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By *empting Devil. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

You send a polite no thanks. So why does someone think that suggesting that all they want to do is go down will change your mind?!?

I know, I know, I shouldn't let it niggle. Perhaps I'm a little hormonal and after saying no thanks all last night to invites out due to painters being in then getting "I don't mind we can do anal/you can just give me a bj" type of messages has brought out my angry side

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By *nytimeadeMan
over a year ago

Skegness


"You send a polite no thanks. So why does someone think that suggesting that all they want to do is go down will change your mind?!?

I know, I know, I shouldn't let it niggle. Perhaps I'm a little hormonal and after saying no thanks all last night to invites out due to painters being in then getting "I don't mind we can do anal/you can just give me a bj" type of messages has brought out my angry side

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Your just Selfish ...

Simples ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

fellacio is fab - fucking is far better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

go and ask him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"You send a polite no thanks. So why does someone think that suggesting that all they want to do is go down will change your mind?!?

I know, I know, I shouldn't let it niggle. Perhaps I'm a little hormonal and after saying no thanks all last night to invites out due to painters being in then getting "I don't mind we can do anal/you can just give me a bj" type of messages has brought out my angry side

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we had this hapening all the time so changed to a couples profile and its stoped for now but i dont think you have that choice

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By *empting Devil. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Just had a really good laugh - it's a good thing I've got a great sense of humour what with being a an ugly fatty pie eater!

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By *ewels74Woman
over a year ago

Dundee/Angus/Blackpool

awww hugs...

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By *empting Devil. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

Suspect I might need more than hugs soon!

Hormonal haze has worn off, cold clear light of day sees a ban coming

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I really do find the desperation of some of the men on here baffling. It's almost as if they are begging for sex. They need to have more respect for themselves and for the people they harass.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those are the type that are desperate for a sex, I understand your point though as mine is the bit that says no more than an hour but still I get guys saying that they can drive? One guy is obviously on his own for the bank holiday and looking for some company, yes I get that but is forgetting to read profile and note anything he will get turned down for and he got blocked in the end.

The other one is a message asking "so what you up to today then?" and it clearly says on my status what I am up to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suspect I might need more than hugs soon!

Hormonal haze has worn off, cold clear light of day sees a ban coming "

Whilst your consumption of pies with above average fat content may or may not be a health issue... I dont think Fabs would ban you for admitting it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Suspect I might need more than hugs soon!

Hormonal haze has worn off, cold clear light of day sees a ban coming "

Hugs coming your way

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By *empting Devil. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I've basically got a weekend of doing not a lot planned, but I'm also not playing (painters). So yes, in theory I could meet for a preliminary coffee and chat. But it would be a waste.of time since it's highly unlikely I'll be able to play at all during May.

So why do I keep getting offered the chance to suck random cock?

I have a list of known and rigorously tested cock if all I wanted was to give bjs, I don't hide veris so that should be obvious!

Ahhh well, gotta larf!

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

Crumpet Castle

Step 1. No Thank you then block.

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By *empting Devil. OP   Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Step 1. No Thank you then block."

I know Granny

But I'm doing the unforgivable, I'm playing the hormone card - it's not my fault that I'm irrational! It's mother natures!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

it take to much time .. so i put it on my profile sorry cant mail back to all. Just cant all the time and some do get nasty if you mail saying there not your sort .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Too many use this site as a sex substitute, rather than the interesting sexual encounters possible.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many use this site as a sex substitute, rather than the interesting sexual encounters possible."

100% spot on!

A one stop knocking shop!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just do the message filter where you block all blokes. You'll still get mail from people you've mailed before but hopefully they may be more understanding.

Horny people (not just single blokes, couples do it too!) will just mail anyone, even if you put a flashing neon sign saying 'not meeting'.

Sending hugs and a big bar of chocolate. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I block at the same time as sending a polite no thank you if I have no intention of meeting the gent to save time and effort.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Too many use this site as a sex substitute, rather than the interesting sexual encounters possible.

100% spot on!

A one stop knocking shop! "

You mean it's not????

I've been wasting my time ........ Lmao

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By *emima_puddlefuckCouple
over a year ago

hexham


"You send a polite no thanks. So why does someone think that suggesting that all they want to do is go down will change your mind?!?

I know, I know, I shouldn't let it niggle. Perhaps I'm a little hormonal and after saying no thanks all last night to invites out due to painters being in then getting "I don't mind we can do anal/you can just give me a bj" type of messages has brought out my angry side

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never explain...i know the thats so rude crowd will have a field day but if u do people see it as a conversation, not a no.

One thing i have really improved on since i started my counselling course is how to say no. Very often we think we are being assertive but in fact because we dont value ourselves, our time, our money, whatever is being asked for, we explain our no, and therefore seem apologetic.

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