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I think everyone has worries like these at some point but you cant let bad experiences stop you being happy xx | |||
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"1.i would never be put first.2.beer and mates would be more important than me.3 he would cheat on me with either a man woman, or both.4.there is always an ex who he wants back.5.i woudnt be loved or looked after properly.6 i have never been 'in love'with anyone and that wont change.7. He will eventually leave me for someone else.8.in an argument they always walk out and dont come back rather than try and sort it.these have happened to me in the past.thats why i would rather be single than to go though it again." So sad you feel every man will treat you like this . | |||
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"1.i would never be put first.2.beer and mates would be more important than me.3 he would cheat on me with either a man woman, or both.4.there is always an ex who he wants back.5.i woudnt be loved or looked after properly.6 i have never been 'in love'with anyone and that wont change.7. He will eventually leave me for someone else.8.in an argument they always walk out and dont come back rather than try and sort it.these have happened to me in the past.thats why i would rather be single than to go though it again." I'm sorry, but no one would want to go out with anything who has an attitude like this. Man or woman | |||
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"1.i would never be put first.2.beer and mates would be more important than me.3 he would cheat on me with either a man woman, or both.4.there is always an ex who he wants back.5.i woudnt be loved or looked after properly.6 i have never been 'in love'with anyone and that wont change.7. He will eventually leave me for someone else.8.in an argument they always walk out and dont come back rather than try and sort it.these have happened to me in the past.thats why i would rather be single than to go though it again. I'm sorry, but no one would want to go out with anything who has an attitude like this. Man or woman"  | |||
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"1.i would never be put first.2.beer and mates would be more important than me.3 he would cheat on me with either a man woman, or both.4.there is always an ex who he wants back.5.i woudnt be loved or looked after properly.6 i have never been 'in love'with anyone and that wont change.7. He will eventually leave me for someone else.8.in an argument they always walk out and dont come back rather than try and sort it.these have happened to me in the past.thats why i would rather be single than to go though it again." You haven't found the right person then yet lovely. | |||
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"1.i would never be put first.2.beer and mates would be more important than me.3 he would cheat on me with either a man woman, or both.4.there is always an ex who he wants back.5.i woudnt be loved or looked after properly.6 i have never been 'in love'with anyone and that wont change.7. He will eventually leave me for someone else.8.in an argument they always walk out and dont come back rather than try and sort it.these have happened to me in the past.thats why i would rather be single than to go though it again." You are not the only one to think this. I could add a few more points to your list. Men are selfish end of..... | |||
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"1.i would never be put first.2.beer and mates would be more important than me.3 he would cheat on me with either a man woman, or both.4.there is always an ex who he wants back.5.i woudnt be loved or looked after properly.6 i have never been 'in love'with anyone and that wont change.7. He will eventually leave me for someone else.8.in an argument they always walk out and dont come back rather than try and sort it.these have happened to me in the past.thats why i would rather be single than to go though it again." I think it's just a case of they wernt the ones for you . You'll find the one and youll let your walls down again and he will treat you like you want to and deserve to be treat | |||
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Seriously though, there is good and bad in everyone and you just have to decide what is right for you.
Be single and enjoy it and if you can find a little slice of the good things like snuggles and happy times then it makes life brilliant without having to be in a relationship if you don't want to | |||
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"1.i would never be put first.2.beer and mates would be more important than me.3 he would cheat on me with either a man woman, or both.4.there is always an ex who he wants back.5.i woudnt be loved or looked after properly.6 i have never been 'in love'with anyone and that wont change.7. He will eventually leave me for someone else.8.in an argument they always walk out and dont come back rather than try and sort it.these have happened to me in the past.thats why i would rather be single than to go though it again. You are not the only one to think this. I could add a few more points to your list. Men are selfish end of....." I think in this generation women can be as equally selfish as men I don't think it's down to gender anymore it's more just human nature sadly.. | |||
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"ALL MEN ARE BASTARDS!!! "That's a lot of unmarried women. | |||
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"You are not the only one to think this. I could add a few more points to your list. Men are selfish end of....." Wow.....what sweeping a generalisation!! So not one single decent man exists who has good points and would treat his woman/partner right? Not possible...!!! There are loads of decent men around, just as there are loads of decent women around.... | |||
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"It's not 'human' nature. It's twats and they've existed in every generation." In your opinon. | |||
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"ALL MEN ARE BASTARDS!!!
That's a lot of unmarried women. "Now that sounds like a dream to an unmarried and single whatever I am today  | |||
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"You are not the only one to think this. I could add a few more points to your list. Men are selfish end of..... Wow.....what sweeping a generalisation!! So not one single decent man exists who has good points and would treat his woman/partner right? Not possible...!!! There are loads of decent men around, just as there are loads of decent women around...." Well I’m going by my own experiences in vanilla world and this world. No offence intended to you Sir but only my opinion. Not met one man yet who is not selfish..... | |||
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"ALL MEN ARE BASTARDS!!!
