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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is it just me or does anyone else suffer this curse.

None of the men I want to meet are ever free at weekends

Are they married / attached

Have a better offer?

Or just use the weekend for friends and family?

I'm bloody insulted - I officially give up!

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By *viatrixWoman
over a year ago

Redhill

They are probably married, yes...

I am never free at weekends and all invites I get to socials/parties/club nights are on weekends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've always found weekends are harder when looking for meets. Especially as I like overnights

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've always found weekends are harder when looking for meets. Especially as I like overnights"

I think it's time for a Fab break for me - it's starting to make me feel shit

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By *emorefridaCouple
over a year ago

La la land

We find it difficult, because of the kids, the boys have rugby at 9.30 ish so it's not necessarily they're attached etc

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By *heLaserGuyMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I love weekend meets, and much prefer over nights....hate wham bam meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started a similar thread on weekend dads/weekday mums. Free time never matches up!

It's damned frustrating, isn't it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or does anyone else suffer this curse.

None of the men I want to meet are ever free at weekends

Are they married / attached

Have a better offer?

Or just use the weekend for friends and family?

I'm bloody insulted - I officially give up!

"
theyve maybe got kids they only see at weekends, they maybe are in a team rugby or football that takes up whole day and night, they maybe work, they maybe see family and friends, they maybe live in a different area at weekends and commute for work etc

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I started a similar thread on weekend dads/weekday mums. Free time never matches up!

It's damned frustrating, isn't it? "

Yes it feels like our schedules never align - but it feels like they would rather be with their mates of family - which is fine.

I guess I'm looking in the wrong place for company.

The men on here aren't lonely - they're just horny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single mum living rural..

Add that on to frustration.

All want evening socials etc..

But single or married men working away can do that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started a similar thread on weekend dads/weekday mums. Free time never matches up!

It's damned frustrating, isn't it?

Yes it feels like our schedules never align - but it feels like they would rather be with their mates of family - which is fine.

I guess I'm looking in the wrong place for company.

The men on here aren't lonely - they're just horny "

I'm open to a meet. Can't do weekends though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They’re all with their wives/GFs

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"They’re all with their wives/GFs"

Yep they really are

I'm not going to be the sneaky fuck on a Tuesday morning woman - I'm over it!

Im going to put on.pyjamas and sulk!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or does anyone else suffer this curse.

None of the men I want to meet are ever free at weekends

Are they married / attached

Have a better offer?

Or just use the weekend for friends and family?

I'm bloody insulted - I officially give up!

"
Does say in your profile you probably won't meet. That might be it. Lovely bottom by the way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They’re all with their wives/GFs

Yep they really are

I'm not going to be the sneaky fuck on a Tuesday morning woman - I'm over it!

Im going to put on.pyjamas and sulk!"

I don’t blame you, I’d never be that woman for anyone. Fuck that!

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is true at the moment ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Agree, same trouble!

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By *sm265Woman
over a year ago

Shangri-la

Yep, they're likely married or in a relationship.

That said, I really struggle to do weekend meets & I am single (but have kids).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have my kid most weekends. I'd rather spend time with him than with someone from fab.

Doesn't mean I'm in a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or does anyone else suffer this curse.

None of the men I want to meet are ever free at weekends

Are they married / attached

Have a better offer?

Or just use the weekend for friends and family?

I'm bloody insulted - I officially give up!

"

I have the same problem, all men claiming to be single and can only meet week days and day time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or does anyone else suffer this curse.

None of the men I want to meet are ever free at weekends

Are they married / attached

Have a better offer?

Or just use the weekend for friends and family?

I'm bloody insulted - I officially give up!

I have the same problem, all men claiming to be single and can only meet week days and day time "

Some of us are honest about it! Yes married, find it hard to get time. But i still make it work

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

people have lives away from fab, and alot have kids to look after at weekends, dont see the problem tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But to be fair given what your profile says what do you expect? sorry to be harsh but just an observation

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have my kid most weekends. I'd rather spend time with him than with someone from fab.

Doesn't mean I'm in a relationship "

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have my kid most weekends. I'd rather spend time with him than with someone from fab.

Doesn't mean I'm in a relationship

Absolutely "

Dont agree with me please. Were Male bashing

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Making yourself "available" isn't just down to when you can meet but how one pitches themselves.

With regards to weekend meets, I am available most weekends, but I tend to shy away from them now as weekends are very precious and having last minute cancellations, changes of mind etc. tends to mean that those 2 precious days that I have off are then wasted.

I would much rather arrange a weekend meal/drink with a woman that is a friend, who I know will show up, won't cancel. Admittedly we wont be sharing a bed, but we will share a few bottles of wine and some laughter, which for me is a perfect weekend, I have spare bedrooms and plenty of wine.

Cancellations on a weekday/night, don't make me feel that I have wasted something

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have my kid most weekends. I'd rather spend time with him than with someone from fab.

Doesn't mean I'm in a relationship

Absolutely

Dont agree with me please. Were Male bashing "

Alright then

Twat

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By *bsinthe_boyMan
over a year ago

Luton

Well, I'm married but both my wives know I'm here so that's not a problem!

I did realise in December that I was trying to arrange seeing a friend and I don't have a free weekend until April. I'm just tidy busy.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Not me. I do other stuff unless it’s an evening.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have my kid most weekends. I'd rather spend time with him than with someone from fab.

Doesn't mean I'm in a relationship

Absolutely

Dont agree with me please. Were Male bashing "

When did anyone male bash?

Go and spend time with your kid and get off Fab

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Most single men want to meet during office hours strangely...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weekends are usually the time I'm most free.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Could have children. Most men my sort of age do. A lot have their children at the weekend.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"people have lives away from fab, and alot have kids to look after at weekends, dont see the problem tbh"

The problem is I work all week till quite late.

