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"Field hockey and poetry. One keeps me out of trouble and the other gets me into trouble. It's a balance. " I do love you | |||
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"I’ve started a degree, found out today that I’ve passed my first assessment. I write erotica as a hobby. " Congratulations! | |||
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"I’ve started a degree, found out today that I’ve passed my first assessment. I write erotica as a hobby. " Congrats, I graduated last year with the OU, always learning I also enjoy recurve archery, which is a mindful and surprisingly relaxing way to pass the time, and suits me as an ambivert (can enjoy solo or with teams). | |||
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"I make and decorate cakes and do florist and jewellery making. Although hoping to go back to school in September and do an access course to lead to midwifery " Everyone I know who has done access to HE, including myself, says its one of the best decisions they ever made. Good luck! I do qigong and mentoring, main hobbies - running, gym, some street photography abroad, wilcamp once or twice a month in the UK peaks | |||
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"I find gin improves me " I'm with Nora I used to bake....then took it on as a career and started to hate it. Now I just get ginned | |||
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"Ive let most of my hobbies slip but i do my voluntary work that im patienent about" My voluntary work is really important to me | |||
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"Bugger all, I guess that's why I keep going round and round in circles. Basically I look at clothes and shoes I would like. I wonder how I would feel if I had them, would I feel special? I can't afford them so then I look at how I'd like to decorate the house and do the garden. I can't afford those either. I'll do some guided meditation to remind me to be thankful for the things I do have etc. P" My language apps are free on my phone. Not saying it solves everything, but there's a lot online that only costs internet/ data/ device wear and tear. | |||
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"I do burlesque/cabaret dancing - it's a fantastic confidence booster. I also love to get out in the countryside for a nice long hike when I can " I'm still scarred from dance lessons as a child | |||
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"I’ve started a degree, found out today that I’ve passed my first assessment. I write erotica as a hobby. " Congrats!!! | |||
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"Bugger all, I guess that's why I keep going round and round in circles. Basically I look at clothes and shoes I would like. I wonder how I would feel if I had them, would I feel special? I can't afford them so then I look at how I'd like to decorate the house and do the garden. I can't afford those either. I'll do some guided meditation to remind me to be thankful for the things I do have etc. P" Photography and writing. And gradually your house is getting sorted. Oh and in your case being an angel for those who need you, IMHO. B | |||
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"Bugger all, I guess that's why I keep going round and round in circles. Basically I look at clothes and shoes I would like. I wonder how I would feel if I had them, would I feel special? I can't afford them so then I look at how I'd like to decorate the house and do the garden. I can't afford those either. I'll do some guided meditation to remind me to be thankful for the things I do have etc. P Photography and writing. And gradually your house is getting sorted. Oh and in your case being an angel for those who need you, IMHO. B" | |||
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"Trying to learn BSL but I'm so not self motivated x" Want to be my language learning accountability buddy? | |||
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"Bugger all, I guess that's why I keep going round and round in circles. Basically I look at clothes and shoes I would like. I wonder how I would feel if I had them, would I feel special? I can't afford them so then I look at how I'd like to decorate the house and do the garden. I can't afford those either. I'll do some guided meditation to remind me to be thankful for the things I do have etc. P" Trust me Peach you dont need any "stuff" I'm sure you know this already but it makes you happy for a limited time and then you're exactly the same after. I have to admit to looking at you with a little envy. You have a gorgeous boyfriend and it appears you have lots of friends and a great social life. I have lots of stuff but no significant other, no family and no friends in my area - so a limited social life. I dont have hobbies either - other than drinking wine and buying stuff- which was the point of the thread I need to get a life! | |||
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"I do nothing. My life revolves around my mum and my kids. And my dog. But i’m happy enough. I just enjoy peace and quiet when i get it and the occasional knobbing, when i can get that Oh, and Ebay. I do love a bit of Ebay." Having family is so important You're really lucky x | |||