That's a lot of unmarried women. "But are the ones with a ring on their finger ‘truly’ married? | |||
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"1.i would never be put first.2.beer and mates would be more important than me.3 he would cheat on me with either a man woman, or both.4.there is always an ex who he wants back.5.i woudnt be loved or looked after properly.6 i have never been 'in love'with anyone and that wont change.7. He will eventually leave me for someone else.8.in an argument they always walk out and dont come back rather than try and sort it.these have happened to me in the past.thats why i would rather be single than to go though it again." I hear you and its is ok to feel this way. You may change your mind, you may not. As long as you are happy that's all that matters. | |||
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"I always find this sweeping generalisation funny when it is women that bring up men I.E their Sons maybe some women should be doing a better job of teaching their sons how to treat women." Or parents. | |||
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" Well I’m going by my own experiences in vanilla world and this world. No offence intended to you Sir but only my opinion. Not met one man yet who is not selfish....." Maybe true, I can't say, I have not met the men you have. In my experience of life I have come across men and women who are selfish. Have also come across those who just the opposite i.e. giving, concerned, sharing, etc... Applies in all walks of life, work and social life.... | |||
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"1.i would never be put first.2.beer and mates would be more important than me.3 he would cheat on me with either a man woman, or both.4.there is always an ex who he wants back.5.i woudnt be loved or looked after properly.6 i have never been 'in love'with anyone and that wont change.7. He will eventually leave me for someone else.8.in an argument they always walk out and dont come back rather than try and sort it.these have happened to me in the past.thats why i would rather be single than to go though it again. I'm sorry, but no one would want to go out with anything who has an attitude like this. Man or woman"
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"I always find this sweeping generalisation funny when it is women that bring up men I.E their Sons maybe some women should be doing a better job of teaching their sons how to treat women. Or parents." The point "All men are bastards" maybe its the mother that would be better enlightening the son and breaking the cycle | |||
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"I always find this sweeping generalisation funny when it is women that bring up men I.E their Sons maybe some women should be doing a better job of teaching their sons how to treat women. Or parents.The point "All men are bastards" maybe its the mother that would be better enlightening the son and breaking the cycle " Why should it be a woman’s job to ensure folk aren’t arseholes | |||
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"You are not the only one to think this. I could add a few more points to your list. Men are selfish end of..... Wow.....what sweeping a generalisation!! So not one single decent man exists who has good points and would treat his woman/partner right? Not possible...!!! There are loads of decent men around, just as there are loads of decent women around.... Well I’m going by my own experiences in vanilla world and this world. No offence intended to you Sir but only my opinion. Not met one man yet who is not selfish....." In my opinion women are more self obsessed than men. | |||
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"I always find this sweeping generalisation funny when it is women that bring up men I.E their Sons maybe some women should be doing a better job of teaching their sons how to treat women. Or parents.The point "All men are bastards" maybe its the mother that would be better enlightening the son and breaking the cycle " I think sons and daughters take their due from how the men in their mother's life great her and vice versa. | |||
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"ALL MEN ARE BASTARDS!!!
That's a lot of unmarried women.
But are the ones with a ring on their finger ‘truly’ married? "Ooooooooooo heavy stuff....... uhmmmmmmm In these days of 'if you say it then it's so' ....... I'm going for the easy out of yes. | |||
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"I always find this sweeping generalisation funny when it is women that bring up men I.E their Sons maybe some women should be doing a better job of teaching their sons how to treat women. Or parents.The point "All men are bastards" maybe its the mother that would be better enlightening the son and breaking the cycle Why should it be a woman’s job to ensure folk aren’t arseholes" Lol my mum thinks it is. She also thinks it a man is untidy it's his wife's fault  | |||
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"I always find this sweeping generalisation funny when it is women that bring up men I.E their Sons maybe some women should be doing a better job of teaching their sons how to treat women. Or parents.The point "All men are bastards" maybe its the mother that would be better enlightening the son and breaking the cycle I think sons and daughters take their due from how the men in their mother's life great her and vice versa. " , Cue, take their cue | |||
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"ALL MEN ARE BASTARDS!!! "And all women are bitches.... | |||
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"It's not 'human' nature. It's twats and they've existed in every generation.In your opinon." No. Not in my opinion. | |||
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"ALL MEN ARE BASTARDS!!!
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"1.i would never be put first.2.beer and mates would be more important than me.3 he would cheat on me with either a man woman, or both.4.there is always an ex who he wants back.5.i woudnt be loved or looked after properly.6 i have never been 'in love'with anyone and that wont change.7. He will eventually leave me for someone else.8.in an argument they always walk out and dont come back rather than try and sort it.these have happened to me in the past.thats why i would rather be single than to go though it again." So sorry you feel this way , we aren’t all like this , and also many woman are like this , one reason I am single and will remain single , my exwife f**** with my head to much and caused me to have a mental breakdown !!! Finally left her after this !!!! My guard is totally up now with woman !!! It was dropped recently but that’s now changed and it fully armoured again !!! Hope time will heal for you xxx massive hugs xxxx | |||
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"It's not 'human' nature. It's twats and they've existed in every generation.In your opinon. No. Not in my opinion. " Rightooo... | |||
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"I always find this sweeping generalisation funny when it is women that bring up men I.E their Sons maybe some women should be doing a better job of teaching their sons how to treat women." I'm quite proud of my son hes never been in trouble with police treats a girl like a princess will buy and do anything for her and few years back he said to me when we were chatting ... you know why I'm like this because I see the way dad treated you and knew I never wanted to be like him ! | |||