The forum is getting really bitchy recently theres no need

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

I have found this sometimes, but there are people out there that can meet at weekends - I've had some wonderful weekend meets

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Could have children. Most men my sort of age do. A lot have their children at the weekend. "

I'm off to match.com to look for dates ( I wont tell them I'll shag them on the first date )

I'm sick of this everything is a priority over the dirty fat slags on Fab attitude.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shit happens. Forest Gump said it so it must be true

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"people have lives away from fab, and alot have kids to look after at weekends, dont see the problem tbh

The problem is I work all week till quite late.

The forum is getting really bitchy recently theres no need "

The only one being bitchy is you. Some guys cant meet on a weekend, deal with it, instead of slating them all and accusing them of being married.

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By *ornyhappyCouple
over a year ago

perth

Not everyone has a Mon-Friday, 9-5 job. Some people work weekends/evenings.

K

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By *elvet RopeMan
over a year ago

by the big field


"I have my kid most weekends. I'd rather spend time with him than with someone from fab.

Doesn't mean I'm in a relationship

Absolutely

Dont agree with me please. Were Male bashing

When did anyone male bash?"

When it jumped from people don’t meet weekends to its only men that don’t meet weekends.

I was looking last night after work (I mainly work evenings and weekends as the bloody 9-5 weekday brigade all want to go out and be entertained then - and want people to provide events and venues etc ).

Across 5 different postcodes I could get to fairly easily there we’re hardly any ladies or couples worth the effort and they were en’t online long enough to chat with.

You can’t demand that the right person makes themselves available 24/7 and get the bloody hump when when they’re doing other things as the rest of us are in the same boat too

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Is it just me or does anyone else suffer this curse.

None of the men I want to meet are ever free at weekends

Are they married / attached

Have a better offer?

Or just use the weekend for friends and family?

I'm bloody insulted - I officially give up!

"

If you really are Mary Poppins, can’t you use your magic to make Fab work better for you?

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in


"Is it just me or does anyone else suffer this curse.

None of the men I want to meet are ever free at weekends

Are they married / attached

Have a better offer?

Or just use the weekend for friends and family?

I'm bloody insulted - I officially give up!

"

I’m never free until after 11pm at the weekends and every day apart from Wednesday ,,,

Not because I’m married etc , it’s because of my job !!!! To many hours and not much playtime , I have to get it when I can ,, and at the moment it’s a struggle

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South

My bug bear is the ones I like never accommodate. God damn it!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm never free at weekends due to work or having my little one, some of us aren't out getting pissed

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By *exyEggsCouple
over a year ago

North East Scotland, mostly


"Could have children. Most men my sort of age do. A lot have their children at the weekend.

I'm off to match.com to look for dates ( I wont tell them I'll shag them on the first date )

I'm sick of this everything is a priority over the dirty fat slags on Fab attitude."

Honestly, some people, eh?

Mrs TMN x

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By *milingeyesWoman
over a year ago

mickeymousetown

Doesn't mean they are married, a lot works weekends I work weekends unless I book it off ....

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I have my kid most weekends. I'd rather spend time with him than with someone from fab.

Doesn't mean I'm in a relationship

Absolutely

Dont agree with me please. Were Male bashing

When did anyone male bash?

When it jumped from people don’t meet weekends to its only men that don’t meet weekends.

I was looking last night after work (I mainly work evenings and weekends as the bloody 9-5 weekday brigade all want to go out and be entertained then - and want people to provide events and venues etc ).

Across 5 different postcodes I could get to fairly easily there we’re hardly any ladies or couples worth the effort and they were en’t online long enough to chat with.

You can’t demand that the right person makes themselves available 24/7 and get the bloody hump when when they’re doing other things as the rest of us are in the same boat too "

The op mentioned men in particular. It's a man bashing thread because most men on here are cheating on their wives. This is just a fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have my kid most weekends. I'd rather spend time with him than with someone from fab.

Doesn't mean I'm in a relationship

Absolutely

Dont agree with me please. Were Male bashing

When did anyone male bash?

When it jumped from people don’t meet weekends to its only men that don’t meet weekends.

I was looking last night after work (I mainly work evenings and weekends as the bloody 9-5 weekday brigade all want to go out and be entertained then - and want people to provide events and venues etc ).

Across 5 different postcodes I could get to fairly easily there we’re hardly any ladies or couples worth the effort and they were en’t online long enough to chat with.

You can’t demand that the right person makes themselves available 24/7 and get the bloody hump when when they’re doing other things as the rest of us are in the same boat too

The op mentioned men in particular. It's a man bashing thread because most men on here are cheating on their wives. This is just a fact."

I am sorry folks but this is all bollocks.

Read the OP again.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Is it just me or does anyone else suffer this curse.

None of the men I want to meet are ever free at weekends

Are they married / attached

Have a better offer?

Or just use the weekend for friends and family?

I'm bloody insulted - I officially give up!

"

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury

Men...

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"I

The op mentioned men in particular. It's a man bashing thread because most men on here are cheating on their wives. This is just a fact."

Love to see your evidence for this "fact"...

sheesh, I guess if it gets you laid.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not man-bashing, just disappointed we can't find mutually free time.

Never mind. In the absence of any better offers, I'm going to the cinema alone this evening. And I won't have to share my Revels with anyone.

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"I'm not man-bashing, just disappointed we can't find mutually free time.

Never mind. In the absence of any better offers, I'm going to the cinema alone this evening. And I won't have to share my Revels with anyone. "

Damn. Revels. I love revels, apart from the coffee ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Be nice people

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I

The op mentioned men in particular. It's a man bashing thread because most men on here are cheating on their wives. This is just a fact.

Love to see your evidence for this "fact"...

sheesh, I guess if it gets you laid..... "

wtf! most of the men we meet and contact us are married and don't meet weekends, we're not bothered. But it's a fact.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could have children. Most men my sort of age do. A lot have their children at the weekend.