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"Bugger all, I guess that's why I keep going round and round in circles. Basically I look at clothes and shoes I would like. I wonder how I would feel if I had them, would I feel special? I can't afford them so then I look at how I'd like to decorate the house and do the garden. I can't afford those either. I'll do some guided meditation to remind me to be thankful for the things I do have etc. P Trust me Peach you dont need any "stuff" I'm sure you know this already but it makes you happy for a limited time and then you're exactly the same after. I have to admit to looking at you with a little envy. You have a gorgeous boyfriend and it appears you have lots of friends and a great social life. I have lots of stuff but no significant other, no family and no friends in my area - so a limited social life. I dont have hobbies either - other than drinking wine and buying stuff- which was the point of the thread I need to get a life! " I'm pretty much in the same boat as you, after separating from the ex, I made the move back "home" having lost touch with almost everyone I knew I'm finding it difficult being back in my home town and feeling like a stranger, my only real friends are a couple who i was best man for and i cant keep invading their family space all the time. | |||
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" I'm pretty much in the same boat as you, after separating from the ex, I made the move back "home" having lost touch with almost everyone I knew I'm finding it difficult being back in my home town and feeling like a stranger, my only real friends are a couple who i was best man for and i cant keep invading their family space all the time." I know how you feel. I hope you get the courage to get out there and meet new people. I hope that happens for me too! X | |||
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" I'm pretty much in the same boat as you, after separating from the ex, I made the move back "home" having lost touch with almost everyone I knew I'm finding it difficult being back in my home town and feeling like a stranger, my only real friends are a couple who i was best man for and i cant keep invading their family space all the time. I know how you feel. I hope you get the courage to get out there and meet new people. I hope that happens for me too! X" I keep trying but having a life is expensive Luckily I do quite like my own company have you heard of the app "meet up"? Its for people who want go out and do things and make new friends, I've just signed up to it, havent had a proper look at it yet though. | |||
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"Bugger all, I guess that's why I keep going round and round in circles. Basically I look at clothes and shoes I would like. I wonder how I would feel if I had them, would I feel special? I can't afford them so then I look at how I'd like to decorate the house and do the garden. I can't afford those either. I'll do some guided meditation to remind me to be thankful for the things I do have etc. P Trust me Peach you dont need any "stuff" I'm sure you know this already but it makes you happy for a limited time and then you're exactly the same after. I have to admit to looking at you with a little envy. You have a gorgeous boyfriend and it appears you have lots of friends and a great social life. I have lots of stuff but no significant other, no family and no friends in my area - so a limited social life. I dont have hobbies either - other than drinking wine and buying stuff- which was the point of the thread I need to get a life! " I got a little leaky eyed reading that. I've looked at you with the same! I love the way you are open about stuff, tell it like it is, and having your new home. I do have a gorgeous boyfriend and I know I'm very lucky. He's lucky too, coz I am awesome. I know what you mean about family and friends in the area. All my family are 150 miles away, I don't drive and work almost every weekend anyway so would struggle to see them even if I could drive. I do have some amazingly beautiful friends though. I'm talking those who love me for me and only ever want what's best for me. I'm eternally grateful to them and I appreciate so much having them in my life. I don't really see them very often though, socially I see a group of them a few times a year. Mainly my social life is the fab forums and cracking funnies at the tables I'm waiting at work. Me and B head out to the odd social which we really enjoy. The rest of my social life is chatting to Bs workmates and being a surrogate mum and auntie to them! P | |||
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"Bugger all, I guess that's why I keep going round and round in circles. Basically I look at clothes and shoes I would like. I wonder how I would feel if I had them, would I feel special? I can't afford them so then I look at how I'd like to decorate the house and do the garden. I can't afford those either. I'll do some guided meditation to remind me to be thankful for the things I do have etc. P Trust me Peach you dont need any "stuff" I'm sure you know this already but it makes you happy for a limited time and then you're exactly the same after. I have to admit to looking at you with a little envy. You have a gorgeous boyfriend and it appears you have lots of friends and a great social life. I have lots of stuff but no significant other, no family and no friends in my area - so a limited social life. I dont have hobbies either - other than drinking wine and buying stuff- which was the point of the thread I need to get a life! I got a little leaky eyed reading that. I've looked at you with the same! I love the way you are open about stuff, tell it like it is, and having your new home. I do have a gorgeous boyfriend and I know I'm very lucky. He's lucky too, coz I am awesome. I know what you mean about family and friends in the area. All my family are 150 miles away, I don't drive and work almost every weekend anyway so would struggle to see them even if I could drive. I do have some amazingly beautiful friends though. I'm talking those who love me for me and only ever want what's best for me. I'm eternally grateful to them and I appreciate so much having them in my life. I don't really see them very often though, socially I see a group of them a few times a year. Mainly my social life is the fab forums and cracking funnies at the tables I'm waiting at work. Me and B head out to the odd social which we really enjoy. The rest of my social life is chatting to Bs workmates and being a surrogate mum and auntie to them! P" In short, we pretty much make our own entertainment P | |||
