FabSwingers.com forum: Reasons for blocking people

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I was recently chatting with someone and I told her that I liked what she wrote in her profile.. Then she replied "which part?"

And I told her, then she blocked me

Lol.

What are your reasons for getting blocked and blocking fab users?

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By *isaB45Woman
over a year ago

Fabville

Because I want to, and I don't have to justify myself.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because I want to, and I don't have to justify myself."

Fair enough

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

If I don’t like the cut of her jib then she’s on the block list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont know the reasons why people block me.

I block profiles who dont take no for an answer.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

Various, including inappropriate contact or having zero interest in any contact. I like a simple life, so I pursue strategies that support this.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they don't meet my criteria. Because I don't think we'd click. Because they were rude on a forum thread. Because they let me down. Because they present themselves as a prize wassock....

Myriad reasons, OP.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not fab related but WhatsApp. Had to block someone cos it’s like trying to ride a horse with 2 broken legs, best to just shoot the fucker and make it into glue.

I could feel I was annoying the bejesus out of him yet he was too polite to tell me to fuck off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I have many reasons for blocking.... some people can be incredibly tiresome and up their own arse! ( because they can’t get up anyone else’s!)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because they don't meet my criteria. Because I don't think we'd click. Because they were rude on a forum thread. Because they let me down. Because they present themselves as a prize wassock....

Myriad reasons, OP. "

I guess I came across rude on a forum thread then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I appear to be on their carousel and they contact me after I've already turned them down twice before.

If they've clearly not read my profile.

If they are not polite or respectful.

Miss C

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not fab related but WhatsApp. Had to block someone cos it’s like trying to ride a horse with 2 broken legs, best to just shoot the fucker and make it into glue.

I could feel I was annoying the bejesus out of him yet he was too polite to tell me to fuck off. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People block me because they think I'm a c*** and I block people because I think they're a c***."

Cunts all round

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"People block me because they think I'm a c*** and I block people because I think they're a c***.

Cunts all round

Love the cunt word

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Someone told me my son would kill himself cause I’m on fab

Someone messaged me and sent a dick pic

Someone appeared on my nearby list and I didn’t like their face

I block for any petty reason that I want. Or not so petty reason.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"People block me because they think I'm a c*** and I block people because I think they're a c***.

Cunts all round

Love the cunt word

Gotta love a bit of cunt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I only look at profiles if someone messages me - I check it before I open the message

If having seen their profile I decide I wouldn’t want to meet them I block the person and delete the message unread

Gone are the days where I reply politely and thank the person for the message but say I’m not interested - there are some seriously abusive tw@ts on here who can’t handle rejection

Sadly there’s too many men on here of the opinion that all women should drop their knickers and spread their legs for them regardless of what they look or behave like

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

"I was recently chatting with someone and I told her that I liked what she wrote in her profile.. Then she replied "which part?"

And I told her, then she blocked me

Lol.

What are your reasons for getting blocked and blocking fab users? "

Ok.. without sounding like a prude... I block people who are persistently filthy.... disgustingly so. It's just not necessary...

Also I block when people jist dont seem to recognise a no thank you ... or turn abusive when you decline their advances.

My mind needs engaging.

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By *ylvie 888Woman
over a year ago

Cleethorpes

On the flipside... I have been blocked by one of the men on here who has Monkey in his name.... i have no idea why. I only realised when i wanted to send a PM on one of those PM games...

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By *itty9899Man
over a year ago

Craggy Island

I have only blocked two people and that's because they were TWATS.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I have been blocked, then obviously I've no idea why. I know that one who was quite local did block me, I'm assuming it was because maybe she knew me and wanted to stay anonymous.

I have blocked many simply because they weren't interested, to avoid contacting them again in future, and I blocked one couple because I didn't like their pissy attitude on the forums.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I want to, and I don't have to justify myself."

Totaly this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ll block people when I see constant updates repetitive or if they’re just strange statuses..

If I see a woman is only after bi men for instance - there’s no point me having her/seeing her profile as our paths will never cross.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not fab related but WhatsApp. Had to block someone cos it’s like trying to ride a horse with 2 broken legs, best to just shoot the fucker and make it into glue.

I could feel I was annoying the bejesus out of him yet he was too polite to tell me to fuck off.

I feel sad about it, I liked the dude but it makes you feel worse don’t it when you know someone’s not arsed.

