FabSwingers.com forum: Has fab changed

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Your views on things. For instance something you were adamant you’d never enjoy you’ve found yourself enjoying or things you thought were weird you don’t find weird anymore?

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By *anky_PankyWoman
over a year ago

Filthy Fuckeryville

It's made me realise how small minded swingers can be..... Funny when most look at it as a very open minded past time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's made me realise how small minded swingers can be..... Funny when most look at it as a very open minded past time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep I swore nothing was going up my arse again after an invasive rectal examination in Derby Royal A&E during the 80’s. Fab put pay to that pledge

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Yep I swore nothing was going up my arse again after an invasive rectal examination in Derby Royal A&E during the 80’s. Fab put pay to that pledge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it quite boring on fab recently, I joined 5 years ago, and people were friendly and more open to interact. Doesn't seem to be the case now. But I do enjoy the forums probably as much maybe even more than in the past.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I find it quite boring on fab recently, I joined 5 years ago, and people were friendly and more open to interact. Doesn't seem to be the case now. But I do enjoy the forums probably as much maybe even more than in the past. "

But has it opened your mind sexually? Are there things you thought you’d never ever do that you’ve done now or maybe want to do?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It made me realize that men will probably shag anything with a pulse and that my body is desirable

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By *rimKardashianMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire

There's nowt stranger than folk.

Fab has made that abundantly clear...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"It made me realize that men will probably shag anything with a pulse and that my body is desirable

Yeah I get the second bit. Made me realise that more men prefer curvy women than I thought.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"There's nowt stranger than folk.

Fab has made that abundantly clear..."

With you there!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But has it opened your mind sexually? Are there things you thought you’d never ever do that you’ve done now or maybe want to do?"

Definitely.....

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But has it opened your mind sexually? Are there things you thought you’d never ever do that you’ve done now or maybe want to do?

Definitely.....

You’re not going to elaborate then?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I never in my wildest dreams thought id want inked near another woman.

We joined fab for my pleasure with ladies and him soft swap.

First meet and i was begging him to fuck her. Go figure.

We moved on from that to cpls as i felt like i was missing out. Guess who still hasnt fully swapped and he has

My time will come. Just finding the right cpl with a male i feel 100% comfortable with.

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

Sexually, I've found myself and I feel at peace with my sexuality for the first time.

I've gained a tremendous amount of confidence in myself, although that's also been my own hard work. I'm whole for perhaps the first time.

My faith in humanity has seen both record highs and record lows.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I never in my wildest dreams thought id want inked near another woman.

We joined fab for my pleasure with ladies and him soft swap.

First meet and i was begging him to fuck her. Go figure.

We moved on from that to cpls as i felt like i was missing out. Guess who still hasnt fully swapped and he has

My time will come. Just finding the right cpl with a male i feel 100% comfortable with.

True. It’s difficult to find someone you’re totally comfortable with. I agree

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But has it opened your mind sexually? Are there things you thought you’d never ever do that you’ve done now or maybe want to do?"

Oh hell yeh. It opened me up... If you'll pardon the pun, to pegging, mfm mmf and the odd GB here and there. It's also reopened my desire for a fwb to have adventures with.

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

For me it's changed the way I speak about sex. As I speak about it far more often than I did before we joined. It's made me confident about my wants and desires F

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sexually, I've found myself and I feel at peace with my sexuality for the first time.

I've gained a tremendous amount of confidence in myself, although that's also been my own hard work. I'm whole for perhaps the first time.

My faith in humanity has seen both record highs and record lows. "

I love that you feel confident in yourself now x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But has it opened your mind sexually? Are there things you thought you’d never ever do that you’ve done now or maybe want to do?

Oh hell yeh. It opened me up... If you'll pardon the pun, to pegging, mfm mmf and the odd GB here and there. It's also reopened my desire for a fwb to have adventures with. "

That’s great. Although I don’t know what GB means

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"There's nowt stranger than folk.

Fab has made that abundantly clear...

With you there!"

Hell that's true.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But has it opened your mind sexually? Are there things you thought you’d never ever do that you’ve done now or maybe want to do?

