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By *asmeen OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Lord of orgasms

Blake?

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By *asmeen OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

I heard LoO got sin binned for a thread

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By *orthantsblueeyesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

Not sure

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By *asmeen OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I heard LoO got sin binned for a thread "

Oh

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I assume he left after the child depression thread he started. It did not go down well, and while pack mentality is certainly often used at the wrong times. That very specific time it was not just pack mentality, it was justified in that it reached a lot of people who feel deeply for the subject.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I assume he left after the child depression thread he started. It did not go down well, and while pack mentality is certainly often used at the wrong times. That very specific time it was not just pack mentality, it was justified in that it reached a lot of people who feel deeply for the subject. "

This

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By *asmeen OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"I assume he left after the child depression thread he started. It did not go down well, and while pack mentality is certainly often used at the wrong times. That very specific time it was not just pack mentality, it was justified in that it reached a lot of people who feel deeply for the subject. "

Never saw that thread

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

Not aloud to talk about it but I miss him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Getting bummed by a lovely man named Juan

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By *asmeen OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Getting bummed by a lovely man named Juan "

Lucky him

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Getting bummed by a lovely man named Juan "

Is that his real name though?

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By *asmeen OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Getting bummed by a lovely man named Juan

Is that his real name though? "

Blake

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Getting bummed by a lovely man named Juan

Is that his real name though?

Blake"

Blake is getting bummed by a man named Blake that goes by the name Juan?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting bummed by a lovely man named Juan

Is that his real name though?

Blake

Blake is getting bummed by a man named Blake that goes by the name Juan? "

Yes

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By *asmeen OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Getting bummed by a lovely man named Juan

Is that his real name though?

Blake

Blake is getting bummed by a man named Blake that goes by the name Juan? "

Something like that

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Getting bummed by a lovely man named Juan

Is that his real name though?

Blake

Blake is getting bummed by a man named Blake that goes by the name Juan? "

Aka Pof.. I watched. It was filth..

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk


"Getting bummed by a lovely man named Juan

Is that his real name though?

Blake

Blake is getting bummed by a man named Blake that goes by the name Juan?

Aka Pof.. I watched. It was filth.."

I missed that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting bummed by a lovely man named Juan

Is that his real name though?

Blake

Blake is getting bummed by a man named Blake that goes by the name Juan?

Aka Pof.. I watched. It was filth..

I missed that "

It was filth...but not good filth...

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Getting bummed by a lovely man named Juan

Is that his real name though?

Blake

Blake is getting bummed by a man named Blake that goes by the name Juan?

Aka Pof.. I watched. It was filth.."

OK so just to be clear...

Blake is being bummed by a man named Blake who goes by the name Juan, also known as PoF?

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By *asmeen OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Getting bummed by a lovely man named Juan

Is that his real name though?

Blake

Blake is getting bummed by a man named Blake that goes by the name Juan?

Aka Pof.. I watched. It was filth..

OK so just to be clear...

Blake is being bummed by a man named Blake who goes by the name Juan, also known as PoF? "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Getting bummed by a lovely man named Juan

Is that his real name though?

Blake

Blake is getting bummed by a man named Blake that goes by the name Juan?

Aka Pof.. I watched. It was filth..

OK so just to be clear...

Blake is being bummed by a man named Blake who goes by the name Juan, also known as PoF? "

Juan fuck yourselves, I dont believe you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I assume he left after the child depression thread he started. It did not go down well, and while pack mentality is certainly often used at the wrong times. That very specific time it was not just pack mentality, it was justified in that it reached a lot of people who feel deeply for the subject. "

It wasn't the first time he'd done something like that, I thing that was just the final straw.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)


"I assume he left after the child depression thread he started. It did not go down well, and while pack mentality is certainly often used at the wrong times. That very specific time it was not just pack mentality, it was justified in that it reached a lot of people who feel deeply for the subject.

It wasn't the first time he'd done something like that, I thing that was just the final straw. "

It was a very emotive thread. I know I cried.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I assume he left after the child depression thread he started. It did not go down well, and while pack mentality is certainly often used at the wrong times. That very specific time it was not just pack mentality, it was justified in that it reached a lot of people who feel deeply for the subject.

