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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

For those who’ve been following mine;

I had the first of two psychiatric assessments today and..... passed for surgery.

I’m planning on June now so I’ll be up and shaggable by Sept_mber/October

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Congratulations for your upcoming vagina

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Congratulations for your upcoming vagina "

Thank you. It’s my missing linkage.

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By *hrista BellendWoman
over a year ago

surrounded by twinkly lights

Congratulations

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By *ex HolesMan
over a year ago

Up North


"For those who’ve been following mine;

I had the first of two psychiatric assessments today and..... passed for surgery.

I’m planning on June now so I’ll be up and shaggable by Sept_mber/October "

Can I have 1st go please?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ehhh congrats OP!

Time will fly-by & you’ll be having lots of fun no doubt! Enjoy

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham


"For those who’ve been following mine;

I had the first of two psychiatric assessments today and..... passed for surgery.

I’m planning on June now so I’ll be up and shaggable by Sept_mber/October

Can I have 1st go please? "

That’s pretty hot

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those who’ve been following mine;

I had the first of two psychiatric assessments today and..... passed for surgery.

I’m planning on June now so I’ll be up and shaggable by Sept_mber/October

Can I have 1st go please?

That’s pretty hot"

Looks like you'll need a turnstyle installation too.

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By *mberWoman
over a year ago

Preston

I'm really pleased for you.

Yippee to your new bits

X

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By *tella HeelsTV/TS
over a year ago

west here ford shire


"Congratulations for your upcoming vagina

Thank you. It’s my missing linkage. "

Stella is envious xxxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For those who’ve been following mine;

I had the first of two psychiatric assessments today and..... passed for surgery.

I’m planning on June now so I’ll be up and shaggable by Sept_mber/October

Can I have 1st go please?

That’s pretty hot

Looks like you'll need a turnstyle installation too."

Lol. Perhaps I should run a raffle for charity or just have a number queue system

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wooohoooo, proper chuffed for ya beaut.

Good luck and hope everything goes just perfect

P

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By *ensuallover1000Man
over a year ago

Somewhere In The Ether…

Well done you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those who’ve been following mine;

I had the first of two psychiatric assessments today and..... passed for surgery.

I’m planning on June now so I’ll be up and shaggable by Sept_mber/October

Can I have 1st go please?

That’s pretty hot

Looks like you'll need a turnstyle installation too.

Lol. Perhaps I should run a raffle for charity or just have a number queue system "

Like at the deli in Morrisons?

Congrats!

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By *hunky GentMan
over a year ago

Maldon and Peterborough

Congratulations and best of luck with the op.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Brilliant so happy for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For those who’ve been following mine;

I had the first of two psychiatric assessments today and..... passed for surgery.

I’m planning on June now so I’ll be up and shaggable by Sept_mber/October

Can I have 1st go please?

That’s pretty hot

Looks like you'll need a turnstyle installation too.

Lol. Perhaps I should run a raffle for charity or just have a number queue system

Like at the deli in Morrisons?

Congrats! "

Yep. In true swingers style

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

happy for you...

hope everything goes smoothly for you

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Seriously tho folks, this is such a big step for someone like me.

It takes a lot of time and you have to jump through a lot of hoops to tick all the boxes.

You can do so much to your own body without permission but to get a surgeon to requires two independent referrals from qualified and experienced professionals.

Yesterday’s green light number one brought out so many emotions.

I wanted to run up to complete strangers and hug them. I was so happy. Excited. Relieved. I wanted to laugh and cry.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh Rachael that is good news. I hope everything from now on goes really smoothly x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Seriously tho folks, this is such a big step for someone like me.

It takes a lot of time and you have to jump through a lot of hoops to tick all the boxes.

You can do so much to your own body without permission but to get a surgeon to requires two independent referrals from qualified and experienced professionals.

Yesterday’s green light number one brought out so many emotions.

I wanted to run up to complete strangers and hug them. I was so happy. Excited. Relieved. I wanted to laugh and cry. "

. So happy for you Rachael xx

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By *ilks123Man
over a year ago

wf1

Good luck to you.

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple

Hopefully you realise it can be a challenge, particularly as a mature trans person.

The surgery is brutal, I've nursed post op trans people. Bleeding is a big issue and post op care from you is a must. It's not easy as the support outside big cities can vary.

Good luck and it's very brave xx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hopefully you realise it can be a challenge, particularly as a mature trans person.

The surgery is brutal, I've nursed post op trans people. Bleeding is a big issue and post op care from you is a must. It's not easy as the support outside big cities can vary.

Good luck and it's very brave xx"

Thank you.

I didn’t get this far with my eyes shut though.

I’m also very aware that many trans people end up on the love shelf. This could ensure I see my life out alone but I was born to be me.