I'm off to match.com to look for dates ( I wont tell them I'll shag them on the first date )

I'm sick of this everything is a priority over the dirty fat slags on Fab attitude."

oh dear someone is very bitter lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As a rule I'm not free at weekends but neither am I married - well ok I am married but have been apart from my wife for almost 2 years but I have a g/f and she generally stays with me at weekends. She knows what I do and is ok with it, but also wants to spend weekends with me rather than me going off someplace to wank another guys cock whilst she sits at home bored.

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By *yn drwgMan
over a year ago

Camarthen


"I have my kid most weekends. I'd rather spend time with him than with someone from fab.

Doesn't mean I'm in a relationship "

Exactly this

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"I

The op mentioned men in particular. It's a man bashing thread because most men on here are cheating on their wives. This is just a fact.

Love to see your evidence for this "fact"...

sheesh, I guess if it gets you laid.....

wtf! most of the men we meet and contact us are married and don't meet weekends, we're not bothered. But it's a fact. "

So based on your experience over 51% of the Single Men on here are in fact, not single. Based on YOUR experience, which obviously is the litmus test for everyones experiences you have quoted a "fact". You might want to look up the word "fact", it requires empirical evidence, I'll wait for my survey form......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have my kid most weekends. I'd rather spend time with him than with someone from fab.

Doesn't mean I'm in a relationship

Absolutely

Dont agree with me please. Were Male bashing

When did anyone male bash?

Go and spend time with your kid and get off Fab "

I'll spend as much time on Fab as I want. You dont tell me what to do

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I

The op mentioned men in particular. It's a man bashing thread because most men on here are cheating on their wives. This is just a fact.

Love to see your evidence for this "fact"...

sheesh, I guess if it gets you laid.....

wtf! most of the men we meet and contact us are married and don't meet weekends, we're not bothered. But it's a fact.

So based on your experience over 51% of the Single Men on here are in fact, not single. Based on YOUR experience, which obviously is the litmus test for everyones experiences you have quoted a "fact". You might want to look up the word "fact", it requires empirical evidence, I'll wait for my survey form......"

How many men have you met for sex on here?

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I have my kid most weekends. I'd rather spend time with him than with someone from fab.

Doesn't mean I'm in a relationship

Absolutely

Dont agree with me please. Were Male bashing

When did anyone male bash?

Go and spend time with your kid and get off Fab

I'll spend as much time on Fab as I want. You dont tell me what to do"

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Be nice people "

Wow - some people clearly cant be nice can they

It was a thread moaning about my free time never aligns with the men that I want to meet and the reasons possibly why.

Some people have got the wrong end of the stick and chosen to get nasty.

I've been on Fab and other sites for a long time and know how it works - I was starting a discussion.

But people have chosen to call me bitter and a bitch.

Bloody charming

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Be nice people

Wow - some people clearly cant be nice can they

It was a thread moaning about my free time never aligns with the men that I want to meet and the reasons possibly why.

Some people have got the wrong end of the stick and chosen to get nasty.

I've been on Fab and other sites for a long time and know how it works - I was starting a discussion.

But people have chosen to call me bitter and a bitch.

Bloody charming "

Pay no notice! Who really cares what people think?! Think what you like, someone will ALWAYS be upset!

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"I

The op mentioned men in particular. It's a man bashing thread because most men on here are cheating on their wives. This is just a fact.

Love to see your evidence for this "fact"...

sheesh, I guess if it gets you laid.....

wtf! most of the men we meet and contact us are married and don't meet weekends, we're not bothered. But it's a fact.

So based on your experience over 51% of the Single Men on here are in fact, not single. Based on YOUR experience, which obviously is the litmus test for everyones experiences you have quoted a "fact". You might want to look up the word "fact", it requires empirical evidence, I'll wait for my survey form......

How many men have you met for sex on here?"

I'm not the one quoting "facts", just using logic. That one mans experiences on here, or even 100 men/women's/couples experiences on here does not constitute a "fact"

Fucking hell, its hard enough on here without everyone reinforcing a myth based on their limited experience....unless of course you have met 50% or more of the single guys on here.... In which case I stand corrected

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I have my kid most weekends. I'd rather spend time with him than with someone from fab.

Doesn't mean I'm in a relationship

Absolutely

Dont agree with me please. Were Male bashing

When did anyone male bash?

Go and spend time with your kid and get off Fab

I'll spend as much time on Fab as I want. You dont tell me what to do

"

Oh just lol

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I

The op mentioned men in particular. It's a man bashing thread because most men on here are cheating on their wives. This is just a fact.

Love to see your evidence for this "fact"...

sheesh, I guess if it gets you laid.....

wtf! most of the men we meet and contact us are married and don't meet weekends, we're not bothered. But it's a fact.

So based on your experience over 51% of the Single Men on here are in fact, not single. Based on YOUR experience, which obviously is the litmus test for everyones experiences you have quoted a "fact". You might want to look up the word "fact", it requires empirical evidence, I'll wait for my survey form......

How many men have you met for sex on here?

I'm not the one quoting "facts", just using logic. That one mans experiences on here, or even 100 men/women's/couples experiences on here does not constitute a "fact"

Fucking hell, its hard enough on here without everyone reinforcing a myth based on their limited experience....unless of course you have met 50% or more of the single guys on here.... In which case I stand corrected"

How many men have you met for sex from fab?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't really look much at weekends unless Sunday night probably like most single people I work hard all week so weekends are taken up doing the things I can't do in the week or cleaning shopping ironing used to have kids but now grown up also I no loads that do football training or management but also I get pissed Friday and Saturday nights as don't drink in the week we are not all married just have other things I'd rather do on a weekend don't take it personally

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I have my kid most weekends. I'd rather spend time with him than with someone from fab.

Doesn't mean I'm in a relationship

Absolutely

Dont agree with me please. Were Male bashing

When did anyone male bash?

Go and spend time with your kid and get off Fab

I'll spend as much time on Fab as I want. You dont tell me what to do

Oh just lol "

It did sound pretty funny didn't it!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Be nice people

Wow - some people clearly cant be nice can they

It was a thread moaning about my free time never aligns with the men that I want to meet and the reasons possibly why.