It wasn't the first time he'd done something like that, I thing that was just the final straw.

It was a very emotive thread. I know I cried."

Lots of people got upset.

He just went too far. X

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

Hes fine. Hes running around a field singing Sally's name x

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By *asmeen OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Hes fine. Hes running around a field singing Sally's name x"

Like worzel?

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Hes fine. Hes running around a field singing Sally's name x

Like worzel?"

Exactly like Worzel Gummidge x

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By *asmeen OP   TV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Hes fine. Hes running around a field singing Sally's name x

Like worzel?

Exactly like Worzel Gummidge x"

X

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Education is key.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I assume he left after the child depression thread he started. It did not go down well, and while pack mentality is certainly often used at the wrong times. That very specific time it was not just pack mentality, it was justified in that it reached a lot of people who feel deeply for the subject.

It wasn't the first time he'd done something like that, I thing that was just the final straw.

It was a very emotive thread. I know I cried.

Lots of people got upset.

He just went too far. X"

This!

He definitely went too far

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Let’s not forget he’s not here to answer this

Be kind

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Let’s not forget he’s not here to answer this

Be kind"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He was assassinated by the forum mafia, the clique’s more dangerous big brother but he’s enjoying the afterlife getting real shit done apparently.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..

I miss him, he’s a nice bloke.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I miss him, he’s a nice bloke. "

Yes he is. If you know him properly he is.

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By *abs..Woman
over a year ago

..


"I miss him, he’s a nice bloke.

Yes he is. If you know him properly he is. "

Absolutely.

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By *hickennchipsWoman
over a year ago

up above the streets and houses

Shouldn’t really be talking about him if he’s gone

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross


"Shouldn’t really be talking about him if he’s gone "

Why ?

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

I always liked him. Daft bugger but nice bugger.

I didn't see the thread but i'm assuming it broke forum rules.

Blake..... enjoy life x

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats


"I always liked him. Daft bugger but nice bugger.

I didn't see the thread but i'm assuming it broke forum rules.

Blake..... enjoy life x "

It upset a lot of people, basically dismissing child mental health. Whether or not he meant it or had put any thought into it I don't know, but it was a horrible thread.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

I'm not sure it broke any form rules but it certainly broke some hearts, mine (LB) included.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"I always liked him. Daft bugger but nice bugger.

I didn't see the thread but i'm assuming it broke forum rules.

Blake..... enjoy life x

It upset a lot of people, basically dismissing child mental health. Whether or not he meant it or had put any thought into it I don't know, but it was a horrible thread. "

He hasn't got a nasty bone in his body and it wasn't meant to dismiss. What he said got took right out of context x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I wish him no ill, but the thread triggered me very hard. In the true psychological PTSD meaning of the word trigger.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He didn't engage his brain before he posted and, unfortunately, his funny reputation may now always be linked to his words. Hopefully he's happy with Sally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

He was assassinated by the forum mafia, the clique’s more dangerous big brother but he’s enjoying the afterlife getting real shit done apparently.

"

The problem was he'd done similar on mental health threads before.

I agree he was nice I'm PM's but he just never knew when to wind it in on the forums.

I'm glad he's doing OK.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always liked him. Daft bugger but nice bugger.

I didn't see the thread but i'm assuming it broke forum rules.

Blake..... enjoy life x

It upset a lot of people, basically dismissing child mental health. Whether or not he meant it or had put any thought into it I don't know, but it was a horrible thread.

He hasn't got a nasty bone in his body and it wasn't meant to dismiss. What he said got took right out of context x"

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

He’s doing okay

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Liverpool


"

He was assassinated by the forum mafia, the clique’s more dangerous big brother but he’s enjoying the afterlife getting real shit done apparently.

The problem was he'd done similar on mental health threads before.

I agree he was nice I'm PM's but he just never knew when to wind it in on the forums.

I'm glad he's doing OK. "

This essentially.

I'm known for being a champion of context, and things being analysed across the board but at the same time certain things need to be worded extremely carefully especially if you are making a joke out of a sensitive subject.