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By *enniferJayXXXTV/TS
over a year ago

Stoke-On-Trent

I've managed to FINALLY get NHS to listen to me after 16 years of pleading. Managed to finally get a gender clinic referral so my ball has started 3 Congrats on passing and I hope you have a speedy recovery when the day comes and its everything you wished for :-* Mwah x

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By *he Mac LassWoman
over a year ago

Hefty Hideaway

How wonderful that is to read! You have worked so hard for this and I'm so proud of you beautiful lady.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've managed to FINALLY get NHS to listen to me after 16 years of pleading. Managed to finally get a gender clinic referral so my ball has started 3 Congrats on passing and I hope you have a speedy recovery when the day comes and its everything you wished for :-* Mwah x"

I don’t understand how you’ve had so much trouble getting a gic referral? Name changed and on hormones so long, surely you should be where I am by now? Xx

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By *enniferJayXXXTV/TS
over a year ago

Stoke-On-Trent

Honestly, it was due to my previous GP he never really took anything like that seriously. Tried to open a lawsuit against him for Medical Negligence leaving me with severe anxiety and body hate, but no lawyer would take it

Since moving up here, I've waited 3 additional years but they did keep to their word and refer me so I'm not complaining. It is a bit shitty though as HRT would've worked a lot better 10 years ago than what they would now

Have they gave you a date for your surgery? You must literally be over the moon! I really hope it goes amazing and you are overjoyed with the results - I hope you have good people to surround yourself with after? It's such a big and positive step and I hope this brings so much more happiness to you sweet xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well done you!! I can't imagine how you must feel

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By *aastyKnixWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool


"Hopefully you realise it can be a challenge, particularly as a mature trans person.

The surgery is brutal, I've nursed post op trans people. Bleeding is a big issue and post op care from you is a must. It's not easy as the support outside big cities can vary.

Good luck and it's very brave xx"

I guess surgery can be brutal and I guess some people may have a hard time with recovery and post op care. However,that is not always the case. Some people find it a breeze and have no, or only minor difficulties with recovery.

I'm sure no one would wish to try to frighten anyone off just as I'm sure it would not do to gloss over any potential complications.

Everyone is different and everyone can expect to have their own unique outcome from this type of surgery.

Even in the worst case scenario, a person undergoing this journey most likely considers it worth any risk.

You don't ask yourself 'can I afford to fo this?' You ask yourself 'can I afford NOT to?'.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Honestly, it was due to my previous GP he never really took anything like that seriously. Tried to open a lawsuit against him for Medical Negligence leaving me with severe anxiety and body hate, but no lawyer would take it

Since moving up here, I've waited 3 additional years but they did keep to their word and refer me so I'm not complaining. It is a bit shitty though as HRT would've worked a lot better 10 years ago than what they would now

Have they gave you a date for your surgery? You must literally be over the moon! I really hope it goes amazing and you are overjoyed with the results - I hope you have good people to surround yourself with after? It's such a big and positive step and I hope this brings so much more happiness to you sweet xx"

Hormones years earlier would have been great but it didn’t pan out like that for me.

I started them 4 days before my 48th birthday and they’ve done wonders for the way I feel about myself and that’s what matters.

I have just been exchanging email with my surgeon and been booked in for the beginning of June. Both surgeons are available then. (Reassignment & breast surgery).

Thank you and good luck xx

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By *aastyKnixWoman
over a year ago

Liverpool

And,Rachael.My advice,for what it's worth,would be to be rather discerning about who you give it away to.

You'll have gone through a lot to earn yourself something beautiful and special. Make sure anyone who wants a piece of your gift,is worth it.

Obviously, it's entirely up to you how you live your life but,I'd say 'realise your own value'.

X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yay! Aww I’m so unbelievable happy for you.

This news has cheered me up. Can’t imagine how you’re feeling xxxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hopefully you realise it can be a challenge, particularly as a mature trans person.

The surgery is brutal, I've nursed post op trans people. Bleeding is a big issue and post op care from you is a must. It's not easy as the support outside big cities can vary.

Good luck and it's very brave xx

I guess surgery can be brutal and I guess some people may have a hard time with recovery and post op care. However,that is not always the case. Some people find it a breeze and have no, or only minor difficulties with recovery.

I'm sure no one would wish to try to frighten anyone off just as I'm sure it would not do to gloss over any potential complications.

Everyone is different and everyone can expect to have their own unique outcome from this type of surgery.

Even in the worst case scenario, a person undergoing this journey most likely considers it worth any risk.

You don't ask yourself 'can I afford to fo this?' You ask yourself 'can I afford NOT to?'."

Digging through paperwork to compile my ‘evidence’ I saw my dead name countless times. It didn’t really bother me. Not the way it does when I get dead named or misgendered.

However, seeing letters to Mr and dear sir turned my tummy over. Caused that burning feeling deep down. I could never go back to that now.

