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"Yes " ... for now. But who knows what's round the corner. And what I'm attracted to changes as I move through life. What I have is pretty good right now. X | |||
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"Have you OP? " Ohhhh yeaaaaaaah... have you OP? | |||
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"Yes ... for now. But who knows what's round the corner. And what I'm attracted to changes as I move through life. What I have is pretty good right now. X " Definitely. I find myself happy with various bits of satisfying in different areas. Attempting to optimise is a trap, I think. | |||
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"I think the idea is overrated. Oh it definitely isn’t " Agree to disagree | |||
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"I think the idea is overrated. Oh it definitely isn’t Agree to disagree " I'll agree to disagree with the previous comment. | |||
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"Have you found him / her? Someone who matches your sex drive and enjoyment or pushes it to new heights? That person or people who make you instantly moist or hard just recalling what you've done before? Discuss." Yes. Mrs | |||
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"I think the idea is overrated. Oh it definitely isn’t Agree to disagree I'll agree to disagree with the previous comment." To each their own. Giving up on the notion has made me a lot happier. | |||
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"Yes but it comes in the form of a group of men. I am multi facited and dont believe one man could fulfil all my needs but between them they all fulfil a part of me. Its perfect" Now this, this I can go for. | |||
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"I think the idea is overrated. Oh it definitely isn’t Agree to disagree I'll agree to disagree with the previous comment. To each their own. Giving up on the notion has made me a lot happier." Good for you | |||
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"I think the idea is overrated. Oh it definitely isn’t Agree to disagree " Of course. We usually do | |||
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"In answer to your question, yes I have" I’m flattered, thank you | |||
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"I think the idea is overrated. Oh it definitely isn’t Agree to disagree Of course. We usually do " | |||
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"Absolutely. We spent a year working each other out and it was magical " | |||
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"In answer to your question, yes I have I’m flattered, thank you " Only in my dreams | |||
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"Yes ... for now. But who knows what's round the corner. And what I'm attracted to changes as I move through life. What I have is pretty good right now. X Definitely. I find myself happy with various bits of satisfying in different areas. Attempting to optimise is a trap, I think." Yes..every connection I have is unique and brings a different aspect of me and requires something different. It's not linear or definitive. I'm constantly in awe of what is possible. Ultimately, I'm my own fucking perfect sexual match..I just happen to collide with other awesome sexual beings every now and then for a starburst of pleasure and adventure. Woo hoo! | |||
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"No. because I'm ever evolving sexually and I've not met the one man who wants to try and do all the stuff that I want to, my relationships cover a lot of bases shared between many but I have new stuff to try with different people " Yes. I'm different things with different people, and I evolve. It's a wonderful thing. Idealising any one thing means I neglect parts of myself, plus risk ignoring other things I shouldn't. | |||
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"Yes ... for now. But who knows what's round the corner. And what I'm attracted to changes as I move through life. What I have is pretty good right now. X Definitely. I find myself happy with various bits of satisfying in different areas. Attempting to optimise is a trap, I think. Yes..every connection I have is unique and brings a different aspect of me and requires something different. It's not linear or definitive. I'm constantly in awe of what is possible. Ultimately, I'm my own fucking perfect sexual match..I just happen to collide with other awesome sexual beings every now and then for a starburst of pleasure and adventure. Woo hoo! " Oh god, I love this. Food for thought. | |||
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"I’m not sure " Elaborate | |||
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"Yes. I'm different things with different people, and I evolve. It's a wonderful thing. Idealising any one thing means I neglect parts of myself, plus risk ignoring other things I shouldn't." I don't see it as idealising anything. It took me completely by surprise. Perhaps it's just a case of the right person, at the right time, in the right circumstances - things might have been very different had it been at a different point in my life. | |||
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"Yes. I'm different things with different people, and I evolve. It's a wonderful thing. Idealising any one thing means I neglect parts of myself, plus risk ignoring other things I shouldn't. I don't see it as idealising anything. It took me completely by surprise. Perhaps it's just a case of the right person, at the right time, in the right circumstances - things might have been very different had it been at a different point in my life. " I get that. I could be wrong. I suspect for me it was the wrong person at the wrong time, in the wrong circumstances, playing out in ways that harmed me. I'm not putting up with that shit for an ideal, and in the aftermath find it best to destroy the ideal. | |||
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"Not moist though .. that’s a horrid word " Really?.. you've got to be kidding!!.. all the nicest things in life are moist. Surely you are too when you feel nicest. | |||
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"Not yet I'm afraid - a part of me remains hopefull though, in spite of current trends. Meanwhile... Not moist though .. that’s a horrid word Really?.. you've got to be kidding!!.. all the nicest things in life are moist. Surely you are too when you feel nicest. " Makes me squirm that word!! | |||
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"I’m not sure I thought I was perfect! You are FAF " Hell yes! Can I bring a friend | |||