He crossed a line without thinking what he was saying. I have no issue with him as a whole, but also anyone trying to defend his action or attitude with that thread or any other, truely think would you defend somebody you didn't know in the same way. Highly likely not.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

He was assassinated by the forum mafia, the clique’s more dangerous big brother but he’s enjoying the afterlife getting real shit done apparently.

The problem was he'd done similar on mental health threads before.

I agree he was nice I'm PM's but he just never knew when to wind it in on the forums.

I'm glad he's doing OK.

This essentially.

I'm known for being a champion of context, and things being analysed across the board but at the same time certain things need to be worded extremely carefully especially if you are making a joke out of a sensitive subject.

He crossed a line without thinking what he was saying. I have no issue with him as a whole, but also anyone trying to defend his action or attitude with that thread or any other, truely think would you defend somebody you didn't know in the same way. Highly likely not. "

No of course I wouldn’t.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"

He was assassinated by the forum mafia, the clique’s more dangerous big brother but he’s enjoying the afterlife getting real shit done apparently.

The problem was he'd done similar on mental health threads before.

I agree he was nice I'm PM's but he just never knew when to wind it in on the forums.

I'm glad he's doing OK.

This essentially.

I'm known for being a champion of context, and things being analysed across the board but at the same time certain things need to be worded extremely carefully especially if you are making a joke out of a sensitive subject.

He crossed a line without thinking what he was saying. I have no issue with him as a whole, but also anyone trying to defend his action or attitude with that thread or any other, truely think would you defend somebody you didn't know in the same way. Highly likely not. "

Its because I know him I'm defending. Because I know he isn't malicious and never meant harm in what he said. I wouldn't defend someone I never knew simply because I wouldn't know their intentions x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m not actually defending him as such. I actually messaged him and told him it was out of order and I think I commented on the thread. I’ve known him well over 2 years and I consider him a true loyal friend who calls me everytime there’s a hint I’m down about something. He knows my situation with one of my children and I would have been the first to kick off if that had been anyone else, yes! I’m not saying the thread was ok, it wasn’t. He’s a clown on here who doesn’t think before he types half the time and to be honest is probably one of those who don’t care what people in cyberspace think of him. So no I’m not defending the thread. I just know him very well and know he’s not a nasty person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not actually defending him as such. I actually messaged him and told him it was out of order and I think I commented on the thread. I’ve known him well over 2 years and I consider him a true loyal friend who calls me everytime there’s a hint I’m down about something. He knows my situation with one of my children and I would have been the first to kick off if that had been anyone else, yes! I’m not saying the thread was ok, it wasn’t. He’s a clown on here who doesn’t think before he types half the time and to be honest is probably one of those who don’t care what people in cyberspace think of him. So no I’m not defending the thread. I just know him very well and know he’s not a nasty person. "

I totally agree with you.

He is lovely and I do miss his funny side on the forums.

He took things to far and it wasn't the first time.

Like I said above it's just a shame he didn't know when to wind it in. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not actually defending him as such. I actually messaged him and told him it was out of order and I think I commented on the thread. I’ve known him well over 2 years and I consider him a true loyal friend who calls me everytime there’s a hint I’m down about something. He knows my situation with one of my children and I would have been the first to kick off if that had been anyone else, yes! I’m not saying the thread was ok, it wasn’t. He’s a clown on here who doesn’t think before he types half the time and to be honest is probably one of those who don’t care what people in cyberspace think of him. So no I’m not defending the thread. I just know him very well and know he’s not a nasty person.

I totally agree with you.

He is lovely and I do miss his funny side on the forums.

He took things to far and it wasn't the first time.

Like I said above it's just a shame he didn't know when to wind it in. X"

I know, that’s his problem! He doesn’t know. But don’t get me wrong I totally get why it upset people. I’d have probably got banned for my comments if that had been someone else!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It wasn't the first time he'd shown a lack of empathy on mental health threads. There'd be seen similar not long before the child mental health thread. The thread was vile.

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By *ady LickWoman
over a year ago

Northampton Somewhere

I thought he was ok before that thread, admin done the right thing imo.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

One thread doesn't normally get a person banned. Neither does people being upset by what someone has written get another person banned.