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"I always find this sweeping generalisation funny when it is women that bring up men I.E their Sons maybe some women should be doing a better job of teaching their sons how to treat women. I'm quite proud of my son hes never been in trouble with police treats a girl like a princess will buy and do anything for her and few years back he said to me when we were chatting ... you know why I'm like this because I see the way dad treated you and knew I never wanted to be like him ! " Sounds a lovely boy. | |||
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"You are not the only one to think this. I could add a few more points to your list. Men are selfish end of..... Wow.....what sweeping a generalisation!! So not one single decent man exists who has good points and would treat his woman/partner right? Not possible...!!! There are loads of decent men around, just as there are loads of decent women around.... Well I’m going by my own experiences in vanilla world and this world. No offence intended to you Sir but only my opinion. Not met one man yet who is not selfish....." Maybe it's you that's the problem. You are the common denominator | |||
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"I always find this sweeping generalisation funny when it is women that bring up men I.E their Sons maybe some women should be doing a better job of teaching their sons how to treat women. I'm quite proud of my son hes never been in trouble with police treats a girl like a princess will buy and do anything for her and few years back he said to me when we were chatting ... you know why I'm like this because I see the way dad treated you and knew I never wanted to be like him ! Sounds a lovely boy." He is I am so proud of both my kids but I agree not all men are the same but most are lol it's just finding the good ones and not putting up with any crap xx  | |||
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"You are not the only one to think this. I could add a few more points to your list. Men are selfish end of..... Wow.....what sweeping a generalisation!! So not one single decent man exists who has good points and would treat his woman/partner right? Not possible...!!! There are loads of decent men around, just as there are loads of decent women around.... Well I’m going by my own experiences in vanilla world and this world. No offence intended to you Sir but only my opinion. Not met one man yet who is not selfish..... Maybe it's you that's the problem. You are the common denominator " Nope it’s definitely not me. I was raised to respect people and treat people how I would wish to be treated! | |||
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"You are not the only one to think this. I could add a few more points to your list. Men are selfish end of..... Wow.....what sweeping a generalisation!! So not one single decent man exists who has good points and would treat his woman/partner right? Not possible...!!! There are loads of decent men around, just as there are loads of decent women around.... Well I’m going by my own experiences in vanilla world and this world. No offence intended to you Sir but only my opinion. Not met one man yet who is not selfish..... Maybe it's you that's the problem. You are the common denominator Nope it’s definitely not me. I was raised to respect people and treat people how I would wish to be treated! " Yes, you clearly have a healthy respect for men | |||
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"You are not the only one to think this. I could add a few more points to your list. Men are selfish end of..... Wow.....what sweeping a generalisation!! So not one single decent man exists who has good points and would treat his woman/partner right? Not possible...!!! There are loads of decent men around, just as there are loads of decent women around.... Well I’m going by my own experiences in vanilla world and this world. No offence intended to you Sir but only my opinion. Not met one man yet who is not selfish..... Maybe it's you that's the problem. You are the common denominator Nope it’s definitely not me. I was raised to respect people and treat people how I would wish to be treated! Yes, you clearly have a healthy respect for men" I clearly have a healthy respect for men who treat me properly and are unselfish! Such men, in my opinion, do not exist...  | |||
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"You are not the only one to think this. I could add a few more points to your list. Men are selfish end of..... Wow.....what sweeping a generalisation!! So not one single decent man exists who has good points and would treat his woman/partner right? Not possible...!!! There are loads of decent men around, just as there are loads of decent women around.... Well I’m going by my own experiences in vanilla world and this world. No offence intended to you Sir but only my opinion. Not met one man yet who is not selfish..... Maybe it's you that's the problem. You are the common denominator Nope it’s definitely not me. I was raised to respect people and treat people how I would wish to be treated! Yes, you clearly have a healthy respect for men I clearly have a healthy respect for men who treat me properly and are unselfish! Such men, in my opinion, do not exist... "So respect for no men then | |||
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"There is no gender that's worse than another. It's all down to the person and it's as simple as that. A wanker will always be a wanker regardless of gender and the lovely ones will always be very appreciated "Exactly | |||
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"There is no gender that's worse than another. It's all down to the person and it's as simple as that. A wanker will always be a wanker regardless of gender and the lovely ones will always be very appreciated "Exactly. Not human nature but a twat is a twat what ever gender or generation. I I agree. | |||
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"You are not the only one to think this. I could add a few more points to your list. Men are selfish end of..... Wow.....what sweeping a generalisation!! So not one single decent man exists who has good points and would treat his woman/partner right? Not possible...!!! There are loads of decent men around, just as there are loads of decent women around.... Well I’m going by my own experiences in vanilla world and this world. No offence intended to you Sir but only my opinion. Not met one man yet who is not selfish..... Maybe it's you that's the problem. You are the common denominator Nope it’s definitely not me. I was raised to respect people and treat people how I would wish to be treated! Yes, you clearly have a healthy respect for men I clearly have a healthy respect for men who treat me properly and are unselfish! Such men, in my opinion, do not exist...
So respect for no men then "
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"You are not the only one to think this. I could add a few more points to your list. Men are selfish end of..... Wow.....what sweeping a generalisation!! So not one single decent man exists who has good points and would treat his woman/partner right? Not possible...!!! There are loads of decent men around, just as there are loads of decent women around.... Well I’m going by my own experiences in vanilla world and this world. No offence intended to you Sir but only my opinion. Not met one man yet who is not selfish..... Maybe it's you that's the problem. You are the common denominator Nope it’s definitely not me. I was raised to respect people and treat people how I would wish to be treated! Yes, you clearly have a healthy respect for men I clearly have a healthy respect for men who treat me properly and are unselfish! Such men, in my opinion, do not exist...
