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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is this site legit or what? Dead end after dead end!!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

I'm totally fake so nothing surprises me at all

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Explains a lot then lol

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Is this site legit or what? Dead end after dead end!!"

What you after?

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


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*not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not sure what you were expecting!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Explains a lot then lol"

You've only been here a couple of month. What were you expecting?

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Explains a lot then lol

You've only been here a couple of month. What were you expecting?"

They think its instant shag there are some seriously deluded men in here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I’ve had plenty of conversations and potential meets just not happen. Numbers swapped, plans made then nothing! Lol. Losing faith.

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"Well I’ve had plenty of conversations and potential meets just not happen. Numbers swapped, plans made then nothing! Lol. Losing faith."

It takes time x

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Well I’ve had plenty of conversations and potential meets just not happen. Numbers swapped, plans made then nothing! Lol. Losing faith."

That's just how the cookie crumbles, either they got cold feet or something about you put them off and some dont feel the need to explain why.

It happens but dont let it make you think everyone on here is like that as they're not.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Explains a lot then lol

You've only been here a couple of month. What were you expecting?

They think its instant shag there are some seriously deluded men in here "

lol some maybe? I’m happy to chat but I like to know it’s going somewhere you know?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I’ve had plenty of conversations and potential meets just not happen. Numbers swapped, plans made then nothing! Lol. Losing faith."

It can often take time to arrange.

Most people can't/won't meet at the drop of a hat.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Well I’ve had plenty of conversations and potential meets just not happen. Numbers swapped, plans made then nothing! Lol. Losing faith."

Give it time, and lots of patience. Perhaps onve you're verified you may have more luck.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I’ve had plenty of conversations and potential meets just not happen. Numbers swapped, plans made then nothing! Lol. Losing faith.

It can often take time to arrange.

Most people can't/won't meet at the drop of a hat. "

of course I totally get that, but it’s the same thing every time!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Explains a lot then lol

You've only been here a couple of month. What were you expecting?

They think its instant shag there are some seriously deluded men in here lol some maybe? I’m happy to chat but I like to know it’s going somewhere you know?"

So you only want to chat if there is definite sex going to be involved?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Well I’ve had plenty of conversations and potential meets just not happen. Numbers swapped, plans made then nothing! Lol. Losing faith.

Give it time, and lots of patience. Perhaps onve you're verified you may have more luck. "

dont you have to meet to be verified? Lol

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Explains a lot then lol

You've only been here a couple of month. What were you expecting?

They think its instant shag there are some seriously deluded men in here lol some maybe? I’m happy to chat but I like to know it’s going somewhere you know?

So you only want to chat if there is definite sex going to be involved? "

And herein lies the usual problem

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Well I’ve had plenty of conversations and potential meets just not happen. Numbers swapped, plans made then nothing! Lol. Losing faith.

Give it time, and lots of patience. Perhaps onve you're verified you may have more luck. dont you have to meet to be verified? Lol"

You can easily get a verification, clubs and organised social events are a great starting starting place to receive a verification.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I’ve had plenty of conversations and potential meets just not happen. Numbers swapped, plans made then nothing! Lol. Losing faith.

It can often take time to arrange.

Most people can't/won't meet at the drop of a hat. of course I totally get that, but it’s the same thing every time!"

Maybe you need to filter the people you are contacting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Explains a lot then lol

You've only been here a couple of month. What were you expecting?

They think its instant shag there are some seriously deluded men in here lol some maybe? I’m happy to chat but I like to know it’s going somewhere you know?

So you only want to chat if there is definite sex going to be involved?

And herein lies the usual problem "

no as in it’s going somewhere, I didn’t mention sex.

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Explains a lot then lol

You've only been here a couple of month. What were you expecting?

They think its instant shag there are some seriously deluded men in here lol some maybe? I’m happy to chat but I like to know it’s going somewhere you know?"

And us wemon like to know your not just after sex we like the social side too and I certainly refuse to be rushed x

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By *itty559Woman
over a year ago

Fresno

It takes effort, time, communication, faith, and not getting too excited because someone messaged you. I've had several chats with guys and 9 out of 10 times the 2nd message has their cock pic attached. Yeah some might like it, but in my book that's how you get deleted and ignored.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Explains a lot then lol

You've only been here a couple of month. What were you expecting?

They think its instant shag there are some seriously deluded men in here lol some maybe? I’m happy to chat but I like to know it’s going somewhere you know?

So you only want to chat if there is definite sex going to be involved?