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By *hezuMan
over a year ago

London

I block people who moan on the status updates, aint on here to see people moan bout life lol

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

30 and below are instantly blocked as they arent what we are looking for.

Saves all the hassle.

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

Any obscene 1st messages from guys, any repeat offers once I’ve given a polite no thanks.

Anyone I’ve met and don’t choose to repeat the experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because someone (me?!) fabbed a few pictures of theirs I like

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Not fab related but WhatsApp. Had to block someone cos it’s like trying to ride a horse with 2 broken legs, best to just shoot the fucker and make it into glue.

I could feel I was annoying the bejesus out of him yet he was too polite to tell me to fuck off.

I feel sad about it, I liked the dude but it makes you feel worse don’t it when you know someone’s not arsed. "

Maybe he was just laid back and quite/shy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've blocked local people who I find disgusting to look at and I dont want to see their updates in my local area. I've never fallen out with anyone to want to block them. Maybe I've been blocked from some but I wouldn't know and particularly care.

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

I don't really block people often

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By *eeleyWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

"I've blocked local people who I find disgusting to look at and I dont want to see their updates in my local area. I've never fallen out with anyone to want to block them. Maybe I've been blocked from some but I wouldn't know and particularly care.

Wow, disgusting to look at

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they don't meet my criteria and I don't meet theirs then we can't message anyway so I do it so as I don't see their updates and be tempted to keep checking them out. Also they might be annoying or ignorant which is also block worthy. I reckon I've been blocked for the same reasons and probably others as well lol

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

"I was recently chatting with someone and I told her that I liked what she wrote in her profile.. Then she replied "which part?"

And I told her, then she blocked me

Lol.

What are your reasons for getting blocked and blocking fab users? "

I block all profiles within 35 miles in whom I have no interest or who have no interest in me

Ends up being approx 7 to 15 daily

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By *moothdickMan
over a year ago

stoke

Breathing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not fab related but WhatsApp. Had to block someone cos it’s like trying to ride a horse with 2 broken legs, best to just shoot the fucker and make it into glue.

I could feel I was annoying the bejesus out of him yet he was too polite to tell me to fuck off.

I feel sad about it, I liked the dude but it makes you feel worse don’t it when you know someone’s not arsed.

Maybe he was just laid back and quite/shy "

That wasn’t it. Had absolutely clarity that meeting would never happen so was just me trying to claw convo out the kid. I’m like the fucking eye of Sauron when I like someone but I’ve done him a kindness and removed my gaze.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they are cunts that’s the only reason I do so if I block you, you know what you are it’s a short list

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I rarely block but when I do it’s because they’ve been rude or personal. I do block too if someone is too persistent and doesn’t take no for an answer.

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I only block if they have done/said something that greatly pushes me to not wanting any form of interaction with them at all.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Ooh so many reasons. Some trivial, some not.

You know I really like you when I figure out your username on an app you don't know I use so I can block you, though.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

Could be one of a few things..

Too local..

Don’t like what I’ve read..

just a cunt...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could be one of a few things..

Too local..

Don’t like what I’ve read..

just a cunt..."

The 3 one

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Could be one of a few things..

Too local..

Don’t like what I’ve read..

just a cunt...

The 3 one

It’s very rare but a joy to use

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Could be one of a few things..

Too local..

Don’t like what I’ve read..

just a cunt..."

What do they win if all three?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Could be one of a few things..

Too local..

Don’t like what I’ve read..

just a cunt...

The 3 one

It’s very rare but a joy to use

It’s often needed

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Could be one of a few things..

Too local..

Don’t like what I’ve read..

just a cunt...

What do they win if all three? "

The queen of cunts title!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because for what ever reason, no matter how big or how small we’re never likely to want to interact with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Life can be tough !

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

"Could be one of a few things..

Too local..

Don’t like what I’ve read..

just a cunt...

What do they win if all three?

The queen of cunts title!! "

Oh... I could do with a title.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow, disgusting to look at

Yeah, there are some awful people out there. Some folk make my stomach turn

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just had really abusive message.

Absolutely no need

Dunno who the person is

Never had contact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not fab related but WhatsApp. Had to block someone cos it’s like trying to ride a horse with 2 broken legs, best to just shoot the fucker and make it into glue.

I could feel I was annoying the bejesus out of him yet he was too polite to tell me to fuck off. "
best answer to anything on the forums every

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

"Could be one of a few things..

Too local..

Don’t like what I’ve read..

just a cunt...

What do they win if all three?