So respect for no men then
I have respect for those men who have respect for me. "Confuzzled massive contradiction on your initial post ... | |||
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" I have respect for those men who have respect for me. " Which is in your opinion none of us.... Your probably right though and its perfectly accpetable to write someone off because of their gender | |||
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"Good. It's good you've decided not to be in a relationship. It's not necessary for anything. Simple as that. Love yourself. Find good friends. " | |||
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Saying that. It works both ways. My wife had various affairs. She eventually left me for a younger man 15 years ago. leaving me to bring up 3 children on my own.
All the women that I have dated had been unfaithful. One of them was even fucking my younger brother.
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"You are not the only one to think this. I could add a few more points to your list. Men are selfish end of..... Wow.....what sweeping a generalisation!! So not one single decent man exists who has good points and would treat his woman/partner right? Not possible...!!! There are loads of decent men around, just as there are loads of decent women around.... Well I’m going by my own experiences in vanilla world and this world. No offence intended to you Sir but only my opinion. Not met one man yet who is not selfish..... Maybe it's you that's the problem. You are the common denominator Nope it’s definitely not me. I was raised to respect people and treat people how I would wish to be treated! Yes, you clearly have a healthy respect for men I clearly have a healthy respect for men who treat me properly and are unselfish! Such men, in my opinion, do not exist...
So respect for no men then
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"1.i would never be put first.2.beer and mates would be more important than me.3 he would cheat on me with either a man woman, or both.4.there is always an ex who he wants back.5.i woudnt be loved or looked after properly.6 i have never been 'in love'with anyone and that wont change.7. He will eventually leave me for someone else.8.in an argument they always walk out and dont come back rather than try and sort it.these have happened to me in the past.thats why i would rather be single than to go though it again. I'm sorry, but no one would want to go out with anything who has an attitude like this. Man or woman" It may sound a bit harsh but I'd have to agree with him too. Some people aren't cut out for a relationship either and I'm not saying you aren't but definitely sound that you're not in the right place for one. I'm hoping this changes though. | |||
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"You are not the only one to think this. I could add a few more points to your list. Men are selfish end of..... Wow.....what sweeping a generalisation!! So not one single decent man exists who has good points and would treat his woman/partner right? Not possible...!!! There are loads of decent men around, just as there are loads of decent women around.... Well I’m going by my own experiences in vanilla world and this world. No offence intended to you Sir but only my opinion. Not met one man yet who is not selfish..... Maybe it's you that's the problem. You are the common denominator Nope it’s definitely not me. I was raised to respect people and treat people how I would wish to be treated! Yes, you clearly have a healthy respect for men I clearly have a healthy respect for men who treat me properly and are unselfish! Such men, in my opinion, do not exist...
So respect for no men then
I have respect for those men who have respect for me. Confuzzled massive contradiction on your initial post ...
Not if you read it between the lines....."I am awful at between the lines I can only deal in factual | |||
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"Well, thats a great outlook, a perfect way to become bitter & lonely "bad experiences can do that to people. But feeling this way won't last forever. Believe me when I say not all men are this way. Had my fair share of wanks but lots of good decent men out there. Hope you feel better in time. Xx | |||
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"Well, thats a great outlook, a perfect way to become bitter & lonely bad experiences can do that to people. But feeling this way won't last forever. Believe me when I say not all men are this way. Had my fair share of wanks but lots of good decent men out there. Hope you feel better in time. Xx"PS... you don't need to be in a relationship to be happy either though! | |||
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"i woudnt be loved or looked after properly....6 i have never been 'in love'with anyone and that wont change." You reap what you sow | |||
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"I’d love a relationship. Someone who’s my own. Guaranteed sex whenever we want, sex that just gets better and better as you both learn each other’s buttons and likes. As long as the person you’re with makes you feel loved they can do all their hobbies like drinks with the boys or playing sports or whatever. I’d love a guy that would get steaming once a week and then need looking after the next day cos he’s all fucked up and delicate. ALL my ex’s I trained to have their nights out and get fucked up and then I’d do the care package the next day. One guy liked a double decker and a bottle of purdeys, one liked an orangina and a tin of pineapple rings, one just liked a mars milkshake, but I’d wash them all in the bath and just pamper them all day, willy smooths, cwtches, one liked having his eyebrows stroked. Fucking love all that shit I do. " Me also but apparently as im told fabs not a dating site its a fucking site but as i am my own person fab can be what ever i want it to be ... | |||
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"There is no gender that's worse than another. It's all down to the person and it's as simple as that. A wanker will always be a wanker regardless of gender and the lovely ones will always be very appreciated "100% | |||
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"I’d love a relationship. Someone who’s my own. Guaranteed sex whenever we want, sex that just gets better and better as you both learn each other’s buttons and likes. As long as the person you’re with makes you feel loved they can do all their hobbies like drinks with the boys or playing sports or whatever. I’d love a guy that would get steaming once a week and then need looking after the next day cos he’s all fucked up and delicate. ALL my ex’s I trained to have their nights out and get fucked up and then I’d do the care package the next day. One guy liked a double decker and a bottle of purdeys, one liked an orangina and a tin of pineapple rings, one just liked a mars milkshake, but I’d wash them all in the bath and just pamper them all day, willy smooths, cwtches, one liked having his eyebrows stroked. Fucking love all that shit I do. Me also but apparently as im told fabs not a dating site its a fucking site but as i am my own person fab can be what ever i want it to be ..." There’s a lot of double standards here. I’d have no problem dating a guy from fab because as far as I’m concerned I could meet a guy here, the gym, my local Asda, in a night club wouldn’t matter to me. If you connect with someone you connect with someone regardless of where you met them. But most guys wouldn’t consider dating a woman from here cos they see us as dirty or just good for a fuck and wouldn’t make a gf out of someone who had rude pictures of themselves on what’s essentially a fuck site. The amount of guys in relationships that seek sex on the side from here, like they want to marry nice but shag nasty. | |||
