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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

You're going on a date on a Monday evening, for argument sake, it starts at 7.

Men, what's your ideas?

Women, what would you fancy doing?

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By *uicy jonesMan
over a year ago

near a big hill in s/ shropshire NOT in

Nice little Italian in Shrewsbury , but it’s probably flooded out atm , so plan two , cook her a meal at mine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Comedy club or a gig

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Like a proper date or a want to meet to see if we wanna fuck date?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Like a proper date or a want to meet to see if we wanna fuck date? "

Proper date

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if it's a first date or a follow-up date. First date I would say drinks with somewhere with entertainment.

Bowling can be a fun first date as you get to see the other person's personality, no awkward silences either as you have distraction. Add drinks to that so it's tipsy bowling and it becomes very fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on who she is, something exiting like laser quest, trampoline park or go karting.

Or nice meal and drinks, theatre or cinema.

First date is about finding out about each ofher and the levels of fun.

Or you could just ask her.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Smart casual slightly quirky place somewhere thats alittle different from the normal, you can have a good natter, eat, wine & laugh. Find afew quirky bars for after

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have you met before is this a "met online" first date?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Couple of cocktails. Nice meal (preferably Italian) nice bar with some live music.

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By *enn68Man
over a year ago

Shrewsbury

Make a picnic and take her up the hill !!

Nearby to watch the lights of the night talk about Hope's dreams and failures

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Have you met before is this a "met online" first date? "

Friend of a friend. Only spoke on Facebook before

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Old school games at the arcade here. They even have a real axe throwing lane and tough man games.

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester


"Depends if it's a first date or a follow-up date. First date I would say drinks with somewhere with entertainment.

Bowling can be a fun first date as you get to see the other person's personality, no awkward silences either as you have distraction. Add drinks to that so it's tipsy bowling and it becomes very fun "

Yes!!! you’d be hilarious at bowling Pof. Proper ice breaker

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside


"Like a proper date or a want to meet to see if we wanna fuck date?

Proper date"

What's one of those then

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

Personally, I would say bowling! With drinks (depending) but a time to be natural with each other and have a laugh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're going on a date on a Monday evening, for argument sake, it starts at 7.

Men, what's your ideas?

Women, what would you fancy doing?"

Ask what they havent done before, find something we both havent done and do that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A night of board games. Cluedo and Connect Four.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

If its a proper date id assume we would of been getting to know each other befored hand. i expect the guy to have been listening to what id been chatting about so he would get to know my likes and plan a first meet to be something id enjoy. I would not want to go for a meal or cinema id be wanting someone with a bit more imagination.

I played this game with one of my friends and asked him where he would take me and he came up with going to stonehenge which i thought was great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A night of board games. Cluedo and Connect Four."

I’d actually love that!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A night of board games. Cluedo and Connect Four.

I’d actually love that! "

I was just about to say the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"If its a proper date id assume we would of been getting to know each other befored hand. i expect the guy to have been listening to what id been chatting about so he would get to know my likes and plan a first meet to be something id enjoy. I would not want to go for a meal or cinema id be wanting someone with a bit more imagination.

I played this game with one of my friends and asked him where he would take me and he came up with going to stonehenge which i thought was great"

I like this idea if you been chatting a while would know what they into. Love the idea of going bowling, if during the day a trip to the zoo either

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Theme park!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My friend always does crazy golf as a 1st date. I would never do dinner on a first date so I can make an easy escape.

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By *reya73Woman
over a year ago

Whitley Bay

My sofa for wine, tunes and chats. Cook some food together.

Or

A cosy quirky bar/cafe type place with comfy sitty area and good vibes. Then a look at the sea/river if you've got one nearby.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It does definitely depend on the girl, you're better coming up with an idea together. I wouldn't fancy being surprised with some of these suggestions, although I know some of my friends would love them! It's a gamble that could go either way trying something a bit different.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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The idea of an arcade sounds fun, air hockey, pool, a cocktail or two, not bowling- I don't bowl till date number 20.

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By *ablo minibar123Woman
over a year ago

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A walk by the riverside with fish and chips

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

Day at the seaside, Dolphin watching boat trip, hire a beach hut for the day as a base, fish n chips, crabbing, knickerbocker glorys, arcades, back to the hut for prosecco and a takeaway Indian or Chinese on the beachhut porch while watching the sun sink into the sea under a big blanket

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By *hetalkingstoveMan
over a year ago

London

Perhaps I'm a bit dull, but on a first date I just want to be able to talk, usually over a drink, and figure out if there's an attraction and we're compatible. All the more adventurous stuff can wait for the next dates.