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"Trying to learn BSL but I'm so not self motivated x Want to be my language learning accountability buddy?" What does that involve? X | |||
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"Trying to learn BSL but I'm so not self motivated x Want to be my language learning accountability buddy? What does that involve? X" Getting up each other's arses about studying | |||
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"Apart from sex, what hobbies or self improvement are you involved in? How are they going?" I write short stories and factual books. Plus, I walk at least 100m a month. | |||
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"Apart from sex, what hobbies or self improvement are you involved in? How are they going? I write short stories and factual books. Plus, I walk at least 100m a month. " That's good, I walk 100 metres per month too | |||
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"Apart from sex, what hobbies or self improvement are you involved in? How are they going? I write short stories and factual books. Plus, I walk at least 100m a month. That's good, I walk 100 metres per month too " A worthy goal! | |||
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"Trying to learn BSL but I'm so not self motivated x Want to be my language learning accountability buddy? What does that involve? X Getting up each other's arses about studying " I can't motivate myself never mind anyone else x | |||
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"Trying to learn BSL but I'm so not self motivated x Want to be my language learning accountability buddy? What does that involve? X Getting up each other's arses about studying I can't motivate myself never mind anyone else x" I set out to learn BSL after meeting someone who gave a presentation and fielded questions from the floor all done in sign with an interpreter. I got a DVD but haven't managed to get to grips with it yet. I can get through in French German and Spanish but would love to be able to crack BSL. Sadly it takes practise and that's where my problem lies. | |||
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"I’ve started a degree, found out today that I’ve passed my first assessment. I write erotica as a hobby. " High 5 to you. Well Done | |||
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"Degree for improvement and I’ve just started stained glass making. Still at ‘ can’t even cut a curve stage’ but we have to start somewhere right?" Absolutely! Being a beginner is hard | |||
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"Field hockey and poetry. One keeps me out of trouble and the other gets me into trouble. It's a balance. " Well know all I can think about is the hockey kit. Cricket and reading for me. | |||
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"Very little now. I used to be a HUUUUUGE boardgame nerd, but that's faded away massively, not least from all this distracting me. Self improvement... now outside of fitness (I appear to have a pretty decent bod these days!) I should probably start some real serious thoughts about meditation or something. Get some skills on finding inner peace and self belief, rather than getting so wound up by the internets and feeling so bitter about life!" Mindfulness meditation really helps with my anxiety. | |||
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"I try to lace my shoes with my left hands " Have you got more than one, then? | |||
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"I try to lace my shoes with my left hands Have you got more than one, then?" Since I fucked someone with the coronavirus, yes #youkniwwhoyouare #thankyou #IwankFasterThabksToYou | |||
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" I'm pretty much in the same boat as you, after separating from the ex, I made the move back "home" having lost touch with almost everyone I knew I'm finding it difficult being back in my home town and feeling like a stranger, my only real friends are a couple who i was best man for and i cant keep invading their family space all the time. I know how you feel. I hope you get the courage to get out there and meet new people. I hope that happens for me too! X I keep trying but having a life is expensive Luckily I do quite like my own company have you heard of the app "meet up"? Its for people who want go out and do things and make new friends, I've just signed up to it, havent had a proper look at it yet though." Meet-up app is really good I used to use it a lot when I was in the UK more. Lots of communities now use it to promote existing meet ups. Been to some fun meet-ups in the past, very friendly everything from drumming collectives, business start ups , cafe scientific, self publishing books , horror lovers. There’s also a similar one called internations for people who travel | |||
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