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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

How important is a sense of humour to you when meeting someone from here?

Lets say for example. You've met someone, they match your preferences across the board. They're attractive, your kinks and needs match up perfectly, they're a really nice person etc etc, but you humours don't match at all. How big of an issue is that for you?

Lets scale it 1 - 10

1 being not important at all, 10 is absolutely vital

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham

Knowing how my sense of humour is ... has to be the higher side of 5 ... but not quite the full 10

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

10.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

About 6. It's excruciating being absolutely hilarious (which obv I am) while someone sits there with a look on their face.

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By *elshkinkyMan
over a year ago

south wales

Humour is vital for me. Just adds to the attraction if 2 people just click

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

Depends what I'm doing with them.

But probably about 7 or 8.

Mainly because I'm hilarious and I want them to laugh!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a tough one. I value humour and shared craic very highly, but if she fits the bill in every other way then I would forgo my efforts to amuse her and just stick to pleasant conversation and hot sex

I'll still rate a sense of humour as 8 out of 10 for importance

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By *pursChick aka ShortieWoman
over a year ago

On a mooch

Humour is important and I like to be able to have a laugh, so it would have to be an 8 at least

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Roughly an 8. You have a great sense of humour on the forums OP (and no I’m not trying to chat you up!)

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Let's face it she's going to need one to meet me - 8

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Roughly an 8. You have a great sense of humour on the forums OP (and no I’m not trying to chat you up!) "

You're not?

Fuck sake

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Humour is very important, sex can be embarrassing and it’s good to be able to laugh stuff off like fanny farts and squelching and gagging burps.

I also like guys to get my references and have the same knowledge as me. So I’d say humour is about 8 or 9, very important.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Roughly an 8. You have a great sense of humour on the forums OP (and no I’m not trying to chat you up!)

You're not?

Fuck sake "

Oh go on then.....fancy a fuck!?

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By *ily WhiteWoman
over a year ago

?

9 - I like to laugh...a lot

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By *ragoniteMan
over a year ago

Cheshire

8 minimum. If you can’t have a laugh with the person/people you’re romping with then no way can you make them have screaming orgasms!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

7, but if the scale was comparing how funny they are compared to me it'll have to be a 1. Anything higher than that is unobtainable.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10! I wouldn’t consider them to be a good match unless we got each others humour. That’s the number 1 thing for me

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By *ervent_fervourMan
over a year ago

Halifax

About a seven. Helps with messaging and building a rapport.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hmm well for just straight sex & nothing else - I need at least a 5 in humour or a may offend you when you don’t get my jokes..

But, FWB & anything that involves meeting more than once & communicating i need a solid 8/9 on that scale!

Sex is sex, looks is looks. But a personality adds a lot more enjoyment for myself

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By *acey_RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

I'd say a 10. I'd struggle to even be attracted to someone I couldn't have a good laugh with. Plus people who don't get my sense of humour tend to just think I'm a right freak anyway .

Examples include a meet who went and got pizza after coming to mine and saying the pizza cushion on my bed must have made him crave it. I convinced him I work for the pizza place he went to and that's how I get us extra business. Poor sod believed me.

Last date I went on involved a poorly worded conversation about how he loved dogs which resulted in me embarrassing him by suggesting he did inappropriate acts with dogs and saying it in a voice that just bordered on being loud enough to be overheard.

A regular meet has jokingly told me I only get away with the weird shit I say because I'm hot .

My boyfriend regularly refers to me as adequate or satisfactory .

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By *opinovMan
over a year ago

Point Nemo, Cumbria

Somewhere between 4 - 6

Possibly 2 if they're under 5'2" or like marmite.

Definitely 0 if it's a FF couple of pretty much any sort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10

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By *inky Biscuit DunkerMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

It's a good 8 or 9 for me.

I love someone I can have a good laugh with. Makes everything so much more relaxed too.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

8..there’s nothing worse than someone that don’t get your humour...could result in a few awkward moments ..

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By *hatYorkLadMan
over a year ago

York

Definitely important, not interested in anyone if we can't have a laugh together as well!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1, if they're not funny I'll just stick my headphones in

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By *iamondCougarWoman
over a year ago

Norfuck! / Lincolnshire

I’d say 9 - there always has to be room for improvement

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"I’d say 9 - there always has to be room for improvement "

What?

I'm trying my hardest!!!

Ffs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Massively important otherwise its boring, there's no fun in playing with someone you've found out you don't like, after all it's supposed to be fun

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"Knowing how my sense of humour is ... has to be the higher side of 5 ... but not quite the full 10 "

Lol this, but I’d say 7-8.... got to be able to laugh me into bed!

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By *ampshirehotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire

Between 8-10

Maybe even 11

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Knowing how my sense of humour is ... has to be the higher side of 5 ... but not quite the full 10

Lol this, but I’d say 7-8.... got to be able to laugh me into bed! "

Ooo challenge?