The queen of cunts title!!

Oh... I could do with a title. "

Saffron’s bitch?!?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not much of a blocker but I do have a couple blocked who I know are using all fake pictures, a couple I just wanted peace from and a few who pissed me off with statuses either moaning constantly or slagging off other women.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Most of who I've blocked have been men who don't know the meaning of the word straight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Most of who I've blocked have been men who don't know the meaning of the word straight.

I am not blocked yet ?! I guess I understand the meaning of the word.

Do you like sucking ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Most common reason for blocking for us is that they have sent us messages when they are nothing like what we have in the ‘looking for’ box. Can’t be bothered to fully read our profile says they have little care about what we want.

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract

"I only look at profiles if someone messages me - I check it before I open the message

If having seen their profile I decide I wouldn’t want to meet them I block the person and delete the message unread

Gone are the days where I reply politely and thank the person for the message but say I’m not interested - there are some seriously abusive tw@ts on here who can’t handle rejection

Sadly there’s too many men on here of the opinion that all women should drop their knickers and spread their legs for them regardless of what they look or behave like"

Well said

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Most of who I've blocked have been men who don't know the meaning of the word straight.

I am not blocked yet ?! I guess I understand the meaning of the word.

Do you like sucking ?"

Do I fuck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Because they looked at me funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had really abusive message.

Absolutely no need

Dunno who the person is

Never had contact.

I get lots of those - I report and block them. Not that Fab ever does anything to the people that are reported to them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I want to, and I don't have to justify myself."

I don’t think he asked for anyone to justify their reasons, but more, to identify them.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Because I want to, and I don't have to justify myself.

I don’t think he asked for anyone to justify their reasons, but more, to identify them. "

right sounded like she had the hump from the off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

usually profiles that reference drugs in their status or profile will have me reaching for the block button.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As for fab I’ve blocked guys that repeatedly message me even after I’ve told them no thank you. I’ll counter block if I happen to click a profile from the forums and see that they’ve blocked me.

I’ll block if someone is geographically too close to me, like my village kind of close.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just had really abusive message.

Absolutely no need

Dunno who the person is

Never had contact.

I get lots of those - I report and block them. Not that Fab ever does anything to the people that are reported to them "

Yes I've reported n blocked

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By *ice But Very NaughtyCouple
over a year ago

Swansea

"Because they don't meet my criteria. Because I don't think we'd click. Because they were rude on a forum thread. Because they let me down. Because they present themselves as a prize wassock....

Myriad reasons, OP. "

That made me check to see if we've been blocked. Clearly we've either not been rude or at least got away with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are ugly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because they don't meet my criteria. Because I don't think we'd click. Because they were rude on a forum thread. Because they let me down. Because they present themselves as a prize wassock....

Myriad reasons, OP.

That made me check to see if we've been blocked. Clearly we've either not been rude or at least got away with it

I checked thorough the thread as well. 3 people have me blocked!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pestering is my main reason

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

It's usually because I'm an ugly twat after they see my face pic !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have blocked several users lately due to the same men messaging me like 10 times a day and I just got bored of seeing the same repeated messages and that was without me even saying a word ^.^ Don't know why men do this, when it's a clear no X

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By *inky SpiceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Because they don't read my profile and do something I've asked them not to such as send a friend request without speaking to me. Or they don't take no for an answer and repeatedly message. Or from reading comments on the forum they seem to be someone I wouldn't get along with.

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By *inky SpiceWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

As for why people may have blocked me, well I wouldn't know unless they told me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Persistent messaging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block sooooo many...for all sorts of reasons but mainly in an attempt to tailor the site to my own specifications. It’s a tough task but i’m getting there

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

I block people for looking at me and breathing. How very dare they.

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By *adame 2SwordsWoman
over a year ago

Victoria, London

I blocked you months ago

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

I block people for bringing up blocking in the forum.....Cya

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I blocked you months ago"

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I got banned from the forums and when I tried to message the mod they blocked me

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

If they admitted to being a remainer

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By *pider-WomanWoman
over a year ago

Exeter, Bristol, Plymouth, Truro

Depends on my mood and how tolerate I'm feeling or not as the case maybe. There are many reasons: username, avatar picture, heading of message, location that's even before I've looked at the message

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham, North Yorkshire and can travel

We rarely block people. We are easy going and don't take anything anyone says too seriously.

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"We rarely block people. We are easy going and don't take anything anyone says too seriously."