And herein lies the usual problem no as in it’s going somewhere, I didn’t mention sex. "

A conversation is always going somewhere, forwards and you never know what's going to happen from it.

Often just the conversation is all it is and needs to be, enjoy it for its simplicity and the people involved.

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"Explains a lot then lol

You've only been here a couple of month. What were you expecting?

They think its instant shag there are some seriously deluded men in here lol some maybe? I’m happy to chat but I like to know it’s going somewhere you know?

And us wemon like to know your not just after sex we like the social side too and I certainly refuse to be rushed x"

Exactly.....so hello

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Explains a lot then lol

You've only been here a couple of month. What were you expecting?

They think its instant shag there are some seriously deluded men in here lol some maybe? I’m happy to chat but I like to know it’s going somewhere you know?

Hello

And us wemon like to know your not just after sex we like the social side too and I certainly refuse to be rushed x

Exactly.....so hello "

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Explains a lot then lol

You've only been here a couple of month. What were you expecting?

They think its instant shag there are some seriously deluded men in here lol some maybe? I’m happy to chat but I like to know it’s going somewhere you know?

So you only want to chat if there is definite sex going to be involved?

And herein lies the usual problem no as in it’s going somewhere, I didn’t mention sex. "

All conversations lead somewhere though. Some can lead to grrat adventures or some can lead to a dead end, what is your 'somewhere'?

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"Explains a lot then lol

You've only been here a couple of month. What were you expecting?

They think its instant shag there are some seriously deluded men in here lol some maybe? I’m happy to chat but I like to know it’s going somewhere you know?

And us wemon like to know your not just after sex we like the social side too and I certainly refuse to be rushed x

Exactly.....so hello "

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Explains a lot then lol

You've only been here a couple of month. What were you expecting?

They think its instant shag there are some seriously deluded men in here lol some maybe? I’m happy to chat but I like to know it’s going somewhere you know?

So you only want to chat if there is definite sex going to be involved?

And herein lies the usual problem no as in it’s going somewhere, I didn’t mention sex.

All conversations lead somewhere though. Some can lead to grrat adventures or some can lead to a dead end, what is your 'somewhere'?"

.*great. Damn my spelling tonight, I must be tired.

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By *rumguy1980Man
over a year ago

stechford

This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?"

You're a mile out.

It may be different for you than me but those figures are 180°out for me I'm happy to say.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?"

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?"

Define fake!

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here."

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are "

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are "

What's a "real" swinger?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr"

He hasn't said that and actually there is in man in your profile so by that statement you are taring him with the same brush! Let's encourage and give advice rather than bash him because he's new and a single man!

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?"

Your math is off - a long way off....

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

He hasn't said that and actually there is in man in your profile so by that statement you are taring him with the same brush! Let's encourage and give advice rather than bash him because he's new and a single man! "

There is in man in your profile? What does that mean please?

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

He hasn't said that and actually there is in man in your profile so by that statement you are taring him with the same brush! Let's encourage and give advice rather than bash him because he's new and a single man! "

And we are giving him very good advice as we speak actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

He hasn't said that and actually there is in man in your profile so by that statement you are taring him with the same brush! Let's encourage and give advice rather than bash him because he's new and a single man!

There is in man in your profile? What does that mean please?"

You are a couple right!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

He hasn't said that and actually there is in man in your profile so by that statement you are taring him with the same brush! Let's encourage and give advice rather than bash him because he's new and a single man!

And we are giving him very good advice as we speak actually "

Whist putting him down. No need for it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Feel like I’ve opened a can of worms

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

We're all just Russian bots waiting around for Boris and Putin to show up so we know who to troll next.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

He hasn't said that and actually there is in man in your profile so by that statement you are taring him with the same brush! Let's encourage and give advice rather than bash him because he's new and a single man!

And we are giving him very good advice as we speak actually

Whist putting him down. No need for it. "

thank you

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

He hasn't said that and actually there is in man in your profile so by that statement you are taring him with the same brush! Let's encourage and give advice rather than bash him because he's new and a single man!

There is in man in your profile? What does that mean please?

You are a couple right!

"

Correct

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

He hasn't said that and actually there is in man in your profile so by that statement you are taring him with the same brush! Let's encourage and give advice rather than bash him because he's new and a single man!

And we are giving him very good advice as we speak actually

Whist putting him down. No need for it. "

Excuse us? We haven't. If you could read our private messages you will see we are being veey kind and helpful actually.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"Feel like I’ve opened a can of worms "

You've brought up a topic that's discussed hourly and with polarised views. Congratulations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

He hasn't said that and actually there is in man in your profile so by that statement you are taring him with the same brush! Let's encourage and give advice rather than bash him because he's new and a single man!

