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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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I'm am on the cusp of the next chapter in my life, new house, new career, lots of new friends.

When you have opportunities for new starts do you embrace them whole heartedly or get coerced into them with your heels dragging...

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

I hurl myself into it whole-heartedly.

Sounds so exciting OP, good luck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I’d throw myself in too

I’ve been guarded way too long

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm am on the cusp of the next chapter in my life, new house, new career, lots of new friends.

When you have opportunities for new starts do you embrace them whole heartedly or get coerced into them with your heels dragging..."
Good for you x enjoy your new start x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It really varies for me. 2020 has started with massive changes for me. I am trying to work through them all to my advantage..

at my own pace.

All the best with your new chapter. That is a lot to take on and can be as stressful as exciting. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm am on the cusp of the next chapter in my life, new house, new career, lots of new friends.

When you have opportunities for new starts do you embrace them whole heartedly or get coerced into them with your heels dragging..."

Embrace them . Best of luck. I wish you well x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go for it, like you say new chapter, turn the page see what happens

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I hurl myself into it whole-heartedly.

Sounds so exciting OP, good luck!"

Thank you

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Oh I’d throw myself in too

I’ve been guarded way too long

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I'm am on the cusp of the next chapter in my life, new house, new career, lots of new friends.

When you have opportunities for new starts do you embrace them whole heartedly or get coerced into them with your heels dragging... Good for you x enjoy your new start x"

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The last time I worried about a big change in my life I took Bells Palsey. I was never a worrier before then and I really only think it was that one time I doubted the move I had made, but yeah my face dropped on one side and I looked like I'd had a stroke for 2 months. I guess what I'm trying to say is its best not to worry about change, in my experience anyway. Stay positive about the whole situation and it'll go a lot easier for you

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"It really varies for me. 2020 has started with massive changes for me. I am trying to work through them all to my advantage..

at my own pace.

All the best with your new chapter. That is a lot to take on and can be as stressful as exciting. X"

Great news

Thank you x

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I'm am on the cusp of the next chapter in my life, new house, new career, lots of new friends.

When you have opportunities for new starts do you embrace them whole heartedly or get coerced into them with your heels dragging...

Embrace them . Best of luck. I wish you well x "

Thank you

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Go for it, like you say new chapter, turn the page see what happens "

And that spring is almost here as well helps

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"The last time I worried about a big change in my life I took Bells Palsey. I was never a worrier before then and I really only think it was that one time I doubted the move I had made, but yeah my face dropped on one side and I looked like I'd had a stroke for 2 months. I guess what I'm trying to say is its best not to worry about change, in my experience anyway. Stay positive about the whole situation and it'll go a lot easier for you

Thank you for sharing that, it must have been a difficult time.

Thank you I embrace positivity in my life

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Really exciting times! Go for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm am on the cusp of the next chapter in my life, new house, new career, lots of new friends.

When you have opportunities for new starts do you embrace them whole heartedly or get coerced into them with your heels dragging..."

How very exciting, I'm quite jealous. New starts are like a spring morning

Best of luck OP and enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Go for it, like you say new chapter, turn the page see what happens

And that spring is almost here as well helps

It definitely does, totally good luck tk you x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank you for sharing that, it must have been a difficult time.

Thank you I embrace positivity in my life

You have the right attitude

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm am on the cusp of the next chapter in my life, new house, new career, lots of new friends.

When you have opportunities for new starts do you embrace them whole heartedly or get coerced into them with your heels dragging... Good for you x enjoy your new start x

Thank you

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No problem ! Your a wonderful lady and am sure you will fit right in x go get erm x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I did it nearly 7 years ago.

Moved to a whole different part of the country. No job, no schools for the kids but we just jumped in, embraced the new chapter and haven't looked back.

Good luck op x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'm am on the cusp of the next chapter in my life, new house, new career, lots of new friends.

When you have opportunities for new starts do you embrace them whole heartedly or get coerced into them with your heels dragging..."

Throw myself in wholeheartedly.

Good luck OP

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely love moving and new things and also have huge changes this year!