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We haven't blocked anyone at all. Though a fair number have blocked us

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By *nblemishedhotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Stourport

"I only look at profiles if someone messages me - I check it before I open the message

If having seen their profile I decide I wouldn’t want to meet them I block the person and delete the message unread

Gone are the days where I reply politely and thank the person for the message but say I’m not interested - there are some seriously abusive tw@ts on here who can’t handle rejection

Sadly there’s too many men on here of the opinion that all women should drop their knickers and spread their legs for them regardless of what they look or behave like"

Couldn't of put it better myself.

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate

Mine are just counter blocks, and a small handful of abusive folk.

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By *ogisticalBigManMan
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Mine are just counter blocks, and a small handful of abusive folk. "

Same here. Well not abusive but people who have blocked me for things like existing. They block me I block them back.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block for any number of reasons

Ignoring what's said on our profile,sending friend invites when we haven't met, addressing only sweet,being rude/crude

Something I didn't like in an update or forum post

A picture I may not have liked

But mostly because I'm a grumpy old git and don't really like peoplev

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Because I want to, and I don't have to justify myself."

Yep. I'd agree with that. We all have our reasons and there may be different reasons for blocking one person than you might have for blocking another but ultimately, that's our business and we are not required to explain our reasons to anybody

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The local feed is just a catch-all so as well as blocking anyone who is being a bellend I'll block people who I don't want in my local feed, either because they're annoying, not what I'm looking for or I'm not what they're looking for. Just makes fabs a more pleasant experience.

Oh, and anyone with a variant of "If you can't handle me at my worst" on their profile or in a status. Instablock

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block profiles if there's something specific I've read on there's that means there's no point in me contacting them.

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By *itonmyfacebookMan
over a year ago

Burton on Trent

NSA Eugenics in action.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If they are abusive, persistent after being told no. Or just downright weird.

Or if I recognise someone from the real world

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By *ympho6969Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

Personally I dont like using the block button and only use it when someone is very offensive. Asking for very bizarre things in a first message is simply ignored by me but excessive messages after being ignored or even if I've replied back politely that I'm not interested. That will get you blocked.

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By *itonmyfacebookMan
over a year ago

Burton on Trent

"If they are abusive, persistent after being told no. Or just downright weird.

Or if I recognise someone from the real world

Has the latter happened very often?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If they are abusive, persistent after being told no. Or just downright weird.

Or if I recognise someone from the real world

Has the latter happened very often? "

Yes a few times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Never blocked anyone and never will

Blocking is for people who can't handle shit

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never blocked anyone and never will

Blocking is for people who can't handle shit

Or who don’t want vile abuse while pregnant and actually ended up in tears

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never blocked anyone and never will

Blocking is for people who can't handle shit

Or who don’t want vile abuse while pregnant and actually ended up in tears"

Or, who don’t want vile abuse

Or want to interact with people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Never blocked anyone and never will

Blocking is for people who can't handle shit

Or for people that can't be annoyed with shits

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Normal reason really they to far away or not what am looking for so I clean out my who's nearby wall all the time.

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By *lanemikeMan
over a year ago

Bolton

Don't think I have knowingly blocked anyone on here.... Think some have blocked me, don't know why. Have not made a nuisance of myself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Don't think I have knowingly blocked anyone on here.... Think some have blocked me, don't know why. Have not made a nuisance of myself."

As has been stated often on this thread, they may know that you are not compatible; blocking isn't necessarily negative, just a way of tailoring the fab experience to your own needs.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On forums i will block someone if i find there views obnoxious.

With personal messages i block anyone i have turned down.

Sometimes i block locals because i have no interest.

It's not being offensive it's just saying i don't want to meet you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's not being offensive it's just saying i don't want to meet you"

This. Blocking isn't rude any more than not fucking someone you don't like is. It's just making life easier for you and them.

Blocking isn't the same as reporting or calling someone out. It's purely a you thing.

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

If they're abusive in any way.

If they persist in messaging after a polite "no thanks" & won't take no for an answer.

If they totally don't match what I'm looking for.

If there is something about their profile or forum posts that makes it clear that they really aren't someone I want any contact with.

There are lots of reasons why I may press the block button.

It helps improve my fab experience if I block people who I know I am never going to want to meet & prevent them messaging me.

When I first joined I didn't block, I've learned that actually it is sometimes necessary.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ego junkies-Sleezy vile messages and insults go straight to the sin bin

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