And we are giving him very good advice as we speak actually

Whist putting him down. No need for it.

Excuse us? We haven't. If you could read our private messages you will see we are being veey kind and helpful actually. "

I'm only concerned with what you have put publicly.

You and others have put the OP down.

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By *rumguy1980Man
over a year ago

stechford


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr"

Typically wrong dont judge me ive been swinging in my 20s and its not about instant sex actually its making friends chatting sex isnt everything

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Feel like I’ve opened a can of worms "

Don't be daft!. You have messaged us asking for advice so you are now being pro active, which is much better than your opening negative post on here.

You are already making progress which can only be a good thing

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

Typically wrong dont judge me ive been swinging in my 20s and its not about instant sex actually its making friends chatting sex isnt everything"

Correct

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By *rumguy1980Man
over a year ago

stechford


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

He hasn't said that and actually there is in man in your profile so by that statement you are taring him with the same brush! Let's encourage and give advice rather than bash him because he's new and a single man!

And we are giving him very good advice as we speak actually "

No that's not advice to hurl abuse

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree

It’s not you OP - just the topic in general.

It takes time to develop yourself on here, especially as a single guy as we out number everyone else by a country mile.

Don’t take anything personally and don’t expect women to throw themselves at you. Take it as a bit of fun that’s additional to the real world.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

He hasn't said that and actually there is in man in your profile so by that statement you are taring him with the same brush! Let's encourage and give advice rather than bash him because he's new and a single man!

And we are giving him very good advice as we speak actually

Whist putting him down. No need for it.

Excuse us? We haven't. If you could read our private messages you will see we are being veey kind and helpful actually.

I'm only concerned with what you have put publicly.

You and others have put the OP down. "

No..we have made him realise how he was originally coming across. You have to admit his opening post was rather negative and sounded like he was expecting to of had instant meets.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

He hasn't said that and actually there is in man in your profile so by that statement you are taring him with the same brush! Let's encourage and give advice rather than bash him because he's new and a single man!

And we are giving him very good advice as we speak actually

No that's not advice to hurl abuse"

please clarify where the abuse is

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"It’s not you OP - just the topic in general.

It takes time to develop yourself on here, especially as a single guy as we out number everyone else by a country mile.

Don’t take anything personally and don’t expect women to throw themselves at you. Take it as a bit of fun that’s additional to the real world.

"

Precisely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

He hasn't said that and actually there is in man in your profile so by that statement you are taring him with the same brush! Let's encourage and give advice rather than bash him because he's new and a single man!

And we are giving him very good advice as we speak actually

Whist putting him down. No need for it.

Excuse us? We haven't. If you could read our private messages you will see we are being veey kind and helpful actually.

I'm only concerned with what you have put publicly.

You and others have put the OP down.

No..we have made him realise how he was originally coming across. You have to admit his opening post was rather negative and sounded like he was expecting to of had instant meets."

You and others have not done that in a nice way.

Any back the OP now.

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By *rumguy1980Man
over a year ago

stechford


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

He hasn't said that and actually there is in man in your profile so by that statement you are taring him with the same brush! Let's encourage and give advice rather than bash him because he's new and a single man!

And we are giving him very good advice as we speak actually

Whist putting him down. No need for it.

Excuse us? We haven't. If you could read our private messages you will see we are being veey kind and helpful actually.

I'm only concerned with what you have put publicly.

You and others have put the OP down.

No..we have made him realise how he was originally coming across. You have to admit his opening post was rather negative and sounded like he was expecting to of had instant meets."

My opening post was saying about the fakes and how many people meet on here but you hurl abuse at me like im some fuckboi

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

I'm speaking to what appears to be a fake right now. Claims to be in a town 15 miles away but Fab says is on mob over 200 miles away. What fun...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm speaking to what appears to be a fake right now. Claims to be in a town 15 miles away but Fab says is on mob over 200 miles away. What fun... "

He could be.

The distance is from the postcode not his current location.

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

He hasn't said that and actually there is in man in your profile so by that statement you are taring him with the same brush! Let's encourage and give advice rather than bash him because he's new and a single man!

And we are giving him very good advice as we speak actually

Whist putting him down. No need for it.

Excuse us? We haven't. If you could read our private messages you will see we are being veey kind and helpful actually.

I'm only concerned with what you have put publicly.

You and others have put the OP down.