Normally a person gets a permanent ban for having too many bans ...there are only so many chances Admin will give

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"One thread doesn't normally get a person banned. Neither does people being upset by what someone has written get another person banned.

Normally a person gets a permanent ban for having too many bans ...there are only so many chances Admin will give"

Just out curiosity has anyone been banned just because of one thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not actually defending him as such. I actually messaged him and told him it was out of order and I think I commented on the thread. I’ve known him well over 2 years and I consider him a true loyal friend who calls me everytime there’s a hint I’m down about something. He knows my situation with one of my children and I would have been the first to kick off if that had been anyone else, yes! I’m not saying the thread was ok, it wasn’t. He’s a clown on here who doesn’t think before he types half the time and to be honest is probably one of those who don’t care what people in cyberspace think of him. So no I’m not defending the thread. I just know him very well and know he’s not a nasty person.

I totally agree with you.

He is lovely and I do miss his funny side on the forums.

He took things to far and it wasn't the first time.

Like I said above it's just a shame he didn't know when to wind it in. X

I know, that’s his problem! He doesn’t know. But don’t get me wrong I totally get why it upset people. I’d have probably got banned for my comments if that had been someone else!"

And people say the forum isn't cliquey. "Popular" posters can get away with all sorts of stuff that normal people can't. I found him offensive on so many levels.

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

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By *ugby 123Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

O o O oo

Bugger it, I deleted in error

To clarify, yes if something is major someone could get a perm ban on a first post, but the thread in question being talked about wouldn't be the one factor for someone to be banned for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not actually defending him as such. I actually messaged him and told him it was out of order and I think I commented on the thread. I’ve known him well over 2 years and I consider him a true loyal friend who calls me everytime there’s a hint I’m down about something. He knows my situation with one of my children and I would have been the first to kick off if that had been anyone else, yes! I’m not saying the thread was ok, it wasn’t. He’s a clown on here who doesn’t think before he types half the time and to be honest is probably one of those who don’t care what people in cyberspace think of him. So no I’m not defending the thread. I just know him very well and know he’s not a nasty person.

I totally agree with you.

He is lovely and I do miss his funny side on the forums.

He took things to far and it wasn't the first time.

Like I said above it's just a shame he didn't know when to wind it in. X

I know, that’s his problem! He doesn’t know. But don’t get me wrong I totally get why it upset people. I’d have probably got banned for my comments if that had been someone else!

And people say the forum isn't cliquey. "Popular" posters can get away with all sorts of stuff that normal people can't. I found him offensive on so many levels. "

Exactly

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"I miss him, he’s a nice bloke.

Yes he is. If you know him properly he is.

Absolutely. "

I personally didn't see this thread, but I will admit, I would avoid his threads as they came across to me as deliberately trolling or actively seeking disagreements, take your pick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not actually defending him as such. I actually messaged him and told him it was out of order and I think I commented on the thread. I’ve known him well over 2 years and I consider him a true loyal friend who calls me everytime there’s a hint I’m down about something. He knows my situation with one of my children and I would have been the first to kick off if that had been anyone else, yes! I’m not saying the thread was ok, it wasn’t. He’s a clown on here who doesn’t think before he types half the time and to be honest is probably one of those who don’t care what people in cyberspace think of him. So no I’m not defending the thread. I just know him very well and know he’s not a nasty person.

I totally agree with you.

He is lovely and I do miss his funny side on the forums.

He took things to far and it wasn't the first time.

Like I said above it's just a shame he didn't know when to wind it in. X

I know, that’s his problem! He doesn’t know. But don’t get me wrong I totally get why it upset people. I’d have probably got banned for my comments if that had been someone else!

And people say the forum isn't cliquey. "Popular" posters can get away with all sorts of stuff that normal people can't. I found him offensive on so many levels.

