FabSwingers.com mobile

Join us FREE, we're FREE to use

Web's largest swingers site since 2006.

Already registered?
Login here

Back to forum list
Back to The Lounge

Friends requests

Jump to newest
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Someone enlighten us, do some of you actually accept the friend requests people send when they have never so much as winked you ? Find it so odd, must be a reason people do it

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la


"Someone enlighten us, do some of you actually accept the friend requests people send when they have never so much as winked you ? Find it so odd, must be a reason people do it "

It's usually because they want to perv at friend only pics

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't even check them.

I do have slightly more sympathy for some of the seemingly clueless things folk do on here though since I introduced a friend to the site. In real life he's a really cool guy and doesn't have much problem meeting women but he ticked every wrong box on here, I couldn't believe it ! He was like 'aw she looks nice, I'll just send a friend request then we can chat after she accepts', 'I've just put some cock pics up as that's what people want isn't it?', 'I've not bothered putting much profile info as I'll just tell them about me chatting' I realised how innocently guys can completely cockblock themselves even if they're actually alright !

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *wingamajigsCouple
over a year ago

Folkestone

No. Always happens when we add a photo, doesnt bother us, gotta love a trier

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Never even thought of that, thats a good point as you never get them off women its always the single guys,

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington


"Someone enlighten us, do some of you actually accept the friend requests people send when they have never so much as winked you ? Find it so odd, must be a reason people do it "

We dont accept them. Mostly it's just pic hunters anyway.

Does not stop.people sending them though.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instant delete.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Someone enlighten us, do some of you actually accept the friend requests people send when they have never so much as winked you ? Find it so odd, must be a reason people do it "

Never. I guess they are just wanting to see folks friend only pics

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

Nope.......

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We only accept friend requests from those we have exchanged messages with.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

I'd made a few fab friends. Many I chat to, some not so often, but I like to look out for them.

Most a from the forums

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Someone enlighten us, do some of you actually accept the friend requests people send when they have never so much as winked you ? Find it so odd, must be a reason people do it "

No,we block

Says on our profile,we only accept from those we have met,no exceptions

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I delete without looking.

If people can't be bothered to read my profile and make contact with me first then they are not for me.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I delete without looking.

If people can't be bothered to read my profile and make contact with me first then they are not for me. "

You tell'em girl.

Xx

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham, North Yorkshire and can travel

We instantly delete them. It's obvious they just want to see our friends only photos.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get that all the time.

I don't delete them though, that way they can't send another.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah they wanna see your friend only pics. I ignore all requests from people I haven’t interacted with. I love it when you’re messaging someone though and you send a friend request and you’re instantly friends (meaning they’d already sent you one without you asking!)

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

even i get friends requests (and winkd) ive ive got a hidden profile. Had 3 this week

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *uciferLingerieMan
over a year ago

Leeds


"I get that all the time.

I don't delete them though, that way they can't send another. "

good point works well for me to!

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nope never.They are being idiots to themselves as if I don't like the look of them i delete.

If I do like the look of them I look if there offline and accept look at there pics and then delete as a friend.

So there's lots of looking going on

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"even i get friends requests (and winkd) ive ive got a hidden profile. Had 3 this week"

Iv never understood why people can still send friend requests and winks to a hidden profile or why they would.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Anyone who sends me a friend request just to see my friends pics will be very disappointed. Lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone who sends me a friend request just to see my friends pics will be very disappointed. Lol"

No they wouldn't, well I wasn't.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Anyone who sends me a friend request just to see my friends pics will be very disappointed. Lol

No they wouldn't, well I wasn't. "

You charmer.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Anyone who sends me a friend request just to see my friends pics will be very disappointed. Lol

No they wouldn't, well I wasn't.

You charmer. "

Have you blured all your friends only pics

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 

By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Anyone who sends me a friend request just to see my friends pics will be very disappointed. Lol

No they wouldn't, well I wasn't.

You charmer.

Have you blured all your friends only pics "

No, but you probably wish I had. Lol

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
 
 

By *ikely ladMan
over a year ago

Hounslow

Being honest I do ask and that's after after an exchange of messages.

Reply privatelyReply in forumReply +quote
Post new Message to Thread
back to top