Some people have got the wrong end of the stick and chosen to get nasty.

I've been on Fab and other sites for a long time and know how it works - I was starting a discussion.

But people have chosen to call me bitter and a bitch.

Bloody charming

Pay no notice! Who really cares what people think?! Think what you like, someone will ALWAYS be upset! "

Well it made for a bit of good reading didnt it

Next time I'll start a kiss fuck avoid thread

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Im nightshift every 2nd weekend. Its a pain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be nice people

Wow - some people clearly cant be nice can they

It was a thread moaning about my free time never aligns with the men that I want to meet and the reasons possibly why.

Some people have got the wrong end of the stick and chosen to get nasty.

I've been on Fab and other sites for a long time and know how it works - I was starting a discussion.

But people have chosen to call me bitter and a bitch.

Bloody charming "

Well, if the shoe fits

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"I

The op mentioned men in particular. It's a man bashing thread because most men on here are cheating on their wives. This is just a fact.

Love to see your evidence for this "fact"...

sheesh, I guess if it gets you laid.....

wtf! most of the men we meet and contact us are married and don't meet weekends, we're not bothered. But it's a fact.

So based on your experience over 51% of the Single Men on here are in fact, not single. Based on YOUR experience, which obviously is the litmus test for everyones experiences you have quoted a "fact". You might want to look up the word "fact", it requires empirical evidence, I'll wait for my survey form......

How many men have you met for sex on here?

I'm not the one quoting "facts", just using logic. That one mans experiences on here, or even 100 men/women's/couples experiences on here does not constitute a "fact"

Fucking hell, its hard enough on here without everyone reinforcing a myth based on their limited experience....unless of course you have met 50% or more of the single guys on here.... In which case I stand corrected

How many men have you met for sex from fab?"

None, but how many have I spoken to? Maybe 2 or 300, how many have I met at clubs and socials, again, probably about the same, I have been here for 10 years. Why is the number of people I have had sex with have any relevance, the squirrels up the other tree chap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Generally have my sons at weekends so find it difficult to meet,but would find a way for someone special.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"They are probably married, yes...

I am never free at weekends and all invites I get to socials/parties/club nights are on weekends. "

Nice sweeping assumption. Are you also married? Seen as you're never free at weekends either.

Make it sound like all men just live life cheating 5 days a week then play happy married couple Saturday/Sunday. Not a fan of this generalised men bashing.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I

The op mentioned men in particular. It's a man bashing thread because most men on here are cheating on their wives. This is just a fact.

Love to see your evidence for this "fact"...

sheesh, I guess if it gets you laid.....

wtf! most of the men we meet and contact us are married and don't meet weekends, we're not bothered. But it's a fact.

So based on your experience over 51% of the Single Men on here are in fact, not single. Based on YOUR experience, which obviously is the litmus test for everyones experiences you have quoted a "fact". You might want to look up the word "fact", it requires empirical evidence, I'll wait for my survey form......

How many men have you met for sex on here?

I'm not the one quoting "facts", just using logic. That one mans experiences on here, or even 100 men/women's/couples experiences on here does not constitute a "fact"

Fucking hell, its hard enough on here without everyone reinforcing a myth based on their limited experience....unless of course you have met 50% or more of the single guys on here.... In which case I stand corrected

How many men have you met for sex from fab?

None, but how many have I spoken to? Maybe 2 or 300, how many have I met at clubs and socials, again, probably about the same, I have been here for 10 years. Why is the number of people I have had sex with have any relevance, the squirrels up the other tree chap"

Men at clubs and socials are much less likely to be married.... it's not rocket science.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"Be nice people

Wow - some people clearly cant be nice can they

It was a thread moaning about my free time never aligns with the men that I want to meet and the reasons possibly why.

Some people have got the wrong end of the stick and chosen to get nasty.

I've been on Fab and other sites for a long time and know how it works - I was starting a discussion.

But people have chosen to call me bitter and a bitch.

Bloody charming

Pay no notice! Who really cares what people think?! Think what you like, someone will ALWAYS be upset!

Well it made for a bit of good reading didnt it

Next time I'll start a kiss fuck avoid thread "

Don't you dare!

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton


"I

The op mentioned men in particular. It's a man bashing thread because most men on here are cheating on their wives. This is just a fact.

Love to see your evidence for this "fact"...

sheesh, I guess if it gets you laid.....

wtf! most of the men we meet and contact us are married and don't meet weekends, we're not bothered. But it's a fact.

So based on your experience over 51% of the Single Men on here are in fact, not single. Based on YOUR experience, which obviously is the litmus test for everyones experiences you have quoted a "fact". You might want to look up the word "fact", it requires empirical evidence, I'll wait for my survey form......

How many men have you met for sex on here?

I'm not the one quoting "facts", just using logic. That one mans experiences on here, or even 100 men/women's/couples experiences on here does not constitute a "fact"

Fucking hell, its hard enough on here without everyone reinforcing a myth based on their limited experience....unless of course you have met 50% or more of the single guys on here.... In which case I stand corrected

How many men have you met for sex from fab?

None, but how many have I spoken to? Maybe 2 or 300, how many have I met at clubs and socials, again, probably about the same, I have been here for 10 years. Why is the number of people I have had sex with have any relevance, the squirrels up the other tree chap

Men at clubs and socials are much less likely to be married.... it's not rocket science. "

SO I guess you must have met 51% of the men on here then, well Clem, I bow to your "fact"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm free at weekends well between my hobbies, freinds and working on my house

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not man-bashing, just disappointed we can't find mutually free time.

Never mind. In the absence of any better offers, I'm going to the cinema alone this evening. And I won't have to share my Revels with anyone. "

Enjoy the cinema

And throw the coffee ones at people from the back row

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I

The op mentioned men in particular. It's a man bashing thread because most men on here are cheating on their wives. This is just a fact.

