they want to see if they are attracted to your figure. I see from your profile that none of your 5 public pics reveal your actual figure. Never the less, these guys should have the decency to tell you so ( if that's their reason ) instead of leaving you hanging.

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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago

London St Helier Trier

Indeed a dressed profile picture should help here. Nothing baggy to hide.

This might be the reason.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They did say they wanted to meet me now, so maybe they had a hour of lust, didn't get the immediate meet, no nudes, and thought no result here, so let's find someone that's a easier touch perhaps.. Ha ha ha exactly, if the person you like isn't keen sending those types of pictures, use the imagination or like you say porn sites lol


"Blimey thats bad lol if i want to see nude picks i look on porn sites haha no seriously if you want to perve from a far push the hot button x personaly i only send winks or messages to people im intrested in but i am very picky too."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And your 5 picks are dam hot so i pushed the button xx

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By *rotic-TouchTV/TS
over a year ago

doncaster


"Imagination is where the art of seduction is. Describing is great. Optional bonus photos that suggest but do not reveal.

When the above happens it is a filter for you."
exactly this

I too find a lot of men go quiet quickly after the refusal of sharing my private pics and vids,yes they are just pic collectors in my opinion , I think it's nice to keep something's special for meets

Op let them move on to the next person ,there really not worth your time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Imagination is where the art of seduction is. Describing is great. Optional bonus photos that suggest but do not reveal.

When the above happens it is a filter for you. exactly this

I too find a lot of men go quiet quickly after the refusal of sharing my private pics and vids,yes they are just pic collectors in my opinion , I think it's nice to keep something's special for meets

Op let them move on to the next person ,there really not worth your time "

I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like nudes... I like seeing people I am chatting to naked.

Some people are more visual than others.

I hate sexting I am fucking terrible at it...

If a conversation is dying cause you wont send nudes though just move on if thats not your thing

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I did show him privately some sexy, teasing type pictures but he wanted X Rated, and I was like I don't show them before a meet, as a insurance that they're not picture collecting and he proved me right when I said no, then the conversation went from me being the best thing since sliced bread to no conversation at all, so I was like that's given me a pat on the back for not sharing those types of pics X


"Some may be pic collectors but it's also likely they want to see if they are attracted to your figure. I see from your profile that none of your 5 public pics reveal your actual figure. Never the less, these guys should have the decency to tell you so ( if that's their reason ) instead of leaving you hanging."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Awwwwww, thank you that's sweet of you xoxo


"And your 5 picks are dam hot so i pushed the button xx"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be careful there are some nutters out there x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Awwwwww, thank you that's sweet of you xoxo

And your 5 picks are dam hot so i pushed the button xx"

Your welcome xx

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Nude pics on my profile but no selfies of my legs apart. Nude can be erotic if done tastefully. Nobody asks me for pics but they do want to be a friend to see my friend only pics but that is always a no thanks from me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It hasn't happened too many times to me, but recently this week its happened like twice, and I think one second I'm the best thing and the next after a no on a couple of things, the conversation goes from going well to death lol, I agree move on, but just getting it out there don't always do what you're asked as sometimes the guy is only pervung X


"Imagination is where the art of seduction is. Describing is great. Optional bonus photos that suggest but do not reveal.

When the above happens it is a filter for you. exactly this

I too find a lot of men go quiet quickly after the refusal of sharing my private pics and vids,yes they are just pic collectors in my opinion , I think it's nice to keep something's special for meets

Op let them move on to the next person ,there really not worth your time "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I did show him privately some sexy, teasing type pictures but he wanted X Rated, and I was like I don't show them before a meet, as a insurance that they're not picture collecting and he proved me right when I said no, then the conversation went from me being the best thing since sliced bread to no conversation at all, so I was like that's given me a pat on the back for not sharing those types of pics X

Some may be pic collectors but it's also likely they want to see if they are attracted to your figure. I see from your profile that none of your 5 public pics reveal your actual figure. Never the less, these guys should have the decency to tell you so ( if that's their reason ) instead of leaving you hanging."

Well OP, if he specifically asked for x rated pics as opposed for a full lenght body pic ? Then case closed, he was a time waster looking for tossing fodder.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seems like you have it all under control, I do have nudes, but.. I don't trust easily for some reason, and I think that's why I'm extra careful, I can imagine the friends requests flying in hehe x


"Nude pics on my profile but no selfies of my legs apart. Nude can be erotic if done tastefully. Nobody asks me for pics but they do want to be a friend to see my friend only pics but that is always a no thanks from me.

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By *onty1971Man
over a year ago

London St Helier Trier

X rated pictures from you for their own then and now enjoyment before they move on - timewasters. There are so many about I am afraid.

You live and learn here at Fab.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

He came onto me very strong actually to start with, first of all he wanted a immediate meet, which I'm not keen on, so that was setback number 1, setback number 2 was the nude picture, which I guess was the last resort, I guess he said to himself if I don't get the pics I want, then I'll leave it, and he did, so I assumed he's just wanting a quick fix and then find the next one, so I was smart to say no I think


"I did show him privately some sexy, teasing type pictures but he wanted X Rated, and I was like I don't show them before a meet, as a insurance that they're not picture collecting and he proved me right when I said no, then the conversation went from me being the best thing since sliced bread to no conversation at all, so I was like that's given me a pat on the back for not sharing those types of pics X

Some may be pic collectors but it's also likely they want to see if they are attracted to your figure. I see from your profile that none of your 5 public pics reveal your actual figure. Never the less, these guys should have the decency to tell you so ( if that's their reason ) instead of leaving you hanging.

Well OP, if he specifically asked for x rated pics as opposed for a full lenght body pic ? Then case closed, he was a time waster looking for tossing fodder."

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

I've asked myself that many times.

I put this with the request to add as friend when the male had 1 pic total. Clearly only wanting access to the pics I dont make public for a good time with his hand.

I think if people are only looking for material to look at while playing, they should stick to porn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He came onto me very strong actually to start with, first of all he wanted a immediate meet, which I'm not keen on, so that was setback number 1, setback number 2 was the nude picture, which I guess was the last resort, I guess he said to himself if I don't get the pics I want, then I'll leave it, and he did, so I assumed he's just wanting a quick fix and then find the next one, so I was smart to say no I think

I did show him privately some sexy, teasing type pictures but he wanted X Rated, and I was like I don't show them before a meet, as a insurance that they're not picture collecting and he proved me right when I said no, then the conversation went from me being the best thing since sliced bread to no conversation at all, so I was like that's given me a pat on the back for not sharing those types of pics X

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeahhhhhh, I think it's the nature of the beast for online sites like Fab, everyone have probably experienced this to some extent


"X rated pictures from you for their own then and now enjoyment before they move on - timewasters. There are so many about I am afraid.

You live and learn here at Fab."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I agree 100%, maybe they get turned on by a real person giving them the pictures, but definitely a lot of picture collectors around sadly X


"I've asked myself that many times.

I put this with the request to add as friend when the male had 1 pic total. Clearly only wanting access to the pics I dont make public for a good time with his hand.

I think if people are only looking for material to look at while playing, they should stick to porn "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

He's just messaged again asking to meet today, how many times does a man ask after someone saying no? I'm baffled at this guy, I'm ignoring him lol

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