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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

an attractive trait?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

It all depends on the relationship.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No not at all.

Same with people who try to have one sided conversations with you about how great they are

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"an attractive trait?"

I would say no but confidence is.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"It all depends on the relationship.

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Can you expand on this?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"an attractive trait?

I would say no but confidence is."
Can the one be mistaken at times for the other?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

That's not a cop out. I believe that some people will find it attractive or at the very least bearable.

If i'm being pushed for an answer i'd say NO because invariably your needs are not being met if your partner is obsessed with themselves.

HOWEVERRRRRRR I don't think it pays to focus on one characteristic.

I have a long term friend who is entrenched in how he looks and is narcissistic and self obsessed...... so why do I hang out with him ? Cos he's funny and kind and very intelligent and his self obsession is borne of lack of confidence and he is great at discussion is very political , helps me out if I ask ( with anything ) he's too self obsessed to notice without being told. He has tremendous moral values and is highly loyal and makes a good friend. Plus he doesn't drink so is a great lift for socials

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"No not at all.

Same with people who try to have one sided conversations with you about how great they are

"

I am though !

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Can't stand narcissistic behaviour, confidence and a sense of humour yes.

But self love that borders on obsession not for me thanks.

We played with a couple a few years ago in a club with a mirror room and the lady of the couple was oblivious to the other three of us she was more interested in looking at herself and feeling her tits it really killed the mood we just got up and left her to it her hubby came with us.

Not sure she even realised we had gone.

So no thanks

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Fuck ... I forgot quirkily handsome with a large fat cock ...... helps dunnit!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's not a cop out. I believe that some people will find it attractive or at the very least bearable.

If i'm being pushed for an answer i'd say NO because invariably your needs are not being met if your partner is obsessed with themselves.

HOWEVERRRRRRR I don't think it pays to focus on one characteristic.

I have a long term friend who is entrenched in how he looks and is narcissistic and self obsessed...... so why do I hang out with him ? Cos he's funny and kind and very intelligent and his self obsession is borne of lack of confidence and he is great at discussion is very political , helps me out if I ask ( with anything ) he's too self obsessed to notice without being told. He has tremendous moral values and is highly loyal and makes a good friend. Plus he doesn't drink so is a great lift for socials "
Thanks.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"an attractive trait?

I would say no but confidence is. Can the one be mistaken at times for the other?"

No. Not ever. They are two highly distinguishable characteristics.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"That's not a cop out. I believe that some people will find it attractive or at the very least bearable.

If i'm being pushed for an answer i'd say NO because invariably your needs are not being met if your partner is obsessed with themselves.

HOWEVERRRRRRR I don't think it pays to focus on one characteristic.

I have a long term friend who is entrenched in how he looks and is narcissistic and self obsessed...... so why do I hang out with him ? Cos he's funny and kind and very intelligent and his self obsession is borne of lack of confidence and he is great at discussion is very political , helps me out if I ask ( with anything ) he's too self obsessed to notice without being told. He has tremendous moral values and is highly loyal and makes a good friend. Plus he doesn't drink so is a great lift for socials Thanks."

Not the answer you wanted ?

Is it you that is self obsessed ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can't stand narcissistic behaviour, confidence and a sense of humour yes.

But self love that borders on obsession not for me thanks.

We played with a couple a few years ago in a club with a mirror room and the lady of the couple was oblivious to the other three of us she was more interested in looking at herself and feeling her tits it really killed the mood we just got up and left her to it her hubby came with us.

Not sure she even realised we had gone.

So no thanks"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Can't stand narcissistic behaviour, confidence and a sense of humour yes.

But self love that borders on obsession not for me thanks.

We played with a couple a few years ago in a club with a mirror room and the lady of the couple was oblivious to the other three of us she was more interested in looking at herself and feeling her tits it really killed the mood we just got up and left her to it her hubby came with us.

Not sure she even realised we had gone.

So no thanks"
Wouldn't believe it if it wasn't so believable!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"an attractive trait?

I would say no but confidence is. Can the one be mistaken at times for the other?

No. Not ever. They are two highly distinguishable characteristics."
I agree but only to those with the ability to discern the difference. In this climate of putting it all out there the most seen could be equated with the most confident.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"That's not a cop out. I believe that some people will find it attractive or at the very least bearable.

If i'm being pushed for an answer i'd say NO because invariably your needs are not being met if your partner is obsessed with themselves.

HOWEVERRRRRRR I don't think it pays to focus on one characteristic.

I have a long term friend who is entrenched in how he looks and is narcissistic and self obsessed...... so why do I hang out with him ? Cos he's funny and kind and very intelligent and his self obsession is borne of lack of confidence and he is great at discussion is very political , helps me out if I ask ( with anything ) he's too self obsessed to notice without being told. He has tremendous moral values and is highly loyal and makes a good friend. Plus he doesn't drink so is a great lift for socials Thanks.

Not the answer you wanted ?

Is it you that is self obsessed ?"
Nein! I'm offended!!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Only the self obsessed get offended

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Yeah"
Why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Only the self obsessed get offended "
I'm smiling, didn't you notice?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"No not at all.

Same with people who try to have one sided conversations with you about how great they are

"
There is a lot of that going on.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Only the self obsessed get offended I'm smiling, didn't you notice?"

Yeahhhhhh course I noticed. I'm not self obsessed

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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton


"an attractive trait?

I would say no but confidence is."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is the 'Selfie' a form of self obsession or self expression?

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