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"I always find this sweeping generalisation funny when it is women that bring up men I.E their Sons maybe some women should be doing a better job of teaching their sons how to treat women. I'm quite proud of my son hes never been in trouble with police treats a girl like a princess will buy and do anything for her and few years back he said to me when we were chatting ... you know why I'm like this because I see the way dad treated you and knew I never wanted to be like him ! Sounds a lovely boy." Yeah, but you'd pass him up for a tattooed bad boy with a cocksure smile, wouldn't you? Try to deny it! | |||
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"I always find this sweeping generalisation funny when it is women that bring up men I.E their Sons maybe some women should be doing a better job of teaching their sons how to treat women. I'm quite proud of my son hes never been in trouble with police treats a girl like a princess will buy and do anything for her and few years back he said to me when we were chatting ... you know why I'm like this because I see the way dad treated you and knew I never wanted to be like him ! Sounds a lovely boy. Yeah, but you'd pass him up for a tattooed bad boy with a cocksure smile, wouldn't you? Try to deny it! "DENIED  | |||
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"I’d love a relationship. Someone who’s my own. Guaranteed sex whenever we want, sex that just gets better and better as you both learn each other’s buttons and likes. As long as the person you’re with makes you feel loved they can do all their hobbies like drinks with the boys or playing sports or whatever. I’d love a guy that would get steaming once a week and then need looking after the next day cos he’s all fucked up and delicate. ALL my ex’s I trained to have their nights out and get fucked up and then I’d do the care package the next day. One guy liked a double decker and a bottle of purdeys, one liked an orangina and a tin of pineapple rings, one just liked a mars milkshake, but I’d wash them all in the bath and just pamper them all day, willy smooths, cwtches, one liked having his eyebrows stroked. Fucking love all that shit I do. Me also but apparently as im told fabs not a dating site its a fucking site but as i am my own person fab can be what ever i want it to be ... There’s a lot of double standards here. I’d have no problem dating a guy from fab because as far as I’m concerned I could meet a guy here, the gym, my local Asda, in a night club wouldn’t matter to me. If you connect with someone you connect with someone regardless of where you met them. But most guys wouldn’t consider dating a woman from here cos they see us as dirty or just good for a fuck and wouldn’t make a gf out of someone who had rude pictures of themselves on what’s essentially a fuck site. The amount of guys in relationships that seek sex on the side from here, like they want to marry nice but shag nasty. " Not sure what you base this on, there are lots of couples on her that have met through Fab - us included. P | |||
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"1.i would never be put first.2.beer and mates would be more important than me.3 he would cheat on me with either a man woman, or both.4.there is always an ex who he wants back.5.i woudnt be loved or looked after properly.6 i have never been 'in love'with anyone and that wont change.7. He will eventually leave me for someone else.8.in an argument they always walk out and dont come back rather than try and sort it.these have happened to me in the past.thats why i would rather be single than to go though it again. You are not the only one to think this. I could add a few more points to your list. Men are selfish end of....." Absolutely rubbish | |||
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"I always find this sweeping generalisation funny when it is women that bring up men I.E their Sons maybe some women should be doing a better job of teaching their sons how to treat women. I'm quite proud of my son hes never been in trouble with police treats a girl like a princess will buy and do anything for her and few years back he said to me when we were chatting ... you know why I'm like this because I see the way dad treated you and knew I never wanted to be like him ! Sounds a lovely boy. Yeah, but you'd pass him up for a tattooed bad boy with a cocksure smile, wouldn't you? Try to deny it! DENIED "lol, liar! | |||
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"I always find this sweeping generalisation funny when it is women that bring up men I.E their Sons maybe some women should be doing a better job of teaching their sons how to treat women. I'm quite proud of my son hes never been in trouble with police treats a girl like a princess will buy and do anything for her and few years back he said to me when we were chatting ... you know why I'm like this because I see the way dad treated you and knew I never wanted to be like him ! Sounds a lovely boy. Yeah, but you'd pass him up for a tattooed bad boy with a cocksure smile, wouldn't you? Try to deny it! DENIED
lol, liar!"Actually no but i do love slapping them about a bit to try shake the delluded asshole out them. | |||
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"I’d love a relationship. Someone who’s my own. Guaranteed sex whenever we want, sex that just gets better and better as you both learn each other’s buttons and likes. As long as the person you’re with makes you feel loved they can do all their hobbies like drinks with the boys or playing sports or whatever. I’d love a guy that would get steaming once a week and then need looking after the next day cos he’s all fucked up and delicate. ALL my ex’s I trained to have their nights out and get fucked up and then I’d do the care package the next day. One guy liked a double decker and a bottle of purdeys, one liked an orangina and a tin of pineapple rings, one just liked a mars milkshake, but I’d wash them all in the bath and just pamper them all day, willy smooths, cwtches, one liked having his eyebrows stroked. Fucking love all that shit I do. Me also but apparently as im told fabs not a dating site its a fucking site but as i am my own person fab can be what ever i want it to be ..." Fab men don’t see us as relationship material because we are members of this site and I’ve done my research on that topic believe me! This also goes back to an angle of respect.... | |||
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"I’d love a relationship. Someone who’s my own. Guaranteed sex whenever we want, sex that just gets better and better as you both learn each other’s buttons and likes. As long as the person you’re with makes you feel loved they can do all their hobbies like drinks with the boys or playing sports or whatever. I’d love a guy that would get steaming once a week and then need looking after the next day cos he’s all fucked up and delicate. ALL my ex’s I trained to have their nights out and get fucked up and then I’d do the care package the next day. One guy liked a double decker and a bottle of purdeys, one liked an orangina and a tin of pineapple rings, one just liked a mars milkshake, but I’d wash them all in the bath and just pamper them all day, willy smooths, cwtches, one liked having his eyebrows stroked. Fucking love all that shit I do. Me also but apparently as im told fabs not a dating site its a fucking site but as i am my own person fab can be what ever i want it to be ... Fab men don’t see us as relationship material because we are members of this site and I’ve done my research on that topic believe me! This also goes back to an angle of respect...." Not the men i have dated from here 4 years and a 19 months . | |||