The only downside is friends are much harder to find as you get older but this makes the journey more fun if more challenging

Enjoy yours and embrace it all, good days and harder days

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By *latinumkittenWoman
over a year ago

from Home Counties to Middle Earth

Oh I love new chapters. Enjoy the journey OP.

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Really exciting times! Go for it. "

Thank you

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I'm am on the cusp of the next chapter in my life, new house, new career, lots of new friends.

When you have opportunities for new starts do you embrace them whole heartedly or get coerced into them with your heels dragging...

How very exciting, I'm quite jealous. New starts are like a spring morning

Best of luck OP and enjoy it

Thank you

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I did it nearly 7 years ago.

Moved to a whole different part of the country. No job, no schools for the kids but we just jumped in, embraced the new chapter and haven't looked back.

Good luck op x"

Oh wow that's amazing

Thank you x

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I'm am on the cusp of the next chapter in my life, new house, new career, lots of new friends.

When you have opportunities for new starts do you embrace them whole heartedly or get coerced into them with your heels dragging...

Throw myself in wholeheartedly.

Good luck OP

Thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good luck and well done you. Hoping for the same this year

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I absolutely love moving and new things and also have huge changes this year!

The only downside is friends are much harder to find as you get older but this makes the journey more fun if more challenging

Enjoy yours and embrace it all, good days and harder days

Oooh good luck

I'm a social butterfly so making friends is the easy part luckily

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Oh I love new chapters. Enjoy the journey OP."

Thank you

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Good luck and well done you. Hoping for the same this year

Oooh we can catch up and compare notes at the end of the month

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

I took a massive leap with a new start not that long ago and it was the best decision ever.

I hope everything goes well!

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By *uttercup and WestleyCouple
over a year ago

Merseyside

"I'm am on the cusp of the next chapter in my life, new house, new career, lots of new friends.

When you have opportunities for new starts do you embrace them whole heartedly or get coerced into them with your heels dragging..."

We totally embrace them!

Three years ago tomorrow we left everything and everyone we knew, and started again. People thought we were bonkers. I guess we were, but its opened up so many new chapters in our life, we wouldnt go back.

My moto is to take a deep breath,smile and say yes!

Enjoy and good luck on your new adventures xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends. I was thrusted in to a new life 2 years ago. But it was surrounded by grief. I had lost people important to me and I had to leave a job I loved. A area I loved and friends who I thought were my rocks at the time.

It's been a bloody hard 2 years. But I'm getting there. My friends who I met on fab are the ones who have got me through it to be honest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Good luck and well done you. Hoping for the same this year

Oooh we can catch up and compare notes at the end of the month

Would be brilliant

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By *nabelle21Woman
over a year ago

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What a great place to be in OP...all the best for the future x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes mid 20s totally did the same. There no point in dwelling on the past... you have one chance at life make it count and make sure your 100% happy if your not... then make changes and get that 100%

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

I moved 200 miles away for a new start in 1997. See an opportunity and went with it. No pondering just up rooted the husband and child and move house and job! It was great.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"I'm am on the cusp of the next chapter in my life, new house, new career, lots of new friends.

When you have opportunities for new starts do you embrace them whole heartedly or get coerced into them with your heels dragging..."

Embrance them and best of luck xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Two years ago I moved from Hampshire to Lincolnshire. It was scary as I didn't know anyone but really exciting as well. I have met so many lovely people, joined interest groups and thoroughly enjoy exploring my new surroundings.

I wish you good luck OP. Enjoy

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I took a massive leap with a new start not that long ago and it was the best decision ever.

I hope everything goes well!"

Thank you x

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I'm am on the cusp of the next chapter in my life, new house, new career, lots of new friends.

When you have opportunities for new starts do you embrace them whole heartedly or get coerced into them with your heels dragging...

We totally embrace them!

My moto is to take a deep breath,smile and say yes!

Enjoy and good luck on your new adventures xxx "

That's amazing

Thank you

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"It depends. I was thrusted in to a new life 2 years ago. But it was surrounded by grief. I had lost people important to me and I had to leave a job I loved. A area I loved and friends who I thought were my rocks at the time.