No..we have made him realise how he was originally coming across. You have to admit his opening post was rather negative and sounded like he was expecting to of had instant meets.

My opening post was saying about the fakes and how many people meet on here but you hurl abuse at me like im some fuckboi"

If you think profiles are fake then just report them - tbh I’ve come across maybe 6 or 7 in my time here, that wouldn’t even be .03% of those vive interacted with.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

He hasn't said that and actually there is in man in your profile so by that statement you are taring him with the same brush! Let's encourage and give advice rather than bash him because he's new and a single man!

And we are giving him very good advice as we speak actually

Whist putting him down. No need for it.

Excuse us? We haven't. If you could read our private messages you will see we are being veey kind and helpful actually.

I'm only concerned with what you have put publicly.

You and others have put the OP down.

No..we have made him realise how he was originally coming across. You have to admit his opening post was rather negative and sounded like he was expecting to of had instant meets.

My opening post was saying about the fakes and how many people meet on here but you hurl abuse at me like im some fuckboi"

Please re read this thread and explain where we have hurled abuse at you. Yes, we made a general comment about single guys expecting instant sex, which in our opinion is true, (based on the messages we receive), but to say we have hurled abuse is very wrong.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

He hasn't said that and actually there is in man in your profile so by that statement you are taring him with the same brush! Let's encourage and give advice rather than bash him because he's new and a single man!

And we are giving him very good advice as we speak actually

Whist putting him down. No need for it.

Excuse us? We haven't. If you could read our private messages you will see we are being veey kind and helpful actually.

I'm only concerned with what you have put publicly.

You and others have put the OP down.

No..we have made him realise how he was originally coming across. You have to admit his opening post was rather negative and sounded like he was expecting to of had instant meets.

My opening post was saying about the fakes and how many people meet on here but you hurl abuse at me like im some fuckboi

If you think profiles are fake then just report them - tbh I’ve come across maybe 6 or 7 in my time here, that wouldn’t even be .03% of those vive interacted with."

I think fake means pretending to be someone you are not. But some see not replying to messages as fake.

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By *rumguy1980Man
over a year ago

stechford


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

He hasn't said that and actually there is in man in your profile so by that statement you are taring him with the same brush! Let's encourage and give advice rather than bash him because he's new and a single man!

And we are giving him very good advice as we speak actually

Whist putting him down. No need for it.

Excuse us? We haven't. If you could read our private messages you will see we are being veey kind and helpful actually.

I'm only concerned with what you have put publicly.

You and others have put the OP down.

No..we have made him realise how he was originally coming across. You have to admit his opening post was rather negative and sounded like he was expecting to of had instant meets.

My opening post was saying about the fakes and how many people meet on here but you hurl abuse at me like im some fuckboi

If you think profiles are fake then just report them - tbh I’ve come across maybe 6 or 7 in my time here, that wouldn’t even be .03% of those vive interacted with."

i report you know fab either deletes them or blocks them from contacting u ive come across 10 this week

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

He hasn't said that and actually there is in man in your profile so by that statement you are taring him with the same brush! Let's encourage and give advice rather than bash him because he's new and a single man!

And we are giving him very good advice as we speak actually

Whist putting him down. No need for it.

Excuse us? We haven't. If you could read our private messages you will see we are being veey kind and helpful actually.

I'm only concerned with what you have put publicly.

You and others have put the OP down.

No..we have made him realise how he was originally coming across. You have to admit his opening post was rather negative and sounded like he was expecting to of had instant meets.

My opening post was saying about the fakes and how many people meet on here but you hurl abuse at me like im some fuckboi

If you think profiles are fake then just report them - tbh I’ve come across maybe 6 or 7 in my time here, that wouldn’t even be .03% of those vive interacted with.

I think fake means pretending to be someone you are not. But some see not replying to messages as fake. "

Ah ok - makes sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

He hasn't said that and actually there is in man in your profile so by that statement you are taring him with the same brush! Let's encourage and give advice rather than bash him because he's new and a single man!

And we are giving him very good advice as we speak actually

Whist putting him down. No need for it.

Excuse us? We haven't. If you could read our private messages you will see we are being veey kind and helpful actually.

I'm only concerned with what you have put publicly.

You and others have put the OP down.

No..we have made him realise how he was originally coming across. You have to admit his opening post was rather negative and sounded like he was expecting to of had instant meets.

My opening post was saying about the fakes and how many people meet on here but you hurl abuse at me like im some fuckboi

Please re read this thread and explain where we have hurled abuse at you. Yes, we made a general comment about single guys expecting instant sex, which in our opinion is true, (based on the messages we receive), but to say we have hurled abuse is very wrong."