Exactly "

Did he get away with something then? Not sure where you’re coming from there.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not actually defending him as such. I actually messaged him and told him it was out of order and I think I commented on the thread. I’ve known him well over 2 years and I consider him a true loyal friend who calls me everytime there’s a hint I’m down about something. He knows my situation with one of my children and I would have been the first to kick off if that had been anyone else, yes! I’m not saying the thread was ok, it wasn’t. He’s a clown on here who doesn’t think before he types half the time and to be honest is probably one of those who don’t care what people in cyberspace think of him. So no I’m not defending the thread. I just know him very well and know he’s not a nasty person.

I totally agree with you.

He is lovely and I do miss his funny side on the forums.

He took things to far and it wasn't the first time.

Like I said above it's just a shame he didn't know when to wind it in. X

I know, that’s his problem! He doesn’t know. But don’t get me wrong I totally get why it upset people. I’d have probably got banned for my comments if that had been someone else!

And people say the forum isn't cliquey. "Popular" posters can get away with all sorts of stuff that normal people can't. I found him offensive on so many levels.

Exactly

Did he get away with something then? Not sure where you’re coming from there. "

His comments always came across as immature and ill thought out yet people thought he was lovely. Ahhh it's just his way. Yeah ok. That same benefit of the doubt isn't so freely offered to others. That's where I'm coming from

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Bugger it, I deleted in error

To clarify, yes if something is major someone could get a perm ban on a first post, but the thread in question being talked about wouldn't be the one factor for someone to be banned for"

Thank you for the clarification.

There was one horrific thread a while back and that was one I was thinking of the deserved a lifetime ban in its own right. He did get one and rightly so.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’m not actually defending him as such. I actually messaged him and told him it was out of order and I think I commented on the thread. I’ve known him well over 2 years and I consider him a true loyal friend who calls me everytime there’s a hint I’m down about something. He knows my situation with one of my children and I would have been the first to kick off if that had been anyone else, yes! I’m not saying the thread was ok, it wasn’t. He’s a clown on here who doesn’t think before he types half the time and to be honest is probably one of those who don’t care what people in cyberspace think of him. So no I’m not defending the thread. I just know him very well and know he’s not a nasty person.

I totally agree with you.

He is lovely and I do miss his funny side on the forums.

He took things to far and it wasn't the first time.

Like I said above it's just a shame he didn't know when to wind it in. X

I know, that’s his problem! He doesn’t know. But don’t get me wrong I totally get why it upset people. I’d have probably got banned for my comments if that had been someone else!

And people say the forum isn't cliquey. "Popular" posters can get away with all sorts of stuff that normal people can't. I found him offensive on so many levels.

Exactly

Did he get away with something then? Not sure where you’re coming from there.

His comments always came across as immature and ill thought out yet people thought he was lovely. Ahhh it's just his way. Yeah ok. That same benefit of the doubt isn't so freely offered to others. That's where I'm coming from"

So he didn’t get away with anything then. If I knew them personally I’d be the same with anyone else. Plenty of threads I messaged him saying what the fuck. I’m not condoning his threads or defending them I was just saying I know him and he’s not a nasty person. A few times I said you’ll be banned for that but he didn’t seem bothered. I wouldn’t have been at all surprised if he had have just gone for that thread on its own. It was awful. I can totally see why you and other people would find him offensive. I just don’t tend to get offended, it would take a lot although i see why people would.

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over a year ago


"I’m not actually defending him as such. I actually messaged him and told him it was out of order and I think I commented on the thread. I’ve known him well over 2 years and I consider him a true loyal friend who calls me everytime there’s a hint I’m down about something. He knows my situation with one of my children and I would have been the first to kick off if that had been anyone else, yes! I’m not saying the thread was ok, it wasn’t. He’s a clown on here who doesn’t think before he types half the time and to be honest is probably one of those who don’t care what people in cyberspace think of him. So no I’m not defending the thread. I just know him very well and know he’s not a nasty person.

I totally agree with you.

He is lovely and I do miss his funny side on the forums.

He took things to far and it wasn't the first time.

Like I said above it's just a shame he didn't know when to wind it in. X

I know, that’s his problem! He doesn’t know. But don’t get me wrong I totally get why it upset people. I’d have probably got banned for my comments if that had been someone else!

And people say the forum isn't cliquey. "Popular" posters can get away with all sorts of stuff that normal people can't. I found him offensive on so many levels.

