FabSwingers.com forum: What gets you through the day

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

When your not feeling yourself or maybe a little down, what gets you through the day ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just a case of having to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Support of people I love, and hugs off my daughters, and knowing at some point I can go to bed! Bliss! x

Viv x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking...

If ur feeling down talk 2 me x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Music. I always put music on to distract me. A little dance helps too

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By *elly72Woman
over a year ago

glasgow

"Music. I always put music on to distract me. A little dance helps too

Same here

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Support of people I love, and hugs off my daughters, and knowing at some point I can go to bed! Bliss! x

Viv x"
I woke up tired and almost stayed in bed ! But went to work but the last couple of hours have been strange with me feeling down x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Talking...

If ur feeling down talk 2 me x"
that’s so kind x

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

Phoning or texting a friend, or family member...

Perhaps I shouldn’t of typed member

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Music. I always put music on to distract me. A little dance helps too

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yep I love music ! No radio head or love music though x

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....

"When your not feeling yourself or maybe a little down, what gets you through the day ???"

are you feeling like that Op?

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

"Music. I always put music on to distract me. A little dance helps too

Same here "

And me doing it right now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

alcohol

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By *iddlesticksMan
over a year ago

My nan’s spare room.

Alcohol and meat and potato pies.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just a case of having to"
yep I get that. ! And am normally mentally tough ! Just got a feeling of sadness

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Support of people I love, and hugs off my daughters, and knowing at some point I can go to bed! Bliss! x

Viv x I woke up tired and almost stayed in bed ! But went to work but the last couple of hours have been strange with me feeling down x"

sending you reinvigorating and supportive hugs xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Talking to friends or family.

Coffee

Sometimes a cry if needed

Cuddles

Writing

Music

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over a year ago

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By *urvyandCurious999Woman
over a year ago

Hiding from twats

Coffee

Happy pills

Chocolate

Friends

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Support of people I love, and hugs off my daughters, and knowing at some point I can go to bed! Bliss! x

Viv x I woke up tired and almost stayed in bed ! But went to work but the last couple of hours have been strange with me feeling down x

sending you reinvigorating and supportive hugs xx"
Thank you x

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'm very much a positive person.

But I like to know that the few friends I chat to are always aware that I'm there for them and that I do a good job for people I work for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Support of people I love, and hugs off my daughters, and knowing at some point I can go to bed! Bliss! x

Viv x I woke up tired and almost stayed in bed ! But went to work but the last couple of hours have been strange with me feeling down x

sending you reinvigorating and supportive hugs xx Thank you x"

You’re so welcome xx

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By *ewtoLeylandMan
over a year ago

Salford

I am ashamed and afraid to say it is alcohol and depression tablets. I split with my ex partner 6 months ago, and am not over her at all, still keep her whats ap and so forth in hope, but secretly i know nothing will come of it. This time last year i was in Cape \verde two bedroom bungalow and two new cars on the drive, now i am homeless sleep in a car and have nothing, so yep alcohol

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Sorry About to start driving ! Maybe The Red Hot Chili Peppers can cheer me up x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When your not feeling yourself or maybe a little down, what gets you through the day ???"

Cuppa builders

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fabswingers at night really sees out the day quite well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think of all the annoying things I can do on here when I get home

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They say alcohol is a good servant but a lousy master. I hope you come through this crap patch and see you healthy on the other side x

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Today the thought that I am on holidays for 10 days once I get finished in work tonight is what is getting me through.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

air

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Things to look forward to. Messages from friends. Reading, going for a waddle in the fresh air, good drive with one of my amazing playlists. What really helps is baking bread and cakes but I'm trying to avoid that right now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh yes and all the friends who keep messaging me constantly and incessantly jeez

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Things to look forward to. Messages from friends. Reading, going for a waddle in the fresh air, good drive with one of my amazing playlists. What really helps is baking bread and cakes but I'm trying to avoid that right now. "

You better bring me cakes if your gonna bake some hehe!!!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

You better bring me cakes if your gonna bake some hehe!!! "

Oh can I bake for you?