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"I’m not sure I thought I was perfect! You are FAF Hell yes! Can I bring a friend " Can I come? | |||
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"I’m not sure I thought I was perfect! You are FAF Hell yes! Can I bring a friend " At least check I’m available first ... so presumptuous | |||
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"I've found a couple. Is that cheating?" I'll have to consult the rulebook | |||
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"It is unlikely I’d ever find a way of satisfying all my needs in one person. I have had extremely satisfying relationships and encounters with people where the mutual chemistry was excellent, but it is unlikely any of them could have been the perfect match for all of those needs over time, and to think I could be that for someone else is hubris. For one I’m bisexual so by its very nature that means for me, one person couldn’t be the perfect match Secondly my sexuality has developed and expanded over time as I became more confident as a sexual being. To expect another to develop and expand in a synchronised way with me would have been foolhardy and unreasonable. I think different needs can be met at different times by different people. Imperfect maybe but I think realistic." Well said. I also think I'm not really wired for one person. I tried earlier in my life, it made me fucking miserable, I'm done with it. I'm some sort of poly promiscuous something or other. It also helps me embrace people as flawed rather than putting them on pedestals. | |||
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"Have you found him / her? Someone who matches your sex drive and enjoyment or pushes it to new heights? That person or people who make you instantly moist or hard just recalling what you've done before? Discuss." I (Luke) have found three in my life. Fortunately I am now living with one of them. | |||
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"It is unlikely I’d ever find a way of satisfying all my needs in one person. I have had extremely satisfying relationships and encounters with people where the mutual chemistry was excellent, but it is unlikely any of them could have been the perfect match for all of those needs over time, and to think I could be that for someone else is hubris. For one I’m bisexual so by its very nature that means for me, one person couldn’t be the perfect match Secondly my sexuality has developed and expanded over time as I became more confident as a sexual being. To expect another to develop and expand in a synchronised way with me would have been foolhardy and unreasonable. I think different needs can be met at different times by different people. Imperfect maybe but I think realistic. Well said. I also think I'm not really wired for one person. I tried earlier in my life, it made me fucking miserable, I'm done with it. I'm some sort of poly promiscuous something or other. It also helps me embrace people as flawed rather than putting them on pedestals." I relate to this. I also relish the differences and individuality in the different people I meet and often enjoy different things with different people. | |||
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"I’m not sure I thought I was perfect! You are FAF Hell yes! Can I bring a friend Can I come? " Again? Haha of course!!! | |||
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"It is unlikely I’d ever find a way of satisfying all my needs in one person. I have had extremely satisfying relationships and encounters with people where the mutual chemistry was excellent, but it is unlikely any of them could have been the perfect match for all of those needs over time, and to think I could be that for someone else is hubris. For one I’m bisexual so by its very nature that means for me, one person couldn’t be the perfect match Secondly my sexuality has developed and expanded over time as I became more confident as a sexual being. To expect another to develop and expand in a synchronised way with me would have been foolhardy and unreasonable. I think different needs can be met at different times by different people. Imperfect maybe but I think realistic. Well said. I also think I'm not really wired for one person. I tried earlier in my life, it made me fucking miserable, I'm done with it. I'm some sort of poly promiscuous something or other. It also helps me embrace people as flawed rather than putting them on pedestals." Yes but was that not the person that made you miserable? | |||
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"It is unlikely I’d ever find a way of satisfying all my needs in one person. I have had extremely satisfying relationships and encounters with people where the mutual chemistry was excellent, but it is unlikely any of them could have been the perfect match for all of those needs over time, and to think I could be that for someone else is hubris. For one I’m bisexual so by its very nature that means for me, one person couldn’t be the perfect match Secondly my sexuality has developed and expanded over time as I became more confident as a sexual being. To expect another to develop and expand in a synchronised way with me would have been foolhardy and unreasonable. I think different needs can be met at different times by different people. Imperfect maybe but I think realistic. Well said. I also think I'm not really wired for one person. I tried earlier in my life, it made me fucking miserable, I'm done with it. I'm some sort of poly promiscuous something or other. It also helps me embrace people as flawed rather than putting them on pedestals. Yes but was that not the person that made you miserable? " I don't think so. Obviously you're getting the heavily abridged version of a lot of processing. | |||
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"Have you found him / her? Someone who matches your sex drive and enjoyment or pushes it to new heights? That person or people who make you instantly moist or hard just recalling what you've done before? Discuss." Yes thats why I’m marrying him Met on here Sex is off the chart And he’s a kinky bugger that introduced me to mfm haha | |||
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"Have you found him / her? Someone who matches your sex drive and enjoyment or pushes it to new heights? That person or people who make you instantly moist or hard just recalling what you've done before? Discuss. Yes thats why I’m marrying him Met on here Sex is off the chart And he’s a kinky bugger that introduced me to mfm haha " Congratulations! A fab happy ending | |||