Love to see your evidence for this "fact"...

sheesh, I guess if it gets you laid.....

wtf! most of the men we meet and contact us are married and don't meet weekends, we're not bothered. But it's a fact.

So based on your experience over 51% of the Single Men on here are in fact, not single. Based on YOUR experience, which obviously is the litmus test for everyones experiences you have quoted a "fact". You might want to look up the word "fact", it requires empirical evidence, I'll wait for my survey form......

How many men have you met for sex on here?

I'm not the one quoting "facts", just using logic. That one mans experiences on here, or even 100 men/women's/couples experiences on here does not constitute a "fact"

Fucking hell, its hard enough on here without everyone reinforcing a myth based on their limited experience....unless of course you have met 50% or more of the single guys on here.... In which case I stand corrected

How many men have you met for sex from fab?

None, but how many have I spoken to? Maybe 2 or 300, how many have I met at clubs and socials, again, probably about the same, I have been here for 10 years. Why is the number of people I have had sex with have any relevance, the squirrels up the other tree chap

Men at clubs and socials are much less likely to be married.... it's not rocket science.

SO I guess you must have met 51% of the men on here then, well Clem, I bow to your "fact"

"

It's a pleasure.

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By *lem-H-FandangoMan
over a year ago

salisbury


"I

The op mentioned men in particular. It's a man bashing thread because most men on here are cheating on their wives. This is just a fact.

Love to see your evidence for this "fact"...

sheesh, I guess if it gets you laid.....

wtf! most of the men we meet and contact us are married and don't meet weekends, we're not bothered. But it's a fact.

So based on your experience over 51% of the Single Men on here are in fact, not single. Based on YOUR experience, which obviously is the litmus test for everyones experiences you have quoted a "fact". You might want to look up the word "fact", it requires empirical evidence, I'll wait for my survey form......

How many men have you met for sex on here?

I'm not the one quoting "facts", just using logic. That one mans experiences on here, or even 100 men/women's/couples experiences on here does not constitute a "fact"

Fucking hell, its hard enough on here without everyone reinforcing a myth based on their limited experience....unless of course you have met 50% or more of the single guys on here.... In which case I stand corrected

How many men have you met for sex from fab?

None, but how many have I spoken to? Maybe 2 or 300, how many have I met at clubs and socials, again, probably about the same, I have been here for 10 years. Why is the number of people I have had sex with have any relevance, the squirrels up the other tree chap

Men at clubs and socials are much less likely to be married.... it's not rocket science.

SO I guess you must have met 51% of the men on here then, well Clem, I bow to your "fact"

"

You even mention them in your profile ffs!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Could have children. Most men my sort of age do. A lot have their children at the weekend.

I'm off to match.com to look for dates ( I wont tell them I'll shag them on the first date )

I'm sick of this everything is a priority over the dirty fat slags on Fab attitude."

x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not man-bashing, just disappointed we can't find mutually free time.

Never mind. In the absence of any better offers, I'm going to the cinema alone this evening. And I won't have to share my Revels with anyone.

Enjoy the cinema

And throw the coffee ones at people from the back row "

No! I'm the weirdo who actually LIKES the coffee ones!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or does anyone else suffer this curse.

None of the men I want to meet are ever free at weekends

Are they married / attached

Have a better offer?

Or just use the weekend for friends and family?

I'm bloody insulted - I officially give up!

I have the same problem, all men claiming to be single and can only meet week days and day time "

Agree

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By *abrielle247Couple (FF)
over a year ago

PDI Gran Canaria

Maybe because there all fab single.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not man-bashing, just disappointed we can't find mutually free time.

Never mind. In the absence of any better offers, I'm going to the cinema alone this evening. And I won't have to share my Revels with anyone.

Enjoy the cinema

And throw the coffee ones at people from the back row

No! I'm the weirdo who actually LIKES the coffee ones! "

Pervery

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or does anyone else suffer this curse.

None of the men I want to meet are ever free at weekends

Are they married / attached

Have a better offer?

Or just use the weekend for friends and family?

I'm bloody insulted - I officially give up!

"

I have my son alternate weekends, but am free the other weekends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Any guys free this weekend?

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough


"Any guys free this weekend? "

What about Monday lunch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not man-bashing, just disappointed we can't find mutually free time.

Never mind. In the absence of any better offers, I'm going to the cinema alone this evening. And I won't have to share my Revels with anyone.

Enjoy the cinema

And throw the coffee ones at people from the back row

No! I'm the weirdo who actually LIKES the coffee ones! "

I’m the weirdo who actually likes married men

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not man-bashing, just disappointed we can't find mutually free time.

Never mind. In the absence of any better offers, I'm going to the cinema alone this evening. And I won't have to share my Revels with anyone.

Enjoy the cinema

And throw the coffee ones at people from the back row

No! I'm the weirdo who actually LIKES the coffee ones!

I’m the weirdo who actually likes married men "

careful you'll be burned at the stake!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Any guys free this weekend? "

Yes, but I can't get to Glasgow

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Id prefer an overnight or weekends away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not man-bashing, just disappointed we can't find mutually free time.

Never mind. In the absence of any better offers, I'm going to the cinema alone this evening. And I won't have to share my Revels with anyone.

Enjoy the cinema

And throw the coffee ones at people from the back row

No! I'm the weirdo who actually LIKES the coffee ones!

I’m the weirdo who actually likes married men

careful you'll be burned at the stake!"

. I’ve survived the stake a few times on here .

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I have my children alternate weekends and some nights during the week. I can accommodate so I’m most definitely single.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I'm not man-bashing, just disappointed we can't find mutually free time.

Never mind. In the absence of any better offers, I'm going to the cinema alone this evening. And I won't have to share my Revels with anyone.

Enjoy the cinema

And throw the coffee ones at people from the back row

No! I'm the weirdo who actually LIKES the coffee ones!