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By *uzzy NavelWoman
over a year ago

so near and yet so far....


"Knowing how my sense of humour is ... has to be the higher side of 5 ... but not quite the full 10

Lol this, but I’d say 7-8.... got to be able to laugh me into bed!

Ooo challenge? "

Give me your best line!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The chemistry wont work so the biology wont happen 9

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By *a LunaWoman
over a year ago

South Wales

8 for sex meets. 10 for boyfriend material.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least 5. I think I’d piss them off completely if they didn’t get my humour at least half of the time.

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By *uriousscouserWoman
over a year ago

Wirral

9. At its heart, sex is pretty ridiculous, so I need someone I can laugh with or it would just be grim.

9 rather than 10 because if I can't laugh with I'd probably just laugh at.

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By *rctopusMan
over a year ago

Borehamwood

I'm 5'8" with no hair - I'd have not got any action since 2010, if women didn't have a sense of humour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A 10 for sure.

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By *aven RedWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

It's important to me. Sex is messy and noisy with strange sounds and positions sometimes, or is that just me? I'd say 7 or 8 maybe x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My houmor can range from being completely dead pan to the ridiculous so it's a 10 with me at all times.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

10.

I need practical jokes, hysterical laughter as we both climax together, all that good stuff!

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"Knowing how my sense of humour is ... has to be the higher side of 5 ... but not quite the full 10

Lol this, but I’d say 7-8.... got to be able to laugh me into bed!

Ooo challenge?

Give me your best line!! "

Hmmm pressure ... oh the pressure ... erm....

You'll do

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By *obyn GravesTV/TS
over a year ago

1127 walnut avenue

I've met quite a few trannies with absolutely no sense of humour whatsoever.. which I fail to grasp..I mean if you're a bloke dressing up in women's clothes I think a sense of humour is essential...

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By *ionelhutzMan
over a year ago

liverpool

I struggle with people who have no sense of humour

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

1-2

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By *imbobaMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

I my head I’m a clear 10.

In reality probably a 7 or 8.

In a playmate I’d look for the same.

Yes, I’ll go fuck myself now.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That would be a 10 from me.

Laughter is the way to get to know me.

Also anyone needs to be able to laugh to get naked with me

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North

9. If we don’t click then it ain’t happening

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT

10

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By *asmeenTV/TS
over a year ago

STOKE ON TRENT


"9. If we don’t click then it ain’t happening "

Love yours x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

0

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

I'd say a 7

A sense of humour failure is a bit of a turn off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You may think your the next

......( insert comedian of choice) but if the other person doesn't get you....then

But pushing out a few funny lines on a forum is very different to face to face stuff....or is it ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it's a 1 off meet then 0, if you're both hoping for fwb/fb/regular then about 8

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By *ed-monkeyCouple
over a year ago

Hailsham


"You may think your the next

......( insert comedian of choice) but if the other person doesn't get you....then

But pushing out a few funny lines on a forum is very different to face to face stuff....or is it ?"

You'd have to ask those that have met me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hugely important. 9/10

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By *ark ph0enixWoman
over a year ago

Teesside

8 for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty important as I’m a complete clown

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You may think your the next

......( insert comedian of choice) but if the other person doesn't get you....then

But pushing out a few funny lines on a forum is very different to face to face stuff....or is it ?

You'd have to ask those that have met me "

What about people you have met...thought they were funny on here and... in real life ?

As people keep saying humour is subjective....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You may think your the next

......( insert comedian of choice) but if the other person doesn't get you....then

But pushing out a few funny lines on a forum is very different to face to face stuff....or is it ?"

This is true. I find it much easier to be funny online than I do face-to-face. My brain doesn’t work quickly enough to find witty responses to stuff.

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By *hunderstruckMan
over a year ago

Northampton

I’m usually the funny one but you need to be able to laugh at yourself too I’d be an 8

I’d say 4 would be a minimum for prospective partner

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By *od ThrusterMan
over a year ago

Newport Pagnell

I'd say 7. Important, but not a deal breaker if everything else is good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A definite 10

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You may think your the next

......( insert comedian of choice) but if the other person doesn't get you....then

But pushing out a few funny lines on a forum is very different to face to face stuff....or is it ?

This is true. I find it much easier to be funny online than I do face-to-face. My brain doesn’t work quickly enough to find witty responses to stuff."

See we would make a great team. I struggle on here as im dyslexic and it takes me ages to write posts that people can half understand. Where's in the real world I talk/think fast ....plus if we met the right lady...we would both have our own doors..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You may think your the next

......( insert comedian of choice) but if the other person doesn't get you....then

But pushing out a few funny lines on a forum is very different to face to face stuff....or is it ?

This is true. I find it much easier to be funny online than I do face-to-face. My brain doesn’t work quickly enough to find witty responses to stuff.