Definitely.....

You’re not going to elaborate then?

Hahaha no Nora..... but my winky now gets stiff on far from “traditional” chats......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But has it opened your mind sexually? Are there things you thought you’d never ever do that you’ve done now or maybe want to do?

Oh hell yeh. It opened me up... If you'll pardon the pun, to pegging, mfm mmf and the odd GB here and there. It's also reopened my desire for a fwb to have adventures with.

That’s great. Although I don’t know what GB means

Sorry, was being lazy. Gangbangs. Haven't done that in a long time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personal preferences change over time. I find trying something and if you’re not comfortable, saying so is the best policy.

There’s some things which have been said to me that I now have a hankering for and I’m desperate to try.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

I've always been polyamorous with a love of outdoor play.

But fab has opened my tantric doors wide open and provided amazing sensual men for me to explore orgasms with

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

But has it opened your mind sexually? Are there things you thought you’d never ever do that you’ve done now or maybe want to do?

Oh hell yeh. It opened me up... If you'll pardon the pun, to pegging, mfm mmf and the odd GB here and there. It's also reopened my desire for a fwb to have adventures with.

That’s great. Although I don’t know what GB means

Sorry, was being lazy. Gangbangs. Haven't done that in a long time. "

Ah I see. Nah it’ll be me. I’m useless with all the fab acronyms and names

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Personal preferences change over time. I find trying something and if you’re not comfortable, saying so is the best policy.

There’s some things which have been said to me that I now have a hankering for and I’m desperate to try. "

I’m a bit stubborn (believe it or not!) and I’ve always been a bit no way would I do/try that but even I’m finding myself changing a bit.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had never played in my ass until I joined Fab so I'm thankful that change in mindset as it's just delightful

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Your views on things. For instance something you were adamant you’d never enjoy you’ve found yourself enjoying or things you thought were weird you don’t find weird anymore?"

Crikey - I honestly think I’ve changed beyond all recognition since joining fab!

I’ve learned that:

There are some brilliant friendships to be had on here - the sex is definitely secondary!

I’m far more sexually adventurous than I thought I’d be!

I’ve learned (after decades of preconditioning) that you don’t need to be under a size 12 or under 30 years old to be sexy or attractive!

I’ve learned to be totally confident and secure in my own skin - based on personality rather than looks - and not to fret if some people don’t like me.

I’ve had by FAR the best sex of my life - and hope that continues.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your views on things. For instance something you were adamant you’d never enjoy you’ve found yourself enjoying or things you thought were weird you don’t find weird anymore?"
am more into chatting with people and forums than fucking !!! Yep it’s shocked me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your views on things. For instance something you were adamant you’d never enjoy you’ve found yourself enjoying or things you thought were weird you don’t find weird anymore?

Crikey - I honestly think I’ve changed beyond all recognition since joining fab!

I’ve learned that:

There are some brilliant friendships to be had on here - the sex is definitely secondary!

I’m far more sexually adventurous than I thought I’d be!

I’ve learned (after decades of preconditioning) that you don’t need to be under a size 12 or under 30 years old to be sexy or attractive!

I’ve learned to be totally confident and secure in my own skin - based on personality rather than looks - and not to fret if some people don’t like me.

I’ve had by FAR the best sex of my life - and hope that continues.

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nice to hear that

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your views on things. For instance something you were adamant you’d never enjoy you’ve found yourself enjoying or things you thought were weird you don’t find weird anymore?

Crikey - I honestly think I’ve changed beyond all recognition since joining fab!

I’ve learned that:

There are some brilliant friendships to be had on here - the sex is definitely secondary!

I’m far more sexually adventurous than I thought I’d be!

I’ve learned (after decades of preconditioning) that you don’t need to be under a size 12 or under 30 years old to be sexy or attractive!

I’ve learned to be totally confident and secure in my own skin - based on personality rather than looks - and not to fret if some people don’t like me.

I’ve had by FAR the best sex of my life - and hope that continues.