I’m the weirdo who actually likes married men

careful you'll be burned at the stake!

. I’ve survived the stake a few times on here . "

True!

I might start a thread on Fab straight cheaters that wear dresses next

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m free this weekend

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By *ourayloversCouple
over a year ago

chesterfield

We've really struggled for any free weekends so for this year !

But as with anything in life if you want it bad enough you'll make the effort

(Ray)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Threads like this show you who not to meet

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe

Im free most weekends but finding others that can is the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Weekends are for

Hunting

Stalking

Shooting

(deer)

.

other men also like spectator sports, football, rugby etc and ofcourse drinking with mates at pubs

.

Ladies we will fit you in as and when we please, not as and when you please

.

hope that answers some female questions

.

have a nice day now.

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

The funny thing is I am free on the weekend but no meets

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My kids are older now so I don’t have the same problem but this was an issue for me too previously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or does anyone else suffer this curse.

None of the men I want to meet are ever free at weekends

Are they married / attached

Have a better offer?

Or just use the weekend for friends and family?

I'm bloody insulted - I officially give up!

"

Have you read her profile though?!

I’m insulted by this post ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or does anyone else suffer this curse.

None of the men I want to meet are ever free at weekends

Are they married / attached

Have a better offer?

Or just use the weekend for friends and family?

I'm bloody insulted - I officially give up!

Have you read her profile though?!

I’m insulted by this post ffs "

lol

just read her profile

decided the profile fits my block list

now done.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow with a profile like that im suprised you get a meet any day of the week. Think this is a more of a look at me thread.

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By *estivalMan
over a year ago

borehamwood

cant meet most weekends as have my daughter usualy get one weekend a month free but thats not set in stone all depends if ex is working or not

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 29/02/20 19:26:41]

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Threads like this show you who not to meet"

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Wow with a profile like that im suprised you get a meet any day of the week. Think this is a more of a look at me thread."

I didn't see her ask for opinions on her profile

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow with a profile like that im suprised you get a meet any day of the week. Think this is a more of a look at me thread.

I didn't see her ask for opinions on her profile"

I seem to have angered some people with this question

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By *SAchickWoman
over a year ago

Hillside desolate


"Wow with a profile like that im suprised you get a meet any day of the week. Think this is a more of a look at me thread.

I didn't see her ask for opinions on her profile

I seem to have angered some people with this question

"

It appears so

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or does anyone else suffer this curse.

None of the men I want to meet are ever free at weekends

Are they married / attached

Have a better offer?

Or just use the weekend for friends and family?

I'm bloody insulted - I officially give up!

"

are you saying people are free mid week to meet you and actually meet

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

To be honest i dont understand the problem. Its always been harder to get meets on a weekend. I dont even know when i last had a weekend meet. Most people spend it with their family or friends or hobbies. My gentleman friends are either married or have hobbies. And woo be tied the rugbys on ive got no chance of a shag then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Wow with a profile like that im suprised you get a meet any day of the week. Think this is a more of a look at me thread.

I didn't see her ask for opinions on her profile

I seem to have angered some people with this question

"

I wouldn’t worry about it too much

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By *ny1localMan
over a year ago

READING

In my marital life I changed my work shifts to include the weekend as home life was horrible. Now it suits me as the traffic is more bearable at the weekend.

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

My profile states I only meet weekends due to trying to avoid out the attached people, the funny thing is, it is always turned around onto myself, where they try and persuade me to meet them as they are only visiting Abz.......

Not happening!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Wow with a profile like that im suprised you get a meet any day of the week. Think this is a more of a look at me thread.

I didn't see her ask for opinions on her profile

I seem to have angered some people with this question

I wouldn’t worry about it too much "

I'm not worried - I have wine and pjs - far superior to what any man on Fab can offer me - they have priorities after all

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By *il FiskMan
over a year ago

sefton

I'm a single dad, so as much as I'd love to do weekends, nothing will get get in the way of daddy duties!

Sorry!!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is it just me or does anyone else suffer this curse.

None of the men I want to meet are ever free at weekends

Are they married / attached

Have a better offer?

Or just use the weekend for friends and family?

I'm bloody insulted - I officially give up!

are you saying people are free mid week to meet you and actually meet"

What are you on about?

I thought I was on your block list - please hurry up about it

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By *miableRogueMan
over a year ago

Liverpool

I work every Saturday and Sunday night. Always feel like I’m never in a position to make plans

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"My profile states I only meet weekends due to trying to avoid out the attached people, the funny thing is, it is always turned around onto myself, where they try and persuade me to meet them as they are only visiting Abz.......

Not happening! "

Yeah it's boring now innit

Fab forums aren't even funny anymore.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If a guy had started this thread he'd be slaughtered for being a whiney, judgemental ****!!!

Count yourself lucky, women seem to be busy 7 days a week if I can ever be arsed messaging one...

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"My profile states I only meet weekends due to trying to avoid out the attached people, the funny thing is, it is always turned around onto myself, where they try and persuade me to meet them as they are only visiting Abz.......

Not happening!

Yeah it's boring now innit

Fab forums aren't even funny anymore.

"

You've got that right unfortunately

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be nice people

Wow - some people clearly cant be nice can they

It was a thread moaning about my free time never aligns with the men that I want to meet and the reasons possibly why.

Some people have got the wrong end of the stick and chosen to get nasty.

I've been on Fab and other sites for a long time and know how it works - I was starting a discussion.

But people have chosen to call me bitter and a bitch.

Bloody charming

Pay no notice! Who really cares what people think?! Think what you like, someone will ALWAYS be upset!

Well it made for a bit of good reading didnt it

Next time I'll start a kiss fuck avoid thread "

Fuck lol.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If a guy had started this thread he'd be slaughtered for being a whiney, judgemental ****!!!

Count yourself lucky, women seem to be busy 7 days a week if I can ever be arsed messaging one... "

Have you not read the thread?