See we would make a great team. I struggle on here as im dyslexic and it takes me ages to write posts that people can half understand. Where's in the real world I talk/think fast ....plus if we met the right lady...we would both have our own doors.. "

You take front door and I’ll take the back, we should be able to find our way in that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You may think your the next

......( insert comedian of choice) but if the other person doesn't get you....then

But pushing out a few funny lines on a forum is very different to face to face stuff....or is it ?

This is true. I find it much easier to be funny online than I do face-to-face. My brain doesn’t work quickly enough to find witty responses to stuff.

See we would make a great team. I struggle on here as im dyslexic and it takes me ages to write posts that people can half understand. Where's in the real world I talk/think fast ....plus if we met the right lady...we would both have our own doors..

You take front door and I’ll take the back, we should be able to find our way in that way. "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was going to say a definite 10 but then I thought about it and there's one person I barely even chat to about anything other than when we're free, let alone joke around and yet it still works when we meet up. That's the exception though, generally it's really important to me that we can have a good laugh.

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By *B69Woman
over a year ago

Wiltshire

I can be dry and sarcastic so an 8 will be needed to not be offended

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

9.

If they don't get my humour and I don't find them funny (funny haha not funny weird) then it's gonna be a struggle to make convo and I'll be bored shitless.

I'd feel like I was at a Nazi interview

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"9.

If they don't get my humour and I don't find them funny (funny haha not funny weird) then it's gonna be a struggle to make convo and I'll be bored shitless.

I'd feel like I was at a Nazi interview

P

"

We have ways of making you talk

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By *ntrepid ExplorersCouple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Surprisingly interesting question I think.

For a first meet, especially in a club then it's probably not that important. As long as they are nice people, by my standards. "No, I won't have this quick play because you think Mrs Browns Boys is good."?? Nah, can't see that being a blocker there

But comedy and humour is an amazingly large part of my life, so it would definitely kick in at some point. I'm much more likely to want to build a long term thing with others if we can swap Brass Eye or Doug Stanhope quotes... I think it's a huge sign of who someone is in the first place, a great window into them as a person.

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By *ollycouple71Couple
over a year ago

manchester

9

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By * Sophie xTV/TS
over a year ago

Derby

It's at least an 8 for me...I can have a weird sense of humour at times and once I get to know you it can be pretty dark too.

If we cant laugh at the same sort of things its going to be pretty awkward

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say a 7 at a minimum. I enjoy having a laugh at the best of times. Sex doesnt need to be any different. If you can have a laugh during playtime (not at anyone's expense), it helps make you feel relaxed. I dont mind being a dafty or cracking jokes when I'm pumping if the moment is right!

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Definitely a 10 laughing on my own at my own jokes is just cringeworthy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"9.

If they don't get my humour and I don't find them funny (funny haha not funny weird) then it's gonna be a struggle to make convo and I'll be bored shitless.

I'd feel like I was at a Nazi interview

P

We have ways of making you talk "

See, if it involves pulling faces, funny walking, farting etc then I will hold out for all eternity.

Straight faced robot types or those above their station talking down to people, I'd be right the fuck outta there

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"9.

If they don't get my humour and I don't find them funny (funny haha not funny weird) then it's gonna be a struggle to make convo and I'll be bored shitless.

I'd feel like I was at a Nazi interview

P

We have ways of making you talk

See, if it involves pulling faces, funny walking, farting etc then I will hold out for all eternity.

Straight faced robot types or those above their station talking down to people, I'd be right the fuck outta there

P"

Ministry of funny walks it is then

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"9.

If they don't get my humour and I don't find them funny (funny haha not funny weird) then it's gonna be a struggle to make convo and I'll be bored shitless.

I'd feel like I was at a Nazi interview

P

We have ways of making you talk

See, if it involves pulling faces, funny walking, farting etc then I will hold out for all eternity.

Straight faced robot types or those above their station talking down to people, I'd be right the fuck outta there

P

Ministry of funny walks it is then "

Yaaaaay

P

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

6 for casual

10 for relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Very important. But its subjecive? Some people think they're hilarious, but aren't? Laughter is sexy and contagious.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

10

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By *affron40Woman
over a year ago

manchester

I’d say a 9.. it’s pretty much essential or I’ll get bored very quickly. Lack of humour means I’m unlikely to chat for long and virtually no chance of meeting.

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

Very, I don’t like miserable sods.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"How important is a sense of humour to you when meeting someone from here?

Lets say for example. You've met someone, they match your preferences across the board. They're attractive, your kinks and needs match up perfectly, they're a really nice person etc etc, but you humours don't match at all. How big of an issue is that for you?

Lets scale it 1 - 10

1 being not important at all, 10 is absolutely vital "

If you can't make me laugh you can't get in my pants

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By *aitonelMan
over a year ago

Travelling

Extremely important, if we can't have a laugh together we aren't do anything else together.

That said sense of humour is extremely subjective, compatible sense of humour is even more of a requirement!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Are we having sex or a laugh so wouldn’t matter

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