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‘Out’ swingers. Little signs.

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By *oodnitegirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire

To those that are open about the lifestyle - (as those that keep it super discreet obviously wouldn’t) and Brought to Mind by the ‘would you approach a HW anklet’ discussion.

If there was a more generic/all inclusive ‘I’m a swinger’ thing (forgetting pampas grass and anklets etc) but discreet.

Let’s say for example a little coloured pin badge. would you wear it??

I probably would - (but then I happily wear my anklet)

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By *ntrigued32Couple
over a year ago

Nottingham

If it was really little I would

D.

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By *iercedCplCouple
over a year ago

Greater Manchester/Lancashire

We wear black rings on our right ring fingers, we think it's an American thing, but it seems discreet enough for us. xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I had a Lady Penelope ‘F.A.B’’ enamel badge at one point....

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By *uriousMe2018Couple
over a year ago

Aldershot


"To those that are open about the lifestyle - (as those that keep it super discreet obviously wouldn’t) and Brought to Mind by the ‘would you approach a HW anklet’ discussion.

If there was a more generic/all inclusive ‘I’m a swinger’ thing (forgetting pampas grass and anklets etc) but discreet.

Let’s say for example a little coloured pin badge. would you wear it??

I probably would - (but then I happily wear my anklet)

"

Wow!!! We would approach you ankle bracelet or not!! Stunning xx

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By *oodnitegirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I had a Lady Penelope ‘F.A.B’’ enamel badge at one point...."

The man of a couple off here once bought a few of us the same fab lolly pin badge so we could all wear them to Twickenham. Never saw any of the other folks and I was really d*unk so I’d have skipped straight over too.

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By *oodnitegirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"We wear black rings on our right ring fingers, we think it's an American thing, but it seems discreet enough for us. xx"

Heads to eBay....

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By *eonnieCouple
over a year ago

Worsley

Not exactly a swinging symbol, but I wear a little polyamory necklace, haven't taken it off since I got it a couple of months ago..

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By *oodnitegirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Not exactly a swinging symbol, but I wear a little polyamory necklace, haven't taken it off since I got it a couple of months ago.. "

Ooh that sounds lovely. Great idea xx

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By *iercedCplCouple
over a year ago

Greater Manchester/Lancashire


"We wear black rings on our right ring fingers, we think it's an American thing, but it seems discreet enough for us. xx

Heads to eBay...."

Are you going SF again this year? xx

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"I had a Lady Penelope ‘F.A.B’’ enamel badge at one point....

The man of a couple off here once bought a few of us the same fab lolly pin badge so we could all wear them to Twickenham. Never saw any of the other folks and I was really d*unk so I’d have skipped straight over too. "
I quite like thee Ed idea of a Fab lolly badge. I have the T shirt

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By *eonnieCouple
over a year ago

Worsley


"We wear black rings on our right ring fingers, we think it's an American thing, but it seems discreet enough for us. xx

Heads to eBay...."

I was just checking ebay too

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By *eonnieCouple
over a year ago

Worsley


"Not exactly a swinging symbol, but I wear a little polyamory necklace, haven't taken it off since I got it a couple of months ago..

Ooh that sounds lovely. Great idea xx"

It is tiny but I like it. Haven't found any stylish swinging ones to be honest. Most looked cheap or poor quality.. xx

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By *iercedCplCouple
over a year ago

Greater Manchester/Lancashire


"We wear black rings on our right ring fingers, we think it's an American thing, but it seems discreet enough for us. xx

Heads to eBay....

I was just checking ebay too "

We got ours off Amazon lol xx

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

We both wear black wedding rings on our right hands too, but of there was a recognized pin we'd also wear that.

Wonder where we can get Fab lolly pins....

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By *ust PeachyWoman
over a year ago

Prestonish


"To those that are open about the lifestyle - (as those that keep it super discreet obviously wouldn’t) and Brought to Mind by the ‘would you approach a HW anklet’ discussion.

If there was a more generic/all inclusive ‘I’m a swinger’ thing (forgetting pampas grass and anklets etc) but discreet.

Let’s say for example a little coloured pin badge. would you wear it??

I probably would - (but then I happily wear my anklet)

"

Probably not - but then I’m one of the minority who believe that we should all be ‘out’ all the time - then I believe that, once society realised that most swingers were actually normal, decent human beings- it would de-stigmatise swinging!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wear a black ring on the left hand .. discreet enough

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By *ud and BryanCouple
over a year ago

Boston, Lincolnshire

Found Fab lolly badges on Ebay - so bought 4 & will give 2 to friends.

Wonder if anyone will spot the significance.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham, North Yorkshire and can travel


"To those that are open about the lifestyle - (as those that keep it super discreet obviously wouldn’t) and Brought to Mind by the ‘would you approach a HW anklet’ discussion.

If there was a more generic/all inclusive ‘I’m a swinger’ thing (forgetting pampas grass and anklets etc) but discreet.

Let’s say for example a little coloured pin badge. would you wear it??

I probably would - (but then I happily wear my anklet)

Probably not - but then I’m one of the minority who believe that we should all be ‘out’ all the time - then I believe that, once society realised that most swingers were actually normal, decent human beings- it would de-stigmatise swinging! "

We actually like the fact it's actually stigmatised and something secret for us. Adds to the whole experience for us..

As fir wearing something, if it was small and discrete then yes.

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By *lay-full-funCouple
over a year ago

stockport

I have a black ring that I wear on my right hand an Danny has a few black rings but never knew they were for swinging we wear them because danny is a biker/rocker

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By *oodnitegirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"Found Fab lolly badges on Ebay - so bought 4 & will give 2 to friends.

Wonder if anyone will spot the significance."

I will!! lol.

Most of these are laughable though.

https://www.google.co.uk/amp/s/www.thesun.co.uk/fabulous/3701254/signs-of-swingers-plants-rings-flamingos/amp/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I probably wouldn't but more so because of my job than anything else. One of my colleagues knows a little about my lifestyle

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By *oodnitegirl OP   Woman
over a year ago

Yorkshire


"I probably wouldn't but more so because of my job than anything else. One of my colleagues knows a little about my lifestyle"

I wouldn’t wear it at work (though I wear my blue peter badge with pride! Lol) but knowing your job and you knowing mine you know how absolutely awks that would be... if I worked in a bar or something I’d prob wear it then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I probably wouldn't but more so because of my job than anything else. One of my colleagues knows a little about my lifestyle

I wouldn’t wear it at work (though I wear my blue peter badge with pride! Lol) but knowing your job and you knowing mine you know how absolutely awks that would be... if I worked in a bar or something I’d prob wear it then "

Absolutely but even in my local community I couldn't due to my job hence the reason I never meet locally. Good job I like driving

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