Prepare yourself, I am going to blow your mind with my baking skills.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My kids.They pop in after school to tell me about their days and they video call me to say goodnight.They're keeping me strong atm

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

Music, always music

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Work, being busy.

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By *uttercup and WestleyCouple
over a year ago

Merseyside

"When your not feeling yourself or maybe a little down, what gets you through the day ???"

Knowing that tomorrow is another day, and that there are people in the World who love and care for you. You just have to reach out to them xxx

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Soldiering on x

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By *uttercup and WestleyCouple
over a year ago

Merseyside

I'm sorry you're feeling so low. It sounds like you are having a tough time. Have you got anyone you can talk things through with? Xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friends , daughter and certain ones on here

Oh and coffee

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I think of all the annoying things I can do on here when I get home

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lolol don’t involve me

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fabswingers at night really sees out the day quite well x"
not sure about that ! It’s Derby v’s united tonight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Music, walking the dog, gym and riding my motorbike

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Music. I always put music on to distract me. A little dance helps too

Same here "

Absolutely this...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Jo

D."

You get me through life.

Jo.Xx

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By *rumguy1980Man
over a year ago

stechford

Music energy drinks and hope

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When your not feeling yourself or maybe a little down, what gets you through the day ???

are you feeling like that Op?"
I was but due some fantastic people on here am feeling better xxx thank you all xxx

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

Hard work, Yorkshire tea and other fanciable Yorkshire based treats

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My son

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"When your not feeling yourself or maybe a little down, what gets you through the day ???

Knowing that tomorrow is another day, and that there are people in the World who love and care for you. You just have to reach out to them xxx"
thank you x

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Just having friends to chat to helps me especially since split with ex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being able to relax at home with good friends, music and wine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hard work, Yorkshire tea and other fanciable Yorkshire based treats

I don’t get the tea thing ... what’s different about Yorkshire tea ?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I am ashamed and afraid to say it is alcohol and depression tablets. I split with my ex partner 6 months ago, and am not over her at all, still keep her whats ap and so forth in hope, but secretly i know nothing will come of it. This time last year i was in Cape \verde two bedroom bungalow and two new cars on the drive, now i am homeless sleep in a car and have nothing, so yep alcohol"
I guess that makes how I feel insignificant ! I do hope you pull things round ! There are some great people in this forum

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

sea air in particular, its rejuvenating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Music, tea, friends, family

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Music. I always put music on to distract me. A little dance helps too

Same here

Absolutely this..."
yes dance music is definitely a good choice !

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

Music, meditation, love, trust, the sea, friends, accepting the challenging feelings as part of the human condition and knowing I'm not the only one suffering x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

meditation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing really, it just kinda happens 1 minute at a time, and before I know it the day is over and I've not got the early night I promised myself (again)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When your not feeling yourself or maybe a little down, what gets you through the day ???"

A good cuppa...tea solves all problems

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Music, meditation, love, trust, the sea, friends, accepting the challenging feelings as part of the human condition and knowing I'm not the only one suffering x "
I’ve been using a app called headspace helps in the morning

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I come on the forum and see what idiotic things people are posting

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By *uke OzadeMan
over a year ago

Ho Chi Minge City

"Hard work, Yorkshire tea and other fanciable Yorkshire based treats

I don’t get the tea thing ... what’s different about Yorkshire tea ?"

It’s vastly better than the other brands and tastes perfect as a builders brew.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Coffee... chocolate... after 5 beer/ wine/ gin.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I come on the forum and see what idiotic things people are posting"
ok thanks for that ! Lolol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I come on the forum and see what idiotic things people are posting ok thanks for that ! Lolol"

Yours was one of the less idiotic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Music usually

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By *ewtoLeylandMan
over a year ago

Salford

Nobody i am afraid

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By *oddyWoman
over a year ago

between havant and chichester

Support from daughter and a friend here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just be kind to yourself, have or do something totally selfish and focus on the positives.