Exactly

Did he get away with something then? Not sure where you’re coming from there.

His comments always came across as immature and ill thought out yet people thought he was lovely. Ahhh it's just his way. Yeah ok. That same benefit of the doubt isn't so freely offered to others. That's where I'm coming from

So he didn’t get away with anything then. If I knew them personally I’d be the same with anyone else. Plenty of threads I messaged him saying what the fuck. I’m not condoning his threads or defending them I was just saying I know him and he’s not a nasty person. A few times I said you’ll be banned for that but he didn’t seem bothered. I wouldn’t have been at all surprised if he had have just gone for that thread on its own. It was awful. I can totally see why you and other people would find him offensive. I just don’t tend to get offended, it would take a lot although i see why people would. "

You said you couldn't see where I was coming from. People always stick up for their friends regardless. I don't get offended easily and maybe offended wasn't the right word. Gobsmacked is probably a better one.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"

So he didn’t get away with anything then. If I knew them personally I’d be the same with anyone else. Plenty of threads I messaged him saying what the fuck. I’m not condoning his threads or defending them I was just saying I know him and he’s not a nasty person. A few times I said you’ll be banned for that but he didn’t seem bothered. I wouldn’t have been at all surprised if he had have just gone for that thread on its own. It was awful. I can totally see why you and other people would find him offensive. I just don’t tend to get offended, it would take a lot although i see why people would. "

I take it you didn't mean this then at the top of the thread

"He was assassinated by the forum mafia, the clique’s more dangerous big brother but he’s enjoying the afterlife getting real shit done apparently."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"

So he didn’t get away with anything then. If I knew them personally I’d be the same with anyone else. Plenty of threads I messaged him saying what the fuck. I’m not condoning his threads or defending them I was just saying I know him and he’s not a nasty person. A few times I said you’ll be banned for that but he didn’t seem bothered. I wouldn’t have been at all surprised if he had have just gone for that thread on its own. It was awful. I can totally see why you and other people would find him offensive. I just don’t tend to get offended, it would take a lot although i see why people would.

I take it you didn't mean this then at the top of the thread

"He was assassinated by the forum mafia, the clique’s more dangerous big brother but he’s enjoying the afterlife getting real shit done apparently.""

Nope. Was tongue in cheek, a joke. I should have known better. I thought it was funny anyway.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

Is it right to discuss someone who can't defend themselves?

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it right to discuss someone who can't defend themselves?

Jo.Xx "

I don’t think it is no. Which is why I said what I did.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it right to discuss someone who can't defend themselves?

Jo.Xx "

We discuss people who can't defend themselves all the time, like celebrities and people in the public eye all the time in the forums.

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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If he is back on the site then I am sure he will make himself known by reporting the thread, until then we should assume he is not an active member

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By *ugby 123Couple
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over a year ago

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"Is it right to discuss someone who can't defend themselves?

Jo.Xx

We discuss people who can't defend themselves all the time, like celebrities and people in the public eye all the time in the forums. "

That is different, they are not normally members of the site who are protected by the rules

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it right to discuss someone who can't defend themselves?

Jo.Xx

We discuss people who can't defend themselves all the time, like celebrities and people in the public eye all the time in the forums.

That is different, they are not normally members of the site who are protected by the rules"

I get that and I'm glad that is a rule. Im just making the point we talk about people who can't defend themselves all the time but I do get that this is different.

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham


"Is it right to discuss someone who can't defend themselves?

Jo.Xx

We discuss people who can't defend themselves all the time, like celebrities and people in the public eye all the time in the forums. "

Indeed, maybe we shouldn't given they can't defend themselves.

Jo.Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I assume he left after the child depression thread he started. It did not go down well, and while pack mentality is certainly often used at the wrong times. That very specific time it was not just pack mentality, it was justified in that it reached a lot of people who feel deeply for the subject.

It wasn't the first time he'd done something like that, I thing that was just the final straw.

It was a very emotive thread. I know I cried.

Lots of people got upset.

He just went too far. X

This!

He definitely went too far"

Didn't see the thread, but sounds bad from comments in here...

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