I’ve always admired your confidence Peachy x

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Sexually just reinforced what I like isn’t abnormal, but normal. People wise, no change there all bloody odd.... nothing stranger than folk whether here or in real life

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had never played in my ass until I joined Fab so I'm thankful that change in mindset as it's just delightful

A lot of straight men still see that as a “gay” thing. Which is ridiculous!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your views on things. For instance something you were adamant you’d never enjoy you’ve found yourself enjoying or things you thought were weird you don’t find weird anymore? am more into chatting with people and forums than fucking !!! Yep it’s shocked me "

Yeah. Didn’t think I’d make as many friends here I must admit. A few true friends for life. Some I thought were true friends but turned out not to be. Swings and roundabouts.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had never played in my ass until I joined Fab so I'm thankful that change in mindset as it's just delightful

A lot of straight men still see that as a “gay” thing. Which is ridiculous!"

It is indeed ridiculous, and to deny yourself further realms of pleasure due to an outdated notion is just silly.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I had never played in my ass until I joined Fab so I'm thankful that change in mindset as it's just delightful

A lot of straight men still see that as a “gay” thing. Which is ridiculous!

It is indeed ridiculous, and to deny yourself further realms of pleasure due to an outdated notion is just silly."

I agree totally.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah. Didn’t think I’d make as many friends here I must admit. A few true friends for life. Some I thought were true friends but turned out not to be. Swings and roundabouts. "
I would have left by now if it wasn’t for a few really nice people that am close to on here x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had never played in my ass until I joined Fab so I'm thankful that change in mindset as it's just delightful

A lot of straight men still see that as a “gay” thing. Which is ridiculous!

It is indeed ridiculous, and to deny yourself further realms of pleasure due to an outdated notion is just silly.

I agree totally. "

Definitely..... if it makes you smile and feel great why would you exclude it???

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By *dinMan
over a year ago

Birmingham

"Your views on things. For instance something you were adamant you’d never enjoy you’ve found yourself enjoying or things you thought were weird you don’t find weird anymore?"

You mean like perving boiinging Willy's

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yeah. Didn’t think I’d make as many friends here I must admit. A few true friends for life. Some I thought were true friends but turned out not to be. Swings and roundabouts. I would have left by now if it wasn’t for a few really nice people that am close to on here x"

I have left a couple of times, but it’s always been those people who brought me back. There are some total idiots on here but there are also some truly genuine wonderful people.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your views on things. For instance something you were adamant you’d never enjoy you’ve found yourself enjoying or things you thought were weird you don’t find weird anymore?

You mean like perving boiinging Willy's

Oh I always liked a boing! I started that but called it a ping!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your views on things. For instance something you were adamant you’d never enjoy you’ve found yourself enjoying or things you thought were weird you don’t find weird anymore?

Crikey - I honestly think I’ve changed beyond all recognition since joining fab!

I’ve learned that:

There are some brilliant friendships to be had on here - the sex is definitely secondary!

I’m far more sexually adventurous than I thought I’d be!

I’ve learned (after decades of preconditioning) that you don’t need to be under a size 12 or under 30 years old to be sexy or attractive!

I’ve learned to be totally confident and secure in my own skin - based on personality rather than looks - and not to fret if some people don’t like me.

I’ve had by FAR the best sex of my life - and hope that continues.

Ahh Peachy.

How I've admired you from afar. Spoken to you maybe a handful of times, always hankering to meet you. Never happened yet. But hell you're in my top 10 list.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sexually just reinforced what I like isn’t abnormal, but normal. People wise, no change there all bloody odd.... nothing stranger than folk whether here or in real life "

This is true. Makes you realise also that not everyone is as kind, respectful and loyal as you would like to think they are x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve never made a secret about how 2 men together does absolutely nothing for me at all but last night I was reading a thread (frotting or frottage, something like that!) and I thought that actually sounds quite hot. So googled it and watched a video and totally surprised myself! I found it quite a turn on.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

"Your views on things. For instance something you were adamant you’d never enjoy you’ve found yourself enjoying or things you thought were weird you don’t find weird anymore?"

It has definitely made me realise that things I had fantasied about were not wrong or weird and can actually be fun and it's good to really enjoy sex and try new things.