You weren't abusive but you weren't nice either.

You didn't say single men, you said typical bloke so that suggests you mean most men even those in couples.

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By *rumguy1980Man
over a year ago

stechford


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

He hasn't said that and actually there is in man in your profile so by that statement you are taring him with the same brush! Let's encourage and give advice rather than bash him because he's new and a single man!

And we are giving him very good advice as we speak actually

Whist putting him down. No need for it.

Excuse us? We haven't. If you could read our private messages you will see we are being veey kind and helpful actually.

I'm only concerned with what you have put publicly.

You and others have put the OP down.

No..we have made him realise how he was originally coming across. You have to admit his opening post was rather negative and sounded like he was expecting to of had instant meets.

My opening post was saying about the fakes and how many people meet on here but you hurl abuse at me like im some fuckboi

If you think profiles are fake then just report them - tbh I’ve come across maybe 6 or 7 in my time here, that wouldn’t even be .03% of those vive interacted with.

I think fake means pretending to be someone you are not. But some see not replying to messages as fake. "

Fake as in fake pictures or premotes other sites or a man on a couples account acutally

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I'm speaking to what appears to be a fake right now. Claims to be in a town 15 miles away but Fab says is on mob over 200 miles away. What fun...

He could be.

The distance is from the postcode not his current location.

"

There's a bunch of other red flags. The "where they are now on mobile" thing has always been pretty accurate.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

He hasn't said that and actually there is in man in your profile so by that statement you are taring him with the same brush! Let's encourage and give advice rather than bash him because he's new and a single man!

And we are giving him very good advice as we speak actually

Whist putting him down. No need for it.

Excuse us? We haven't. If you could read our private messages you will see we are being veey kind and helpful actually.

I'm only concerned with what you have put publicly.

You and others have put the OP down.

No..we have made him realise how he was originally coming across. You have to admit his opening post was rather negative and sounded like he was expecting to of had instant meets.

My opening post was saying about the fakes and how many people meet on here but you hurl abuse at me like im some fuckboi

If you think profiles are fake then just report them - tbh I’ve come across maybe 6 or 7 in my time here, that wouldn’t even be .03% of those vive interacted with.

I think fake means pretending to be someone you are not. But some see not replying to messages as fake.

Fake as in fake pictures or premotes other sites or a man on a couples account acutally"

Yes I get that too. I don't come across that much but then I don't read many profiles.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm speaking to what appears to be a fake right now. Claims to be in a town 15 miles away but Fab says is on mob over 200 miles away. What fun...

He could be.

The distance is from the postcode not his current location.

There's a bunch of other red flags. The "where they are now on mobile" thing has always been pretty accurate. "

What do you mean?

There isn't a where are they now option.

Only distance from your postcode to there's and who's nearby.

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

He hasn't said that and actually there is in man in your profile so by that statement you are taring him with the same brush! Let's encourage and give advice rather than bash him because he's new and a single man!

And we are giving him very good advice as we speak actually

Whist putting him down. No need for it.

Excuse us? We haven't. If you could read our private messages you will see we are being veey kind and helpful actually.

I'm only concerned with what you have put publicly.

You and others have put the OP down.

No..we have made him realise how he was originally coming across. You have to admit his opening post was rather negative and sounded like he was expecting to of had instant meets.

My opening post was saying about the fakes and how many people meet on here but you hurl abuse at me like im some fuckboi

If you think profiles are fake then just report them - tbh I’ve come across maybe 6 or 7 in my time here, that wouldn’t even be .03% of those vive interacted with.

I think fake means pretending to be someone you are not. But some see not replying to messages as fake.

Fake as in fake pictures or premotes other sites or a man on a couples account acutally"

Oh.... I have a couples account - mmm I wonder what that could mean.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

He hasn't said that and actually there is in man in your profile so by that statement you are taring him with the same brush! Let's encourage and give advice rather than bash him because he's new and a single man!

And we are giving him very good advice as we speak actually

Whist putting him down. No need for it.

Excuse us? We haven't. If you could read our private messages you will see we are being veey kind and helpful actually.

I'm only concerned with what you have put publicly.

You and others have put the OP down.

No..we have made him realise how he was originally coming across. You have to admit his opening post was rather negative and sounded like he was expecting to of had instant meets.

My opening post was saying about the fakes and how many people meet on here but you hurl abuse at me like im some fuckboi

Please re read this thread and explain where we have hurled abuse at you. Yes, we made a general comment about single guys expecting instant sex, which in our opinion is true, (based on the messages we receive), but to say we have hurled abuse is very wrong.