It's been a bloody hard 2 years. But I'm getting there. My friends who I met on fab are the ones who have got me through it to be honest"

Wow I'm glad you are getting there belle x

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"What a great place to be in OP...all the best for the future x"

I've been preparing for this for a year and finally the timings are all aligned for us

Thank you x

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Yes mid 20s totally did the same. There no point in dwelling on the past... you have one chance at life make it count and make sure your 100% happy if your not... then make changes and get that 100%

Awesome outlook

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By *offee and KinksCouple
over a year ago

Notts/Derby

Throw yoursekf in .. its like a swimming pool abroad if you dip your toe in it takes longer to adjust than if you just throw yourself in ...

Change is hard though, especially on the level you describe so most of all be kind to yourself

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I moved 200 miles away for a new start in 1997. See an opportunity and went with it. No pondering just up rooted the husband and child and move house and job! It was great. "

Oh wow, that's great

one day in my new career that will be possible for us

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"I'm am on the cusp of the next chapter in my life, new house, new career, lots of new friends.

When you have opportunities for new starts do you embrace them whole heartedly or get coerced into them with your heels dragging...

Embrance them and best of luck xx"

Thank you

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Two years ago I moved from Hampshire to Lincolnshire. It was scary as I didn't know anyone but really exciting as well. I have met so many lovely people, joined interest groups and thoroughly enjoy exploring my new surroundings.

I wish you good luck OP. Enjoy

That's great

Thank you

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By *uffymayfairCouple
over a year ago

vera playa, Almeria

Moved to a totally new place no jobs bought a derelict house, threw ourselves into it now 5 years later looking to do it all again. Life's for living rather than worrying about mistakes.

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Throw yoursekf in .. its like a swimming pool abroad if you dip your toe in it takes longer to adjust than if you just throw yourself in ...

Change is hard though, especially on the level you describe so most of all be kind to yourself "

That's very true, I do embrace change but neglect myself as I'm too busy thinking about everyone else, luckily my friends remind me and take me out for some escapism

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Moved to a totally new place no jobs bought a derelict house, threw ourselves into it now 5 years later looking to do it all again. Life's for living rather than worrying about mistakes."

Oh wow

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

New packet of Custard Creams - I always embrace the moment

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"New packet of Custard Creams - I always embrace the moment"

Only if they are dunked

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Embrace it. It’s the only way. Good luck op, sounds great x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

A bit of both. When we made big life changes about five years ago we both had reservations as well as looking forward to it all. I have to say though it has been and still is a great experience.

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over a year ago

"New packet of Custard Creams - I always embrace the moment"

They are just wrong. Gingernuts or Lotus biscuits please!!

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"Embrace it. It’s the only way. Good luck op, sounds great x"

Thanks nora, I'm excited about becoming a student again x

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By *hrista Bellend OP Woman
over a year ago

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"A bit of both. When we made big life changes about five years ago we both had reservations as well as looking forward to it all. I have to say though it has been and still is a great experience."

That's brill news

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over a year ago

"I'm am on the cusp of the next chapter in my life, new house, new career, lots of new friends.

When you have opportunities for new starts do you embrace them whole heartedly or get coerced into them with your heels dragging..."

Fill your boots! But I like to have back up, a parachute or similar x

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

"A bit of both. When we made big life changes about five years ago we both had reservations as well as looking forward to it all. I have to say though it has been and still is a great experience.

That's brill news

. We did have lots of small and one major wobble.

What are you going to be a student of? Don't answer if it's too much personal information

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

I worry and overanalyze every minute detail. Then goodness knows what but there's a switch in me, and I'm sod this let's do it and hurl myself into it completely. Good luck OP with the next chapter in your life

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Every new opportunity is a challenge not to be missed.

Carpe Diem!

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over a year ago

"I'm am on the cusp of the next chapter in my life, new house, new career, lots of new friends.

When you have opportunities for new starts do you embrace them whole heartedly or get coerced into them with your heels dragging..."

Fab house warming party?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Best of luck, sounds exciting x

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