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By *appytrailman OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

How do you cope with annoying colleagues that you can't get away from?

This one repeats everything she says constantly I've heard about a cleaner that hasn't come in today about 6 times...to the same person.

She sings non stop badly and the same song over and over.

Sorry I've just had to get this off my chest.

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By *rumpyMcFuckNuggetMan
over a year ago

Den of Iniquity

Just start coughing and say you dont feel well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask her nicely to be quiet?

Or what I do, close my office door & have a speaker in my office. Music is playing all the time.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod

over a year ago

East Sussex

Feeling your pain.

I don't know the answer though. I used to sometimes leave the room briefly to prevent myself commiting a crime.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you cope with annoying colleagues that you can't get away from?

This one repeats everything she says constantly I've heard about a cleaner that hasn't come in today about 6 times...to the same person.

She sings non stop badly and the same song over and over.

Sorry I've just had to get this off my chest."

BIFF her..

Biff is short for behaviour, impact, feelings and future.

Have a chat with her to explain her behaviour what impact that causes on others, especially your feelings and agree what would you like to happen in the future.

A good technique for most feedback.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Regular breaks away from them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you cope with annoying colleagues that you can't get away from?

This one repeats everything she says constantly I've heard about a cleaner that hasn't come in today about 6 times...to the same person.

She sings non stop badly and the same song over and over.

Sorry I've just had to get this off my chest."

Plan elaborate ways to kill them that won't lead back to you. I mean anyone could fall down 17 flights of stairs while holding a pair of scissors and stab themselves 1000 times. Total accident

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Get romantically involved then spend as much time as possible with your cock in her mouth - that'll shut her up

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How do you cope with annoying colleagues that you can't get away from?

This one repeats everything she says constantly I've heard about a cleaner that hasn't come in today about 6 times...to the same person.

She sings non stop badly and the same song over and over.

Sorry I've just had to get this off my chest.

BIFF her..

Biff is short for behaviour, impact, feelings and future.

Have a chat with her to explain her behaviour what impact that causes on others, especially your feelings and agree what would you like to happen in the future.

A good technique for most feedback.

Good luck

"

That’s spoken like a man recently sent on a mangers course... ^ but effective if you can put it across without coming across passive aggressive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh those people really annoy me!! I have a colleague like that ( infact a few) i just walk away, otherwise my mouth would run away to them.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

Share an office with someone like that, noise cancelling headphones is how I cope.

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By *appytrailman OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Oh those people really annoy me!! I have a colleague like that ( infact a few) i just walk away, otherwise my mouth would run away to them. "

I've had to do that several times already today!

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By *appytrailman OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Share an office with someone like that, noise cancelling headphones is how I cope. "

Podcasts and music is the theme of the day!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You are quite close. I teach/ coach this stuff. But I do practice what I preach.

You are right one need to very careful how you handle this conversation.

The bottom line is dont put up with shit behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Keep asking her if the cleaner has come in today?

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By *appytrailman OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

Shes now telling me my food looks like dog food god she grates on me Haha

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land


"Shes now telling me my food looks like dog food god she grates on me Haha "

That's flipping rude as!!

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By *appytrailman OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Shes now telling me my food looks like dog food god she grates on me Haha

That's flipping rude as!!"

I thought as much!

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

B38

*Sits musing* am I that colleague

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By *appytrailman OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"*Sits musing* am I that colleague "

Haha I hope she isnt on here now! Hahaha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres two ways out of this, quick Jab right hook combo to the jaw, get fired & end up at the JC listening to people complain about their JSA or you could just talk to her directly whilst being polite about it.

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By *appytrailman OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester

She has been spoken to about it by her boss about it...she now waits till her boss isnt in to do it

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By *oldyoudown41Man
over a year ago

caledonian

Don’t shower for a day and she’ll avoid you

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By *hatcuriouscat2018Man
over a year ago

Derby


"Just start coughing and say you dont feel well "

And how much you enjoyed you break in Italy !!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is she management Or in a superior role to you?

If so report! Report everything.

Just going to the loo boss, I'm back from the loo boss.

Do you have a list of my duties boss? No? Why not boss.

I'm only trying to help boss etc etc.

They soon start avoiding you and get sick of you reporting.

Remember to always smile and look like your being over helpful

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By *appytrailman OP   Man
over a year ago

Manchester


"Is she management Or in a superior role to you?

If so report! Report everything.

Just going to the loo boss, I'm back from the loo boss.

Do you have a list of my duties boss? No? Why not boss.

I'm only trying to help boss etc etc.

They soon start avoiding you and get sick of you reporting.

Remember to always smile and look like your being over helpful"

Hahaha I like that a lot unfortunately she isnt though

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