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"I’d love a relationship. Someone who’s my own. Guaranteed sex whenever we want, sex that just gets better and better as you both learn each other’s buttons and likes. As long as the person you’re with makes you feel loved they can do all their hobbies like drinks with the boys or playing sports or whatever. I’d love a guy that would get steaming once a week and then need looking after the next day cos he’s all fucked up and delicate. ALL my ex’s I trained to have their nights out and get fucked up and then I’d do the care package the next day. One guy liked a double decker and a bottle of purdeys, one liked an orangina and a tin of pineapple rings, one just liked a mars milkshake, but I’d wash them all in the bath and just pamper them all day, willy smooths, cwtches, one liked having his eyebrows stroked. Fucking love all that shit I do. Me also but apparently as im told fabs not a dating site its a fucking site but as i am my own person fab can be what ever i want it to be ... Fab men don’t see us as relationship material because we are members of this site and I’ve done my research on that topic believe me! This also goes back to an angle of respect...." I can think of 5 couples just off the top of my head that met on here | |||
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"I’d love a relationship. Someone who’s my own. Guaranteed sex whenever we want, sex that just gets better and better as you both learn each other’s buttons and likes. As long as the person you’re with makes you feel loved they can do all their hobbies like drinks with the boys or playing sports or whatever. I’d love a guy that would get steaming once a week and then need looking after the next day cos he’s all fucked up and delicate. ALL my ex’s I trained to have their nights out and get fucked up and then I’d do the care package the next day. One guy liked a double decker and a bottle of purdeys, one liked an orangina and a tin of pineapple rings, one just liked a mars milkshake, but I’d wash them all in the bath and just pamper them all day, willy smooths, cwtches, one liked having his eyebrows stroked. Fucking love all that shit I do. Me also but apparently as im told fabs not a dating site its a fucking site but as i am my own person fab can be what ever i want it to be ... Fab men don’t see us as relationship material because we are members of this site and I’ve done my research on that topic believe me! This also goes back to an angle of respect....Not the men i have dated from here 4 years and a 19 months ." You have been lucky then..... | |||
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"You are not the only one to think this. I could add a few more points to your list. Men are selfish end of..... Wow.....what sweeping a generalisation!! So not one single decent man exists who has good points and would treat his woman/partner right? Not possible...!!! There are loads of decent men around, just as there are loads of decent women around.... Well I’m going by my own experiences in vanilla world and this world. No offence intended to you Sir but only my opinion. Not met one man yet who is not selfish..... Maybe it's you that's the problem. You are the common denominator Nope it’s definitely not me. I was raised to respect people and treat people how I would wish to be treated! Yes, you clearly have a healthy respect for men I clearly have a healthy respect for men who treat me properly and are unselfish! Such men, in my opinion, do not exist...
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"There are some really lovely men. Some aren’t so great, but the majority aren’t as you portray. " Thank you for that | |||
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"I’d love a relationship. Someone who’s my own. Guaranteed sex whenever we want, sex that just gets better and better as you both learn each other’s buttons and likes. As long as the person you’re with makes you feel loved they can do all their hobbies like drinks with the boys or playing sports or whatever. I’d love a guy that would get steaming once a week and then need looking after the next day cos he’s all fucked up and delicate. ALL my ex’s I trained to have their nights out and get fucked up and then I’d do the care package the next day. One guy liked a double decker and a bottle of purdeys, one liked an orangina and a tin of pineapple rings, one just liked a mars milkshake, but I’d wash them all in the bath and just pamper them all day, willy smooths, cwtches, one liked having his eyebrows stroked. Fucking love all that shit I do. Me also but apparently as im told fabs not a dating site its a fucking site but as i am my own person fab can be what ever i want it to be ... There’s a lot of double standards here. I’d have no problem dating a guy from fab because as far as I’m concerned I could meet a guy here, the gym, my local Asda, in a night club wouldn’t matter to me. If you connect with someone you connect with someone regardless of where you met them. But most guys wouldn’t consider dating a woman from here cos they see us as dirty or just good for a fuck and wouldn’t make a gf out of someone who had rude pictures of themselves on what’s essentially a fuck site. The amount of guys in relationships that seek sex on the side from here, like they want to marry nice but shag nasty. " I agree there are many guys like that, but equally there's plenty of guys who rather like the idea of a filthy partner. Most guys in couples on here for example | |||
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"I’d love a relationship. Someone who’s my own. Guaranteed sex whenever we want, sex that just gets better and better as you both learn each other’s buttons and likes. As long as the person you’re with makes you feel loved they can do all their hobbies like drinks with the boys or playing sports or whatever. I’d love a guy that would get steaming once a week and then need looking after the next day cos he’s all fucked up and delicate. ALL my ex’s I trained to have their nights out and get fucked up and then I’d do the care package the next day. One guy liked a double decker and a bottle of purdeys, one liked an orangina and a tin of pineapple rings, one just liked a mars milkshake, but I’d wash them all in the bath and just pamper them all day, willy smooths, cwtches, one liked having his eyebrows stroked. Fucking love all that shit I do. Me also but apparently as im told fabs not a dating site its a fucking site but as i am my own person fab can be what ever i want it to be ... Fab men don’t see us as relationship material because we are members of this site and I’ve done my research on that topic believe me! This also goes back to an angle of respect....Not the men i have dated from here 4 years and a 19 months . You have been lucky then....." As I and others have pointed out, there are lots of couples who met on here. What I don't understand is why you even care what men are like on here since it's clear from your earlier comments you don't believe nice men exist? | |||