I've made some really good friends from here and have had some amazing meets and have been lucky enough to find people who I can have fun with regularly.

It has definitely opened my eyes about things and mostly in a good way.

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

No as always get used for my mind and not for my body

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

No. I stick with what I know and feel comfortable with/doing.

Apart from meeting two bi men to watch/join in with I’m pretty sexually adventurually satisfied.

Fab has just given me more experiences, not new ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your views on things. For instance something you were adamant you’d never enjoy you’ve found yourself enjoying or things you thought were weird you don’t find weird anymore?

It has definitely made me realise that things I had fantasied about were not wrong or weird and can actually be fun and it's good to really enjoy sex and try new things.

I've made some really good friends from here and have had some amazing meets and have been lucky enough to find people who I can have fun with regularly.

It has definitely opened my eyes about things and mostly in a good way. "

I used to watch bi mmf porn a lot and it really turned me on however I’ve realised that it’s not as effective and just a fantasy that I don’t want to become reality

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By *pecificman99Man
over a year ago

Hamilton

Yes ! Been a lot of changes. I originally joined 10 years ago and been on and off for long periods in between. Technology has changed but so have attitudes . Used to be great banter and witty with a touch of serious conversation . Now it seems far more direct and blunt . People want instant meets and verifications, ironically people have got more judgemental and there seems to be more reasons to be divided now . Just not as open and friendly as it once was . Just my opinion .

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

Not my view of things as such, but the experiences I've had on here have changed what I want - or, more specifically, what I don't want

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By *elleshellsCouple
over a year ago

North Manchester

I’m more into making videos & taking pics of us having sex than ever before - I find it so liberating & love it when a guy says he wanked over my pics! Xx

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

It's made me ashamed to be part of the lgbt+ community.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Admittedly, it's made me more understanding of TVs and CDs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"It's made me ashamed to be part of the lgbt+ community. "

Can I ask why?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I think a few people have just read the thread title and commented. Which to be fair is what I’m guilty of most of the time!

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

"Sexually just reinforced what I like isn’t abnormal, but normal. People wise, no change there all bloody odd.... nothing stranger than folk whether here or in real life

This is true. Makes you realise also that not everyone is as kind, respectful and loyal as you would like to think they are x"

Oh so true, but there are the odd special nuggets out there that glint in the pan x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sexually just reinforced what I like isn’t abnormal, but normal. People wise, no change there all bloody odd.... nothing stranger than folk whether here or in real life

This is true. Makes you realise also that not everyone is as kind, respectful and loyal as you would like to think they are x

Oh so true, but there are the odd special nuggets out there that glint in the pan x"

There certainly are x

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Your views on things. For instance something you were adamant you’d never enjoy you’ve found yourself enjoying or things you thought were weird you don’t find weird anymore?

Crikey - I honestly think I’ve changed beyond all recognition since joining fab!

I’ve learned that:

There are some brilliant friendships to be had on here - the sex is definitely secondary!

I’m far more sexually adventurous than I thought I’d be!

I’ve learned (after decades of preconditioning) that you don’t need to be under a size 12 or under 30 years old to be sexy or attractive!

I’ve learned to be totally confident and secure in my own skin - based on personality rather than looks - and not to fret if some people don’t like me.

I’ve had by FAR the best sex of my life - and hope that continues.

I’ve always admired your confidence Peachy x"

Thanks lovely - I think you’re pretty darned great too!

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your views on things. For instance something you were adamant you’d never enjoy you’ve found yourself enjoying or things you thought were weird you don’t find weird anymore?

Crikey - I honestly think I’ve changed beyond all recognition since joining fab!

I’ve learned that:

There are some brilliant friendships to be had on here - the sex is definitely secondary!

I’m far more sexually adventurous than I thought I’d be!

I’ve learned (after decades of preconditioning) that you don’t need to be under a size 12 or under 30 years old to be sexy or attractive!

I’ve learned to be totally confident and secure in my own skin - based on personality rather than looks - and not to fret if some people don’t like me.

I’ve had by FAR the best sex of my life - and hope that continues.