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


"If a guy had started this thread he'd be slaughtered for being a whiney, judgemental ****!!!

Count yourself lucky, women seem to be busy 7 days a week if I can ever be arsed messaging one...

Have you not read the thread?

"

Clearly not!

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford

Theres plenty of us that are single and on the forums.

Though some of us dont like football so not watching the match being played.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes

and

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

.... to OP & Foxy.

Enjoy the wine and chocs, hundreds of FAB guys will be crying themselves to sleep tonight.

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By *hortarseWoman
over a year ago

Norfolk

I'm not free at weekends to meet ever. Been a lone mum it's hard to find time to have meets

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By *reat me rightWoman
over a year ago

Rotherham

I'd say married or attached and "she" doesn't know

I prefer weekend meets - dont happen often

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By *orksRockerMan
over a year ago

Bradford

Probably all of the above OP

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


".... to OP & Foxy.

Enjoy the wine and chocs, hundreds of FAB guys will be crying themselves to sleep tonight. "

I doubt that they have more important things to do

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


".... to OP & Foxy.

Enjoy the wine and chocs, hundreds of FAB guys will be crying themselves to sleep tonight.

I doubt that they have more important things to do "
and why shouldnt they some people have a lot more going of than a random shag

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen


".... to OP & Foxy.

Enjoy the wine and chocs, hundreds of FAB guys will be crying themselves to sleep tonight. "

You clearly misunderstood the thread and found it men versus women it's not! If you can't comprehend the meaning of words, it's not our fault, so don't get personal! Maybe learn to digest what others are actually saying and not make it into what you think is being said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading this thread really highlights different peoples’ sense of humour and how people read/take things in different ways. That’s been the most interesting part of the thread.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading this thread really highlights different peoples’ sense of humour and how people read/take things in different ways. That’s been the most interesting part of the thread. "

I dropped out of trying humour when I realised the thread wasn't going to receive any attempt well.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading this thread really highlights different peoples’ sense of humour and how people read/take things in different ways. That’s been the most interesting part of the thread. "

I often wonder how dysfunctional people are in normal face to face conversations. This thread and many others has contributed to my theory that you should be *this* tall to ride the internet.

(Mary - you rock girl and do what you gotta do to be happy. Rant; rave; be yourself. Hugh fives.)

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


".... to OP & Foxy.

Enjoy the wine and chocs, hundreds of FAB guys will be crying themselves to sleep tonight.

I doubt that they have more important things to do and why shouldnt they some people have a lot more going of than a random shag"

Who said my promised shag was random?

But yes - we've all got lives and important things to do.

If you really want to do something you do it - and it hurts a little bit when someone prefers to do something or someone else.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Reading this thread really highlights different peoples’ sense of humour and how people read/take things in different ways. That’s been the most interesting part of the thread.

I dropped out of trying humour when I realised the thread wasn't going to receive any attempt well."

I agree I really should shut up now

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Reading this thread really highlights different peoples’ sense of humour and how people read/take things in different ways. That’s been the most interesting part of the thread.

I often wonder how dysfunctional people are in normal face to face conversations. This thread and many others has contributed to my theory that you should be *this* tall to ride the internet.

(Mary - you rock girl and do what you gotta do to be happy. Rant; rave; be yourself. Hugh fives.) "

Xx

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton


"Is it just me or does anyone else suffer this curse.

None of the men I want to meet are ever free at weekends

Are they married / attached

Have a better offer?

Or just use the weekend for friends and family?

I'm bloody insulted - I officially give up!

"

You're insulted? We have kids and they will *always* come first. Then, family. Then Fab.

Swinging is waaaaaay down our list of priorities.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't mind meeting on the weekend but as long as it don't take up my whole weekend... plenty of other things to do and people to spend time with

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


".... to OP & Foxy.

Enjoy the wine and chocs, hundreds of FAB guys will be crying themselves to sleep tonight.

I doubt that they have more important things to do and why shouldnt they some people have a lot more going of than a random shag

Who said my promised shag was random?

But yes - we've all got lives and important things to do.

If you really want to do something you do it - and it hurts a little bit when someone prefers to do something or someone else."
it is what it is. Id never expect one of my gentlemen friends to put me before real life

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I agree with Maryfuckingpoppins. Guys that can never meet up at the weekend are either married or have girlfriends.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I agree with Maryfuckingpoppins. Guys that can never meet up at the weekend are either married or have girlfriends. "
or have kids or have a social life

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By *ooskiMan
over a year ago

south coast

Could be any of those things....

As working in events and projects arena most of my work is at weekends or for set periods as coud be anywhere in europe...

However does make good for when home and off as normally get a good solid runs of 4 to 5 weeks off

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum


"They are probably married, yes...

"

Or they work shifts and the weekends they don’t work, they have their kids?

It’s not always the most obvious reason like being married that stops weekend meets.

I have some available and some not...luck of the draw with shifts.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think most people are missing the point.

It isn't about being married or having kids.

It's about feeling desired.

If you desire something enough you make arrangements to get it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Can't wait till this thread hits 175 some people are actually abit embarrassing

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

So why not start a thread asking for guys who are single, do have free weekends and can accomodate and travel to put their names down.

I'm sure a lot of the guys on here would be up for doing that if they're honest about all of the above criteria being met.

It has to be an alternative way instead of trawling hundreds of profiles and ending up feeling deflated.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I think most people are missing the point.

It isn't about being married or having kids.

It's about feeling desired.

If you desire something enough you make arrangements to get it.

"
well obviously they dont desire you enough then.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think most people are missing the point.

It isn't about being married or having kids.

It's about feeling desired.

If you desire something enough you make arrangements to get it.

well obviously they dont desire you enough then. "

There it is.

Thanks you're really kind

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can't wait till this thread hits 175 some people are actually abit embarrassing"

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By *andy6677Man
over a year ago

crewe


"I think most people are missing the point.

It isn't about being married or having kids.

It's about feeling desired.

