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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So, as a male on here I understand effort goes a long way, and when sending messages a "hi there" just doesn't cut the mustard...

But I am curious to know something; When sending a message that is (I hope) captivating enough to pique an interest, sometimes it is read then marked 'unread'; what would be your reasons for doing this? I've surmised there are two tactics when a woman reads a message then marks it as unread;

1) curious enough to read and check a profile, but ultimately, not interested so marks as inread to avoid the need to respond

2) thinks 'maybe' and will come back to this one later and say hello...

Are there other reasons?

if it is just the two, what proportion would you say the split is between 1&2?

thoughts and ideas welcomed...

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Sometimes I read on the run but don’t have time or can’t reply if I’m driving

Even if the sender isn’t to my taste I send a polite reply declining meet / coffee / chat

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me it’s number 2

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

Just haven’t got time to reply so will reply later. I respond to 99% of my messages, whether it be a yay or a nay.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

I used to mark unread when a message really grabbed my attention and i wanted to take time to reply. Then i found out it annoys some people so started doing it to all my messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've just dropped the last in my link of logs and it's wipey bum time.

P

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I do it when I want to reply but haven't got time.

I do it with work emails too.

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By *inranWoman
over a year ago

Dudley

Yep when I'm interested but no time to reply.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just haven’t got time to reply so will reply later. I respond to 99% of my messages, whether it be a yay or a nay."

This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

thanks for the response, that's nearly all 2's so far, good to know there's some hope in the yellow!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Number 2! It’ll catch my eye, but either don’t have time OR wanna go stalk their profile first before I respond

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