I’ve always admired your confidence Peachy x

Thanks lovely - I think you’re pretty darned great too!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I haven't had many sex meets from FAB, but it's improved my sex life and I'm enjoying being here.

Especially the forums

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"Sexually just reinforced what I like isn’t abnormal, but normal. People wise, no change there all bloody odd.... nothing stranger than folk whether here or in real life

This is true. Makes you realise also that not everyone is as kind, respectful and loyal as you would like to think they are x"

True - but the ones that hurt most are the ones that suck you in and make you think they’re a true friend!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think a few people have just read the thread title and commented. Which to be fair is what I’m guilty of most of the time!

However I’ve had some great experiences and met the man that I want to be with forever, so it’s win win and we get to experience things together now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sexually just reinforced what I like isn’t abnormal, but normal. People wise, no change there all bloody odd.... nothing stranger than folk whether here or in real life

This is true. Makes you realise also that not everyone is as kind, respectful and loyal as you would like to think they are x

True - but the ones that hurt most are the ones that suck you in and make you think they’re a true friend!

That’s too true

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I kissed a girl and i liked it. Who would have guessed that?, not me in a million years before Fab.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

"Your views on things. For instance something you were adamant you’d never enjoy you’ve found yourself enjoying or things you thought were weird you don’t find weird anymore?"

Yes. Before fab I'd only had sex with one man and now I realise how much I utterly love mf sex. And men. And men wanking. And men being hard. Basically my view on men has changed a lot.

I also didn't think I'd enjoy some of the things I do, before I thought that certain acts or words were degrading or not for me but know with the right person they can be mindblowing.

Non sexually, Fab has made me realise how much I enjoy friendship with other women. That's not to say it's always been easy but on the whole I've made some incredible friendships and seen how truly caring and brilliant women can be. And supportive, which on a site like this I thought would be the last thing I experience.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No, I’m still weird

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"No, I’m still weird

But you're a sexy weird.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No, I’m still weird

But you're a sexy weird.

Still weird though

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

"No, I’m still weird

But you're a sexy weird.

Still weird though

Oh yeah. But who isn't on here????

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By *isces WomanWoman
over a year ago

West London

I fell on live with my married FB. Broke my own rule re the married bit. Never gonna do that again. Still dont want anything up.my arse. completely body confident and sexually. Thanks fab and the lifestyle xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Your views on things. For instance something you were adamant you’d never enjoy you’ve found yourself enjoying or things you thought were weird you don’t find weird anymore?

Yes. Before fab I'd only had sex with one man and now I realise how much I utterly love mf sex. And men. And men wanking. And men being hard. Basically my view on men has changed a lot.

I also didn't think I'd enjoy some of the things I do, before I thought that certain acts or words were degrading or not for me but know with the right person they can be mindblowing.

Similar to me really. Love this Meli x

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"Sexually just reinforced what I like isn’t abnormal, but normal. People wise, no change there all bloody odd.... nothing stranger than folk whether here or in real life

This is true. Makes you realise also that not everyone is as kind, respectful and loyal as you would like to think they are x

True - but the ones that hurt most are the ones that suck you in and make you think they’re a true friend!

Ain't that the truth.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes "

You are so vague ! Can you elaborate?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes

You are so vague ! Can you elaborate? "

Yes

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Sexually just reinforced what I like isn’t abnormal, but normal. People wise, no change there all bloody odd.... nothing stranger than folk whether here or in real life

This is true. Makes you realise also that not everyone is as kind, respectful and loyal as you would like to think they are x

True - but the ones that hurt most are the ones that suck you in and make you think they’re a true friend!

Don’t get me fucking started!!!

Deep breath Nora

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

"I kissed a girl and i liked it. Who would have guessed that?, not me in a million years before Fab."

Ditto x storm x

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"I kissed a girl and i liked it. Who would have guessed that?, not me in a million years before Fab."

Me neither!

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish

"I kissed a girl and i liked it. Who would have guessed that?, not me in a million years before Fab.

Ditto x storm x "

I’ve done a lot more than kiss girls and yeah - I like it too!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

I'd already figured out the kissing girls bit

I'll skip the cherry Chapstick.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came on here with an ex, separated then started my own profile. After a long time I met the man I wish to be with forever xx

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

"I kissed a girl and i liked it. Who would have guessed that?, not me in a million years before Fab.

