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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

not sure how to start this

well joined a site 3 years ago and i in a chat room and this lady said hi to me one one in room that did we got chatting and we chatted on cam and she looked amazing to me and from first time i saw her i fell in love with her but i was not her type so we stopped chatting and did not talk again for 6 months then one day i said hi to her and she replyed and we chatted and talked about every thing,and we became freinds online but i never told her how i left has she did not feel the same but a year passed and we where still tilking to each other so told her i had something to say so i told her i had been in love with her for year and a half and could nott get her out my head and i will be thinking of her to the day i die she was shocked and never said a word for 10 mins she said no one had ever said that to her and did not anyone else would ever ,but she was sorry has i was not her type and she did not feel the same way that was fine with me we chatted for few months more then things changed for her and we stopped talking has she was upseting me but other month we started to talk which was nice has i have missed talking to her and she was still in my head.we now chat most nights but i still get upset that she not feel the same, but chatting to her may sound strange helps me than not chatting to her at all i am happy for her and hope we stay freinds even if it is sometimes hard for me to see what see chats about to others, but i am glad she is happy with her life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes, love is need.

Move on, it seems to me you didn't get to know her enough to know if you actually love her or simply smitten.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

no i am in love with her not smitten

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well, if she has no interest you have but two choices....

1) Carry on obsessing, hoping for something that isn't going to be

or

2) like so many others before you, Move on.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i know nothing will ever happen between us both and just hope we can stay freinds and i can keep how i feel out of it and thats we both can chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i know nothing will ever happen between us both and just hope we can stay freinds and i can keep how i feel out of it and thats we both can chat

"

You're clinging on to any little scraps she throws you, if you truly love her then let her go.

You'll never find happiness trying to remain friends when you want far more.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i am happy just to be friends with her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i am happy just to be friends with her"

So what compelled you to post?

I am friends with a few ex girlfriends, I'm happy to be friends and so are they, we have had our moments of closeness, but until now I've never felt the need to share that, or hide it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

to see what advice people would give me

thats all

and to just say it and not keep it to myself no one will know this woman on here so i just needed some advice thats all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"to see what advice people would give me

thats all

and to just say it and not keep it to myself no one will know this woman on here so i just needed some advice thats all"

My advice really is, move on and let her go.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

well know nothing ever going to happen but still like to be freinds with her

have told her i will leave site we chat on but she says please dont leave because of her

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"well know nothing ever going to happen but still like to be freinds with her

have told her i will leave site we chat on but she says please dont leave because of her"

and don't stay because of her.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i am not but shes big part why i have stayed has i dont want to think she drove me off site

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i am not but shes big part why i have stayed has i dont want to think she drove me off site "

Let her think what she wants, it isn't going to change her feelings toward you, she will get over her guilty feelings.

If you stay in touch you will always hope for something more, she will always not want that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

yes i know but it helps if i talk to her i dont feel like anything will happen just that we are friends and we chat and thats it

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham

thats not love, its obsession and quite scary...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"yes i know but it helps if i talk to her i dont feel like anything will happen just that we are friends and we chat and thats it"

Jemima has a point in that I find it hard to believe it's love to such an extent, seems more like obsession to me.

Seriously, delete your profile on that site, don't contact her and don't look back.

Allow yourself to grow out of this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i did delete account but rejoined not spoken to her for few days now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i did delete account but rejoined not spoken to her for few days now"

Delete and don't look or go back.

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By *utty tartWoman
over a year ago

the house of sin

tony u kno my advice on this i told u in messages wen i guessed who it were, do not delete just because of her , but likr shag a loony says forget her n move on, i kno u r quite shy in the chat rooms n often find it hard to join in espec wen theres a lot of us in but just keep trying ,people ain't ignoring u sumtimes it goes too fast n they miss ur saying hi, if they do see it n ignore then next time don';t bother saying hi to um,, she dont see u in that way as u wantd so forget about her n move on,i wudnt delete as i told u last time but steer clear dont even say hi to her wait for her to say hi first n if she dont then stuff her , vhat to us lot. xxx rant ove rlol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

i know some people dont like her but i do and know she will never like me and can live with that just want to stay freinds with her

plus i dont want to fall out with anyone that has read this but on a different thing people should stop slagging people off and if then dont like someone just block them

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