If you desire something enough you make arrangements to get it.

well obviously they dont desire you enough then.

There it is.

Thanks you're really kind"

Id definitely meet you if i was closer as im 100% single no girlfriend or kids to worry about x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading this thread really highlights different peoples’ sense of humour and how people read/take things in different ways. That’s been the most interesting part of the thread.

I dropped out of trying humour when I realised the thread wasn't going to receive any attempt well.

I agree I really should shut up now "

. Nah it’s been hilarious

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Reading this thread really highlights different peoples’ sense of humour and how people read/take things in different ways. That’s been the most interesting part of the thread.

I dropped out of trying humour when I realised the thread wasn't going to receive any attempt well.

I agree I really should shut up now

. Nah it’s been hilarious "

I thought it was funny at first - but then realising how many pyjama keyboard warriors want to put others down depressed me

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire


"I think most people are missing the point.

It isn't about being married or having kids.

It's about feeling desired.

If you desire something enough you make arrangements to get it.

well obviously they dont desire you enough then.

There it is.

Thanks you're really kind"
if hes not giving you what you want and making you feel hurt or shitty about yourself then why would you carry on seeing him. Dump him and find someone that does desire you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Reading this thread really highlights different peoples’ sense of humour and how people read/take things in different ways. That’s been the most interesting part of the thread.

I dropped out of trying humour when I realised the thread wasn't going to receive any attempt well.

I agree I really should shut up now

. Nah it’s been hilarious

I thought it was funny at first - but then realising how many pyjama keyboard warriors want to put others down depressed me "

Amuses me for a while then it’s wtf they’re actually serious?!

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.


"Is it just me or does anyone else suffer this curse.

None of the men I want to meet are ever free at weekends

Are they married / attached

Have a better offer?

Or just use the weekend for friends and family?

I'm bloody insulted - I officially give up!

"

Mrs gets this all the time #frustrating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I think most people are missing the point.

It isn't about being married or having kids.

It's about feeling desired.

If you desire something enough you make arrangements to get it. Definitely right Maryfuckingpoppins if you desire something enough you would meet anyone at whatever time they were available. Still think that guys who can't meet at weekends are married or have girlfriends or just bullshiters who are scared of the beard lol.

"

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"Any guys free this weekend? "

I never charge

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Update: the film was great, but they had NO REVELS!! Shocking. I had to make do with Munchies.

Have you all been playing nicely whilst I was out?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Update: the film was great, but they had NO REVELS!! Shocking. I had to make do with Munchies.

Have you all been playing nicely whilst I was out? "

I like the coffee ones too, but being a gentleman, I would have let you have them.........as long as you gave me one

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By *onderstuff73mMan
over a year ago

Brum


"I think most people are missing the point.

It isn't about being married or having kids.

It's about feeling desired.

If you desire something enough you make arrangements to get it.

"

Yes and no.

I desire but not enough to put my contracted work or children behind a new “relationship” I’ve struck up on FAB. That’s not saying I’d desire you less, just that to meet for the first time is have to have a free weekend.

There are other things, like driving for a few hours, that could “prove” desire to someone, but that could easily be construed as a bloke going an extra mile to get his end away.

Realism, for me, that’s all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

None of the men I want to meet will let me smash their ankles in with a sledge to stop them running away I just wanna look after them.

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in


"Update: the film was great, but they had NO REVELS!! Shocking. I had to make do with Munchies.

Have you all been playing nicely whilst I was out? "

Munchies ohhhh my tyts now I can eat those till I’m sick

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham, North Yorkshire and can travel

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm single but have 2 young kids. I promised I would still be a dad to them through thick and thin. This promise does consume the majority of my spare time. Watching my kids growing up is very precious to me and not be at home means a cherish every moment I get with them. This makes it hard for me to meet at weekends as I usually have them both over night Friday and Saturday

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm single but have 2 young kids. I promised I would still be a dad to them through thick and thin. This promise does consume the majority of my spare time. Watching my kids growing up is very precious to me and not be at home means a cherish every moment I get with them. This makes it hard for me to meet at weekends as I usually have them both over night Friday and Saturday "

That’s the right attitude. You look quite dreamy as well

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm single but have 2 young kids. I promised I would still be a dad to them through thick and thin. This promise does consume the majority of my spare time. Watching my kids growing up is very precious to me and not being at home means I cherish every moment I get with them. This makes it hard for me to meet at weekends as I usually have them both over night Friday and Saturday

That’s the right attitude. You look quite dreamy as well "

Why thank you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I

The op mentioned men in particular. It's a man bashing thread because most men on here are cheating on their wives. This is just a fact.

Love to see your evidence for this "fact"...

sheesh, I guess if it gets you laid..... "

Have you seen his Mrs? He certainly doesn't have to be a white Knight!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I have my kid most weekends. I'd rather spend time with him than with someone from fab.

Doesn't mean I'm in a relationship

Absolutely

Dont agree with me please. Were Male bashing

When did anyone male bash?

Go and spend time with your kid and get off Fab

I'll spend as much time on Fab as I want. You dont tell me what to do

Oh just lol

It did sound pretty funny didn't it! "

I thought it sounded like a kid... The next sentence goes like this: otherwise I'll tell my dad and he's bigger than your dad

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it just me or does anyone else suffer this curse.

None of the men I want to meet are ever free at weekends

Are they married / attached

Have a better offer?

Or just use the weekend for friends and family?

I'm bloody insulted - I officially give up!

"

As a single parent weekends can be challenging. But I believe people make time for those they feel inclined to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not man-bashing, just disappointed we can't find mutually free time.

Never mind. In the absence of any better offers, I'm going to the cinema alone this evening. And I won't have to share my Revels with anyone.

Enjoy the cinema

And throw the coffee ones at people from the back row

No! I'm the weirdo who actually LIKES the coffee ones!

I’m the weirdo who actually likes married men

careful you'll be burned at the stake!"

Faggots!

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