FabSwingers.com forum: Curvy label

By *ustyLeRoux OP Woman
over a year ago

Brecon

Hopefully wont get into trouble with the forum regulars... but I saw as status on here that said "Curvy = obese on here" thoughts ?

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

Because someone is Curvy they're obesit !!!

Out of order !!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sounds like someone suffers with vanity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I consider myself curvy .... typical female shape boobs, waist, hips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cany believe someone said obese, out of order

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

This really gets my goat.

Curvy is a shape, not a size.

So you can be slim, average, sporty or fat and curvy.

I don't understand why it's been used to describe a size recently (not just here, in loads of places)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This really gets my goat.

Curvy is a shape, not a size.

So you can be slim, average, sporty or fat and curvy.

I don't understand why it's been used to describe a size recently (not just here, in loads of places)"

Talk to them Ember!!!

Hitting nails on heads out here!

You GO gurl!

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Meh, more body shaming.

To me curvy just means exactly that. Someone can be big and curvy, athletic with curves, slim and curvy.

I describe myself as curvy, I get messages to say I'm not, I'm athletic .. as if it's a bad thing to be curvy.

All the curves, all the angles, all the roundness and softness, sculpted, firm or not. Wouldn't it be just great to lose the shaming part!

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By *uenevereWoman
over a year ago

Scunthorpe

"Hopefully wont get into trouble with the forum regulars... but I saw as status on here that said "Curvy = obese on here" thoughts ? "

Some people are just unpleasant.

I agree with Ember, curvy is a shape not a size.

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

"This really gets my goat.

Curvy is a shape, not a size.

So you can be slim, average, sporty or fat and curvy.

I don't understand why it's been used to describe a size recently (not just here, in loads of places)

Talk to them Ember!!!

Hitting nails on heads out here!

You GO gurl!

Are you trying to incite me to rebellion?

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

I think curvy on Fab means shapely in a typically sexy way. Decent boobs... smaller waist... shapely hips.

Prior to fab I understood curvy as a polite way.of saying fat.

BMI etc... says I am morbidly obese... so (I think) I put fabulous as my description.

I wouldn't consider curvy as obese though.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m curvy

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

"I consider myself curvy .... typical female shape boobs, waist, hips"

Yep. Exactly. Typically sexy shape ...

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Slim and curvy here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This really gets my goat.

Curvy is a shape, not a size.

So you can be slim, average, sporty or fat and curvy.

I don't understand why it's been used to describe a size recently (not just here, in loads of places)

Talk to them Ember!!!

Hitting nails on heads out here!

You GO gurl!

Are you trying to incite me to rebellion?"

Hell no! We need you alive to carry on spreading that gospel! Hallelujah!

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By *emma HoldenTV/TS
over a year ago

Ramsey

Curvy is boobs hips & bum in the lovely sexy female form. Doesn't mean fat or overweight. Curves are what attracts me to a girl be they thin, BBW or anywhere in between. Nice pert boobs & a round arse squeezed into tight jeans is absolute curvy perfection.

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

"This really gets my goat.

Curvy is a shape, not a size.

So you can be slim, average, sporty or fat and curvy.

I don't understand why it's been used to describe a size recently (not just here, in loads of places)

Talk to them Ember!!!

Hitting nails on heads out here!

You GO gurl!

Are you trying to incite me to rebellion?

Hell no! We need you alive to carry on spreading that gospel! Hallelujah! "

You're getting a bit cheeky!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im down as ample as round wasnt an option

I had a baby 4 months ago, im still carrying baby belly plus food belly

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Thoughts? Block and ignore the idiot put that as their status

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm curvy but definitely not fat.

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By *urious786Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Im down as ample as round wasnt an option

I had a baby 4 months ago, im still carrying baby belly plus food belly "

Wow, lovely photos, definitely ample ( more than a hand full of boobs there)

just a little jealous here !

As for your baby belly please be proud of it and the job it did for you, there is too much pressure on women to bounce back to pre pregnancy shape these days.

I see curvy as a definition of womanly shape but agree it is used as a size guide quite a lot on here.

The problem is that there are so many ways to describe a persons size and shape that it’s difficult to cover all bases on the profile categories

Mrs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This really gets my goat.

Curvy is a shape, not a size.

So you can be slim, average, sporty or fat and curvy.

I don't understand why it's been used to describe a size recently (not just here, in loads of places)

Talk to them Ember!!!

Hitting nails on heads out here!

You GO gurl!

Are you trying to incite me to rebellion?

Hell no! We need you alive to carry on spreading that gospel! Hallelujah!

You're getting a bit cheeky!"

Good or bad cheeky?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am curvy, and going by BMI I am obese, however I dont feel it, all my weight is in boobs and bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I am curvy, and going by BMI I am obese, however I dont feel it, all my weight is in boobs and bum

You look magnificent! And love your boobs and bum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was given grief off a woman on a social media site as I said I was curvy. She said that it was an insult to curvy people and really annoyed her as I wasn’t a size 16, and as a size 10 I couldn’t say I was curvy. I politely pointed out that being curvy is nothing to do with a dress size, but a body shape. My sister is a size 4-6 with perfectly proportioned curves,

Years ago I posted a pic, saying embrace your curves and was asked if I actually meant fat. I was a size 12, but the guy was a conceited prick mate of my ex and hated me as it meant my ex wasn’t there for him 24/7 anymore.

Mean people will attack you for how you describe yourself, and try to attach a negative connotation to anything, they just need to get a life!

Viv xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In medical views a curvy person would be obese.

On here obese in my opinion is large or fabulous.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many are deluded on here. I don't sweat what others think. I'm curvy and only just not officially obese. So mostly curvy does equal obese.