Can't think of much worse than being stuck on a big outing with someone it turns out you can't stand.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral


"A night of board games. Cluedo and Connect Four."

There's a board game cafe in Liverpool that is great. Not done it as a first date but with someone I've known a little while it's been great!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Perhaps I'm a bit dull, but on a first date I just want to be able to talk, usually over a drink, and figure out if there's an attraction and we're compatible. All the more adventurous stuff can wait for the next dates.

Can't think of much worse than being stuck on a big outing with someone it turns out you can't stand. "

Good point.

Maybe a theme park once I have decided I want to fuck them, then!

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I wouldn’t go out for a meal on a first date.

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

Take her on a safari trip, and by that I mean going out spotting all the different species of majestic animal print fleeces out in the wild.

In all seriousness though I'd say it depends on how much you've got to know about her to give you a feel for what she might enjoy? Drinks is a safe bet, maybe a nice bar where they have an open mic night on or something?

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By *opite_xWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Axe throwing then a great steak restaurant!

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By *opite_xWoman
over a year ago

Birmingham

Or pets at home (I like looking at the guinea pigs)

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

Quiet coffee

Meal is far too pressure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

eat, drink, laugh. Nothing too formal, a nice bar that has a causal vibe

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over a year ago

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By *irth.Minge.FireMan
over a year ago

Seen in far off places

A few drinks over nice conversation in a bar somewhere and then three hours of sex until the early hours of the morning maybe?...

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By *ensualpleasures69Man
over a year ago

leeds

Some guys have no idea!!!, c’mon.

So I was talking to a girl on tinder, without making it obvious I found out what music she liked, what wine she liked and what her ideal day was, a day in the country was her reply.

I went up into the hills the night before our “date”, hid a bottle of her favourite wine along with two wine glasses, nibbles and such.

Went on our first date the next day and walked in the country, guess what???, I just stumbled upon her favourite wine with 2 sealed glasses, turned my portable mini music player on and Voila!!! her favourite music played.....I got well rewarded!!!! Result.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A few drinks over nice conversation in a bar somewhere and then three hours of sex until the early hours of the morning maybe?..."
Three hours, is that all ? Lightweight

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rollerskating ... Proper romantic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some guys have no idea!!!, c’mon.

So I was talking to a girl on tinder, without making it obvious I found out what music she liked, what wine she liked and what her ideal day was, a day in the country was her reply.

I went up into the hills the night before our “date”, hid a bottle of her favourite wine along with two wine glasses, nibbles and such.

Went on our first date the next day and walked in the country, guess what???, I just stumbled upon her favourite wine with 2 sealed glasses, turned my portable mini music player on and Voila!!! her favourite music played.....I got well rewarded!!!! Result. "

Similar to myself mate. I was chatting to a girl on Tinder and found out her fav tune, drink and place.

Went on our first date and guess what? I had a great time fingering her in Lidl's while she drank Vimto and listened to Bruno Mars.

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By *abasaurus RexMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

Just grab a drink someone decent if you’ve never met her face to face before (internet dating).

Go somewhere that has scope for extending into more drinks or dinner though. Check out some venues in case it goes well.

A quick drink first is always great because either of you can bail if you’re not into it. If you make a big song and a dance it’s proper awkward if you decide you’re not into them. The second date is the real first date with app dating imo.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Great choices

Comedy - the laughs going

Gig - superb buzz and pseudo intimacy

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By *ensualbicockMan
over a year ago

liverpool wavertree picton clock

Bingo

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

Where ever he takes me

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london


"Where ever he takes me"

A light meal, wine bar, then a dungeon....

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch


"You're going on a date on a Monday evening, for argument sake, it starts at 7.

Men, what's your ideas?

Women, what would you fancy doing?"

Roller disco

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some guys have no idea!!!, c’mon.

So I was talking to a girl on tinder, without making it obvious I found out what music she liked, what wine she liked and what her ideal day was, a day in the country was her reply.

I went up into the hills the night before our “date”, hid a bottle of her favourite wine along with two wine glasses, nibbles and such.

Went on our first date the next day and walked in the country, guess what???, I just stumbled upon her favourite wine with 2 sealed glasses, turned my portable mini music player on and Voila!!! her favourite music played.....I got well rewarded!!!! Result.