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"It is unlikely I’d ever find a way of satisfying all my needs in one person. I have had extremely satisfying relationships and encounters with people where the mutual chemistry was excellent, but it is unlikely any of them could have been the perfect match for all of those needs over time, and to think I could be that for someone else is hubris. For one I’m bisexual so by its very nature that means for me, one person couldn’t be the perfect match Secondly my sexuality has developed and expanded over time as I became more confident as a sexual being. To expect another to develop and expand in a synchronised way with me would have been foolhardy and unreasonable. I think different needs can be met at different times by different people. Imperfect maybe but I think realistic. Well said. I also think I'm not really wired for one person. I tried earlier in my life, it made me fucking miserable, I'm done with it. I'm some sort of poly promiscuous something or other. It also helps me embrace people as flawed rather than putting them on pedestals. I relate to this. I also relish the differences and individuality in the different people I meet and often enjoy different things with different people." | |||
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"So far just the one that ticked every box and matched me in the bedroom. We used to meet regularly but not anymore. Although we did have 1 night of utter filth last summer it's one of those things that is best left to very occasionally for both of our sakes " So long as you can experience it on occasion | |||
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"I’m not sure I thought I was perfect! You are FAF Hell yes! Can I bring a friend Can I come? Again? Haha of course!!! " On my way | |||
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"Have you found him / her? Someone who matches your sex drive and enjoyment or pushes it to new heights? That person or people who make you instantly moist or hard just recalling what you've done before? Discuss." No.. I love to meet him one day though | |||
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"I’m not sure I thought I was perfect! You are FAF Hell yes! Can I bring a friend " How about your twin | |||
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"I’m not sure I thought I was perfect! You are FAF Hell yes! Can I bring a friend How about your twin " This just gets better and better! | |||
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"We organising another no boys allowed orgy? " Thats just childish | |||
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"We organising another no boys allowed orgy? Thats just childish " Tough. Neener neener | |||
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"I’m not sure I thought I was perfect! You are FAF Hell yes! Can I bring a friend How about your twin This just gets better and better! " Should know I’d be in | |||
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"We organising another no boys allowed orgy? Thats just childish Tough. Neener neener " I’m not your friend and you can’t suck my lollipop | |||
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"We organising another no boys allowed orgy? Thats just childish Tough. Neener neener I’m not your friend and you can’t suck my lollipop " | |||
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"Have you found him / her? Someone who matches your sex drive and enjoyment or pushes it to new heights? That person or people who make you instantly moist or hard just recalling what you've done before? Discuss." I’ve been lucky enough to meet quite a few who match that description. I’m a ver lucky lady! How about you op? Have you found quite a few? Or just the one? | |||
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"I’m not sure I thought I was perfect! You are FAF Hell yes! Can I bring a friend How about your twin This just gets better and better! Should know I’d be in " You’d never miss out on anything! | |||
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"Yes, his name is D and he's perfect for me, in every way. Jo.Xx " Awww | |||
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"Have you found him / her? Someone who matches your sex drive and enjoyment or pushes it to new heights? That person or people who make you instantly moist or hard just recalling what you've done before? Discuss." I thought I had but it was just a lie. And you Chill? Have you? | |||
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"Have you found him / her? Someone who matches your sex drive and enjoyment or pushes it to new heights? That person or people who make you instantly moist or hard just recalling what you've done before? Discuss." No. I genuinely believe they don't exist. | |||
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"Have you found him / her? Someone who matches your sex drive and enjoyment or pushes it to new heights? That person or people who make you instantly moist or hard just recalling what you've done before? Discuss." Ohhhhhh YES! | |||
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"Yes, his name is D and he's perfect for me, in every way. Jo.Xx " | |||
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"Once, once upon a time. He got scared of the intensity of the weekend. There was naked chess and everything. " Naked chess is awesome! So is naked Uno | |||
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"Once, once upon a time. He got scared of the intensity of the weekend. There was naked chess and everything. Naked chess is awesome! So is naked Uno " Don't think I've ever played Uno, never mind naked Uno. Fancy teaching me? | |||
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"Once, once upon a time. He got scared of the intensity of the weekend. There was naked chess and everything. Naked chess is awesome! So is naked Uno Don't think I've ever played Uno, never mind naked Uno. Fancy teaching me?" Loads of fun! The naked version opens up possibilities for the winner / loser | |||
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"Yes. First time I had sex with Mr TMN, it was great. We were very experimental from quite early on in ways neither of us had been with other people. We just connected so well. Here we are, 16 years down the line, and I can honestly say the sex is better than ever We love exploring and experimenting with other people, but if we only had sex with each other for the rest of our lives, I'd be perfectly happy Mrs TMN x" That is so lovely to hear . That's something many a person wish they'd have I reckon. | |||
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