You weren't abusive but you weren't nice either.

You didn't say single men, you said typical bloke so that suggests you mean most men even those in couples. "

Well if that is how you read it then that is fair enough. But considering the threasd is about a single guy, we assumed people would get our drift. We are simply voicing our opinions on our personal experience of interaction with single guys.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"I'm speaking to what appears to be a fake right now. Claims to be in a town 15 miles away but Fab says is on mob over 200 miles away. What fun...

He could be.

The distance is from the postcode not his current location.

There's a bunch of other red flags. The "where they are now on mobile" thing has always been pretty accurate.

What do you mean?

There isn't a where are they now option.

Only distance from your postcode to there's and who's nearby. "

Is it not also based on a person's phone location? We aren't sure how it works to be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

He hasn't said that and actually there is in man in your profile so by that statement you are taring him with the same brush! Let's encourage and give advice rather than bash him because he's new and a single man!

And we are giving him very good advice as we speak actually

Whist putting him down. No need for it.

Excuse us? We haven't. If you could read our private messages you will see we are being veey kind and helpful actually.

I'm only concerned with what you have put publicly.

You and others have put the OP down.

No..we have made him realise how he was originally coming across. You have to admit his opening post was rather negative and sounded like he was expecting to of had instant meets.

My opening post was saying about the fakes and how many people meet on here but you hurl abuse at me like im some fuckboi

Please re read this thread and explain where we have hurled abuse at you. Yes, we made a general comment about single guys expecting instant sex, which in our opinion is true, (based on the messages we receive), but to say we have hurled abuse is very wrong.

You weren't abusive but you weren't nice either.

You didn't say single men, you said typical bloke so that suggests you mean most men even those in couples.

Well if that is how you read it then that is fair enough. But considering the threasd is about a single guy, we assumed people would get our drift. We are simply voicing our opinions on our personal experience of interaction with single guys. "

It's not how I read it, you have also been called out by others.

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By *exy4youxxWoman
over a year ago

Pontefract


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

He hasn't said that and actually there is in man in your profile so by that statement you are taring him with the same brush! Let's encourage and give advice rather than bash him because he's new and a single man!

And we are giving him very good advice as we speak actually

Whist putting him down. No need for it.

Excuse us? We haven't. If you could read our private messages you will see we are being veey kind and helpful actually.

I'm only concerned with what you have put publicly.

You and others have put the OP down. "

Hope your not referring to me there

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By *rumguy1980Man
over a year ago

stechford


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

He hasn't said that and actually there is in man in your profile so by that statement you are taring him with the same brush! Let's encourage and give advice rather than bash him because he's new and a single man!

And we are giving him very good advice as we speak actually

Whist putting him down. No need for it.

Excuse us? We haven't. If you could read our private messages you will see we are being veey kind and helpful actually.

I'm only concerned with what you have put publicly.

You and others have put the OP down.

No..we have made him realise how he was originally coming across. You have to admit his opening post was rather negative and sounded like he was expecting to of had instant meets.

My opening post was saying about the fakes and how many people meet on here but you hurl abuse at me like im some fuckboi

Please re read this thread and explain where we have hurled abuse at you. Yes, we made a general comment about single guys expecting instant sex, which in our opinion is true, (based on the messages we receive), but to say we have hurled abuse is very wrong.

You weren't abusive but you weren't nice either.

You didn't say single men, you said typical bloke so that suggests you mean most men even those in couples.

Well if that is how you read it then that is fair enough. But considering the threasd is about a single guy, we assumed people would get our drift. We are simply voicing our opinions on our personal experience of interaction with single guys. "

Taring a guy you dont know the the typical fuckboi brush basically im a gentleman actually i like a laugh jokes im a passionate guy not a typical guy who fucks everything that walks maybe dont jump to conclusions when someone trys to make a comment

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK


"I'm speaking to what appears to be a fake right now. Claims to be in a town 15 miles away but Fab says is on mob over 200 miles away. What fun...

He could be.

The distance is from the postcode not his current location.

There's a bunch of other red flags. The "where they are now on mobile" thing has always been pretty accurate. "

If you are referring to the whose nearby function that only works if they have it switched on.

Otherwise it just takes the postcode from their account and uses that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not a fake, I'm not looking for sex, I'm not being rushed or rushing anyone, I'm not a typical single male. I'm an individual name of Johnny - hello x

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

This is jolly..!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

He hasn't said that and actually there is in man in your profile so by that statement you are taring him with the same brush! Let's encourage and give advice rather than bash him because he's new and a single man!