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"It seems irrational to me to write off almost half the human race based on one's own poor choices in relation to a statistically insignificant number of individuals. Bitterness and a sense of entitlement are not qualities that anyone would seek out in a partner. " This | |||
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"I’d love a relationship. Someone who’s my own. Guaranteed sex whenever we want, sex that just gets better and better as you both learn each other’s buttons and likes. As long as the person you’re with makes you feel loved they can do all their hobbies like drinks with the boys or playing sports or whatever. I’d love a guy that would get steaming once a week and then need looking after the next day cos he’s all fucked up and delicate. ALL my ex’s I trained to have their nights out and get fucked up and then I’d do the care package the next day. One guy liked a double decker and a bottle of purdeys, one liked an orangina and a tin of pineapple rings, one just liked a mars milkshake, but I’d wash them all in the bath and just pamper them all day, willy smooths, cwtches, one liked having his eyebrows stroked. Fucking love all that shit I do. Me also but apparently as im told fabs not a dating site its a fucking site but as i am my own person fab can be what ever i want it to be ... Fab men don’t see us as relationship material because we are members of this site and I’ve done my research on that topic believe me! This also goes back to an angle of respect....Not the men i have dated from here 4 years and a 19 months . You have been lucky then..... As I and others have pointed out, there are lots of couples who met on here. What I don't understand is why you even care what men are like on here since it's clear from your earlier comments you don't believe nice men exist? " I am merely contributing to the thread. If you don’t like my contribution then pass it by. We are all entitled to our opinions that’s what the forums are about. | |||
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"Life way better single. Enjoy life. True happiness is when you find it yourself and not rely on others to find it" Is it impossible to do this whilst still caring for someone else? | |||
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"This is very sad and disheartening to read OP. It's certainly not how life is for me, or generally, in my opinion. It takes time to heal hurt. If you only do one thing for yourself, learn to love and respect yourself, only then will you love and respect others who can love and respect you in return. Equally, if you expect bad stuff to happen, it will. It's the laws of attraction and projection. You cannot change others, you can only change yourself. Good wishes from me x" Absolutely spot on | |||
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"1.i would never be put first.2.beer and mates would be more important than me.3 he would cheat on me with either a man woman, or both.4.there is always an ex who he wants back.5.i woudnt be loved or looked after properly.6 i have never been 'in love'with anyone and that wont change.7. He will eventually leave me for someone else.8.in an argument they always walk out and dont come back rather than try and sort it.these have happened to me in the past.thats why i would rather be single than to go though it again." It must be terrible to feel that way. But I just don't get your point number 6 i have never been 'in love'with anyone and that wont change. If you have never been in love with anyone yet they might love you but feel that you will never love them then eventually they will get pissed off. And give up on you. Just my take on it. | |||
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"I'm not interested in relationships either. Why own a cow when you can have the milk for free. " Oh dear ! | |||
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"I always find this sweeping generalisation funny when it is women that bring up men I.E their Sons maybe some women should be doing a better job of teaching their sons how to treat women. Or parents.The point "All men are bastards" maybe its the mother that would be better enlightening the son and breaking the cycle Why should it be a woman’s job to ensure folk aren’t arseholes Lol my mum thinks it is. She also thinks it a man is untidy it's his wife's fault "Well, fuck your mum (I previously said she’s a lovely lady) (Joking of course, your mums lovely) | |||
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"1.i would never be put first.2.beer and mates would be more important than me.3 he would cheat on me with either a man woman, or both.4.there is always an ex who he wants back.5.i woudnt be loved or looked after properly.6 i have never been 'in love'with anyone and that wont change.7. He will eventually leave me for someone else.8.in an argument they always walk out and dont come back rather than try and sort it.these have happened to me in the past.thats why i would rather be single than to go though it again. You are not the only one to think this. I could add a few more points to your list. Men are selfish end of....." Not all men are selfish. Your obviously meeting the wrong men. I always put my ex before me. Always | |||
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"I'm not interested in relationships either. Why own a cow when you can have the milk for free. Where you getting the milk from?" Tesco Express probably. | |||
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"I'm not interested in relationships either. Why own a cow when you can have the milk for free. Where you getting the milk from? Tesco Express probably. " That’s stealing! | |||
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"I'm not interested in relationships either. Why own a cow when you can have the milk for free. " How lovely | |||
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"I always find this sweeping generalisation funny when it is women that bring up men I.E their Sons maybe some women should be doing a better job of teaching their sons how to treat women. Or parents.The point "All men are bastards" maybe its the mother that would be better enlightening the son and breaking the cycle I think sons and daughters take their due from how the men in their mother's life great her and vice versa. " I think he is going along the lines of if all men are arseholes they would be no good at enlightening their sons. | |||
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" Lol my mum thinks it is. She also thinks it a man is untidy it's his wife's fault "My MIL thinks it is my fault if Mr ruggers hasn't had his haircut in a while , she thinks I should take him to the barbers
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" I clearly have a healthy respect for men who treat me properly and are unselfish! Such men, in my opinion, do not exist... "Now wanting to sound smug, but I found one | |||
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" Lol my mum thinks it is. She also thinks it a man is untidy it's his wife's fault
My MIL thinks it is my fault if Mr ruggers hasn't had his haircut in a while , she thinks I should take him to the barbers
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" Relationships are not easy, they take work on both sides maybe you need to look at your own approach" You see I never get this saying, if it is hard to keep a relationship going I think I wouldn't want to stay in it. | |||
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" I clearly have a healthy respect for men who treat me properly and are unselfish! Such men, in my opinion, do not exist...