Similar to myself mate. I was chatting to a girl on Tinder and found out her fav tune, drink and place.

Went on our first date and guess what? I had a great time fingering her in Lidl's while she drank Vimto and listened to Bruno Mars."

This killed me! I’m dead!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Some guys have no idea!!!, c’mon.

So I was talking to a girl on tinder, without making it obvious I found out what music she liked, what wine she liked and what her ideal day was, a day in the country was her reply.

I went up into the hills the night before our “date”, hid a bottle of her favourite wine along with two wine glasses, nibbles and such.

Went on our first date the next day and walked in the country, guess what???, I just stumbled upon her favourite wine with 2 sealed glasses, turned my portable mini music player on and Voila!!! her favourite music played.....I got well rewarded!!!! Result.

Similar to myself mate. I was chatting to a girl on Tinder and found out her fav tune, drink and place.

Went on our first date and guess what? I had a great time fingering her in Lidl's while she drank Vimto and listened to Bruno Mars."

She's a keeper.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You're going on a date on a Monday evening, for argument sake, it starts at 7.

Men, what's your ideas?

Women, what would you fancy doing?"

Ice skating followed by a nice hot chocolate from the vending machine in A&E

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bag of chips can of cider and a fuck at the bins back of asda

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales


"It does definitely depend on the girl, you're better coming up with an idea together. I wouldn't fancy being surprised with some of these suggestions, although I know some of my friends would love them! It's a gamble that could go either way trying something a bit different."

That’s why I’d always go somewhere where range lady was more comfortable on the first date

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By *eneral HysteriaMan
over a year ago

Newcastle

Take her up the back alley and offer her a Percy Pig.

Irresistible

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wellies on and go puddle jumping.

Make memories..

Seriously.

Id suggest...bowling first..then simple plain meal nowt fancy .. dont want the food to be more yummy then yourself.

2 drink rule...

And separate ways after the kiss.

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By *aughtyLondonGuyMan
over a year ago

london


"Wellies on and go puddle jumping.

Make memories..

Seriously.

Id suggest...bowling first..then simple plain meal nowt fancy .. dont want the food to be more yummy then yourself.

2 drink rule...

And separate ways after the kiss.

"

What type of kiss on the first date?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bowling!

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By *ecadent_DevonMan
over a year ago

Okehampton

Redruth Roller Disco obvs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Redruth Roller Disco obvs"

Love a bit of roller disco

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By *ig1gaz1Man
over a year ago

bradford


"The idea of an arcade sounds fun, air hockey, pool"

I own a 5ft air hockey table and had loads of fun playing on it.

The ladys are really competitive playing it.

Thanks for the reminder gonna unpack it and have a few games on it again.

crazy golf sounds a little bit of fun.

theres ice skating.

But id let her choose what the date event would be.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Monday night date? Would love to go to a shooting range, get a better score than he does as winner gets to choose what happens next.

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By *ranimallxl5Man
over a year ago

Winchester

Late weekday Ikea

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By *rSinCityMan
over a year ago

London

So many terrible ideas here. No bowling, no games, no theme parks and especially no food ( unless you know what the girl wants). There are a lot of girls who would not allow to be seen eating on first date with someone they don't know.

Go for a coffee. Either to sit down somewhere or to a take away with a walk somewhere nice. This way you can focus on each other only and not on distractions. Of course you need to know how to hold a conversation and no awkward silence.

it's simple and if you don't like each other, you can end the date quite quickly.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many terrible ideas here. No bowling, no games, no theme parks and especially no food ( unless you know what the girl wants). There are a lot of girls who would not allow to be seen eating on first date with someone they don't know.

Agreed

Go for a coffee. Either to sit down somewhere or to a take away with a walk somewhere nice. This way you can focus on each other only and not on distractions. Of course you need to know how to hold a conversation and no awkward silence.

it's simple and if you don't like each other, you can end the date quite quickly."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Depends if it's a first date or a follow-up date. First date I would say drinks with somewhere with entertainment.

Bowling can be a fun first date as you get to see the other person's personality, no awkward silences either as you have distraction. Add drinks to that so it's tipsy bowling and it becomes very fun "

A great go-to date idea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Zip wiring or trying paddle boarding

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

Can it change to later in the week PoF? Mines already planned ... starting with dinner, won’t be at the table long I’m guessing!!

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