And we are giving him very good advice as we speak actually

Whist putting him down. No need for it.

Excuse us? We haven't. If you could read our private messages you will see we are being veey kind and helpful actually.

I'm only concerned with what you have put publicly.

You and others have put the OP down.

No..we have made him realise how he was originally coming across. You have to admit his opening post was rather negative and sounded like he was expecting to of had instant meets.

My opening post was saying about the fakes and how many people meet on here but you hurl abuse at me like im some fuckboi

Please re read this thread and explain where we have hurled abuse at you. Yes, we made a general comment about single guys expecting instant sex, which in our opinion is true, (based on the messages we receive), but to say we have hurled abuse is very wrong.

You weren't abusive but you weren't nice either.

You didn't say single men, you said typical bloke so that suggests you mean most men even those in couples.

Well if that is how you read it then that is fair enough. But considering the threasd is about a single guy, we assumed people would get our drift. We are simply voicing our opinions on our personal experience of interaction with single guys.

It's not how I read it, you have also been called out by others.

"

Like we said, it's peoples different opinions.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm speaking to what appears to be a fake right now. Claims to be in a town 15 miles away but Fab says is on mob over 200 miles away. What fun...

He could be.

The distance is from the postcode not his current location.

There's a bunch of other red flags. The "where they are now on mobile" thing has always been pretty accurate.

What do you mean?

There isn't a where are they now option.

Only distance from your postcode to there's and who's nearby.

Is it not also based on a person's phone location? We aren't sure how it works to be honest."

No.

So for example someone in East London will look at my profile and it will say in 10 miles away but actually right now im in Southampton.

It's not based on actual location. The how's near will tell you how is close by but then if you look at there profile it may say 10o miles away because they are away from home. Does that make sense.

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By *rumguy1980Man
over a year ago

stechford


"I'm not a fake, I'm not looking for sex, I'm not being rushed or rushing anyone, I'm not a typical single male. I'm an individual name of Johnny - hello x"

Nice to meet another individual like myself

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a fake, I'm not looking for sex, I'm not being rushed or rushing anyone, I'm not a typical single male. I'm an individual name of Johnny - hello x"

Well said you.

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By *winkleFairyCouple
over a year ago

UK


"Is this site legit or what? Dead end after dead end!!"

Many people mistake what this site is... it’s not a hook up site. It’s a Swingers social networking site.

If you are genuinely interested in being a part of the lifestyle then you have to give it time. Get yourself to a club or a social.

Otherwise, good looking chaps in their 30’s tend to do much better on other well known dating apps if you get my drift!

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

He hasn't said that and actually there is in man in your profile so by that statement you are taring him with the same brush! Let's encourage and give advice rather than bash him because he's new and a single man!

And we are giving him very good advice as we speak actually

Whist putting him down. No need for it.

Excuse us? We haven't. If you could read our private messages you will see we are being veey kind and helpful actually.

I'm only concerned with what you have put publicly.

You and others have put the OP down.

No..we have made him realise how he was originally coming across. You have to admit his opening post was rather negative and sounded like he was expecting to of had instant meets.

My opening post was saying about the fakes and how many people meet on here but you hurl abuse at me like im some fuckboi

Please re read this thread and explain where we have hurled abuse at you. Yes, we made a general comment about single guys expecting instant sex, which in our opinion is true, (based on the messages we receive), but to say we have hurled abuse is very wrong.

You weren't abusive but you weren't nice either.

You didn't say single men, you said typical bloke so that suggests you mean most men even those in couples.

Well if that is how you read it then that is fair enough. But considering the threasd is about a single guy, we assumed people would get our drift. We are simply voicing our opinions on our personal experience of interaction with single guys.

Taring a guy you dont know the the typical fuckboi brush basically im a gentleman actually i like a laugh jokes im a passionate guy not a typical guy who fucks everything that walks maybe dont jump to conclusions when someone trys to make a comment"

We haven't jumped to any conclusions. As we have already said, we base our comments upon our personal experience of single guys on this site.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This sites 80% fakes/time wasters 10% use like facebook so about 10% or less actually meet up.......who thinks my maths spot on?

Think you're wrong. There are plenty of genuine swingers on here.

I second that maybe if you men made more of an effort attending organised socials and clubs like its always suggested you will find where the real swingers are

Typical bloke, not intersted in swinging as a lifestyle, just wants instant sex. Gggggrrrr

He hasn't said that and actually there is in man in your profile so by that statement you are taring him with the same brush! Let's encourage and give advice rather than bash him because he's new and a single man!