Now wanting to sound smug, but I found one "That’s very smug lol | |||
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"I'm not interested in relationships either. Why own a cow when you can have the milk for free. A good reason for filters......" Cravendale do that .... | |||
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" Relationships are not easy, they take work on both sides maybe you need to look at your own approach You see I never get this saying, if it is hard to keep a relationship going I think I wouldn't want to stay in it. " I think the point is that there's always going to be occasional difficulties in any long term relationship. When those hit, you can either work to make things better or abandon the relationship in the probably false belief the grass is greener elsewhere. | |||
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" Fab men don’t see us as relationship material because we are members of this site and I’ve done my research on that topic believe me! This also goes back to an angle of respect...." Sadly that attitude is still around yes. They would be thought of as a stud, you a slag. | |||
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"And as a general point if every relationship you've had is shit, there's a pretty good chance that you are the problem. " What if you have only had one relationship, that was, as you put it, shit, is that my fault? | |||
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"Also for the people that say there’s plenty of couples that have met on here and remain on here. I’m not talking about a swinging relationship where you still want to sleep with others. I’m talking about a monogamous relationship where you only sleep with each other and give up this place once you’ve found it. Those are the men I’m referring to. If you want a swinging relationship then obviously here would be a good place to find one. " Well yes, if you want a monogamous relationship looking for one on a site for people who are non monogamous is always going to be problematic... | |||
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"Also for the people that say there’s plenty of couples that have met on here and remain on here. I’m not talking about a swinging relationship where you still want to sleep with others. I’m talking about a monogamous relationship where you only sleep with each other and give up this place once you’ve found it. Those are the men I’m referring to. If you want a swinging relationship then obviously here would be a good place to find one. " We met on here and got into a relationship with the expectation that it would be monogamous. However, as time went on we realised that we wanted to explore the swinging world together. There are lots of profiles (though I'll admit that my research is heavily biased towards the female ones) that include sentences like 'Not looking for meets, I've found my perfect man, just here to keep in touch' I hope you get to find Mr right, either on here or else where. P | |||
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" Lol my mum thinks it is. She also thinks it a man is untidy it's his wife's fault
My MIL thinks it is my fault if Mr ruggers hasn't had his haircut in a while , she thinks I should take him to the barbers
Everything is my fault according to my MIL "Welcome to my world | |||
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" Lol my mum thinks it is. She also thinks it a man is untidy it's his wife's fault
My MIL thinks it is my fault if Mr ruggers hasn't had his haircut in a while , she thinks I should take him to the barbers
Everything is my fault according to my MIL
Welcome to my world "I like your new tag! And I’d say I’m glad to be here...but.... | |||
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My MIL thinks it is my fault if Mr ruggers hasn't had his haircut in a while , she thinks I should take him to the barbers
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" I clearly have a healthy respect for men who treat me properly and are unselfish! Such men, in my opinion, do not exist...
Now wanting to sound smug, but I found one
That’s very smug lol "Blimey I did a typo too, it should have said not not now It is true though, I have only ever had two long term relationships and both were unselfish and respected women, I am sure there are more out there | |||
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" Relationships are not easy, they take work on both sides maybe you need to look at your own approach You see I never get this saying, if it is hard to keep a relationship going I think I wouldn't want to stay in it. I think the point is that there's always going to be occasional difficulties in any long term relationship. When those hit, you can either work to make things better or abandon the relationship in the probably false belief the grass is greener elsewhere. " I think I have just been lucky | |||
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My MIL thinks it is my fault if Mr ruggers hasn't had his haircut in a while , she thinks I should take him to the barbers
Everything is my fault according to my MIL
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I like your new tag!
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My MIL thinks it is my fault if Mr ruggers hasn't had his haircut in a while , she thinks I should take him to the barbers
Everything is my fault according to my MIL
Welcome to my world
I like your new tag!
And I’d say I’m glad to be here...but....
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"I wouldn’t rule out a relationship with someone I met off here Really? " If we click and get on really well why not | |||
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 But then I'm not a pub goer anyway.
My close friends sometimes mock me saying I'm too effeminate. But it's ok. Nothing to prove. I like treating her as my queen.
If you want to be happy as a singleton that's absolutely fine. But don't think it's a healthy thought process to be single because of some bad experiences.
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