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Here for an affair if possible? Wakefield area but can travel.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I've been on here a while browsing more than anything else and I guess my situation is not for everyone but if anybody would like to chat that's cool, get in touch.

I haven't posted on these forums before but I'm grateful for any help or advice.

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By *nvisible_beardMan
over a year ago

near newbridge, wales

Might have more luck in the meets forum than here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks for that much appreciated.

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By *emini ManMan
over a year ago

There and to the left a bit

Totally honest and non-judgemental opinion? You spend more time justifying yourself and reasons for being here than you do making yourself appealing to others - hardly the formula find finding what you hope for.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theres someone here for everyone. Non judgemental here, good luck in your search

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

I understand your need for discretion, but there are many single guys on here with great profiles and pics, so you might struggle to find a meet. Good luck

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I get that, I keep adding and deleting bits of that profile as I go, i know it's a big ask!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lot of people would have no issue with your situation.

But you say you can accommodate...how do you expect that to happen. You say you want regular again how.

As someone that has been in a relationship with someone who's married I found that in the beginning he promised he could do occasional weekends. He promised he could meet most weeks and he promised he could accommodate in hotels.

Reality of the situation was that weekends were rare. He became less available and hotels usually had to be funded by me.

So I think you need to say how you think a regular will work with your current situation.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You're right, I've updated my profile, thanks for letting me know, I didn't realise is ticked that I could accommodate!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are you looking for a TS, your profile name could be Hey Hole TS Go!

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

I wouldn’t justify your reasons for being here. You’re married. You’ve told folk. No need to say any more than that.

Good luck in your search

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Reality check time. I'm afraid your chances on here are minimal. Roughly there is 15 men for every woman on here. Hence women have a plethora of options.

A lot of women won't meet someone who is attached and you have no public pics. Most women faced with the loads of messages they get will just delete the ones with no pics. They're not going to waste time asking for pics when there are loads of guys with pics.

My advice would be to send targeted messages with pics to women who want a similar thing to you - I. E married women who want an affair. However such women will be very rare and they'll be in great demand.

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By *inkyLondonpairCouple
over a year ago

London

Also I'd echo the others that you are very defensive in your profile about your reasons for being here. That's going to be very off putting. I would just state you are attached and only want to meet people who are OK with that.

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