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By *uckypups1000Couple
over a year ago

peterborough

Happy to be called curvy , bbw voluptuous , rubenesque but obese! Out of order , have Ben known to ask for a smack on my fst arse tho lol

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By *ouis CyphreMan
over a year ago

The Midlands

"Hopefully wont get into trouble with the forum regulars... but I saw as status on here that said "Curvy = obese on here" thoughts ? "

Oh such silliness, we all have curves. Thats what makes us all so beautiful.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I consider myself curvy .... typical female shape boobs, waist, hips"
25th june pic oh my

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Call me what you want

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Call me what you want

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tallulah

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm curvy. Some have said fat.

All woman with squishy bits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm curvy. Some have said fat.

All woman with squishy bits

Not fat x

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By *endheroverMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"I consider myself curvy .... typical female shape boobs, waist, hips"

Absoloutly spot on very nice

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By *endheroverMan
over a year ago

sheffield

"I’m curvy

Bloody hot lol

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

I'm curvy but different ppl will class u as different things lol

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Yeah I'm totally obese.

Honestly half of fab calls me fat and the other half argues with me that I'm not curvy so you can't win. Best just to stop caring what others say about a silly fab category that doesn't even matter if you've got body pictures on your profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Curvy Is a shape.

I am curvy albeit my curves are very large ones.

Some slim girls are curvy. Some fat girls are curvy. Some are just apple or boy shaped and have no curves.

That's why I hate it when a man describes himself as curvy.

I'm fat curvy

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By *averockrockMan
over a year ago

swindon

I love curves!

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By *xception to the ruleMan
over a year ago

Forest Hill

Always thought of curvy as an extra few pounds.

But I’ve seen women on here that say they’re curvy but are in great shape almost athletic or average/slim.

So, I guess it’s completely perspective and preference.

Forget the haters. Be more you

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

My thoughts are that whoever posted the status was probably just rejected by a curvy woman.

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By *osie xWoman
over a year ago

wolverhampton

To me curvy means an hourglass shape no matter the size.

My curves go the other way hence I chose the large description as disco mirror ball wasn’t on the list

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

"This really gets my goat.

Curvy is a shape, not a size.

So you can be slim, average, sporty or fat and curvy.

I don't understand why it's been used to describe a size recently (not just here, in loads of places)

Talk to them Ember!!!

Hitting nails on heads out here!

You GO gurl!

Are you trying to incite me to rebellion?

Hell no! We need you alive to carry on spreading that gospel! Hallelujah!

You're getting a bit cheeky!

Good or bad cheeky?

I'm monitoring your behaviour over the coming weeks. It's too soon to decide

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By *ussD1Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

For me, and I mean me, not speaking for others. sexiness is an attitude not a body shape or size. It’s a combination of confidence in yourself, a kind soul and the ability to feel good about yourself and others.

Some of the most sexy and alluring women I’ve met and wanted to do unspeakable things to might in others eyes be a larger sized woman. Oh and I’ve met some attractive Hollywood clone shaped women who have been the ugliest people I've met.

Be who you’re meant to be and feel good about yourself.

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

"For me, and I mean me, not speaking for others. sexiness is an attitude not a body shape or size. It’s a combination of confidence in yourself, a kind soul and the ability to feel good about yourself and others.

Be who you’re meant to be and feel good about yourself.

Nice x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m curvy but a long way from obese. Used to use the athletic label on here but don’t do the exercise that I used to, so changed the label to avoid setting any false expectations.

I don’t think it really matters what label you use though, as long as you’re happy. If anyone says anything disrespectful then it’s their problem, if we all block them hopefully it’ll free them up some time to get a life rather than insulting others xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *xXgemmaXxXCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

I have curvy as my description some people might not agree

I’ve only had 2 guys mention my fat arse and that was after I politely replied with a thanks but no thanks

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I’m curvy but a long way from obese. Used to use the athletic label on here but don’t do the exercise that I used to, so changed the label to avoid setting any false expectations.

You are a gorgeous shape hun very sexy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Everyone is beautiful in their own way, and body shaming is what is wrong in today's society, no doubt the person who said it, probably had no picture, as people like this love making comments but get emotional if anything is said back, if you have nothing nice to say, say nothing at all xx

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By *edheadsruleCouple
over a year ago

lancashire

Im fat but also extremely curvy

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By *razytimesinloveCouple
over a year ago

SW Scotland

"I’m curvy but a long way from obese. Used to use the athletic label on here but don’t do the exercise that I used to, so changed the label to avoid setting any false expectations.

There’s far too much body shaming on here ! People shouldn’t feel the need to use terms like athletic or curvy. Once pics have been seen, others can decide if it’s what they’re into.

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By *oxychicWoman
over a year ago

Nottinghamshire

Be who you’re meant to be and feel good about yourself.

Exactly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m just ME. People and society can call me what they want. Curvey, Amazonian, tall, fat, chubby, lanky, muscley but ultimately all that matters is what I think and feel is right. I’m never completely happy with my figure and yo-yo diet all the time as well as play rugby go to the gym and swim but I’m confident enough to know I look good naked. Anyone that wishes to call me something that I don’t agree with (depending on the context) I would tell to f##k off. Just be you and stay happy and healthy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be who you’re meant to be and feel good about yourself.

Exactly this

Agreed

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

We all see curvy in different ways. I say I'm curvy but others don't.

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By *olieandSlaveCouple
over a year ago

Stafford

The status owner should try banging a fat bird! We bounce around more to burn a few calories and we probably have something half decent in our fridge for a snack afterwards!

Seriously though, whats with the body shaming? We all have our preferences and don't feel the need to comment

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By *ussD1Man
over a year ago

Gloucester

"Im fat but also extremely curvy

You’re extremely sexy

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