Ditto x storm x

I’ve done a lot more than kiss girls and yeah - I like it too!

I can resonate with that

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By *irestorm 500Couple
over a year ago

coventry

"I kissed a girl and i liked it. Who would have guessed that?, not me in a million years before Fab.

Ditto x storm x

I’ve done a lot more than kiss girls and yeah - I like it too!

Have done more than I ever thought I would and looking to do more if the opportunity arose

x storm x

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

Fab hasn't changed......maybe its just the people who are using it maybe??

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over a year ago

"Fab hasn't changed......maybe its just the people who are using it maybe??

When you change the way you look at things, the things you look at change

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fab hasn't changed......maybe its just the people who are using it maybe??

That was just the title, the first part of the question. Perhaps I should have been clearer as some seem to have gone by the title.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fab hasn't changed......maybe its just the people who are using it maybe??

That was just the title, the first part of the question. Perhaps I should have been clearer as some seem to have gone by the title. "
The question was has fab changed your views on things.

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Fab hasn't changed......maybe its just the people who are using it maybe??

That was just the title, the first part of the question. Perhaps I should have been clearer as some seem to have gone by the title. "

After nearly 3 years on here, define strange

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Fab hasn't changed......maybe its just the people who are using it maybe??

That was just the title, the first part of the question. Perhaps I should have been clearer as some seem to have gone by the title.

After nearly 3 years on here, define strange

By that I mean what one person finds strange or weird others would just think its normal maybe?

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over a year ago

"Fab hasn't changed......maybe its just the people who are using it maybe??

That was just the title, the first part of the question. Perhaps I should have been clearer as some seem to have gone by the title.

After nearly 3 years on here, define strange

By that I mean what one person finds strange or weird others would just think its normal maybe?"

Exactly. I’m talking about people personally. How can I define strange for everyone else?

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By * and M lookingCouple
over a year ago

Worcester

"Fab hasn't changed......maybe its just the people who are using it maybe??

That was just the title, the first part of the question. Perhaps I should have been clearer as some seem to have gone by the title.

After nearly 3 years on here, define strange

By that I mean what one person finds strange or weird others would just think its normal maybe?

Exactly. I’m talking about people personally. How can I define strange for everyone else?"

Well there is not much that shocks us on here anymore although will say there do seem to be a lot more ANGRY folk on here nowadays

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Fab hasn't changed......maybe its just the people who are using it maybe??

That was just the title, the first part of the question. Perhaps I should have been clearer as some seem to have gone by the title.

After nearly 3 years on here, define strange

By that I mean what one person finds strange or weird others would just think its normal maybe?

Exactly. I’m talking about people personally. How can I define strange for everyone else?

Well there is not much that shocks us on here anymore although will say there do seem to be a lot more ANGRY folk on here nowadays

Yes there really does. I agree. I honestly don’t think it does them any favours posting their anger on here either.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its shown me what I always knew about myself but would never quite let out. All change for my forties.

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over a year ago

"I think its shown me what I always knew about myself but would never quite let out. All change for my forties. "

That’s a good thing then I hope

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

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it has just reinforced that the internet is not somewhere to meet people and that the real world is still best!

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over a year ago

"it has just reinforced that the internet is not somewhere to meet people and that the real world is still best! "

Now I would have said that a couple of years ago but I disagree now.

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

"it has just reinforced that the internet is not somewhere to meet people and that the real world is still best! "

Im not bitter - honestly!

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over a year ago

"it has just reinforced that the internet is not somewhere to meet people and that the real world is still best!

Im not bitter - honestly!

. You do need to give it a bit more time!

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By *naswingdressWoman
over a year ago

Manchester (she/her)

"it has just reinforced that the internet is not somewhere to meet people and that the real world is still best! "

I hate the real world. It has people

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over a year ago

"it has just reinforced that the internet is not somewhere to meet people and that the real world is still best!

I hate the real world. It has people

Haha fellow misanthropist!

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