I used to fear losing my wife and my financial life plan collapsing. Well that’s happened anyway and I’m still here.

No; I can’t afford to not do this.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"And,Rachael.My advice,for what it's worth,would be to be rather discerning about who you give it away to.

You'll have gone through a lot to earn yourself something beautiful and special. Make sure anyone who wants a piece of your gift,is worth it.

Obviously, it's entirely up to you how you live your life but,I'd say 'realise your own value'.

X"

Thanks sweetheart. I am giving it very serious thought. I promise. I may joke about it but deep down my ‘virginity’ is something I intend to get right this time.

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By *rivateparts!Man
over a year ago

Walking down the only road I've ever known!

Congratulations, you go get em.

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By *eddyBearBazMan
over a year ago

St Helens

Congratulations rachael was wonderful news last 2 days xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good for you must be a very hard thing to go though from start to finish from Dealing with being trapped in a body you don't want and making the decision to change so proud of you for all the steps you have taken and how positive you have been though it all well done.

And hope we all get a sneaky peaky once you have your new inny not outy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Fantastic news Rachael. I hope the op goes well and you have a quick recovery. My friends young son has last year had his surgeries to go from female to male and it’s made a huge difference to his life. I hope this gives you the happiness you deserve x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For those who’ve been following mine;

I had the first of two psychiatric assessments today and..... passed for surgery.

I’m planning on June now so I’ll be up and shaggable by Sept_mber/October "

Thousands of us delusional hopefuls currently writing that date in diaries...

Hope it all continues to go well. Enjoy that pussy xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A champagne moment, Rachael! So pleased for you. x

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By *wisted999Man
over a year ago

North Bucks

I wish you all the luck in the world that it’s goes brilliantly and you get the happiness you want.

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By *isaAndNicoleTransTV/TS
over a year ago

Southport / Ellesmere Port

Great news Rachael, so happy for you xxx

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thank all of you.

I will keep you posted as things progress. This kind of thing I post in the hope that it gives others like me hope and the courage to start their own journey.

I held off for so many years fearful of so many things. I don’t regret my choices.

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By *illy_the_tvTV/TS
over a year ago

hoorn, Netherlands


"For those who’ve been following mine;

I had the first of two psychiatric assessments today and..... passed for surgery.

I’m planning on June now so I’ll be up and shaggable by Sept_mber/October "

Congrats Rachael, you deserve it

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By *eavenscentitCouple
over a year ago

barnstaple


"Hopefully you realise it can be a challenge, particularly as a mature trans person.

The surgery is brutal, I've nursed post op trans people. Bleeding is a big issue and post op care from you is a must. It's not easy as the support outside big cities can vary.

Good luck and it's very brave xx

I guess surgery can be brutal and I guess some people may have a hard time with recovery and post op care. However,that is not always the case. Some people find it a breeze and have no, or only minor difficulties with recovery.

I'm sure no one would wish to try to frighten anyone off just as I'm sure it would not do to gloss over any potential complications.

Everyone is different and everyone can expect to have their own unique outcome from this type of surgery.

Even in the worst case scenario, a person undergoing this journey most likely considers it worth any risk.

You don't ask yourself 'can I afford to fo this?' You ask yourself 'can I afford NOT to?'."

I had looked at the posts before mine and felt it only right to be honest. As I said I have seen and nursed people post op.

I also know how society treats women and, that in itself can be shocking, if you've grown up male there is alot of male privilege that are both obvious and others stubtle.

I hope those transitioning are not simply seen as objects for others pleasure. And, I honestly wish happiness to those who undergo this surgery.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's great news Rachael. Congratulations

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks great news x congratulations x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thank all of you.

I will keep you posted as things progress. This kind of thing I post in the hope that it gives others like me hope and the courage to start their own journey.

I held off for so many years fearful of so many things. I don’t regret my choices. "

Congratulations Rachael, believe me, there's no better feeling than waking up after surgery and realising that you've finally made it to the other side.

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By *ookie46Woman
over a year ago

Deepest darkest Peru

Brill news Congratulations x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Thank all of you.

I will keep you posted as things progress. This kind of thing I post in the hope that it gives others like me hope and the courage to start their own journey.

I held off for so many years fearful of so many things. I don’t regret my choices.

Congratulations Rachael, believe me, there's no better feeling than waking up after surgery and realising that you've finally made it to the other side."

I’ve never been so nervous before I had my assessment. Properly trembling. I had half an hour as I was early to calm myself through breathing exercises. I needed it.

It was a long meeting and thorough.

Afterwards I could nearly feel my feet below me. I was so excited. Euphoric.

I can only imagine how I’ll feel on the other side. I’ve pulled it forward by two months and I can’t wait for this time to pass.

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By *ools and the brainCouple
over a year ago

couple, us we him her.

Good luck with everything xx

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