I hope you are ok. Inbox open to anyone who feels the need to offload x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's ok to have a bad day, & I tell myself that. I'm lucky in what I have in life. Some aren't so fortunate and I remind myself of that too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"When your not feeling yourself or maybe a little down, what gets you through the day ???"

Hot water bottle

Bed

Netflix

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Music, talking to people, leaving the house.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I just remember we will all be dead soon so don't worry about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Motorcycles and my Guitar ... A good ride out usually does it ....Ive also got the love of a real special lady . Im a pretty lucky guy in many ways ..Got to always look at the positives

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

"I am ashamed and afraid to say it is alcohol and depression tablets. I split with my ex partner 6 months ago, and am not over her at all, still keep her whats ap and so forth in hope, but secretly i know nothing will come of it. This time last year i was in Cape \verde two bedroom bungalow and two new cars on the drive, now i am homeless sleep in a car and have nothing, so yep alcohol"
. Sorry to read you are going through such a tough time.No disrespect meant to anyone but when I read something like this it makes me realise that my problems / difficulties don’t compare as far as I am concerned there is always somebody worse off than me and that’s all I need to get through the day.

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By *allyWally19Woman
over a year ago

The Road to Nowhere

I will say it. I sometimes can't explain it but even just saying it to one person, I find helps me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the mountain seems too big today

then climb a hill instead

if the morning brings you sadness

it’s ok to stay in bed

If the day ahead weighs heavy

and your plans feel like a curse

there’s no shame in rearranging

don’t make yourself feel worse

If a shower stings like needles

and a bath feels like you’ll drown

if you haven’t washed your hair for days

don’t throw away your crown

A day is not a lifetime

a rest is not defeat

don’t think of it as failure

just a quiet, kind retreat

It’s ok to take a moment

from an anxious, fractured mind

the world will not stop turning

while you get realigned

The mountain will still be there

when you want to try again

you can climb it in your own time

just love yourself til then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's beautiful milliee x

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By *he Little Fuck MachineMan
over a year ago

Co.Antrim

Being a Father is literally the only thing that keeps me going at times.

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By *ottielayWoman
over a year ago

by the bay

Myself

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

My bedroom, earphones with music and a good cry, followed by a bottle of wine and chocolate,

Which has been happening a little too frequently lately x storm x

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

"When your not feeling yourself or maybe a little down, what gets you through the day ???"

Have to just get on with it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I just remember we will all be dead soon so don't worry about it. "
let’s hope not to soon ! Am feeling a lot better in myself since I made this post. I think there are some truly marvellous people in this forum and your words and love have helped heaps x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"If the mountain seems too big today

then climb a hill instead

if the morning brings you sadness

it’s ok to stay in bed

If the day ahead weighs heavy

and your plans feel like a curse

there’s no shame in rearranging

don’t make yourself feel worse

If a shower stings like needles

and a bath feels like you’ll drown

if you haven’t washed your hair for days

don’t throw away your crown

A day is not a lifetime

a rest is not defeat

don’t think of it as failure

just a quiet, kind retreat

It’s ok to take a moment

from an anxious, fractured mind

the world will not stop turning

while you get realigned

The mountain will still be there

when you want to try again

you can climb it in your own time

just love yourself til then

"
from previous conversations Millie your one hell of a lady and someone am glad to call my friend

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"If the mountain seems too big today

then climb a hill instead

if the morning brings you sadness

it’s ok to stay in bed

If the day ahead weighs heavy

and your plans feel like a curse

there’s no shame in rearranging

don’t make yourself feel worse

If a shower stings like needles

and a bath feels like you’ll drown

if you haven’t washed your hair for days

don’t throw away your crown

A day is not a lifetime

a rest is not defeat

don’t think of it as failure

just a quiet, kind retreat

It’s ok to take a moment

from an anxious, fractured mind

the world will not stop turning

while you get realigned

The mountain will still be there

when you want to try again

you can climb it in your own time

just love yourself til then

from previous conversations Millie your one hell of a lady and someone am glad to call my friend "

Aww thank you

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