And we are giving him very good advice as we speak actually

Whist putting him down. No need for it.

Excuse us? We haven't. If you could read our private messages you will see we are being veey kind and helpful actually.

I'm only concerned with what you have put publicly.

You and others have put the OP down.

Hope your not referring to me there "

Why would you think I would be!

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By *nnocentimesMan
over a year ago

over there by that tree


"I'm not a fake, I'm not looking for sex, I'm not being rushed or rushing anyone, I'm not a typical single male. I'm an individual name of Johnny - hello x"

Nice boots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm not a fake, I'm not looking for sex, I'm not being rushed or rushing anyone, I'm not a typical single male. I'm an individual name of Johnny - hello x

Nice boots "

I need to sleep, I read that as boobs.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West


"I'm speaking to what appears to be a fake right now. Claims to be in a town 15 miles away but Fab says is on mob over 200 miles away. What fun...

He could be.

The distance is from the postcode not his current location.

There's a bunch of other red flags. The "where they are now on mobile" thing has always been pretty accurate.

What do you mean?

There isn't a where are they now option.

Only distance from your postcode to there's and who's nearby. "

I mean this on the profile:

130+ miles away

(170+ driving)

Right now:

They are on mobile, 100+ miles away

This is better with who's near turned on

There are plenty of profiles where the "right now" location is miles away from the "usual" location, obviously because they've travelled away from the home postcode. In example I was referring to, the "right now on mobile" location was over 200 miles. Not 15 as it would be if the person was where they say. Having conversed with plenty of people who are staying away or are abroad/on hols, I'm happy this little stat is pretty accurate when turned on.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

Two different threads have merged into one here thats where the confusion id also noone has been abusec

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm speaking to what appears to be a fake right now. Claims to be in a town 15 miles away but Fab says is on mob over 200 miles away. What fun...

He could be.

The distance is from the postcode not his current location.

There's a bunch of other red flags. The "where they are now on mobile" thing has always been pretty accurate.

What do you mean?

There isn't a where are they now option.

Only distance from your postcode to there's and who's nearby.

I mean this on the profile:

130+ miles away

(170+ driving)

Right now:

They are on mobile, 100+ miles away

This is better with who's near turned on

There are plenty of profiles where the "right now" location is miles away from the "usual" location, obviously because they've travelled away from the home postcode. In example I was referring to, the "right now on mobile" location was over 200 miles. Not 15 as it would be if the person was where they say. Having conversed with plenty of people who are staying away or are abroad/on hols, I'm happy this little stat is pretty accurate when turned on. "

Ok but it's not based on actual location just the postcode entered.

The who's near is totally different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm speaking to what appears to be a fake right now. Claims to be in a town 15 miles away but Fab says is on mob over 200 miles away. What fun...

He could be.

The distance is from the postcode not his current location.

There's a bunch of other red flags. The "where they are now on mobile" thing has always been pretty accurate.

What do you mean?

There isn't a where are they now option.

Only distance from your postcode to there's and who's nearby.

I mean this on the profile:

130+ miles away

(170+ driving)

Right now:

They are on mobile, 100+ miles away

This is better with who's near turned on

There are plenty of profiles where the "right now" location is miles away from the "usual" location, obviously because they've travelled away from the home postcode. In example I was referring to, the "right now on mobile" location was over 200 miles. Not 15 as it would be if the person was where they say. Having conversed with plenty of people who are staying away or are abroad/on hols, I'm happy this little stat is pretty accurate when turned on.

Ok but it's not based on actual location just the postcode entered.

The who's near is totally different. "

Oh and it only works if they have there location turned on.

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By *inky_couple2020Couple
over a year ago

North West

The person ceased to message when I queried location. I'm happy this was a non genuine profile, recently created and with a bunch of other questionable features.

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Two different threads have merged into one here thats where the confusion id also noone has been abusec"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

X Can we all have a big kiss and a cuddle X

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"X Can we all have a big kiss and a cuddle X"

Always in for a cuddle

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

Is it safe to come back and say hello

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By *rumguy1980Man
over a year ago

stechford


"Is it safe to come back and say hello "

Depends lol joking i think its safe now

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By *orthern StarsCouple
over a year ago

Durham


"Is it safe to come back and say hello "

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

How's the weather?

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By *rumguy1980Man
over a year ago

stechford

No air tumble s must be high noon lol

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


" "

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