FabSwingers.com forum: Bi curious doesn't mean what you think

By *nlyIfItsWorthIt OP Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Why is it always assumed that bi-curious always means, curious towards the same sex? In my case it means curious towards the opposite sex.

I wish there was a way to differentiate on profiles to avoid confusion.

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

"Why is it always assumed that bi-curious always means, curious towards the same sex? In my case it means curious towards the opposite sex.

I wish there was a way to differentiate on profiles to avoid confusion. "
how ??? That's an interesting statement

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You appear to be defining it differently than the majority. Why?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"You appear to be defining it differently than the majority. Why?"

If you are a gay man but interested in trying sex with a woman that could make someone bi-curious. I believe that is what the OP means

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By *lorious hole bs16Man
over a year ago

Bristol

I know exactly what you mean..

Quite a few of us on here.

I have sex predominately with men but curious towards women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it always assumed that bi-curious always means, curious towards the same sex? In my case it means curious towards the opposite sex.

I wish there was a way to differentiate on profiles to avoid confusion. "

I get you but at least you can explain yourself in your bio and put it into your own words too.

You would be gay but curious and considering meeting a woman that might potentially lead to play, would that be right?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Follow your heart op

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By *nlyIfItsWorthIt OP Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

"Why is it always assumed that bi-curious always means, curious towards the same sex? In my case it means curious towards the opposite sex.

I wish there was a way to differentiate on profiles to avoid confusion.

I get you but at least you can explain yourself in your bio and put it into your own words too.

You would be gay but curious and considering meeting a woman that might potentially lead to play, would that be right?"

Almost. I'm experienced with women so it's more than just curious however, it would never be more than friends with bebefits as I identify totally as a gay man when it comes to who is am.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

So just put in your profile that you are gay but bi curious.

If there were a label for every preference the list would be ridiculously long.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Why is it always assumed that bi-curious always means, curious towards the same sex? In my case it means curious towards the opposite sex.

I wish there was a way to differentiate on profiles to avoid confusion.

I get you but at least you can explain yourself in your bio and put it into your own words too.

You would be gay but curious and considering meeting a woman that might potentially lead to play, would that be right?

Almost. I'm experienced with women so it's more than just curious however, it would never be more than friends with bebefits as I identify totally as a gay man when it comes to who is am.

In your case then I would choose either gay if you dont intend on playing with women through Fab, or bi if you do. I can see though how alternative orientation categories would be better for you or someone else meeting the same conditions as yourself.

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